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The Stepparent Trap: Eliminating Expectations and Embracing Relationships
Welcome to your new role as a stepparent where you inevitably are doing everything wrong...
Reading any of the blogs, forums or social accounts dedicated to stepparenting, you know it's not for the faint of heart. Building a new family rarely happens in an idyllic fairy tale setting and even if it did...was there ever a fairy tale where the stepparent wasn't evil??
The reality is stepparenting is hard, but made harder by our own expectations and ideas of what it should look like.
The Stepparent Trap approach is based in reality and empathy. By embracing a new way to think about the family dynamics, you can begin to build real relationships with your stepchildren based on understanding, not jsut expectations.
Reading any of the blogs, forums or social accounts dedicated to stepparenting, you know it's not for the faint of heart. Building a new family rarely happens in an idyllic fairy tale setting and even if it did...was there ever a fairy tale where the stepparent wasn't evil??
The reality is stepparenting is hard, but made harder by our own expectations and ideas of what it should look like.
The Stepparent Trap approach is based in reality and empathy. By embracing a new way to think about the family dynamics, you can begin to build real relationships with your stepchildren based on understanding, not jsut expectations.
144 pages, Kindle Edition
Published December 18, 2022
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April 30, 2024
Very informative and helpful
As a new stepparent, I felt like I was constantly walking on eggshells. Everyone seemed to have an opinion on what I should be doing - more discipline, less screen time, you name it. Plus, there's that whole "evil stepmother" baggage that never helps!
"The Stepparent Trap" was a breath of fresh air. It doesn't sugarcoat the challenges, but it offers a realistic and empathetic approach that actually works. The author gets it - you're not there to replace anyone, and there's no one-size-fits-all solution.
What I loved most were the real-life stories. They made me feel so much less alone. Plus, the author includes practical advice that you can put into action right away. If you're feeling lost or overwhelmed in your new stepparent role, this book is a must-read. It'll help you ditch the expectations, embrace the reality, and build genuine connections with your stepchildren.
As a new stepparent, I felt like I was constantly walking on eggshells. Everyone seemed to have an opinion on what I should be doing - more discipline, less screen time, you name it. Plus, there's that whole "evil stepmother" baggage that never helps!
"The Stepparent Trap" was a breath of fresh air. It doesn't sugarcoat the challenges, but it offers a realistic and empathetic approach that actually works. The author gets it - you're not there to replace anyone, and there's no one-size-fits-all solution.
What I loved most were the real-life stories. They made me feel so much less alone. Plus, the author includes practical advice that you can put into action right away. If you're feeling lost or overwhelmed in your new stepparent role, this book is a must-read. It'll help you ditch the expectations, embrace the reality, and build genuine connections with your stepchildren.
February 15, 2024
As someone navigating the complexities of step-parenting, I found this book to be an invaluable companion, offering practical advice and a profound sense of reassurance.
One of the book's greatest strengths lies in its non-judgmental approach. The author understands the unique challenges stepparents face and approaches them with an empathy that is both refreshing and empowering.
From navigating complex family roles to fostering healthy relationships and setting boundaries, each page is filled with relatable stories and gentle guidance, making it an indispensable resource for anyone seeking to build a harmonious blended family.
Whether you're a seasoned stepparent or just starting out, "The Stepparent Trap" provides a sense of camaraderie and understanding, reminding us that we're not alone in this journey.
One of the book's greatest strengths lies in its non-judgmental approach. The author understands the unique challenges stepparents face and approaches them with an empathy that is both refreshing and empowering.
From navigating complex family roles to fostering healthy relationships and setting boundaries, each page is filled with relatable stories and gentle guidance, making it an indispensable resource for anyone seeking to build a harmonious blended family.
Whether you're a seasoned stepparent or just starting out, "The Stepparent Trap" provides a sense of camaraderie and understanding, reminding us that we're not alone in this journey.
August 29, 2024
Great Help
This book came at a great time for me. I just became stepmom to 3 amazing children who have not yet moved in with us but will soon be with us full time. This book had a lot of wonderful advice on how to navigate this new world with my husband and how to deal with any crisis that might arise in the future
This book came at a great time for me. I just became stepmom to 3 amazing children who have not yet moved in with us but will soon be with us full time. This book had a lot of wonderful advice on how to navigate this new world with my husband and how to deal with any crisis that might arise in the future
July 12, 2025
A clear and compelling book on a sensitive topic
This book should be required reading for blended families. The topics here are challenging in the best of cases, but the book covers them with grace. As a stepparent, this book also helped answer some questions I had about the way I was feeling about different issues.
This book should be required reading for blended families. The topics here are challenging in the best of cases, but the book covers them with grace. As a stepparent, this book also helped answer some questions I had about the way I was feeling about different issues.
September 29, 2025
A Real Lifesaver for Stepparents
I’ve felt overwhelmed trying to figure out my role as a stepmom, and this book honestly gave me a fresh perspective. It doesn’t sugarcoat things but offers encouragement and practical ideas. Letting go of “perfect” made space for real connections. It’s been such a relief.
I’ve felt overwhelmed trying to figure out my role as a stepmom, and this book honestly gave me a fresh perspective. It doesn’t sugarcoat things but offers encouragement and practical ideas. Letting go of “perfect” made space for real connections. It’s been such a relief.
May 29, 2024
Good advice
I think this book gives decent advice. Although I'm not directly affected by this I know poeple who have had the same issues.
I think this book gives decent advice. Although I'm not directly affected by this I know poeple who have had the same issues.
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