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Caesars' Wives: Sex, Power, and Politics in the Roman Empire

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In scandals and power struggles obscured by time and legend, the wives, mistresses, mothers, sisters, and daughters of the Caesars have been popularly characterized as heartless murderers, shameless adulteresses, and conniving politicians in the high dramas of the Roman court. Yet little has been known about who they really were and their true roles in the history-making schemes of imperial Rome's ruling Caesars--indeed, how they figured in the rise, decline, and fall of the empire. Now, in Caesars' Wives: Sex, Power, and Politics in the Roman Empire, Annelise Freisenbruch pulls back the veil on these fascinating women in Rome's power circles, giving them the chance to speak for themselves for the first time. With impeccable scholarship and arresting storytelling, Freisenbruch brings their personalities vividly to life, from notorious Livia and scandalous Julia to Christian Helena. Starting at the year 30 BC, when Cleopatra, Octavia, and Livia stand at the cusp of Rome's change from a republic to an autocracy, Freisenbruch relates the story of Octavian and Marc Antony's clash over the fate of the empire--an archetypal story that has inspired a thousand retellings--in a whole new light, uncovering the crucial political roles these first "first ladies" played. From there, she takes us into the lives of the women who rose to power over the next five centuries--often amid violence, speculation, and schemes--ending in the fifth century ad, with Galla Placidia, who was captured by Goth invaders (and married to one of their kings). The politics of Rome are revealed through the stories of Julia, a wisecracking daughter who disgraced her father by getting drunk in the Roman forum and having sex with strangers on the speaker's platform; Poppea, a vain and beautiful mistress who persuaded the emperor to kill his mother so that they could marry; Domitia, a wife who had a flagrant affair with an actor before conspiring in her husband's assassination; and Fausta, a stepmother who tried to seduce her own stepson and then engineered his execution--afterward she was boiled to death as punishment.

Freisenbruch also tells a fascinating story of how the faces of these influential women have been refashioned over the millennia to tell often politically motivated stories about their reigns, in the process becoming models of femininity and female power. Illuminating the anxieties that persist even today about women in or near power and revealing the female archetypes that are a continuing legacy of the Roman Empire, Freisenbruch shows the surprising parallels of these iconic women and their public and private lives with those of our own first ladies who become part of the political agenda, as models of comportment or as targets for their husbands' opponents. Sure to transform our understanding of these first ladies, the influential women who witnessed one of the most gripping, significant eras of human history, Caesars' Wives is a significant new chronicle of an era that set the foundational story of Western Civilization and hung the mirror into which every era looks to find its own reflection.

337 pages, Hardcover

First published January 1, 2010

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Annelise Freisenbruch

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Annelise Freisenbruch was born in 1977 in Paget, Bermuda, and moved to the UK at the age of eight. She studied Classics to postgraduate level at Cambridge University, receiving a PhD in 2004 for her thesis on the correspondence between the Roman emperor Marcus Aurelius and his tutor Cornelius Fronto. During that time, she also taught Classics at a private school in Cambridge. She has worked as a research assistant on a number of popular books and films about the ancient world, and regularly gives talks to schools about Classics in popular culture. Annelise Freisenbruch was the researcher to Bettany Hughes on her critically acclaimed book Helen of Troy (Vintage). She was also a specialist series researcher on the BBC1 docu-drama series Ancient Rome: The Rise and Fall of an Empire, and is currently working on films on Attila the Hun and Spartacus for the BBC. Annelise holds a PhD in Classics from Cambridge University and has worked as a freelance history researcher in the media for the last four years. She lives in Cambridge, where she teaches Latin to middle-school children. Caesars' Wives is her first book.

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395 reviews490 followers
September 19, 2024
Ancient imperial Rome has always been one of my favorite time periods in history. If you have the same fascination, I can seriously recommend this book by Annelise Freisenbruch about the women of the successive Caesars, starting with the first emperor Augustus and his wife Livia and ending at the fall, or rather replacement, of the last Roman emperor in 476 by a German named Odoacer, son of one of Attilla's followers.

While the history of the first dynastic Julio-Claudian family is pretty well known and especially their wives, daughters and mothers, I had no knowledge of the emperors (and wives) of the successive three to four hundred years, except for Trajan and Hadrian, the latter a benign emperor and of course the builder of the Hadrian Wall. Knowing not even the names of the further emperors of the following centuries, it was a joy to be now told about them by Freisenbruch in a scholarly, yet spirited, fashion.

Written from the viewpoint of the royal wives, daughters and other female family members, you get a pretty concise history of the Roman emperors and their reigns, recording their victories or losses, as well as their good or bad behaviour, the latter being naturally more prevalent. The wives tended to have great influence, especially those of the first Julio-Claudian dynasty. Livia is the acknowledged main woman throughout the entire imperial time and a role model throughout the centuries of Roman rule. To be named 'Augusta', the honorary title granted to Livia by Augustus, is an ambition that every imperial wife strives for.

Nevertheless, it was dangerous to be an empress or even daughter or sister of one. A few wrong moves and you could be expelled to the island of Pandateria, as befell Julia, Augustus' daughter. She survived, but other expelled wives or daughters in successive periods were sometimes starved to death on the island or even strangled upon arrival. Alternatively, the wives and daughters could be very scary creatures themselves as well, Messalina, wife of Claudius, is ranking high up on the scary ladder. Pretty violent behaviour was not uncommon in all the successive imperial families through the following centuries. Of all the maniacs, Caligula and Nero were exceptionally dangerous though. Obviously, true psychopaths and life threathening to have as a family member.

People who get annoyed by too many footnotes, beware. It did not bother me, but there is an abundance of footnotes in this study.

I liked this book. It was very interesting to learn more about the Roman imperial period in the centuries following the well-known reign of the first dynasty.
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768 reviews2,543 followers
February 12, 2015
Caesars' Wives: The Women Who Shaped the History of Rome is a great introduction to the role of the royal ladies of Rome, empresses and Augustas alike. But because its scope is so large (over 500 years of history), and the amount known about the women is relatively small, Annelise Freisenbuch has to spend most of her time making some broad statements and theses about what might have happened.

This isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but it does mean that the narrative is occasionally unfocused. If you haven’t read any Roman history before or have no idea who most of the major players are, this book might quickly become confusing. If you do have the background (or have at least seen the BBC adaptation of I, Claudius), then this is a well-written, interesting spin on Roman history and the various dynastic ladies who manage, however temporarily, to seize their own power and agency in a very masculine world.

The Julio-Claudian dynasty gets the royal treatment here, as it should. The chapters about Livia are especially good; I liked that Freisenbuch included descriptions of typical wedding rites, Livia's early years during the fall of the Republic, and her influence in the later stages of Augustus's reign. The parts about the rest of the tangled Julio-Claudian tree are equally interesting. Reading about Nero's reign through the lens of Agrippina Minor is a nice twist, and I loved the inclusion of Caligula's crazy wife and his apparently crazy daughter. (He's convinced that the daughter is his only when she tries to scratch out her playmates' eyes.)

The book is definitely weakest in its later chapters. In the earlier chapters, Freisenbuch is better able to focus on Rome’s first ladies because the empire is only being ruled by one family. By the time that Constantine and the Tetrachy roll around, emperors and Caesars are flipping places so quickly that most of the last few chapters are rapid-fire roll calls of Rome’s later rulers. The context might have been necessary, but I also would have liked to skim over some of that (which I did) and for more focus to be placed on Galla Placidia and Pulcheria’s movements within the political scene at the time.

The fact that so many Roman empresses were involved in the creation of Christianity surprised me; I didn't know that Helena was such a revered figure in the early church, and that women like Pulcheria were able to directly influence theology. Freisenbuch also brings up how Christianity, despite its new strict rules and moral codes, actually gave women a new way to retain their independence. Yes, you have to swear celibacy and live an ascetic life, but once you do so, you're in control of your own fate. In many ways, Pulcheria was the predecessor for Queen Elizabeth I.

In no particular order, here are some scenarios from the book that I’d love to read as historical fiction:

· Livia’s early years, in which she escapes through a forest fire with a baby tied to her back, fleeing from Octavian with her then-husband (!). She later ends up seducing Octavian while he’s married. Basically: “A year that she began as a political exile ended with her as consort to one of the most powerful men in the world.” That’s the start of a series right there!

· Julia having sex with every single person in Rome while her father, Augustus, passed draconian measures to restrict sexual activity outside of marriage. I guess that one is probably an erotica novel. Apparently she wore really racy outfits. Maybe a remake of The Carrie Diaries called The Julia Diaries?

· Berenice, queen of Judaea, moving in with Titus on the Palatine Hill. Once Vespasian dies and Titus becomes emperor, they separate. Even Suetonius mentions that they didn’t want to leave one another, but they did their duty. There is probably an opera about this, given all the doomed love and revolts and scandal, but I would like a novel.

· Galla Placidia gets kidnapped during the sack of Rome by the Goths, and is later forced to marry Athaulf. However, Athaulf is totally hot (history says so!!! history says he was a Gothic babe!!!!!), and “by all accounts” they have a great love affair. Tragedy, hot Goths, babies named Theodosius, battles, etc.

· Honoria, Galla’s daughter, is so annoyed by her probable marriage to a boring senator that she writes to Attila the Hun (!), asking him to marry her and carry her away. This could be completely epistolary or just involve some of their letters to one another. I’m not picky.

The last thing that I took away from the book was that Livia managed to be a badass for over eighty years:

“Like many age-defying record breakers she was said to have sworn by a daily dose of alcohol, in her case a glass of red wine from the Pucinum region of northern Italy.”

Noted.
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4,950 reviews580 followers
May 13, 2014
In a word this book was extremely impressive. I can't even imagine the amount of exhaustive research that must have gone into creating it, almost detective like work of finding women's lives in what was very much a men's world...just reading it was a fairly exhausting matter. Not to say it wasn't well written, it was, well written, coherent, cohesive...just overwhelming. The sheer lack of imagination (really adherence to tradition)with which ancient romans approached the naming process made it tough to keep everyone in line, although the author does provide handy family trees in the preface. Usually I prefer my non fiction to be somewhat humorous, this was a very serious book, very much like a text book with very sparse visuals. Also for a book with the word Sex featured quite prominently in a title, notably not at all salacious. Incredibly informative, very interesting book, took me most of the day to get through, but it was certainly an education. Anyone with interest in the area and some patience would like this. Recommended.
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1,191 reviews22 followers
May 14, 2025
Kick-ass, bad-ass women. Extremely bad-ass! As my immediate follow-up read to Matthew Dennison's 12 Caesars, I found this more in-depth in terms of characters' connectivity, characterization, and the motivation and machinations behind their courses of action and/or inaction. Better explained too, the bizarre law on picking heirs via adoption, regardless of age or relation. I like the metamorphosis of women's roles and portrayals as Rome's reach and leadership evolved. But Rome was always beholden to its women. Check out Rome's first empress: Augustus's second wife Livia's progeny, from Tiberius, Caligula, Claudius and finally, Nero--ruled Rome! And damnatio memoriae--now there's a phrase worthy of Orwell's 1984! It more than makes up for the book's terribly tiny font...
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7,230 reviews571 followers
April 15, 2012
As I was walking my dog this morning (ain't she cute?), I saw a "Republicans for Voldemort" bumper sticker. Nah, Livia for president is my bumper sticker. Have you seen I, Claudius? Then you know what I am talking about. Honestly, Sian Phillips and Glenda Jackson should rule the world.

It was somewhat disappointing, therefore, to find that the mistress of manupultions, the plottress of plots, might not have poisioned anyone. But she sure was a hell of a woman.

Freisnbruch does deal with the problem of a lack of good sources, but pointing out that many of the stories about Rome's first ladies were remarkably similar (see, Hilary, it isn't just you). Her writing style is very engaging and she does a wonderful jonb of bringing the reader into Rome.

I didn't know, for instance, that a Roman first couple might have been inter-racial.

And man, did Gladiator get it wrong.

Enjoyable and worth while read.
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Author 20 books104 followers
June 4, 2018
Excellent history looking at the mothers, wives, daughters and sisters of the men who ruled the Roman empire.

Well written and readable.

Highly recommended.
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2 reviews
December 26, 2018
This is a poor attempt at rewriting history

There is a recurring narrative the author quietly harps on as well as tools she uses to dismiss any opposition to her narrative. In what I'll call "Annie's complaint" in her honor, this narrative is: all women of antiquity were unfairly afflicted with "negative stereotypes" and that no matter who the author is, they are completely unreliable because of this. Yes, because no women in history has ever done anything bad or wrong, Tacitus is the same as the notoriously unreliable author of the Historia Augusta. This is a recurring theme without any evidence beyond claims that these "stereotypes" were no more than tropes to dismiss women in positions of Imperial influence and/or authority. The men, however, are either self-glorifying "baby-faced" little boys or fierce barbarians who keep women down except when the women are too fierce to be kept down.

It is true that sources contradict each other and must be interpreted with the lens of the era. However, I think this is my first encounter with a historian who declaims the Historia Augusta as it applies to women and then blithely raises it to canonical status when it comes to men.

I digress. I am going to name several examples of her bad work from each section of her book and how her narrative is, shall we say, contradictory?

First is Octavia, sister of the Emperor, who not only raised her own children, but her husband Mark Antony's two sons from a previous marriage... as well as the three children he had from his torrid affair with Cleopatra. The author dismisses this remarkable act of motherly compassion as simply a a cliche of a "perfect, passive, dutiful" Roman woman. Not even four pages later, Scribonia, mother of Julia the daughter of Augustus, receives plaudits from the author for her "remarkable legacy" in accompanying her disgraceful and disgraced daughter into exile.

A bit later, she claims that in an effort to subvert Augustan laws against adultery, Vistillia, a daughter of a noble family, officially registered as a prostitute. To give this real-world grounding, it would be akin to Charlotte Casiraghi of Monaco appearing on Brazzers under her real name and advertising as an escort through the BBC. Or for Americans, for a daughter of George W. Bush to do the same and advertise via Fox News.

Examples aside, no source claims that is the case. If anything, it's more likely that Vistillia the prostitute was attempting to unperson herself in order to gain greater control of her fortune or perhaps as some kind of revenge on her husband, who when asked why he hadn't punished her as the law demanded, replied that the sixty day grace period had not elapsed, hinting at either his role as her pimp or his utter bafflement as what to do by being turned into a public cuckold.

Next would be Annie's complaint regarding Messalina and Agrippina, the famous witches who were wives of the Emperor Claudius. Messalina, who is historically infamous for her promiscuity, is pitied as a "baby-faced" "teenage wife" and the author repeatedly bemoans Messalina's youth. After all, every young wife married to an older man has competed with a professional prostitute to see who could service the most the clients in a single night, and deliberately has a sham marriage with a potential rival to the Imperial throne... right? And Agrippina's connivance is completely understandable, since she wanted her son Nero to be Emperor, and she could not have connived at the death of Claudius, whose family was long-lived when not murdered because surely all the sources lie... right?

The next one would is an irritating display of Afro-centric historic revisionism. Lucius Septimius Severus is the first Roman Emperor born in Africa. His ancestry is documented to be Punic/Libyan Berber through his father and Italian mainland through his mother. The author chooses to claim that due to old Lucius having darker skin in the famous Severan Tondo, he was the first black Roman Emperor. There were Arab Emperors, Berber Emperors, Libyan Emperors, but there was never a black Emperor. She also attempts to complain that the Emperor's marble statue was a falsehood to conceal his blackness.... even though it's well-known those statues were painted and what we see now are simply statues whose paint has fallen off. She even mentions that the statues were painted once upon a time when discussing female sculptures, but conveniently forgets it for her imbecilic ahistorical Afro-centric revisionist black Emperor inanity. (Have I mentioned the author is white?)

Next up is Fausta, wife of Constantine the Great. Her stepson Crispus was executed on the Emperor's orders, but at Fausta's instigation. The sources generally agree she was set against him and used allegations of sexual impropriety to cause his death. Constantine, however, had her executed shortly afterwards. Annie's complaint rears its head that surely she didn't connive at Crispus' death, the unfairness and constancy of the wicked stepmother trope... but she's then forced to admit there had to be some kind of scandal or crime to explain why Fausta was put to death.

The last example (out of so many more I could name and shame, such as the empress wearing a military cape as a hint of androgyny when it represents a more united front for Imperial power) would involve Stilicho, the Roman strongman who was one of the last to keep the Western Empire alive. The author is quite happy to proclaim a half-barbarian de facto usurper, dressed in barbarian clothes and oppressing the poor, hapless, incompetent Emperor Honorius.... while deliberately ignoring that Stilicho was half-Roman, thought of himself as Roman, married the impeccably Roman niece of the Emperor Theodosius, and fought loyally for Rome.

TL;DR: Reading Caesars' Wives was an eye-opening experience, as it was published in 2010, long before the post-modern craze we see everywhere in media today. It demonstrates how history can be completely reinterpreted by a supposed expert into a canvas to serve modern agendas and viewpoints that are completely at odds with reality. I strongly recommend that wherever possible, members of KiA look for the original sources or only rely on established authorities who predate the modern lot of historians. Revision is important when it aligns with known facts, not when it goes off into Annie's Complaint.
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Author 2 books49 followers
January 18, 2019
Hate to say it, but the women of history tend not to be as interesting as the men because the women were stuck doing "proper" (and therefore boring) things. Still, it's a good read covering some of the highlights of the Roman Empire. It is funny in places.
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256 reviews6 followers
June 18, 2017
Fascinating. Well-written. Thoroughly researched. Those are the three key elements to describe this book. Definitely a must-read if you're into ancient history!
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Author 4 books13 followers
October 17, 2023
De levens van Livia - de vrouw van Augustus - en andere hooggeplaatste vrouwen uit het Romeinse keizerrijk. Had hier en daar wat vlotter en beknopter geschreven mogen worden en jammer dat er vaak maar weinig bekend is over de hoofdpersonen (dat is deels ook het punt van het boek), maar toch: met genoeg interesse gelezen voor vier sterren (naar boven afgerond).
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70 reviews2 followers
January 20, 2024
Dit boek geeft zo extreem veel interessante informatie. Het volgt de keizerlijke dynastieën in het Romeinse Rijk en legt de focus op de vrouwen hierin. Het is oprecht het meest interessante geschiedenis boek wat ik heb gelezen, en ik ben blij dat ik dit boek heb gekozen voor dit vak. Kudos aan de schrijfster voor het ontiegelijk moeilijk onderzoek doen naar deze vrouwen, aangezien het bronmateriaal minimaal is.
Verder was het zo bizar veel informatie dat ik bang ben dat ik deels de stof vergeten ben bij mijn tentamen volgende week. Maar dat haalt niet weg hoe geweldig ik dit boek vond! Echt een aanrader.
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719 reviews154 followers
May 9, 2015
'Caesar's wife must be above reproach', as the old saying goes. Of course, as Annelise Freisenbruch ably demonstrates, very few of the Caesars' wives (or sisters or mothers) managed to escape reproach, whether fairly or unfairly. Their positions at the very heart of power in imperial Rome held them up to great scrutiny and even greater expectations - the woman of the imperial family were expected to be figureheads, exemplars of Roman matronly dignity, chastity and soberness. It was probably a standard few women short of saints could live up to, and when they fell from grace they fell hard.

The tale of the Roman Empire is characteristically told through the story of its Caesars, so it is beyond refreshing to read its history from the point of view of its women. There are some real characters in this story, which stretches from the murder of Julius Caesar in 44 BC all the way down the centuries to the collapse of the western Roman Empire in the mid-fifth century. Names such as Julia, Augustus' wild and wilful daughter; Livia, his wife who set the standard for all the empresses to come; Agrippina, accused of forcefully assisting her husband Claudius to his posthumous deification as a god; St Helena, mother of Constantine, the man who converted the Empire to Christianity.

The response of the Romans to their Augustae, as they were known, demonstrates the changing patterns and currents of political thought in Rome. Behaviour condemned as abhorrent in their empresses in the early years of the Empire, such as participating in political debate or accompanying their husband on military campaigns, would be accepted as standard years later. Women began to be represented on the currency in their own right, and as the bloodlines of Caesars failed and adoption became the standard method of succession, it was often links to the female members of the imperial family that could confer the laurel wreath of power on the potential successors jostling for position. But there was always concern and tension about the role of women in imperial life, as demonstrated by the frequency of the accusations of adultery, murder and incest that were used against them. It is entirely possible some of the women of Rome were indeed just as murderous and homicidal as a number of the Emperors turned out to be, but the similarity of the accusations recurring time and again suggest more to tried-and-tested political slander than truth.

This book also serves as a good overview of the five centuries of imperial Rome, moving from one political dynasty to another, with, as mentioned, the women often serving as the links between one dynasty and the next. And it is surprising just how relevant much of this material feels, even today - the role and behaviour of a politician's spouse is just as much a live issue today as it was during the height of the Roman Empire, albeit with thankfully fewer accusations of incest and murder.
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August 9, 2016
Freisenbruch manages to present what we know about the lives of imperial women in a concise manner that I found easy enough to read, my copy having a strange, repeating problem with the some letters being squished together about 1/3 the way across the page notwithstanding. For me, it was a joy that Freisenbruch chose to focus so much on the Julio-Claudians since I find that period the most interesting by far, but I have a feeling that was also informed by the amount of sources available on the topic. This was, despite the blurb on the cover of my edition, mainly a scholarly work aimed at a scholarly audience, and Freisenbruch seems to have written it with that audience firmly in mind. The sentences are long and dense, containing many clauses, rather than the simpler sentence forms that seem to be preferred in more popular histories, such as Holland's, some of Cartledge's work, or Beard's latest.

It was interesting to see the return of some of the same tired old excuses for vilification of women over the course of roughly 500 years as well. (Clearly, incest never gets less titillating.) The thing that struck me about this throughout the course of Freisenbruch's chronology is just how much strong women seem to scare men. You need only look to the receptions of Agrippinna the Younger, Pulcheria, or even Livia herself to see this happen again and again. I'm sure that wasn't Freisenbruch's intended message--it seems more likely that she simply intended to trace the evolution of the Roman matron into the Christian ascetic--but it struck me as important the sheer number of times it was repeated over the course of the narrative.

I didn't particularly enjoy the last couple of chapters, mostly because the Christian ascetic is not a theme with which I find particular resonance, and stories about Helena's piety or her travels in the Holy Land bore me as much as stories about her son and the Nicene Creed do. (Also, while the digression into the roots of Arianism and how it might have affected various empresses relations with each other was probably necessary, it really went on too long. The founding beliefs of the church likewise do not interest me at all despite their far-reaching implications.)

Overall, however, I found Freisenbruch's narrative informative without being heavy-handed or droning, and I appreciated the fact that she didn't buy into the more obvious hatreds of some of her ancient sources. Freisenbruch manages to pull of writing a serious, scholarly work about a subject for which there are fewer sources than one might like admirably. I thoroughly enjoyed this.
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380 reviews42 followers
May 24, 2012
As usual, being able to buy books at 2am is proving to be my downfall. This book came to my attention while I listened to the last episodes of the "History of Rome" podcast. And I'm extremely glad I came into this book with a well oiled working knowledge of Roman history--even if I had only listened to the names, I did recognize them.

This book is not simply a biographical look at women who were married to emperors. It is instead a far more ambitious and interesting look at the role of women in the empire. Obviously, our knowledge of women and their lives during the ancient times is severely limited. As the saying goes "quiet women seldom change history," and there were so many quiet women those days.

The author starts with Livia and ends with the incomparable Galla Placidia--who I have decided I thoroughly admire. The author, thus called because that's one hell of a last name you got there, examines not just how the women acted in their role as empress, but how they were perceived, portrayed, and memorialized. Without losing sight of the very deeply ingrained bias against women in general and the even deeper ingrained proclivity among Romans to repeat calumnies as truth (it's really almost amazing how many stepmom-empresses were incestuous poisoners...you'd think they had some sort of union or something), the author sifts through the evidence without ever resorting to speculation (YES I AM LOOKING AT YOU, JULIA FOX --author of Jane Boleyn). When the documentation is slight, the author states it clearly and makes no unfounded suppositions (AGAIN, LOOKING AT YOU JULIA FOX).

Do I wish we knew more about these women? Yes, because I think they would have good stories to tell. However, this book does its dangedest in an informed, interesting, and well-documented way. This definitely added to my knowledge of the time, and my wish to have Galla Placidia over for drinks.
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Author 16 books7 followers
March 11, 2011
The limitations of the book, particularly the early chapter are the limitations of historical evidence. So little was recorded about the early 'first ladies' that it's hard to write much history about them. Most of the evidence ends up being what coins were issued with what heads on them - but that's hardly the author's fault. It's a good read, a different angle on Roman history and interesting on the way the various leading women were demonised, accused of the same depravity, excesses and incest as their predecessors. Yet in the very valid debunking of the myths around Livia, Messaline Aggrappina et al, I couldn't help feeling a bit saddened that they weren't the wild and outrageous characters we've been lead to believe. They were much more fun as backstabbing murderous, poisoning, adulterous bitches, but then what's more important historical fact or entertaining characters for me?
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416 reviews24 followers
August 17, 2025
An excellent attempt at piecing together the scant sources for some of the most powerful women of the Roman empire (not just the wives, some sisters, mothers and daughters get into the mix as well). In spite of that we know surprisingly little of these ladies (though I kind of already knew that, to be honest) the portraits are quite vivid and real.

I also like the touch of adding a few lines of how history has treated their memories, and how they have been presented in for example theatre plays and historical fiction. (But it added nothing to my desire to read 'I, Claudius'. Not necessarily a bad thing.)
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23 reviews
April 16, 2024
6,5/10
The good:
I often found myself feeling sentimental reading this, over the effort that has been put in to commemorate women of times past. Friesenburch treats the ladies of Rome with great care and respect, and it has been very interesting getting a peek into ancient Roman life from the female viewpoint.

The bad:
The language is not always that accessible to people who are not that familiar with the more heavy academic jargon. It’s a heavy read. Which takes me to -

The ugly:
I’ll let the following excerpt speak for itself (page 277-278):
«Although Constantius II had once been given the blame for an order to the Roman army in the wake of his father Constantine’s death, to execute the male descendants of his grandfather Constantius Chlorus’ marriage to Theodora, ensuing they could pose no threat to the succession of Helena’s grandsons, he nonetheless enlisted one of the survivors of that purge, his cousin Gallus, to serve as his imperial representative in the east while he personally avenged the usurpation by Magnentius and brought the empire under his control once more in 351.»
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203 reviews7 followers
August 23, 2024
There’s just something about women writing about women that is delightful. Although this is over a decade old, Annelise Freisenbruch’s “The First Ladies Of Rome” still feels very relevant today and has really piqued my interest in Ancient women. We hear about great emperors and their barbaric reigns, yet we sometimes overlook the key players as a result.
Women belonged to the great dynasties too. They weren’t meddling witches like Greece’s Circe, as they were often compared, but savvy socialites. Much like the ambitious Cleopatra of Egypt. Without them, where would the imperial age have risen from? Every man came here through a woman.
This book was by far one of the most in depth and exciting examinations of some of Rome’s most prominent figures. It kept me hooked from page to page which is a big one for me as I could have found myself a little jaded. I loved the private and public life of Livia and Agrippina. Ruthless perhaps, ambitious definitely, but memorable. Annelise looks at everything contextually and paints a picture of the political struggles and how they embroiled and confined these women with passion and drive.
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July 8, 2022
Now, I've read one of the reviews here, that states that there is plenty of historical errors in this book. I'm hardly an expert on the subject, so I'll be reviewing it from the point of view of a layman. From my perspective the book seems well-researched and accurate, comparing various sources, both from the time in question as well as later ones.

What the book is, is basically a retelling of Roman history from two main periods, with the focus on the wives/daughters/sisters of various emperors. While it was annoying with the constant "to learn more about this, read XX", I found it useful both as a recap of Roman history as well as being taught something new about the women I didn't know much about. Informative, entertaining if sometimes a bit too dry.
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November 12, 2016
Wie dacht dat Orwell's Big Brother of Stalin met het aanpassen van gebeurtenissen in het verleden door het manipuleren van tekst en foto's uniek waren, zal versteld staan van hetgeen daarover te lezen is in Vrouwen van Rome. Het is al moeilijk genoeg om erachter te komen wat de rol van de keizerlijke vrouwen is geweest omdat ze op een enkel snippertje na nooit rechtstreeks tot ons 'spreken', maar als er dan ook nog aan geschiedvervalsing wordt gedaan door hun beelden kapot te slaan, ze uit beeldengroepen te hakken, munten waarop ze afgebeeld zijn te verminken en ze uit inscripties te beitelen na hun dood en soms zelfs nog tijdens hun leven, wordt het wel erg moeilijk. Temeer daar latere beschavingen en natuurgeweld er ook het nodige toe hebben bijgedragen dat er weinig onbeschadigd de tand des tijds heeft doorstaan. Directe bewijzen voor de rol die de vrouwen van de diverse Romeinse keizers hebben gespeeld zijn er dan ook niet veel en om de zaak nog verder te compliceren zijn de historische bronnen die er dan nog wel zijn vaak onbetrouwbaar.
Er is bijvoorbeeld lang gedacht dat de Scriptores historia Augusta waarin het leven van keizer Hadrianus tot en met dat van Numerianus wordt beschreven een betrouwbare bron was, maar inmiddels weet men bijna zeker dat dat niet het geval is. En alsof dat allemaal nog niet genoeg hindernissen oplevert om zo waarheidsgetrouw mogelijk te kunnen vertellen over de Romeinse keizerinnen en hun vrouwelijke afstammelingen, spreken ook de bewaard gebleven authentieke bronnen in de vorm van geschreven teksten elkaar regelmatig tegen

Zo zijn er twee verhalen over de rol van Livia bij de dood van Augustus. Het ene verhaal vertelt dat hij een natuurlijke dood stierf en Livia als trouwe, liefdevolle vrouw bij dat sterven aanwezig was. De laatste woorden van Augustus zouden daarbij aan haar gericht zijn: "Livia, leef ons huwelijk indachtig voort. Vaarwel" en na een afscheidskus overlijdt hij. Een ander verhaal dat de ronde doet en terug te vinden is in historische bronnen, vertelt dat Livia Augustus vergifigd heeft door gif te smeren op rijpe, groene vijgen waar Augustus dol op was. Ze zou dat hebben gedaan om te voorkomen dat Augustus op het laatste nippertje nog een ander dan Tiberius (zoon van Livia uit haar eerste huwelijk) als zijn opvolger zou aanwijzen. Wat is waar en wat is niet waar?
Het is een probleem dat telkens weer opduikt. Freisenbruch geeft zelf min of meer antwoord met betrekking tot het vergiftigingsverhaal: "Er is zo opvallend veel overeenkomst tussen het verdachte gedrag dat Livia volgens sommige schrijvers vlak na Augustus' dood tentoongespreid zou hebben en het door diezelfde schrijvers beschreven optreden van tenminste twee latere keizerinnen, dat we zulke berichten maar beter niet voetstoots kunnen geloven. Inderdaad wordt vrijwel precies hetzelfde later beweerd over Agrippina Minor en Plotina, die zich in vrijwel dezelfde positie bevonden als Livia."

Wie nu denkt dat Vrouwen van Rome een droge opsomming van elkaar al dan niet tegensprekende historische bronnen is, vergist zich. Natuurlijk is het geen sappige historische roman en wordt er in een kort tijdsbestek over de vrouwen uit diverse dynastieën veel verteld, maar het is een zeer leesbaar boek. Dat komt niet alleen omdat het onderwerp interessant is - de ondertitel zegt het al: Seks, macht en politiek in het Romeinse rijk - maar ook omdat er veel aandacht is voor allerlei randzaken. Zo beschrijft Freisenbruch, naar aanleiding van een dispuut tussen Julia en haar vader Augustus omdat Julia haar grijze haren liet uittrekken, allerlei middelen waar vrouwen (ook toen al) zich mee insmeerden: [..] zo behandelden ze puistjes met kippenvet en ui; rimpels werkten ze weg met boter; ze brachten gezichtsmaskers aan van brood, gerst en mirre of rozenblaadjes; met kalk, loodwit of zelfs krokodillenmest bleekten ze zich met het oog op een lichtere huidskleur, die enorm gewild was; ze boenden hun huid met gemalen oesterschelpen en schraapten ongewenste haargroei weg met puimsteen.

Zo herkenbaar als de pogingen tot geschiedvervalsing voor ons zijn, zo herkenbaar is ook de wijze waarop de aan de macht zijnde families campagne voerden. De middelen waren eenvoudiger, maar de ideeën vrijwel identiek. Mede daarom kan Freisenbruch regelmatig vergelijkingen maken tussen de vrouwen van de keizers van toen en de huidige first lady's. Niet voor niks begint het hoofdstuk Ik, Claudia .. met het motto:

"De gemalin van Caesar hoort een onberispelijk leven te leiden."
toegeschreven aan Plutarchus (Het leven van Julius Caesar) en Mrs. Landingham (The West Wing).

Een enkele keer vliegt Freisenbruch (of haar vertaalster) uit de bocht en doet het taalgebruik teveel denken aan een Romeinse Privé of Story. Dat komt gelukkig zo weinig voor dat het makkelijk door de vingers is te zien. Dat geldt niet voor het ontbreken van afbeeldingen of illustraties. Hoewel de beschrijvingen erg gedetailleerd zijn en er een uitgebreid bronnenregister is, is het toch een gemis dat er geen afbeeldingen voorkomen van een aantal van de besproken standbeelden, wandversieringen, mozaïeken en kapsels. Deze node gemiste afbeeldingen zouden het boek informatiever hebben gemaakt en nóg plezieriger om te lezen.

Annelise Freisenbruch doceerde Klassieke talen in Cambridge, en was als redacteur betrokken bij de totstandkoming van diverse films en boeken over de oudheid. Momenteel doceert ze Latijn in Dorset.

Gelezen en gerecenseerd voor Dizzie.nl in mei 2012
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138 reviews10 followers
February 4, 2019
I enjoyed this but I'm really glad I did a unit of Roman history in uni because it was hard and had some assumed knowledge. Part of this book were truly excellent, other parts could have done with some editing. Very thorough and well researched, and a different look at the usual Roman history.
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442 reviews228 followers
December 31, 2017
This might not be the worst book I’ve read this year, but it definitely ranks as one of the biggest disappointments. I was so excited when the foreword mentioned how biased the transfer of history is, how much it depends on the source, and how using and/or repeating this source does not always mean you’re referencing facts so much as opinion. What followed though, was not the promised “fascinating story” that “pulls back the veil on these fascination women in Rome’s power circles, giving them the chance to speak for themselves for the first time”. Nope, it was a dry, digressive, disappointingly male-focused mess with a very abrupt ending. In my opinion, its biggest contribution is Freisenburch’s admittedly interesting argument that the Julio-Claudian dynasty is more tied to Livia than Augustus, and that she is, in fact, more significant and vital to the creation and continuance of this dynasty, and the Roman Empire in general. I would not recommend it to someone who isn’t already familiar with these historical figures, because, aside from her (justified!) fixation on Livia, Freisenburch moves over them very quickly and shallowly, so that things get very confusing and tangled very quickly.

First there is the actual way this book is written. I don’t know how much of this is on the translator, but the English text was riddled with grammar mistakes, overlong and confusingly structured sentences, and had so many subclauses going around that I sometimes felt as if I was reading an actual Latin text trying to imitate De Bello Gallico. The writing is dry, repetitive, often surprisingly shallow, and moves at the slowest pace. Content-wise, it is just as meandering and unfocused. It’s as if Freisenburch decided to throw all her knowledge of Roman history at the wall, vaguely connects it to the women she claims are her focus, and then collects it haphazardly into a book. She goes off on so many tangents and vaguely-related expositions that, while definitely interesting in their own right, completely overwhelm the main narrative thread. She cherrypicks her sources -- oddly enough even excluding some that would have supported her argument --, indulges in speculation way too much, and stacks so many (weakly-supported) arguments on top of each other that this reads like the first draft of a thesis, and one that could have used a few more revisions at that.

As for the lives and times of these Roman “first ladies” I was promised…….don’t you love it when authors use women’s lives a jumping off point to discuss pretty much anything else, a.k.a. general Roman practices and the conflicts and lives of the men they’re tied to? I know Freisenburch has to give some political background to sketch the general context these women moved in, especially if she wanted this book to function as a general introduction to these figures as well, but it just got excessive. The longer the book went on, the more she just quickly recounted the main bits of speculation surrounding the women in question instead of actually delving into their lives and characters and giving them some kind of personality or depth, before she could let male history and actions take over the narrative again. For personal reasons, I was especially disappointed in Agrippina Minor’s chapter. Maybe it’s because she’s the figure I already knew the most of beforehand, but Freisenburch didn’t add anything new. I even got the impression that she didn’t want to explore her character beyond her reputation as a politically ambiguous enigma, which is literally the opposite of what this book promises to do.
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October 9, 2014
The Roman Empire was one of the darkest and notorious eras in history. The emperors are known to be ruthless killers with an unquenchable lust for blood and gore. They are known for having gladiatorial games, persecuting Christians, and some are even known for burning down the city of Rome so that they can take the credit for "rebuilding" Rome. In Freisenbruch's novel, she recounts the Roman empire from the perspective of the lives of the Roman Empresses.

The classical Roman sources written by men and are biased against women have stereotyped Roman women into two categories. The first stereotype is that of a good virtuous Roman wife, who is loyal to her husband, but when her husband or son died, she continues to mourn for her loved ones to the end of her life, never to get over her own grief. The second type of woman is a power-hungry schemer who carries poison and uses sex and murder as a means to attain their own ambition and power. In Freisenbruch's novel, these women who were considered masculine, (for instance being in the army frontlines of a battle and having power and influence over their husbands and sons) were seen as an offense to Roman men. Many were attacked and accused of crimes of sexuality just so they could be rid of. These accused women were sent into exile where were brutally beaten and died of starvation.

Freisenbruch's second half of the novel focuses on the less violent reign of the Christian emperors. It starts with Helena, the mother of Constantine (the first Christian emperor). Helena started the tradition of the empresses to go on a holy pilgrimage to Jerusalem and founded the true cross. Her successors have donated money to the Church, and three sisters of a Christian emperor decided to devote their life to God by being virgins and living a monastic life, though one of the sisters was forced to get married in order to help ensure the dynastic survival (but still kept her vow to God having her marriage remain unconsummated). The author gives a detail about how the Christian era had given women the freedom that had once been denied to them, and we can see why Christianity had appealed to them, and why some men criticized the Christian religion.

The Emperors of Rome, with the exception of Marcus Aurelius and the Christian emperors, are portrayed in a negative light. Most of them cruel tyrants. Some are portrayed as weak, allowing their wives and mothers to have power and influence. Most have murdered their rivals to the throne. Some have even committed fratricide. Others, like Nero, have ruthlessly killed their mothers, who had raised them and help them become emperors, just so they could marry a beautiful woman.

Overall, this book is full of treachery, betrayal, danger, scandal, passion, and intrigue. We get to know the women that have been shrouded by the emperors. However, I would suggest to anyone interested in this book that before they read it, they should have some prior knowledge of the history of the early Roman empire, or watch an episode of HBO's Rome or BBC's I, Claudius, for the author has mentioned these two tv shows frequently, and the way her book is written it is assumed that the reader is meant to have some knowledge of Roman history. Readers that do not have any prior knowledge of Roman history would most likely get lost, may find it a frustrating read, and will give the reader a giant headache. This book will appeal to fans of soap operas, The Godfather movies, The Sopranos, Mad Men, and the tv historical dramas like The Tudors and The Borgias.
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38 reviews5 followers
November 17, 2019
This is the first book I have read by this author. It was brought up as a suggestion on goodreads as I've read books dealing with similar themes and materials (such as Matthew Dennisons' Empress of Rome and Judith Herrins' Women in Purple, both incidentally worthwhile reads).

A preliminary glance at the contents page of this book might lead one to make a quite reasonable assumption that Friesnbruch has bitten off more than she can chew. The breadth of history being covered spans the Late Republic/Early Principate. Covering the days of such Julio-Claudian grandees as Livia right through to the days Galla Placidia and the fall of the Western empire. So, no mean undertaking by any means.

Despite this the book is exceedingly thorough surveying the leading female figures of Romes first dynasty the Julio-Claudians right through to that of Constantines. Allowances have to be made for the scant materials for the earliest 'First Ladies' due to the patriarchal nature of Roman society which essentially relegates women to the back benches/ sidelines of the historical narrative of Rome. As the Grand Narrative of Roman history tends to focus on the stories of 'great male figures' this problem being particularly acute in the study of the Julio-Claudian women when there was still debate as to whether women should have any role in public life bar those traditionally ascribed as appropriate to them by the state.

Frisenbruch's style is accessible and pleasant to read this going hand in hand with the informative nature of the book makes it hard to put down. There are also some handy family trees in the front of the book before the content page which are helpful in aiding the reader orientate themselves over the course of the book. The Roman Imperial families appear to have drawn from a rather narrow pool of names which certainly has the potential to cause confusion as to what information pertains to which figure. The table of family trees helps a great deal in preventing this.

Overall, I think this book is definitely worth a read for anyone interested in the role of women in Roman society.

Happy Reading,
Gavin Rowan
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July 22, 2017
Freisenbruch's work is a wonderful example of an extensive and well researched non-fiction book and further, is presented without any biases towards history. Overall, I applaud her ability to detail the lives and trials of the women who were wives to the Roman emperors as documentation of their lives is close to nil. Ultimately, I was very impressed with the amount of research poured into this book and thought it should serve as an example to all non-fiction writers on how they should research.

However, the issue with Caesars' Wives was that it read like a history textbook and was very repetitive. Even though, I am extremely interested in the Julio-Claudian, Flavian Dynasty and the Five Good Emperors and so on- the text became tedious to read. This was due to the fact that the author never expanded into the bigger picture and as a result, it felt like one seemingly unimportant event after another while all the women seemed to be same. In fact, this book reminded me of my old history professor, who was extremely detailed and would lecture on every single event without describing how ultimately it would come to shape/change society.

If you can ask "so what?" at any point while reading a non-fiction book then the author hasn't done a very good job on piecing together a thesis to tie the work together. In addition, I think it would have been interesting to hear the author's commentary on why the Roman Emperors often found themselves without heirs or on another one of the common themes found in their reigns.

I would only recommend this book to someone who was looking for an overview on the era and was a diehard scholar of the Roman Empire.
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1,254 reviews86 followers
April 21, 2017
Oh, how much I loved this book! I really enjoy history books, but it is true they are not the most easy genre to read, and sometimes a couple of chapters per day are more than enough. With The First Ladies of Rome, instead, I could not wait to pick it up everytime I could, and I often found myself reading a lot without feeling it at all.

I think Annelise Freisenbruch did a wonderful job with a subject which is very fascinating, but sadly also very little documented. As she states in the premise, there are few informations available about the empresses of Rome, and often their real personality is hidden behind their husbands' fame. Indeed, there were times while reading when I was annoyed that so little was known about some of the women, but this is definitely not Freisenbruch's fault, and she did good with what she had. While it is true some women remained a mystery, others came to life thanks to Freisenbruch's research. My favourite was definitely Livia, but I also think Agrippina Minor was a wonderfully complex and ambiguous figure. I would love to read a historical novel about her!

The time period, the traditions and the places are also wonderfully reconstructed. The descriptions of Prima Porta, Livia's villa, were especially fascinating. Also, some anecdotes were really great and surprising. Ancient Rome is one of my favourite historical periods and I was delighted by all of this, and anyone who wants to know more about it will definitely learn something new.

Absolutely recommended!
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326 reviews6 followers
July 14, 2013
A concise little history of what we know about some of the more (in)famous women in the imperial Roman families, beginning with Augustus' wife Livia around 40 B.C. and moving through the Julio-Claudian Dynasty, the Flavian Dynasty, Trajan, Hadrian, and the Antonines, the Severan Dynasty, the Tetrarchs and the Constantinian Dynasty, and ending with the Theodosian Dynasty and the fall of the Western Empire in the 5th century.

The author has done exhaustive research using primary and secondary sources; looking at histories, letters, inscriptions, artwork, and coinage (among other things) for clues on the rise and fall of various women who married into or were born into the royal family. She gives a balanced accounting, mentioning various biases that would have influenced the sources which she used.

I also liked how she referred to medieval, renaissance, and later works which were influenced by these women and their reputations (deserved or undeserved). I thought it made an interesting bridge to our modern lives.

In any case, a fascinating read, which opened my eyes to exactly how perilous the times were for any man or woman in the spotlight. More murders and executions than you can shake a stick at!

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257 reviews3 followers
April 13, 2014
I've been listening to a History of Rome podcast, which inspired me to pick up this book. The podcast largely focuses on the men in history, and I was curious to learn more about the women involved.

This book had some interesting details, but so much of these women's lives is frustratingly unknowable; women were not considered important to the male historians who recorded events for posterity, outside of producing children. They were celebrated, literally on pedestals, through statuary and imagery connecting them to goddesses and supporting their sons and families. Even the women who, after birthing three children, became independent after the death of their husbands, exempt from the legal requirement to remarry, and allowed to keep property, there is little known of them. Unless they had been suspected of poisoning their husbands, having many affairs, or scheming in some other way, which was all speculation, and has to be doubted now.

If you're up for a slightly academic and slight depressing read about the role of women in society - jump right in.
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722 reviews11 followers
August 15, 2011
Annelise Freisenbruch has written a thoroughly researched and interesting book about one of the more difficult topics in Roman History. There is not a lot of discussion about women in the surviving Roman texts, but the Freisenbruch does a great job of using the evidence that does exist to discuss the lovers and wives of the Caesars. I knew bits and pieces of the women's lives from reading about their husbands in other texts, but my knowledge was frequently expanded by getting a different perspective. The balance between a scholarly and readable prose really helped too. For me, the most exciting parts were actually when the author discusses some of the most recent Roman finds. I haven't heard much about what kind of Roman artifacts have been found in the last fifty years so these sections were particularly enlightening and exciting to read. If you have interest in the most prominent women in Roman History, then this book is recommended reading.
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