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One Year Off: Leaving It All Behind for a Round-the-World Journey with Our Children

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A year off from work. A meandering, serendipitous journey around the globe with the people you love most. No mortgage, no car payments, no pressure. Though it sounds like an impossible dream for most people, one day David Cohen and his family decide to make it a reality. With his wife and three children, Cohen sets off on a rollicking journey, full of laugh-out-loud mishaps, heart-pounding adventures, and unforeseen epiphanies. Readers join the Cohen family and trek up a Costa Rican volcano, roam the Burgundy canals by houseboat, traverse the vast Australian desert, and discover Istanbul by night. Through it all, the family gets the rare opportunity to get to know each other without the mundane distractions of television and video games, discovering the world through new eyes and gaining fresh perspective on life and priorities.

302 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 1999

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Profile Image for Todd N.
361 reviews261 followers
September 20, 2009
This is a book about a suburban family guy who hits 40 and then decides to leave his job, sell his house, and spend a year traveling the world with his wife and three kids. It's an interesting idea, but you need to know up front that he's not a regular guy -- his family was able to send him to Yale, and he became a millionaire around 30 when he sold his book publishing business. They can afford to bring a nanny along, and his wife is fluent in four languages.

So while I identify with the suburban angst and the desire to chuck it all and hit the road, I also understand that these are pretty high-class problems to have. After reading this book I'm not entirely sure that he does.

That said, this book is an interesting read. His kids are mostly bored by the cathedrals and museums of Europe, but they are completely fascinated by Africa. The parents' plan to home school their kids breaks down almost immediately, so they make it up by enrolling their kids in a school in Australia. It's also interesting to read about how some plans just go horribly wrong, which at the beginning of the trip leads to bickering, but later in the trip leads to a more fatalistic view.

This book also shattered my stereotype of the overprotective parents of Marin County. They take their kids camping in Africa (albeit with a guide), and a water buffalo is killed by a pride of lions right by their camp at night. They also wind up missing an outbreak of government violence in Cambodia by less than a day.

Early in the book Mr. Cohen brags that since he graduated from Yale he can never become a bum -- only an eccentric. But I was surprised at how conventional most of the locations they chose and the way they traveled were. The only book he mentions reading during the trip is On The Road, which again seems very conventional.

After reading this book I am a lot warmer to the idea of traveling the world now, which is probably why my wife checked this book out of the library for me. However, I don't think I would enjoy a trip like the one described in this book. Except for the several month stay in Australia and some time on a houseboat, it just seems like a long slog of arriving at a location, seeing the sites, and then jetting off to the next location.

If I were to travel for a year I would pick 12 locations and stay a month in each. It would probably be cheaper, and it would leave more time for hanging out and soaking in the culture a little more. (I also would rent my house instead of selling it. What the hell was he thinking doing that?)

I would be interested to read more about the practical aspects of traveling around the world with a family -- how to access money, the bare minimum of what to pack, how to get kids to behave, how to stay in touch with people back home, etc. Bringing along a nanny so you aren't cock-blocked by the kids for a year is a very good tip.

One last note: I was very distracted while reading this book because I kept wondering how Mr. Cohen was able to get a wife who is so amazingly hot and intelligent. This book doesn't exactly cast him in the best light, and his attempts at being self-deprecating aren't particularly convincing. If this were a fiction book, it would completely prevent the suspension of disbelief. (Unfortunately, I did a search for their family after finishing the book to see what they are up to. I didn't like what I found. Don't do it until after you have read this book.)
Profile Image for Ellen.
138 reviews8 followers
March 23, 2009
The author of this book somehow managed to extract himself entirely from his life as a coffee table book publisher and spend a year traveling around the world with his three children, ages 8, 7, and 2. This is the somewhat straightforward tale of their adventures in Costa Rica, Europe, Africa, Asia, and Australia. I admire the Cohens' adventurousness and their desire to give their children a taste of the wider world. The story is told from the father's point of view exclusively, and it's interesting to read what he perceives as his children's reactions to various aspects of the trip.

I really liked the last chapter of the book, where the family visits a dark cave full of hundreds of carved Buddha statues. The father forgot to bring a flashlight, so he lights matches to illuminate the statues for just a few seconds at a time. He writes:

"Then it struck me that life was like that, too. You light a match, and you're just a child. Light another, and you're married with children of your own. A few more brief, bright flares, and your babies have left home. A few more after that and your pack is used up. That might be why, at the end of our journey, we found ourselves standing in the Buddha caves of Pak Ou. To learn that we only have one pack of matches. To understand that we have to be in the best possible place when we light each one. To know that we must make each brief combustion a bright, shining moment that pierces the darkness and illuminates a thousand gods."
Profile Image for Suzanne.
91 reviews
March 18, 2010
If you're planning a trip abroad with children, this book is invaluable for research. But if you enjoy travel literature (such as Paul Theroux), this book will fall short.

Originally written as a series of emails, the book contains breezy updates from the father of a family who decided to sell their house and travel around the world for a year. While the author (an editor of photography coffee table books) is funny, he is not a shrewd observer of people or places -- or if he is, lacks the writing chops to convey them. He also can't help but show off, in a middle-class way, his familiarity with foreign languages and cultures and overall his rather privileged view on life. The emails-slash-chapter lack the development of overall themes, and he rather abruptly at the end summarizes some conclusions in a "what I learned on my summer vacation" sort of way.

That said, I did enjoy reading about how the parents weren't afraid to travel like locals and bring their children on adventures -- the chapters on traveling through Africa were riveting. The author may write like a dilettante, but put his philosophy into practice and it sounds like the whole family benefited from the trip.

On a side note, the author commented on how the strength of his relationship with his wife, but some brief internet research shows that they've since separated. Since the book never plumbs the depths of the author's relationships with anyone, it's difficult to understand how likely that is.
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686 reviews9 followers
February 27, 2011
This has always been a back-of-my-mind fantasy: to take the kids out of school for a year, quit our jobs, sell our house and travel the world, letting the museums, historical sites and natural wonders be our classrooms.

This author did just that, with his wife and 3 kids aged 3, 7, and 8. Reading his narrative of the year abroad makes me really want to travel the world even more, but makes me want to travel it with my kids a bit less! While it sounds great in theory, I don't think I could manage to stay cheerful with my nearest and dearest, 24/7 amidst jet-lag, strange food, navigating unknown lands,no schedules (or rather, conforming to the kids' schedules) and just letting go. I'm way too type-A.

Nonetheless, it was humorous, cringe-worthy, and downright fascinating to read this book. I don't give it the full 5 stars because of the author's tendency towards pretension. I consider myself fairly educated and well-read and when there are a full 12 words I need to look up in the dictionary, it's a bit much. sybaratic? pulchritude? anyone?

Saving my pennies until my around-the-world trip in 2024...
Profile Image for Lana.
937 reviews
April 5, 2020
A much better travel memoir than At v Home in the World by Tsh Oxenreider. While Oxenreider's book focuses more on navel-gazing and herself, Cohen's book tale gives a great look at what traveling around the world as a family is like. Oxenreider and Cohen traveled to and wrote about some of the same places, which was interesting to compare.

I also appreciated Cohen's candid answer to how much their trip cost. Spoiler: it was a LOT, especially considering their trip took place in the mid-1990s. Sadly, Cohen and his wife divorced several years after the book was published, and I wish that postscript had been left out.

One bone to pick: there are a lot of typos in the ebook version.
53 reviews1 follower
March 21, 2023
Another book that scratched my travel bug itch. I have spent a good amount of time discovering families that take unconventional paths to life and education. This was right at the top of my list. I loved every minute of it. The book is 20+ years old, which also made it a bit fun to read since many aspects of travel planning are completely different now.
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69 reviews
July 23, 2023
Sweet and light book chronicling a family (2 parents, 3 kids, 1 nanny) selling everything and traveling the world. Not a particularly politcally engaged travelogue but a fun and pleasant one.
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87 reviews2 followers
June 30, 2021
Very funny and easy read. Doesn’t glamorize international family travel, but is honest and terrifyingly inspirational at the same time. Only thing I didn’t like was that it was too short, I wanted to know more!
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91 reviews133 followers
January 3, 2022
At the age of forty- the author, David, has a midlife crisis and decides to sell everything him and his wife own- including his business and house in San Francisco in order to travel around the world for a year.

Money is literally no object to the author. He published ‘A Day in the Life of America’ in his twenties- it went on to become number one on The New York Times bestseller list for fifty six consecutive weeks.( He dedicated the first twenty eight pages of the book to flaunt these facts). So I have no idea why he pretends that they “can’t afford” to spend more than $100/day on food for his party of six. He’s desperately trying to come off relatable in the book but it comes off tasteless and tacky. The family spends $125,000 on their “One Year Off”. The author even states, "It cost us less to travel for a year than it would have cost to stay at home for the same period of time."

I wish he had just been honest and upfront that the family had a larger than average budget to spend on their year off. I don't believe anyone has written a book from an upper class perspective regarding their sabbatical.

David, much to his chagrin, tried to sound humble when writing the book but failed. The family hired an au pair from Guatemala to travel abroad with them. They did so in order to have an on-hand nanny that could watch the children while David and his wife went on date nights and excursions.

Page 64:
“Adventure tours, such as they are, tend to attract easy-going traveling companions – not the sort who whine if the soup isn’t hot or there’s a cockroach in the sink. But anyway you cut it, this was still a pre-planned, prepackaged, pre-destined experience-and on that level, it was ultimately unsatisfying.”

Page 125:
While in Florence, Italy- David believes himself to be above the restaurant rules. For lack of a better word- he’s an arrogant, privileged asshole. He shows 0 class to the owner of the Italian restaurant when he is asked to sit in another designated area because where he is currently sitting is closed to the public. David refuses to move, on several occasions- and he has the audacity to be smug about it. David is literally the classic American stereotype of a “stupid American”. This is the perfect example of why countries look down on American tourists.

Page 202:
Wow. I’m just disgusted with the author and his family by the time they arrive in Cape Town, South Africa. I don’t understand how they continue to allude to themselves as travelers when they are literally the worst kind of textbook tourists.

Tell me you’re a spoiled rich kid without saying you’re a spoiled rich kid. This is Kara’s view on poverty in Africa:

Privileged Child #1 🤮: “ Why do we have to keep looking at that? It is just a buncha rundown shacks. ”

On page 204:

David refers to the malnourished children living on the streets in India as “mendicants” aka beggars and then proceeds to “shoo them away” from his own children.

By page 224, it’s blatantly apparent that the family lived and breathed by their Lonely Planet guidebook. Every decision they made was based off their guidebook. If they were in a conundrum and didn’t know where to stay or where to eat they’d turn to their “Lonely Planet Guidebook.” A traveller would never do this. They'd arrive at a new destination- go to the nearest hotel or hostel and thus the adventure would begin. Travellers know that life is all about the journey, rather than the destination.

The book would have been great if the author didn’t come off as such an entitled pompous prick.
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20 reviews3 followers
November 9, 2009
Like the author, we have abandoned our life as we knew it, for a year, with our 4 young children (one still in diapers) and moved abroad. Unlike the other, we moved to a developing country for the entire year, instead of moving constantly country to country. I think I prefer our approach. We have found a great house to live in, getting to know locals on a personal level through church and the kids' schools, struggling with language, and the transitions that kids face in a new home. At times we are REALLY feeling the pains of being foreigners, but mostly we are loving our experience. I did enjoy comparing our year experiences and I appreciated the author's honesty (about the good the bad, finances, mistakes, lessons learned, etc.).
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Author 2 books105 followers
February 29, 2016
Really interesting book, and I loved living vicariously through the Cohen family. It's the next best thing to being there myself, and I liked how David didn't sugar coat anything. Things were the way they were - the good as well as the bad.

A shame that David's emails home became less and less detailed as the time went on - their time in Costa Rica and Europe was wonderfully elaborate, but after that weeks and even months disappeared with no real mention. If it hadn't been for that, I'd have rated it a full 5 stars, but though very understandable, it was a tad frustrating.

Still, he mentioned a lot of places I wanted to go (or go back!) which made for fascinating reading, and all in all I've definitely caught the travel bug!
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December 20, 2013
It starts off really well and incredible that someone actually did this. However I lost interest through the mid of the book only because it becomes more and more a personal tale and I did not find any deep insight. I think what put me off most (not at all any reflection on the book or the author and his adorable family) was that he seemed to have a lot of disposable cash to kind of get around all the things that I would've found frustrating even in a single journey, forget a round-the-world trip! He also has a baby sitter for the whole length of the trip that goes with them - isn't that nice.

Overall though, the writing is interesting and we need more books like these! Maybe I'll go back and finish reading it.
Profile Image for Thomasin Propson.
1,156 reviews23 followers
August 9, 2009
You're in your early 40's, have wife, 3 kids, successful job...what else to do but sell your house and cars, pack a bag for each family member, and head-off on a year-long adventure around the world?!

I enjoyed Cohen's humorous accounts of his family's exploits (from their pre-trip jitters to the animal attack in Africa to learning the difference between Sards and Italians).

Quick fun read which will make you wish you too would decide to ditch your "old" life and start afresh in foreign lands!
Profile Image for Barbara.
39 reviews
August 4, 2010
Plot Summary: A midlife crisis prompts a successful San Francisco book editor to quit his job, sell his house and possessions and take a one-year trip around the world with his wife, three young children and a nanny. Thrilling and at times harrowing, Cohen’s tale, written as a series of email updates to friends, takes you along to experience the sights, sounds and tastes of more than 20 exotic locales, from Costa Rica to Laos.

Appeals: humorous travel memoir; traveling with children; midlife crisis; email format; adventure around the world
25 reviews
May 9, 2012
I am really interested in travelling the world with my husband and 4 children, so I looked forward to this book quite a bit. It was a gift from a well-meaning friend. I was so disappointed! The author's tone was a bit arrogant, major details were omitted (like they spent 6 months in Australia!! They put their kids in schol there! Tell me more!!). Also, they took a nanny and spent a lot of time on planes and in hotels while I was hoping for some low-budget tips. I appreciate and applaud their trip but for me, I hope there are other books to address family RTW trips.
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865 reviews6 followers
December 28, 2012
I really enjoyed reading this family's story in preparation for our sabbatical next year. I'm definitely not ready for a whole year off, just a month, but it was great to read of a family including their small children. Very brave. Well written and enjoyable. I'm just sad that 6 years after their adventure that they were divorced.
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890 reviews1 follower
July 26, 2007
Very interesting to think about doing this - selling your house and packing up everything to travel around the world for one year. The author and his family had a fantastic time.
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664 reviews5 followers
February 19, 2020
I’m not a fan of nonfiction books so I guess this wasn’t terrible. I didn’t particularly enjoy it though I thought it was interesting. It was pretty cool that they managed to have such a great time.
Profile Image for Malin Friess.
815 reviews26 followers
May 17, 2018
Cohen had the courage (and convinced his wife and kids to join him) to quit his job, sell his houseand car and most of his possessions and travel the world for a year. It sounds impossible, but they packed their stuff into a few suitcases and with passports Some people thought they were crazy, others thought they were brilliant--everyone wanted to know how it turned out.

A few tips from the Cohen family-
- The cathedrals, churches, and castles in Europe all start to look the same-- the kids much preferred going on Safari in Botwsana to the Vatican-
- Find a nice beach-- indeed they did in Perth Australia- and they stayed their 3 months and schooled their kids for free in the public schools
- Save you money (food and lodging is expensive)- and they didn't stay in Hostels.
- Avoid expensive pre-scheduled tours-- you can work things out once you get there
- There can be something like "too much family time"
- find the unique--one of their favorite activities was renting a houseboat and traveling the locks and canals of Amsterdam for several days
- Don't try to drive across Australia-- it's 9 straight days of nothing but desert
4 stars.
Profile Image for Farrah.
412 reviews
September 7, 2017
Just finished and absolutely devastated that he glossed over Japan, as that was the part I had been looking forward to the most. I even thought it especially serendipitous that it was towards the end of their trip/book so that it gave me something to look forward to: Westerners in Japan. One of my favorite things.

My other minor issue with this is the formatting; he begins each "chapter" (written in an epistolary format of emails to family and friends) begins with the city they are HEADED to...so, like the heading of the chapter is "Luang Prabang, Laos" but he's in Cambodia for 90% of the chapter. I truly hated this aspect of the book's organization.

What did I like? He's a strong writer, and the fact that he took this around-the-world vacation giving his kids this experience is fucking awesome.
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1,111 reviews8 followers
November 12, 2020
Not being able to travel in the time of COVID has made me turn to books about travel, and this was a fun, easy read. I suppose I struggled a little with his level of privilege - yes, he was lucky enough to have been part of a team that put out a coffee table book that was a best seller and that launched his career. I know he worked hard to maintain that career but it's hard to relate to, and then they took their Guatemalan nanny with them! And when he's able to talk about just putting her on a flight to Switzerland when she might not be able to come to Turkey with them it raises some issues. And then they just live in Sydney, Australia for six months, which kind of leads to my biggest issue with the book is that it was so good in the beginning and then it just bottoms out and goes no where. I'm not saying he got bored with writing about their adventures but *shrug*
27 reviews
December 21, 2020
Interesting idea, and the book is entertaining as a light read in bits. But disappointing for several reasons. Intrepid travellers though they claim to be, the Cohens (particularly the Mr whose thoughts we are privy to) don't exactly step out of their first world lens throughout. I was expecting epiphanies and insights, instead there is a crinkling of noses and ginger stepping around the "third world" in their insulated bubbles, sweeping generalizations and prejudices about lands and peoples from one or two impressions, a self-important tone (despite the sprinkling of self deprecating hahas) with some dutiful cliches about the 'less fortunate' which are stale, rubbery and patronising. If you are expecting travel writing, which is what I was, this is the wrong book. This is a prolonged selfie of the Cohens - the holiday email at the start should have warned me off.
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67 reviews
June 14, 2022
I thoroughly enjoyed the entertaining stories as well as the vivid picture painted by David and his family on their adventures! It takes a lot of guts to do something like this! Going against the norms of our everyday lives!As a fellow nomadic traveling family I fully understand the value David talks about and how it enriches your perspective on life as well as the gift it is to jump out of the rat race we so often let our lives become, spending time with the people that matter and living with less, and seeing how others live outside of our bubble is a wonderful experiment that everyone should try!
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700 reviews1 follower
June 15, 2017
Since there were some places that aren't the typical tourist travel destinations, or at least avoided some of the areas in frequently-visited places, it was pretty good. Overall, the narration became somewhat pretentious (especially the Epilogue) and showed how different the perspective of those who've had resources and opportunities for most of life learn how "the rest of the world" really is. But travel is the greatest gift anyone can give, and learning from others' journeys is often fun, too.
10 reviews5 followers
September 10, 2017
I think many of us fantasize about packing it all up and traveling the world but David actually does this with his family including three kids! It was interesting to hear his thought process and how they approached the trip as well as their lessons learned. They visited a variety of countries not just third world countries that many other backpacker stories seem to focus on. He does a nice job describing places and events although is not overly descriptive. A really enjoyable read, and I was sad when I was done because I wanted to keep going.
23 reviews4 followers
January 15, 2018
To cure his midlife crisis, a father takes his family - including three children under the age of 8 - around the world. Written in a series of emails that he sent to friends and family during their travels, this account is surprisingly funny. The ending is especially poignant - as the author weighed the rewards of the trip against the risks (giving up his job, spending so much "together time" with his wife and kids, plus the dangers of international travel with such young children). Was it worthwhile? I would say a resounding yes, but my book included a thought-provoking afterward.

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704 reviews
February 5, 2018
A wonderful novel about a family that decides to take their children on a year-long trek around the world. The husband/narrator shares the good, and the bad, with lots of humor and insight. I felt like the book could have been twice as long, because I would love to have read more detail about their locations, adventures, and their heart-warming experiences. I also loved the antics that their children pulled, which made traveling with children all the more relatable. A fantastic, feel good novel!
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303 reviews9 followers
August 11, 2018
Thanks Mr. Cohen for your travelogue. Reading this was like listening to stories from acquaintances at dinner parties. Interesting, humorous, encapsulated life experience distilled into narrative with a beginning, middle, end, and moral. I could tell, however, that the author was totally revolutionized by his trip around the world. And I would love to have even a fraction of the experiences that he wrote about. But since his wife, Devi, did most of the trip planning and driving, I actually wish she had been a contributor--or written the book herself.
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2 reviews1 follower
January 18, 2021
I read this book about 10 times in 2004. I borrowed it from the library and it set in motion our family’s greatest adventure. In 2012-2013 our middle class family (that had been saving and dreaming for years) left on a 22 country/8 month adventure. Our daughters are 21 and 17 now and “the trip” is a joy to remember. We are all forever enriched and changed in too many ways to list. My husband and I can’t wait to hit the road again someday for very long term travel. Very inspirational book. Thanks for writing it and planting a beautiful seed.
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75 reviews
April 27, 2021
I loved this book. I laughed quite a bit and loved hearing of the highs and lows.
It was well written and I loved the updates, photos, and FAQs. I cant imagine the work booking a trip like this prior to the internet.

For the people complaining - they seem to only complain about the fact that it takes money to do this... obviously. But people can continue to complain or make it happen. There is a reason this isn't commonplace, it takes hard work, debt payoff, leaving everything you know. Those people just cant get past their jealousy to see what the story was about.

Overall, the book was a fun, motivational read. I hope to do it with my future kids one day.
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