At first, I felt a bit at odds with What To Do When Someone Dies, mainly due to the clinical and dry attitude of its main character, Ellie. Starting from when two policewomen knock at her door and announce regretfully to her that her husband, Greg, has died in a car accident along with an unknown woman in his copilot seat, Ellie narrates her first person account of her refusal to believe that Greg had been cheating on her with the woman in his car, and of how she resorted to all sorts of things to prove his innocence.
Ellie doesn't ever cry, not when she is first told of her dead spouse, not during his funeral, not when most people would be bawling their eyes out. I did understand that part of her, as she conveyed more than enough grief and sadness for someone who went through what she did, and she didn't need to cry in order to feel utterly lost without Greg there with her. What I didn't identify with was her methodical asperity even in the first paragraph of the book before she finds out that her husband is dead, and that threw me off a little bit in the beginning, but not for long.
What To Do When Someone Else is a mixture of thriller and love story - albeit one that ends as the book begins - but in spite of the thriller parcel of the book being vaster, it is Ellie's and Greg's doomed relationship that truly shines and marks What To Do When Someone Dies as not just another thriller to spend a rainy afternoon on, but also an exposure of how deeply-rooted love can be.
Something confessed by Ellie herself and that basically sums the book up to me, is that Greg was her happiness, his presence changed her dry demeanor to a cheery one, so full of life he was. The glimpses we get of Greg through Ellie's memories of him are few and far between, but they're enough to show that he was one of those rare people that can light up a room simply by entering it. Ellie's quest to find out what truly happened in his last day alive has her lying, deceiving, and stealing identities just to clear up Greg's name, but while it doesn't make for a bad thriller, it's fairly humdrum stuff we've seen before.
No, what I loved about this book was that even through all the twists and turns and all the doubts Ellie had about Greg's loyalty, the sense that she needed him in order to properly function was so strong, I ended up grieving that I never got to know him better, too. What To Do When Someone Dies won't flip your world upside down, and as a thriller it's just good, but it is one of the few books that have portrayed love and the ties of dependency it creates in such a truthful and realistic way, I couldn't help but feel utterly lost when I read the last sentence in the book, which was probably one of the simplest, truest forms of haunting endings ever to be written.