This was written almost 20 years ago. Published 2004. So around the time I left full time education and entered the world of work. And some small things have changed since she wrote this - flexitime and part time are more common, and in the world of children, fathers can now take up to 6 months of the maternity leave, if hheir employer is up for it. But on the whole it seems most things are the same or a bit worse, which is rather depressing to think how little human life is valued against business and making money as if that is all life is about. The government gunning for anyone on benefits is still there, shaming of people who want to look after their kids over work, presenteeism and the overwork badge of honour. The yardstick the government had set up to beat people over the head with in the public sector are still there and have become so stressful that we even have the recent case of the headteacher who committed suicide.
It would be interesting if Bunting could add a chapter now, with her thoughts on how Brexit will hit the UK long term (goodbye rights...) and also the post pandemic world which has hit us with a double edged sword. I personally find being able to work from home twice a week a godsend, but it has also made things like sick leave or looking after a sick child things that can happen whilst you continue working. You do have to be strict. People check emails whilst on leave so they're not hit with a motherload when they come back. Because as staff leave they are not replaced and yet those who remain are expected to cover everything.
I think career snobbery has gotten worse, and with the cost of living crisis it has really shown how bad things are. When people in full time work can not afford to heat their homes and have to go food banks, something is wrong. But as one of our prime ministers last year said, if people can't afford to live, they should just get out and get a better job. No. As a society we need to value jobs better. The carers, the nursery staff, the cafe workers, the refuse collectors, shop workers, delivery drivers, office workers.... a lot of jobs which coincidentally connect into what is seen as women's work and the unpaid and unvalued domain of the old housewife, caring and cleaning. I think it was a Simon Reeve documentary where he went down Devon way, which has become a second home playground for wealthy London, and the local people needed to work at the cafes and shops to keep this holiday dream alive simply can't make ends meet living there. Because they are paid so little. They can work all the hours under the sun and still struggle.
I personally am disillusioned and unchallenged by work, and it is purely to pay the bills. Some of what she says is all good and well, bit bottom line, we have to eat. I have not tried to climb hhe career ladder as I felt it would take all my time from me so I couldn't have my own life, and also pile even more stress than the crap I have had to put up with. And now I am in my 40s and wishing I could have done something more meaningful to me and feeling like I have missed the boat. It is unavoidable in reading this book that you find yourself reflecting on your own situation and working history.
And just how crap it is in the UK. Of how it was Tony Blairs Labour that went gunning for mothers as work is more important to all than little kids (never liked him); or how consumerism and overworking go so hand in hand. So miserable and worn out people need those treats and trips to sustain them, which in turn keeps the dependency on the high wage. And as long as people have amazon to do quick wish fulfillment shopping and more box sets online than you could ever watch, you don't need to stop and think if there could be another way for your life. Which in turn feeds into some of our lifestyle factors that are bad for the environment, for community, for society... it all looks rather hopeless