Initial Thoughts:
I started climbing at sixteen, and once I discovered this sport was for me, I went online to find climbers who looked like me, people I could draw inspiration from. Almost immediately, I found Sasha DiGiulian, with her blonde hair, bright pink nails, ball gowns, and one of the strongest climbing abilities the world has ever seen. After ten years of admiring Sasha, I was thrilled to read her “tell-all” about her experience in the climbing community, eager to learn more about the woman I had idolized. DiGiulian takes readers through her entire journey—from starting climbing to where she stands in 2021/2022, navigating the pandemic and hip surgery. As her first written work, I’m proud of DiGiulian for being brave enough to share her story, her climbing achievements, and her personal life. For climbers, this book highlights the incredible feats we can accomplish and the challenges within our community. For non-climbers, it serves as an ode to female athletes and the sheer determination it takes to be the best. Thank you, Sasha, for sharing your raw and unfiltered story, showing both the best and worst parts of yourself.
Characters:
While this is a memoir and not a novel, there are no “characters” in the traditional sense. DiGiulian recounts her life story from her point of view, taking us from her childhood at a birthday party to becoming a married woman with pets and a professional climbing career. Although I can’t judge how DiGiulian wrote these people, I did find her portrayal of some individuals to be harsh, while others were shown more leniently. For example, she’s very critical of her father, portraying him as a failure for not being able to pay for her college tuition at Columbia (which is mentioned several times). While this may have been true at the time, I felt there could have been more reflection on why her father acted the way he did, especially given that the book is written almost two decades later. It read more like her sixteen-year-old diary rather than a mature reflection. Similarly, while she writes about her relationships with Erik (her husband), Edu (her former toxic climbing partner), and Magnus (her first love), these sections lack the kind of introspection that would have added depth. For instance, DiGiulian doesn't reflect on how strange it was to have Magnus, an adult, move next door to her and drive her to high school—something that felt odd and needed more exploration. While she does offer insightful reflections on her family and expresses gratitude for her mother, her portrayal of some other relationships seemed a bit superficial, as if she didn’t need to revisit or reflect on them, even when there were clear complexities.
Plot / Writing:
This novel can be divided into two parts: DiGiulian’s life as a climber and her life as a woman. As a climber myself, I was fascinated by her detailed recounting of climbs, first ascents, and working with legendary names in the climbing world. DiGiulian’s descriptions and climbing terminology will resonate most with climbers, but even non-climbers can appreciate the incredible feats she accomplished. For the general public, the “woman” aspect of the novel will stand out. DiGiulian opens up about the pressures of being a female professional athlete in a male-dominated sport, especially the unrealistic expectations to be thin in order to climb better. She candidly discusses how her obsession with calorie-counting eventually led to an eating disorder, which she openly addresses in the book.
The novel also delves into her romantic relationships, many of which the media portrayed as contributing to her success as a climber. DiGiulian doesn’t dwell on the romance itself but opens up about how these relationships impacted her both personally and professionally. She also addresses the bullying she faced from the media and others in the climbing industry, offering a compelling look at what it means to be a female athlete navigating a world that often undermines women.
As for her writing, DiGiulian keeps it real, but at times I wished she had poured more emotion into the narrative. There are moments where I wanted to feel more deeply about the breakups, the climbing struggles, or her journey to self-acceptance. This memoir could have benefited from more self-reflection, as DiGiulian often states the facts and her emotions, without exploring the deeper reasons behind them. There’s a lot of therapy left to unpack in these pages, and I think the book could have been even more powerful had DiGiulian gone deeper into why she felt certain ways or how she worked through those feelings. That said, as her first book, she did a great job of keeping the pace flowing and making the story interesting.
Conclusion:
Sasha DiGiulian, I am so happy that you’ve achieved one of your long-term goals by writing this book. It’s truly a remarkable story. The subtitles of this memoir are spot-on, as it offers a unique perspective for both climbers and non-climbers alike. Through this book, DiGiulian explores “Life’s Hardest Climbs” and the art of hanging on and letting go—both physically, in the world of climbing, and emotionally, in life.