This is a significant book in today’s world. There is so much negativity, violence, anger, and defensiveness surrounding all of us. We need to learn the skills in order to address our emotions in the midst of today’s world. We feel an emotion and then have a choice to decide how we will meet that emotion in healthy ways. Will we strike out with violence? Will we hold on to those reactionary feelings, our snap reactions, and revisit them again and again?
Dr. Dyer clearly defines the consequences of reactionary living, and then invites the reader to consider a healthier way to center oneself and begin living as a rational, not reactive participant in life. If you find yourself obsessing over conflicts in your life, with reactive or compulsive behaviors, you will find her affirmations of the emotions you may be experiencing and how to choose a better way. Take a break and read this book. You just might find yourself in charge of your emotions instead of someone who allows their emotions to be in charge.
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