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The List Method: The Science-Based Way to Find the Love of Your Life
Unlucky in love? Have you given up hope on ever finding it? With The List Method, you can find the love of your life using science-based methods and insights into the mind's inner workings. This groundbreaking program will help you uncover your barriers to a successful relationship and discover your hidden needs, desires, and standards. Armed with this knowledge, you'll be able to make more satisfying choices and find your perfect match. Don't wait another minute - get the List Method today!
“I felt like I was going on dates with the same type of person and always getting hurt. I didn't know how to break the cycle. Then I discovered the List Method. The best thing is that it helps you focus on the things that matter. It helps identify who you are and what you truly want from a relationship. I followed Marni's Method and married the man of my dreams! It really works!”
Cynthia Gonzalez
“The List Method helped me understand what is getting in my way as I seek true love. The information was interesting, the stories were inspirational, and the exercises were thought-provoking. If you’ve been searching for too long, read this book!”
Lisa Padden
“Very well written! It’s more than the way to find the love of your life…. it’s a way to find yourself.”
***UPDATE!! I JUST FOUND THE ONE FOR ME! WOW- THAT WAS FAST! I AM SO HAPPY!***
Helene Harrington-Spencer
“I am so glad I found The List Method! It is extremely informative and well-written. Maybe I haven't found the One because I didn’t know how to do the work! Now I know what to do, and I am excited to start.”
Barbara Kaye
“The List Method is not just a bunch of fluff - it's based on science and really works. The person of your dreams won't appear by accident - your mind won't allow it! The List Method helps you find the way. I enjoyed this book immensely. Lots of fabulous and groundbreaking information!”
Joanne Rumbley
"The List Method is a clear and comprehensive approach to describing what we want in a partner. I found this book VERY helpful with its tips, exercises, and information.”
Patty Blakeley
“I felt like I was going on dates with the same type of person and always getting hurt. I didn't know how to break the cycle. Then I discovered the List Method. The best thing is that it helps you focus on the things that matter. It helps identify who you are and what you truly want from a relationship. I followed Marni's Method and married the man of my dreams! It really works!”
Cynthia Gonzalez
“The List Method helped me understand what is getting in my way as I seek true love. The information was interesting, the stories were inspirational, and the exercises were thought-provoking. If you’ve been searching for too long, read this book!”
Lisa Padden
“Very well written! It’s more than the way to find the love of your life…. it’s a way to find yourself.”
***UPDATE!! I JUST FOUND THE ONE FOR ME! WOW- THAT WAS FAST! I AM SO HAPPY!***
Helene Harrington-Spencer
“I am so glad I found The List Method! It is extremely informative and well-written. Maybe I haven't found the One because I didn’t know how to do the work! Now I know what to do, and I am excited to start.”
Barbara Kaye
“The List Method is not just a bunch of fluff - it's based on science and really works. The person of your dreams won't appear by accident - your mind won't allow it! The List Method helps you find the way. I enjoyed this book immensely. Lots of fabulous and groundbreaking information!”
Joanne Rumbley
"The List Method is a clear and comprehensive approach to describing what we want in a partner. I found this book VERY helpful with its tips, exercises, and information.”
Patty Blakeley
198 pages, Paperback
Published December 8, 2022
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December 4, 2025
I didn’t expect a relationship book to make me think so deeply about myself. The biggest gift The List Method gave me was a chance to slow down and look inside honestly. The chapter on belief systems completely shifted my perspective. It made me realize how many decisions I’ve been making based on old fears rather than what I truly want.
The author writes in a gentle, warm tone. She asks questions that made me stop, breathe, and reflect. By the time I reached the workbook section, I already felt like a different version of myself. It was the first time I felt truly clear about what kind of partner would match my heart, my values, and the life I want to build.
The author writes in a gentle, warm tone. She asks questions that made me stop, breathe, and reflect. By the time I reached the workbook section, I already felt like a different version of myself. It was the first time I felt truly clear about what kind of partner would match my heart, my values, and the life I want to build.
December 4, 2025
What stood out most to me was how organized the entire book is. The ideas build on each other in a clear and logical way. First, it talks about human connection. Then it explores how beliefs shape our choices. Finally, it teaches how to create a meaningful list of qualities in a partner.
The explanation of how the mind filters information was simple and easy to understand. It connected the emotional parts of love with the mental processes behind how we choose people. I appreciated that the book didn’t make wild promises. Instead, it gave me tools that made sense.
The explanation of how the mind filters information was simple and easy to understand. It connected the emotional parts of love with the mental processes behind how we choose people. I appreciated that the book didn’t make wild promises. Instead, it gave me tools that made sense.
December 4, 2025
The workbook was the most valuable part for me. I liked how the author didn’t just give advice but also guided me through step-by-step questions. It felt like having a personal coach helping me sort my thoughts. The categories, values, lifestyle, personality traits, helped me notice patterns I’ve never paid attention to.
By the time I finished the exercises, I understood myself better than before. I realized I had been guessing my way through relationships.
By the time I finished the exercises, I understood myself better than before. I realized I had been guessing my way through relationships.
December 4, 2025
This book helped me understand why I kept picking the wrong partners. The chapter on planning ahead really opened my mind. It made me realize that clear expectations matter.
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