Cheating can happen to anyone. Being betrayed by someone you love and trust is incredibly hurtful. Being cheated on changes the way you interact with people. Cheating destroys beautiful things like trust, self worth, self esteem and ego in a relationship.
It is often difficult for people who have been betrayed to trust again. They avoid relationships altogether or indulge in the art of casual double dates for fun. Deceived people are afraid of being hurt again.
Is your spouse cheating on you? What can you do about it? Is it difficult to catch a cheating spouse ? Are you considering hiring a private detective? Well, if you answered yes to the questions above, you can be sure that you will find the answers to the ominous questions in your heart in the next few pages you read.
Don’t waste your time reading this. The author can’t figure out what message she’s trying to send (stay married to a cheater? Don’t?). Ultimately, she advises after this poorly written screed (and without evidence!) that your marriage is worth saving. Her poorly framed ‘analysis’ is specious at best. E.g., her reasons why women cheat are sexist (she starts with the premise that women are insecure people) and would be laughable if not for the fact that some folks might take them seriously (she’s a published author, you know!). Need advice regarding an unfaithful partner? Try “Leave A Cheater; Gain a Life” by Tracy Schorn. Now, that’s a helpful book!