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The Sexual Man
Based of groundbreaking nationwide research, The Sexual Man refutes the current myths surrounding male sexuality, providing a psychologically sound, biblically respectful view of what men secretly think and feel about important sexual issues. Learn what satisfies men sexually and what the limits should be, how to ensure healthy sexual development throughout life and how to have a fulfilled and guilt-free sex life.
244 pages, Paperback
First published March 1, 1994
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April 16, 2020
When I began this book, I had no idea what it was really about. Written in 1994 by Dr. Archibald Hart, this book details a study done on men and their sexuality as a counter study to the leading one at the time, The Janus Report. Dr. Hart took a sampling of men (600) and gave them a questionnaire about sexuality and the male sex drive. The men he chose were “good” men - men who were mostly married with children, had good jobs, went to church - men considered to be good, moral men of society. Some of them were in the ministry.
Dr. Hart seeks to answer questions men have such as: Am I oversexed? Am I undersexed? Am I normal? Do I think about sex more than other men? Am I healthy? Should I be concerned? How do I control my sex drive?
Dr. Hart has worked with men in counseling situations for over 25 years and has listened to their questions, concerns, and fears. In this book, he presents the results of his findings, along with what normal healthy male sexuality looks like. He discusses what a guilt-free sex drive and sex life look like. He discusses pornography, fantasy, oral sex, masturbation, sexual harassment, frequency of sex, lust, and several other topics.
Way too much is discussed to give an in-depth review. I don’t remember seeing this book anywhere ever. I am glad I read it, however, because here we are 25 years later, and men are more confused than ever about many of the topics discussed here.
This book has sat on my book shelves for over 20 years. I have no idea where it came from or why I had never read it. Reading it is my attempt to read every book I currently own so that I can finally declutter my book collection. I recommend this book to any man - or any woman trying to understand men - if you can still find it!
Dr. Hart seeks to answer questions men have such as: Am I oversexed? Am I undersexed? Am I normal? Do I think about sex more than other men? Am I healthy? Should I be concerned? How do I control my sex drive?
Dr. Hart has worked with men in counseling situations for over 25 years and has listened to their questions, concerns, and fears. In this book, he presents the results of his findings, along with what normal healthy male sexuality looks like. He discusses what a guilt-free sex drive and sex life look like. He discusses pornography, fantasy, oral sex, masturbation, sexual harassment, frequency of sex, lust, and several other topics.
Way too much is discussed to give an in-depth review. I don’t remember seeing this book anywhere ever. I am glad I read it, however, because here we are 25 years later, and men are more confused than ever about many of the topics discussed here.
This book has sat on my book shelves for over 20 years. I have no idea where it came from or why I had never read it. Reading it is my attempt to read every book I currently own so that I can finally declutter my book collection. I recommend this book to any man - or any woman trying to understand men - if you can still find it!
October 3, 2020
Every woman who is in a relationship, or would like one, should read this! It is survival information.
There are testosterone effects on males that no one seems to be talking about.
Wish I had know this stuff earlier in life!
There are testosterone effects on males that no one seems to be talking about.
Wish I had know this stuff earlier in life!
March 10, 2021
General book on male sexuality, made interesting by many graphs showing results of a survey the author conducted. Definitely recommend, but it was a little dated and wasn't overly remarkable. Some short but good tips on teaching your children about sex.
February 23, 2018
An interesting and insightful look into a man’s relationship with sex, sexuality, masculinity, health, obsession, lust, pornography, and female interaction. Well worth the read.
January 24, 2016
Very insightful study about male sexuality completed in the 1990s. A study conducted on a large subject group reveals truths and patterns about male sexual needs, patterns, influences and desires reaching all the way back into prepubescent years until retirement, the Hart report casts light on subjects and thought patterns largely kept in the dark by society in general and men in particular. Very revealing and insightful.
The weakness of the study is revealed in that it sought to use a sample of 'normal' men; i.e., married (a few singles), heterosexual and largely Christian study group. Not that insights could not be gleamed from within these parameters, but in reality it is not correct to see those outside these parameters as abnormal. A more insightful and correct study would have sought to include single men, homosexual and/or bi-sexual, as well as those of other religious traditions.
This book was a focus of a men's study group in which I participate. But quite honestly, this would be insightful for most women I believe as it clearly shows that men are not just humans with sex constantly on the mind. At the same time, it would be helpful to women to see how sexuality is deeply integrated into the very being of men and how it shapes male understanding of self and others, as well as overall vision of life and relationships.
It would be fascinating to see a study like this done again, correcting the obvious weakness of this study, to gain more accurate insights about the true picture of the Sexual Man.
The weakness of the study is revealed in that it sought to use a sample of 'normal' men; i.e., married (a few singles), heterosexual and largely Christian study group. Not that insights could not be gleamed from within these parameters, but in reality it is not correct to see those outside these parameters as abnormal. A more insightful and correct study would have sought to include single men, homosexual and/or bi-sexual, as well as those of other religious traditions.
This book was a focus of a men's study group in which I participate. But quite honestly, this would be insightful for most women I believe as it clearly shows that men are not just humans with sex constantly on the mind. At the same time, it would be helpful to women to see how sexuality is deeply integrated into the very being of men and how it shapes male understanding of self and others, as well as overall vision of life and relationships.
It would be fascinating to see a study like this done again, correcting the obvious weakness of this study, to gain more accurate insights about the true picture of the Sexual Man.
December 14, 2021
As a man, I needed this book. I’ve felt so confused, lost and hopeless at times. This book shed light on my sexuality. Which I wasn’t fully aware how much I needed that to be done. God spoke through Dr. Hart in this book. If you are a man and you feel confused, hurt, guilty or any kind of negativity about your sexuality or sexual thoughts or behaviors, this book has a clear message for you: YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
Please read this book. You may not agree with all the points made, but I fully believe that sex does not and should never need to be a taboo subject. It should be respectfully discussed, but talk about it! It’s a part of all humans inmost being! Also, READ THIS BOOK!
***If you are a woman, I would say this book would be beneficial for you ONLY IF you can be of sound mind and judgement while reading. This book shows how screwed up men are. Our (sexual) thoughts, feelings and sometimes actions, but it will benefit all to learn as much as they can about the people who make up this world***
Please read this book. You may not agree with all the points made, but I fully believe that sex does not and should never need to be a taboo subject. It should be respectfully discussed, but talk about it! It’s a part of all humans inmost being! Also, READ THIS BOOK!
***If you are a woman, I would say this book would be beneficial for you ONLY IF you can be of sound mind and judgement while reading. This book shows how screwed up men are. Our (sexual) thoughts, feelings and sometimes actions, but it will benefit all to learn as much as they can about the people who make up this world***
December 4, 2013
This book is now 20 years old, so it could do with an update but essentially it is based on a survey that the author conducted of mostly Christian straight males that the author conducted in the early 90s.
The information that Hart puts out is essentially to paint a picture of what "normal" sexuality looks like for the average Christian male attempting to be monogamous. This would have been especially groundbreaking back in the 90s, when sex wasn't talked about nearly as much.
Ultimately, Hart encourages his readers to understand their sex drive so they can avoid the pitfalls of intense guilt on the one hand and having no limits on the other hand. I don't know what the research would look like if done in today's age of readily available online porn, but I think the message is still timely.
The information that Hart puts out is essentially to paint a picture of what "normal" sexuality looks like for the average Christian male attempting to be monogamous. This would have been especially groundbreaking back in the 90s, when sex wasn't talked about nearly as much.
Ultimately, Hart encourages his readers to understand their sex drive so they can avoid the pitfalls of intense guilt on the one hand and having no limits on the other hand. I don't know what the research would look like if done in today's age of readily available online porn, but I think the message is still timely.
December 11, 2015
Although academic in nature the authors personal faith and principles truly enhance this book on Male Sexuality. As described in the title this book discusses the sexual nature of males, both good and bad. A Christian and fellow believer I would recommend this book to any man, either evangelical Christian or not as both a guide and encouragement to maintain a healthy and pure sexual lifestyle. Definitely a book I would recommend.
April 6, 2014
I learned a few facts about male (and female) sexuality. For example, I didn't know that the average age of puberty is decreasing. However, this is a fairly dry book. It's focused largely on charts and surveys. I was hoping for more discussion on the psychology involved, I suppose. It was worth one read, but I think the "bottom line" information it contains could be condensed into a much smaller volume.
August 18, 2015
Shocked to find this on the book shelf at Sherrie Worth....of course, it turns out to be an excellent book which thoughtfully explains men to women.
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