Wow. If there was ever a book we really, really didn't need, it's one about men's lives being "ruined" by women's sexuality (especially when one of the "women" is a fourteen year old girl!!!).
I'm...shocked by this book, but definitely not in the way the author intended for me to be shocked. I have read several Anita Shreve novels and at least mildly enjoyed all of them (loved some of them), but this was just...awful, well-written, of course, but honestly, damaging.
I think the thing that I hated the absolute most was that so, so many excuses were made for the men's behavior (and I say men, because, although the author argues all along that some of these men are "boys" and even in the interview published at the end of the book lumps 13-20 year olds all in the same category, all of the male participants of both sex scandals are at least 18), but the women are, seemingly, unredeemable. Oh, well, something really bad happened to one of the boys, or they were drunk, or they just couldn't help themselves. The women, however, are portrayed as cold, calculating and single-minded in their desire, and it is that single-minded desire that ruins these "good" men.
Just...gross. We already live in a victim-blaming, sexual assault non-believing world. Don't try to make me feel sorry for smart, rich, white, ADULT sex offenders.