A little quirk of mine: I judge a book's hold on me by reading the first few lines on the first page. If it captures my attention and makes me want to read more, then I'm sold. (Kind of like "you had me at hello" philosophy applied to books :P)
This book had me at hello, for sure. Given to me by my favorite cousin-now-a-poet for Christmas, it sat on my table together with other "to-read" books. Today I happened to open it, and the very first line I read (in the inner jacket) said
"Have you always wanted to chronicle your experience of motherhood, but never knew how to begin? Are you looking for an outlet for self-expression, but can't imagine how you could juggle one more thing?"
Hmmm. Sounds like me.
Written by Lisa Garrigues, a writing teacher, the book promises to "show readers how everyday life can be a rich source of stories, and how writing can provide a means to both understand and document their experiences. Whether you are a new mother or a grandmother, someone who has long aspired to write or someone who has never written before, Writing Motherhood will help you find your voice and tap into your creative self."
I was totally hooked. Now I can't put the book down.
In her foreword, Lisa Garrigues tells a beautiful story of how she almost didn't write an article that ended up winning a prestigious writing award, in a voice so simple, so natural, and so real that I felt I could be sitting on a porch swing and listening to my friend tell me that very story. She compares all the obstacles that get into the way of writing (and to me, that includes all my other hobbies that have to be set aside when real life calls) to rocks, and provides a very fresh, new way of looking at the quagmire: Don't try to avoid the rocks.
Wow. I like this philosophy.
She says: If you let the obstacles in your life--dishes, diapers, dirty laundry, just plain doubt--mount one on top of the other, you will create a hurdle so high that you will never be able to clear it. If instead you learn to maneuver around the obstacles, bumping into some, bouncing off others... sooner or later you will get where you want to go.
Beautiful.
Among the gifts this book promises to give me are some how-to's: two of these that struck me are How to start and fill a mother's notebook in just 15 minutes a day (great resource for journaling on my layouts!) and How to carve out the time and space for writing. In her review, Katrina Kenison calls this book both a creative writing manual and a mothering memoir... couldn't get any better than that!
I'm off to read more, and when I reach the final page, maybe I'll come back and add another star to the 4 I've already given. :)