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The Reluctant Bride: One Woman's Journey (Kicking and Screaming) Down the Aisle

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A hilarious account of the year Lucy Mangan got married (having always said she wouldn't). But now she has to find a caterer who doesn't charge a fortune for a cupcake, a dressmaker who doesn't make her cry and a way to bring Great Auntie Betty down from Dundee for the sixpence she is willing to spend - isn't it meant to be HER special day?

384 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 2010

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Lucy Mangan

20 books166 followers
Lucy Mangan (born 1974) is a British journalist and author. She is a columnist, features writer and TV critic for The Guardian. Her writing style is both feminist and humorous.

Mangan grew up in Catford, south east London, but both her parents were originally from Lancashire. She studied English at Cambridge University and trained to be a solicitor. After qualifying as a solicitor, she began to work instead in a bookshop and then, in 2003, found a work experience placement at The Guardian.

She continues to work at The Guardian writing a regular column and TV reviews plus occasional features. Her book My Family and other Disasters (2009) is a collection of her newspaper columns. She has also written books about her childhood and her wedding.

Mangan also has a regular column for Stylist magazine and has been a judge for the Booktrust Roald Dahl Funny Prize.

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262 reviews
February 23, 2016
Not so much actually about planning a wedding but about Lucy Mangan's difficulties as she planned hers. I really like her writing style so I laughed out loud a few times.
294 reviews
January 24, 2020
Hilarious whether you getting married, have been married, or are planning on never getting married.
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Author 3 books
March 23, 2014
Good fun,light read which reminded me of my own wedding preparation angst - the details of which I had forgotten about until this reminded me. I too was a reluctant bride - not wanting all the 'show' so emphasised completely with the main character, Lucy, whose wedding threatened to snowball out of control. I loved her straight talking family from the north or England and her dad's over exaggerated stories of his childhood and early days with Lucy's mother. I was willing everything to be just right for her in the end.
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Author 59 books2,691 followers
April 4, 2012
Not a huge amount of critique of the horrific wedding industry, but a very fun, funny read, and rather touching as well.
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Author 16 books63 followers
January 10, 2013
Pure comedic genius and refreshingly quirky. I definitely recommend it!
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193 reviews4 followers
February 2, 2017
Funny bits throughout. Characters likeable. Good little read
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Author 12 books2 followers
October 28, 2018
Highly enjoyable with some laugh out loud moments.
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June 1, 2025
I loved this book about Lucy’s own wedding planning. It is not a guide and will be of no use as such…..but it is about a bride’s own feelings, the support from family and friends she had on the route to the ceremony. It made me laugh and brought back good, and some not so good, memories of my own wedding planning. Would recommend this book.
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July 12, 2024
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 12 September 2014
I wish I had enjoyed this book more! I just could not really jell with the characters in the book. It was witty in some placed, but I didn't care for the style of writing and the direction of the book.
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2,629 reviews
September 13, 2020
I liked it but didn't love it and as it is Lucy Mangan I had expected to love it :-(
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61 reviews4 followers
September 25, 2022
Pure Mangan. So pleased to pick this up in a charity shop on hols. Weightier tome abandoned for this entertaining and welcome diversionary read.
73 reviews
February 3, 2024
Funny tender story about getting married. Great for anybody who has had to organise a wedding, is about to organise or is close to someone.
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51 reviews4 followers
September 8, 2016
Compulsory reading for any prospective bride. Or mother of the bride. Or bridesmaid. Also, take tissues with you when you read it on the train. Crying with laughter draws attention.
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