This book had me laughing out loud, gasping in astonishment and shaking my head in shame. Two friends, Milena and Lydia go on a journey of self discovery while learning hard lessons along the way.
Milena was that all American girl who was engaged to her first love until she discovers the night before their wedding that he cheated on her at his bachelor party. She cancels the wedding and spends eight years in isolation and manless. When her ex returns, she scrambles to find a mystery boyfriend to throw in his face to prove she's over him, but in actuality, she still loves him. She finds an unlikely candidate in a homeless man, Yosef. Milena learns many things from Yosef, including kindness, how not to be judgmental and realizing her worth. Milena finds love again, but she can't help what her heart also wants. Milena learned how to love herself again and she realized she didn't need a man to be happy.
Lydia was Milena's crazy best friend who was sleeping with two best friends. Glenn was her live-in boyfriend, but she had been sleeping with Phil since before she met Glenn. Lydia enjoyed the stability that Glenn provided and the way he took care of her, but she never truly loved him. She loved Phil's sexual nature but Phil was only sex to her and she constantly reminded him when he hinted at wanting more from their relationship. Lydia was reckless and selfish and felt no other woman could compare to her. She really was an unhappy character that used sex to fill the void of her unsuccessful, disappointing life. She was stuck in her life, with dreams of leaving her small town, but she didn't have the guts to leave.
For both women, it took a drastic event for them to take a really good look at their lives and choose to become better people or to remain stagnant in their unfulfilling existences. This book was a great example of how so many women use sex as a means to express their worth, and how we are defined by the men in our lives. Lydia and Milena proved that they could change their lives for the better with enough drive and confidence.