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Milk in My Coffee
From Eric Jerome Dickey comes the New York Times bestselling book that stirred up controversy with its bold portrayal of racial identity and subtle understanding of sexual intimacy. Jordan Greene is in culture shock when he arrives in Manhattan from his Tennessee hometown. Still, he manages to keep the pace and stay in the race, with a Wall Street job, a Queens apartment, and a very sexy girlfriend named J'nette.But when Jordan meets Kimberly Chavers, what starts as a shared cab ride turns into something more. This girl is funny, fiesty, fine...and white. And for a man with Malcolm X's picture hanging on his office wall, that's a definite problem....This brightly entertaining and emotionally complex novel demonstrates why Eric Jerome Dickey was “one of the most successful Black authors of the last quarter-century” (The New York Times).
311 pages, Kindle Edition
First published January 1, 1998
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Eric Jerome Dickey
51 books3,622 followersEric Jerome Dickey was born in Memphis, Tennessee and attended the University of Memphis (the former Memphis State), where he earned his degree in Computer System Technology. In 1983, he moved to Los Angeles to pursue a career in engineering.
After landing a job in the aerospace industry as a software developer, Eric Jerome Dickey's artistic talents surfaced, inspiring him to become an actor and a stand-up comedian. Yet Eric quickly found out that writing was something he could do and do well. From creative writing classes to avidly consuming the works of his favorite authors, Eric Jerome Dickey began to shape a writing career of his own. Having written several scripts for his personal comedy act, he started writing poetry and short stories. "The film work gave me insight into character development, the acting classes helped me understand motivation...All of it goes hand in hand," Eric explains. He joined the IBWA (International Black Writers and Artists), participated in their development workshops, and became a recipient of the IBWA SEED Scholarship to attend UCLA's Creative Writing classes. In 1994 his first published short story, "Thirteen," appeared in the IBWA's River Crossing: Voices of the Diaspora-An Anthology of the International Black Experience. A second short story, "Days Gone By," was published in the magazine A Place to Enter.
With those successes behind him, Eric Jerome Dickey decided to fine-tune some of his earlier work and developed a screenplay called "Cappuccino." "Cappuccino" was directed and produced by Craig Ross, Jr. and appeared in coffee houses around the Los Angeles area. In February 1998, "Cappuccino" made its local debut during the Pan African Film Festival at the Magic Johnson Theater in Los Angeles.
Short stories, though, didn't seem to fulfill Eric Jerome Dickey's creative yearnings. Eric says, "I'd set out to do a ten-page story and it would go on for three hundred pages." So Eric kept writing and reading and sending out query letters for his novels for almost three years until he finally got an agent. "Then a door opened," Eric says. "And I put my foot in before they could close it." And that door has remained opened, as Eric Jerome Dickey's novels have placed him on the map as one of the best writers of contemporary urban fiction.
Eric Jerome Dickey's book signing tours for Sister, Sister; Friends and Lovers; Milk in My Coffee; Cheaters; and Liar's Game took him from coast to coast and helped propel each of these novels to #1 on the "Blackboard Bestsellers List." Cheaters was named "Blackboard Book of the Year" in 2000. In June 2000, Eric Jerome Dickey celebrated the French publication of Milk in My Coffee (Cafe Noisette) by embarking on a book tour to Paris. Soon after, Milk in My Coffee became a bestseller in France. Eric Jerome Dickey's novels, Chasing Destiny, Liar's Game, Between Lovers, Thieves' Paradise, The Other Woman, Drive Me Crazy, Genevieve, Naughty or Nice, Sleeping with Strangers, Waking with Enemies, and Pleasure have all earned him the success of a spot on The New York Times bestseller list. Liar's Game, Thieves' Paradise, The Other Woman, and Genevieve have also given Dickey the added distinction of being nominated for an NAACP Image Award in the category of Outstanding Literary Work in 2001, 2002, 2004, and 2005. In 2006, he was honored with the awards for Best Contemporary Fiction and Author of the Year (Male) at the 2006 African American Literary Award Show. In 2008, Eric was nominated for Storyteller of the Year at the 1st annual ESSENCE Literary Awards. In January 2001, Eric Jerome Dickey was a contributor to New American Library's anthology Got To Be Real: Four Original Love Stories, also a Blackboard Bestseller. He also had a story entitled “Fish Sanwich” appear in the anthology Mothers and Sons. In June 2002, Dickey contributed to Black Silk: A Collection of African American Erotica (Warner Books) as well as to Riots Beneath the Baobab (published by Inte
After landing a job in the aerospace industry as a software developer, Eric Jerome Dickey's artistic talents surfaced, inspiring him to become an actor and a stand-up comedian. Yet Eric quickly found out that writing was something he could do and do well. From creative writing classes to avidly consuming the works of his favorite authors, Eric Jerome Dickey began to shape a writing career of his own. Having written several scripts for his personal comedy act, he started writing poetry and short stories. "The film work gave me insight into character development, the acting classes helped me understand motivation...All of it goes hand in hand," Eric explains. He joined the IBWA (International Black Writers and Artists), participated in their development workshops, and became a recipient of the IBWA SEED Scholarship to attend UCLA's Creative Writing classes. In 1994 his first published short story, "Thirteen," appeared in the IBWA's River Crossing: Voices of the Diaspora-An Anthology of the International Black Experience. A second short story, "Days Gone By," was published in the magazine A Place to Enter.
With those successes behind him, Eric Jerome Dickey decided to fine-tune some of his earlier work and developed a screenplay called "Cappuccino." "Cappuccino" was directed and produced by Craig Ross, Jr. and appeared in coffee houses around the Los Angeles area. In February 1998, "Cappuccino" made its local debut during the Pan African Film Festival at the Magic Johnson Theater in Los Angeles.
Short stories, though, didn't seem to fulfill Eric Jerome Dickey's creative yearnings. Eric says, "I'd set out to do a ten-page story and it would go on for three hundred pages." So Eric kept writing and reading and sending out query letters for his novels for almost three years until he finally got an agent. "Then a door opened," Eric says. "And I put my foot in before they could close it." And that door has remained opened, as Eric Jerome Dickey's novels have placed him on the map as one of the best writers of contemporary urban fiction.
Eric Jerome Dickey's book signing tours for Sister, Sister; Friends and Lovers; Milk in My Coffee; Cheaters; and Liar's Game took him from coast to coast and helped propel each of these novels to #1 on the "Blackboard Bestsellers List." Cheaters was named "Blackboard Book of the Year" in 2000. In June 2000, Eric Jerome Dickey celebrated the French publication of Milk in My Coffee (Cafe Noisette) by embarking on a book tour to Paris. Soon after, Milk in My Coffee became a bestseller in France. Eric Jerome Dickey's novels, Chasing Destiny, Liar's Game, Between Lovers, Thieves' Paradise, The Other Woman, Drive Me Crazy, Genevieve, Naughty or Nice, Sleeping with Strangers, Waking with Enemies, and Pleasure have all earned him the success of a spot on The New York Times bestseller list. Liar's Game, Thieves' Paradise, The Other Woman, and Genevieve have also given Dickey the added distinction of being nominated for an NAACP Image Award in the category of Outstanding Literary Work in 2001, 2002, 2004, and 2005. In 2006, he was honored with the awards for Best Contemporary Fiction and Author of the Year (Male) at the 2006 African American Literary Award Show. In 2008, Eric was nominated for Storyteller of the Year at the 1st annual ESSENCE Literary Awards. In January 2001, Eric Jerome Dickey was a contributor to New American Library's anthology Got To Be Real: Four Original Love Stories, also a Blackboard Bestseller. He also had a story entitled “Fish Sanwich” appear in the anthology Mothers and Sons. In June 2002, Dickey contributed to Black Silk: A Collection of African American Erotica (Warner Books) as well as to Riots Beneath the Baobab (published by Inte
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February 22, 2023
I was so sad to heard of Eric Jerome Dickey’s passing last month so I decided to take a trip back down memory lane. I’m not much of a re-reader and I have to admit I was a little hesitant to pick up Milk in My Coffee in case I didn’t enjoy it as much the second time around. The good news is, despite it being 25 years since this book was published, it has aged pretty well (the blasé attitude regarding using protection excluded, obviously). Dickey’s books were brought to my attention by a co-worker back when I was just a young pup. I’m sure I offered her nothing but garbage in return, but she introduced to me to Black authors like him and Terry McMillan who wrote romance with some more meat on its bones than I was used to and I am eternally grateful. Per usual, there’s no point in my attempting to write much of a review. I’m simply thankful to have read him and to have been lucky enough to always have a booknerd cohort or two wherever I’ve worked who are willing to swap recommendations (and who aren’t judgey when mine tend to wander toward the psycho side).
February 20, 2021
I found this EJD a bit too convoluted and less focussed than works of his I've enjoyed. 5 of 10 stars
August 17, 2014
I read this book over 10 years ago. It's still one of my favorite EJD novels. Interracial dating always sparks controversy in various communities. I loved how the author developed the characters and the different twists you don't see coming throughout the book. A quick and easy read worth checking out.
May 25, 2017
I throughly enjoyed this book. I approached this book expecting something completely different than what I got. The story was excellent. It seemed to drag a little bit at parts but it still kept my attention. I really liked the intricate character struggles the author displayed throughout the story. His writing style is amazing. I love how he steps aside as the author and allow the narrator to speak. Each time the narrator switched, you could see there was a different voice. I am a late bloomer. I avoided reading Eric Jerome Dickey's books for a long time because I assumed they were all romance and erotica. I was so wrong. So I've determined to read all of his books in order of publication date. I'll exclude the Gideon series since I've already read those. So far, I'm enjoying my EJD journey.....If you haven't read this book, check it out. It's definitely worth the read.
March 29, 2024
Milk in My Coffee deals with a modern day interracial relationship, the point of view alternating between a black man and white woman. Had the setting not been contemporary, it may have dealt with lynch mobs and featured life and death drama. Instead it's about trying to make a relationship work, which is difficult enough when skin tones match, extra challenging sometimes when they don't.
May 19, 2021
zero bars, no points were made! i read this because its considered a classic and ive been reading iconic 90s black fiction, but this.....it felt like a biracial panic themed minstrel show. too many cruel depictions of black women. constant and strangely inserted fatphobia. weird descriptions of Southerners and dialect. also felt weirdly classist at times? idk--overall it felt like a convuluted mess of a failed psedu-racists soap opera, and i honeslty cant believe it was so highly regarded when it came out. i gave it two stars because if nothing else, the ridiculous plot twists were entertaining.
February 7, 2020
When Jordan Greene moved from west Tennessee to New York City, it was definite culture shock. He went from a slow paced, laid back lifestyle to fast paced. People were everywhere and always in a hurry. Getting your toes stepped on was a daily fact of life — and not cause for profuse apologies like in the South. Yet, adjusting to city life was simple compared to when he jumps in a cab with Kimberly Chavers.
Kimberly Chavers is a red-headed white woman, a free spirit, and an artist. Jordan finds himself immediately drawn to her. The problem is he’s never dated a white woman before. Back home, it was something that wasn’t done. It isn’t something that’s done with his black friends in the city either. He can’t help but notice the looks and hear the comments. Yet, his brief relationship with his girlfriend J’nette is all but over, and Kimberly’s personality and kisses are a lure he can’t resist. After what was supposed to be a hookup, they start dating. It doesn’t take long for both of them to fall in love.
The question is can they make their new relationship work? Jordan’s friends and family are less than accepting of his new white girlfriend. Plus, J’nette’s pregnant. And while Kimberly tells him she’s single and has never dated a black man before, the truth is a little more complicated and something Jordan may not find easy to accept.
I’ve long been a fan of Eric Jerome Dickey. He always steps out of the way of his writing and allows his characters to come to life on the page — and tell their stories from their individual perspective, without author interference. It makes his stories feel authentic and the characters feel real. His books read almost like memoirs. “Milk in My Coffee” is no exception.
“Milk in My Coffee” isn’t just a romance or urban fiction novel. It goes much deeper than that to address some important issues. As a white girl, I grew up in a very white area in which nice white girls didn’t date black men. It wasn’t a belief to which I subscribed, but I knew it was shared by many others. I knew it, then I felt it. I saw their glares. I felt those glares, hot on my back. I heard some comments, but the worst of them were repeated to me by those who thought I should care what others said, including my father. I dated a kind, compassionate, educated black man, but his character made no difference to them.
I never thought for a second that he faced the same critical, hurtful l treatment. While I always knew there were people (both black and white) who didn’t agree with interracial dating, I never knew such vitriol existed on both sides. Because of that, “Milk in My Coffee” was an eye-opener. It exposed my naivete. It also revealed stereotypes I’ve bought into without realizing it. I strive daily to be a white anti-racist, but books like this make me realize how far I still need to go. It makes me realize how far we all still need to go.
“Milk in My Coffee” is a attention-grabbing, addictive read. It’s a work of fiction that grabbed me by my feels. I love when a novel is written so well that it does that. I blew threw over half of the book the first night. It started to drag a little between the middle and the end. Otherwise, I might have read the 300-some pages in one sitting, instead of going to bed.
Just one warning. While some of Eric Jerome Dickey’s books are erotic and X-rated, “Milk in My Coffee” is more R-rated. There are a few hot scenes, but Dickey takes a deeper dive into the characters, their lives, and their pasts than he does the sex. Jordan and Kimberly are a hot couple — one that you’ll want to end up happily ever after. But most of their sex life will be left up to your imagination.
Kimberly Chavers is a red-headed white woman, a free spirit, and an artist. Jordan finds himself immediately drawn to her. The problem is he’s never dated a white woman before. Back home, it was something that wasn’t done. It isn’t something that’s done with his black friends in the city either. He can’t help but notice the looks and hear the comments. Yet, his brief relationship with his girlfriend J’nette is all but over, and Kimberly’s personality and kisses are a lure he can’t resist. After what was supposed to be a hookup, they start dating. It doesn’t take long for both of them to fall in love.
The question is can they make their new relationship work? Jordan’s friends and family are less than accepting of his new white girlfriend. Plus, J’nette’s pregnant. And while Kimberly tells him she’s single and has never dated a black man before, the truth is a little more complicated and something Jordan may not find easy to accept.
I’ve long been a fan of Eric Jerome Dickey. He always steps out of the way of his writing and allows his characters to come to life on the page — and tell their stories from their individual perspective, without author interference. It makes his stories feel authentic and the characters feel real. His books read almost like memoirs. “Milk in My Coffee” is no exception.
“Milk in My Coffee” isn’t just a romance or urban fiction novel. It goes much deeper than that to address some important issues. As a white girl, I grew up in a very white area in which nice white girls didn’t date black men. It wasn’t a belief to which I subscribed, but I knew it was shared by many others. I knew it, then I felt it. I saw their glares. I felt those glares, hot on my back. I heard some comments, but the worst of them were repeated to me by those who thought I should care what others said, including my father. I dated a kind, compassionate, educated black man, but his character made no difference to them.
I never thought for a second that he faced the same critical, hurtful l treatment. While I always knew there were people (both black and white) who didn’t agree with interracial dating, I never knew such vitriol existed on both sides. Because of that, “Milk in My Coffee” was an eye-opener. It exposed my naivete. It also revealed stereotypes I’ve bought into without realizing it. I strive daily to be a white anti-racist, but books like this make me realize how far I still need to go. It makes me realize how far we all still need to go.
“Milk in My Coffee” is a attention-grabbing, addictive read. It’s a work of fiction that grabbed me by my feels. I love when a novel is written so well that it does that. I blew threw over half of the book the first night. It started to drag a little between the middle and the end. Otherwise, I might have read the 300-some pages in one sitting, instead of going to bed.
Just one warning. While some of Eric Jerome Dickey’s books are erotic and X-rated, “Milk in My Coffee” is more R-rated. There are a few hot scenes, but Dickey takes a deeper dive into the characters, their lives, and their pasts than he does the sex. Jordan and Kimberly are a hot couple — one that you’ll want to end up happily ever after. But most of their sex life will be left up to your imagination.
August 3, 2019
I know what the author was trying to do, but I didn't like it. I got the message though. But boy did EDJ make 99% of the Black women bitter, angry, sneaky, violent and/or greedy. I don't necessarily like the title for the book but I kinda get it. I didn't enjoy his style of writing either, especially when it came to the back story. It took me a while to read because of it. But I did really appreciate the imagery. I felt like I was cold in New York & miserably hot in Tennessee. Can Jordan get his $300 though?
February 16, 2021
Genre: Contemporary Fiction
318 pages
In honor of the late @ericjeromedickey, my book club decided to discuss this book. I’m glad I decided to re-read it, because I realized how on point the author was, when referencing social issues. Colorism, addictions, deceit; just to name a few, can be found within this classic novel.
My favorite character is definitely Jordan and my least favorite is a tie between J’nette and Solomon.
I highly recommend this 💎💎💎💎💎book, and look forward to reading the entire catalog.
318 pages
In honor of the late @ericjeromedickey, my book club decided to discuss this book. I’m glad I decided to re-read it, because I realized how on point the author was, when referencing social issues. Colorism, addictions, deceit; just to name a few, can be found within this classic novel.
My favorite character is definitely Jordan and my least favorite is a tie between J’nette and Solomon.
I highly recommend this 💎💎💎💎💎book, and look forward to reading the entire catalog.
April 8, 2019
I'm on a mission to power through Dickey's classics. This was a fun and interesting read though at some points the storyline felt a bit forced. And though some of the ideas are a little outdated in the book, it was an interesting take on how others can work through the difficulties of interracial dating.
September 27, 2010
This story of a black man who gets romantically involved with a white woman is mostly of it is told from his point of view (with a few sections from her point of view). I enjoyed it; it doesn't read like a romance, but it is a good story with a emphasis on the relationship and an interesting twist at the end.
Confession time though: as a white middle-class female, I couldn't help but find some of the narrator's opinions offensive (for example, he compares a co-worker who stupidly says something about being glad he's not "like" a group of rowdy black janitors to a full fledged KKK member -- not exactly the same thing -- while he excuses his brother's hostile and disrespectful attitude towards women -- calling all women "b***h" for example -- because of his hard life). Also he spends a lot of his mental energy dividing the world into "us" and "them", but is extremely touchy when others do the same thing. All in all, though, this was fast-moving, compelling, and in the end satisfying. A good bet if you're tired of the same-old, same-old.
Confession time though: as a white middle-class female, I couldn't help but find some of the narrator's opinions offensive (for example, he compares a co-worker who stupidly says something about being glad he's not "like" a group of rowdy black janitors to a full fledged KKK member -- not exactly the same thing -- while he excuses his brother's hostile and disrespectful attitude towards women -- calling all women "b***h" for example -- because of his hard life). Also he spends a lot of his mental energy dividing the world into "us" and "them", but is extremely touchy when others do the same thing. All in all, though, this was fast-moving, compelling, and in the end satisfying. A good bet if you're tired of the same-old, same-old.
January 20, 2021
The title for Mi Does Not Work tho I do get the gist of it.....I needed clarity, was it the Truth or a Lie? Lol
January 24, 2021
Wanted to like it and maybe I would have after the first 25% but I couldn’t do it any longer. I started it because of the author’s recent death (sadly) and was looking forward to another voice in my world but the characters never rose off the page for me. Everything felt flat and single digit dimensional with tropes and stereotypes abounding in all the characters. I never liked any of the characters no cared enough to not like them, never knew nor got curious about another layer in their back story. And didn’t come to the book for the well described erotic edge. So, it’s not for me. I’m glad he found his following with many loyal fans though!
January 10, 2021
Great read
This was a pretty good read for me. It touches on a lot of reality in interracial relationships. The book did have me laughing in certain parts and horrified in others. It's a book that you can't put down once you really get into it. Looking forward to reading some of his other books.
This was a pretty good read for me. It touches on a lot of reality in interracial relationships. The book did have me laughing in certain parts and horrified in others. It's a book that you can't put down once you really get into it. Looking forward to reading some of his other books.
January 31, 2025
Very enlightening book.Jordan seemed like a good dude who had his fair share of getting done wrong by women smh I just wanted to jump in the book and beat all their asses Jordan was a good black man & back then they were hard to find and today they're non-existent. The same way Jordan was raised to see ponc ! I was raised the same way. . . Jordan's POV on things were what made the book interesting the dialogue with his friends were interesting as well . . . This book was a great honest hearted read . .
I was really rooting for Jordan & Kimberly because I hated that bitch Janette it was like she only came around to make Jordan's life a living hell . . . She was a bitch and Jordan still respected her . . . Just like women have a breaking point so do men!!!! This is another Eric Jerome Dickey book I liked . . . <333 I wonder is Kimberly & Jordan Inda,Valerie,& Thadeus parents (from Sister,Sister another one of my favorite books by EJD).......
I was really rooting for Jordan & Kimberly because I hated that bitch Janette it was like she only came around to make Jordan's life a living hell . . . She was a bitch and Jordan still respected her . . . Just like women have a breaking point so do men!!!! This is another Eric Jerome Dickey book I liked . . . <333 I wonder is Kimberly & Jordan Inda,Valerie,& Thadeus parents (from Sister,Sister another one of my favorite books by EJD).......
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February 3, 2023dnf @ ~50%
i was intrigued by the story and how it would develop, but after a while, i realized i was skimming because the relationships were just super complicated. the attraction between kimberly and jordan happened pretty quickly (within a cab ride). since i didn't finish the book, i decided to not rate any stars.
i was intrigued by the story and how it would develop, but after a while, i realized i was skimming because the relationships were just super complicated. the attraction between kimberly and jordan happened pretty quickly (within a cab ride). since i didn't finish the book, i decided to not rate any stars.
July 25, 2025
Eric Jerome Dickey's "Milk in My Coffee" deeply explores the complexities of love and societal expectations through the compelling story of Jordan Greene. After moving from the deep South to New York City, Jordan finds himself in a vibrant romance with Kimberly, a vivacious young white woman. This novel powerfully navigates the challenges inherent in an interracial relationship, compelling Jordan to examine his own values and courageously stand against the expectations of his friends and family.
I've consistently found that Dickey excels at crafting emotionally complex narratives, and this book is a prime example. It skillfully addresses various significant social issues such as colorism, addiction, and deceit, seamlessly weaving them into the intricate lives of the characters. I particularly appreciated the dynamic narrative style, which masterfully incorporates different voices and perspectives, offering rich and intricate insights into the characters' struggles and motivations. Jordan's point of view, coupled with his authentic dialogues with his friends, was particularly engaging and a highlight of the reading experience.
The story is characterized by a series of unexpected twists and turns that genuinely kept me captivated and on my toes, especially as the plot intensified towards the latter half of the book. For me, the journey was a compelling and honest exploration of the realities within interracial relationships, providing moments that evoked both laughter and profound reflection. The ending, I felt, was deeply satisfying and expertly tied together the various threads of the story, leaving a strong sense of completion.
While the initial sections of the book had a more deliberate pace, requiring a bit of time to fully immerse myself, this build-up ultimately served to deepen my connection with the characters and the unfolding drama. Once I was truly immersed, the book became incredibly difficult to put down.
"Milk in My Coffee" stands as a powerful testament to Eric Jerome Dickey's exceptional storytelling prowess. It offers a candid and insightful look at love across cultural divides and the significant personal growth that emerges from challenging societal norms. I wholeheartedly recommend this read to anyone who appreciates contemporary fiction that tackles real-world issues with emotional depth, compelling character arcs, and truly unexpected plot developments.
Rating: 4/5 stars
My Rating System:
1⭐️: The book didn’t hold my interest and/or had significant issues that overshadowed any redeeming qualities for me, but generally not my cup of tea. Most likely did not finish the book.
2⭐️: The book didn’t quite resonate with me, and while my experience wasn’t remarkable, I did finish it. It had some redeeming qualities and potential but fell short in execution. Recommendable, though with some reservations.
3⭐️: Good read, but didn’t quite stand out. Still worth recommending to others.
4⭐️: Really enjoyed it and stayed engaged throughout. Would read the book again. Definitely recommendable.
5⭐️: Incredible writing that made me deeply connect with the characters. I was completely absorbed in the world and didn’t want it to end. This book stayed with me even when I wasn’t reading it. I'd gladly reread it and highly recommend it to everyone!
I've consistently found that Dickey excels at crafting emotionally complex narratives, and this book is a prime example. It skillfully addresses various significant social issues such as colorism, addiction, and deceit, seamlessly weaving them into the intricate lives of the characters. I particularly appreciated the dynamic narrative style, which masterfully incorporates different voices and perspectives, offering rich and intricate insights into the characters' struggles and motivations. Jordan's point of view, coupled with his authentic dialogues with his friends, was particularly engaging and a highlight of the reading experience.
The story is characterized by a series of unexpected twists and turns that genuinely kept me captivated and on my toes, especially as the plot intensified towards the latter half of the book. For me, the journey was a compelling and honest exploration of the realities within interracial relationships, providing moments that evoked both laughter and profound reflection. The ending, I felt, was deeply satisfying and expertly tied together the various threads of the story, leaving a strong sense of completion.
While the initial sections of the book had a more deliberate pace, requiring a bit of time to fully immerse myself, this build-up ultimately served to deepen my connection with the characters and the unfolding drama. Once I was truly immersed, the book became incredibly difficult to put down.
"Milk in My Coffee" stands as a powerful testament to Eric Jerome Dickey's exceptional storytelling prowess. It offers a candid and insightful look at love across cultural divides and the significant personal growth that emerges from challenging societal norms. I wholeheartedly recommend this read to anyone who appreciates contemporary fiction that tackles real-world issues with emotional depth, compelling character arcs, and truly unexpected plot developments.
Rating: 4/5 stars
My Rating System:
1⭐️: The book didn’t hold my interest and/or had significant issues that overshadowed any redeeming qualities for me, but generally not my cup of tea. Most likely did not finish the book.
2⭐️: The book didn’t quite resonate with me, and while my experience wasn’t remarkable, I did finish it. It had some redeeming qualities and potential but fell short in execution. Recommendable, though with some reservations.
3⭐️: Good read, but didn’t quite stand out. Still worth recommending to others.
4⭐️: Really enjoyed it and stayed engaged throughout. Would read the book again. Definitely recommendable.
5⭐️: Incredible writing that made me deeply connect with the characters. I was completely absorbed in the world and didn’t want it to end. This book stayed with me even when I wasn’t reading it. I'd gladly reread it and highly recommend it to everyone!
March 20, 2025
It was cute. Just cute. Slow. A bit boring. Didn’t pick up until toward the end of the middle. Took me too long to read it. Wouldn’t read it again.
Eh.
Eh.
October 21, 2013
Jordan Green is not out looking for love but when he meets a Kimberly Chavers; he stars to have second thoughts. Kimberly is unlike any other woman he has know, she is funny, feisty and has a backbone. The only problem is that she is white and he is currently in a relationship with J'nette. J'nette and Kimberly are opposite, not just in race but how they interact with Jordan. While J'nette continues to irritate Jordan with her constant need of affection, Jordan is starting to grow closer to Kimberly. Often he spends more quality time with her, as they bond over family values and love. Soon the two of them become so attached that Jordan friends question if what he has with Kimberly is authentic or a phase.
I have read a previous book by this author and did not enjoy it at all. However this one was a decent book that challenged the stereotypes in the urban community.Also the characters were fresh, it reminded me of modern day people. On the other hand, the story was somewhat inconsistent. I grew tired of the same encounters Kimberly and Jordan had, not to mention the irrelevant details throughout the story.
Despite that, I will be reading more novels by Dickey, he reminds me of a male Terry McMillian.
I have read a previous book by this author and did not enjoy it at all. However this one was a decent book that challenged the stereotypes in the urban community.Also the characters were fresh, it reminded me of modern day people. On the other hand, the story was somewhat inconsistent. I grew tired of the same encounters Kimberly and Jordan had, not to mention the irrelevant details throughout the story.
Despite that, I will be reading more novels by Dickey, he reminds me of a male Terry McMillian.
December 19, 2021
I really wanted to like this book. The premise is great, and it's written from a perspective that's not as common as it should be. A lot happens and it covers a lot of topics, but some of the "twists" seem really ham-fisted.
Much of the dialogue between men is normal, but as soon as it switches to the female protagonist's perspective, it becomes cringey and awkward, like the author isn't actually very close to any women.
It feels forced and superficial at points, almost "men writing women" material, because they're always giggling and talking about sex, and no matter who the narrator is, they are always speaking as if they're rolling their eyes at someone, so it's not the most convincing portrayal of different characters.
No one really has much depth - a lot of time is spent detailing commutes and meals and watching TV, but there's no sense of how the characters felt about any of those things. It could be argued that that was the point, except for the fact that the main story arc revolves around all of their built-up frustration.
The start was slow, then too many things happening at once, and then an abrupt ending that made it seem like a mediocre romance.
Much of the dialogue between men is normal, but as soon as it switches to the female protagonist's perspective, it becomes cringey and awkward, like the author isn't actually very close to any women.
It feels forced and superficial at points, almost "men writing women" material, because they're always giggling and talking about sex, and no matter who the narrator is, they are always speaking as if they're rolling their eyes at someone, so it's not the most convincing portrayal of different characters.
No one really has much depth - a lot of time is spent detailing commutes and meals and watching TV, but there's no sense of how the characters felt about any of those things. It could be argued that that was the point, except for the fact that the main story arc revolves around all of their built-up frustration.
The start was slow, then too many things happening at once, and then an abrupt ending that made it seem like a mediocre romance.
May 6, 2017
This was an interesting look at African American culture and how it can clash with Caucasians, especially when it comes to dating. Dickey's writing is what kept me drawn in - the flow of the words, the slang, and the general descriptions just seemed to be a little bit special. In its essence, it is a romance novel (not the type of book I usually gravitate towards!), and although the characters don't necessarily stand out, the writing kept my attention and I kept wanting to know what was going to happen next. The ending surprised me, so that's always a plus.
March 23, 2020
My expectations were much higher. The story was just okay and I didn’t like abrupt ending. The main two characters had so much potential but the random plot lines and distractions from peripheral characters took away from the story.
September 21, 2007
mildly entertaining beach book written by a man who, i suspect, doesn't actually like women very much.
August 3, 2016
I don't usually read this kind of book, but if I'm being honest I must admit that it was thoroughly enjoyable. Eric Jerome Dickey is a very talented storyteller.
May 14, 2021
4.8 stars
This story was so well written, and Jordan and Kimberly’s pov were very well established. I loved the beginning and middle. It’s not quite 5 stars because the ending was a bit quick with Kimberly proposing on the plane from Jordan’s pov so we miss Kimberly’s thought process about moving to California.
Even though this book is a product of its time, it’s still relevant.
But I don’t know what to think of the plot twist that Kimberly is mixed. It was well executed but changed the tone of the story maybe too far in. Jordan’s reaction is understandable, he’s confused and has his own experiences with racism and colorism.
The synopsis on the back said she’s white and for the majority of the book she lets people assume that. And she is, and she’s also black and shouldn’t be forced to pick one. It could be because it’s the 90s, Jordan immediately applies the black identity on her when he finds out. Kimberly’s perspective and own experiences were very interesting and the author executed this plot twist very well though. It makes sense but I didn’t expect it. And I think that’s realistic that in the real world you don’t know a person’s heritage and it’s not anyone’s business unless you want them to know.
I went into reading this thinking it was an adult, semi-romance book of an interracial couple that resembled my own and even though it’s still about an interracial couple, I didn’t expect the themes that came out of it—good themes though. The themes are relevant and revolve around the identity of race and how that’s only one factor of a person. Kimberly even says she’s still who she is no matter what and Jordan knows he needs to come to terms with that it doesn’t matter while it seems like it also does. but I can’t help but wonder why couldn’t she just be white? Revealing that she’s mixed made it seem as a relief, like better than just white? So the tone shifted because of that. It’s not bad it just was unexpected.
Honestly I still want a book/more books of a couple that resembles my own. Kimberley was close with the German ancestry and red hair. Her experiences could be what my future children(?) would experience unless things change in society where mixed people don’t have to choose only one or face racism even from their own family. This book is 20 years old and still relevant.
It’s sad that Dickey passed away though I would of loved to read a sequel.
I also really liked Zoe, and her conversations with Jordan about skintone, and I liked that the author didn’t leave lose ends and even resolved somewhat Kimberly’s relationship with her dad.
This story was so well written, and Jordan and Kimberly’s pov were very well established. I loved the beginning and middle. It’s not quite 5 stars because the ending was a bit quick with Kimberly proposing on the plane from Jordan’s pov so we miss Kimberly’s thought process about moving to California.
Even though this book is a product of its time, it’s still relevant.
But I don’t know what to think of the plot twist that Kimberly is mixed. It was well executed but changed the tone of the story maybe too far in. Jordan’s reaction is understandable, he’s confused and has his own experiences with racism and colorism.
The synopsis on the back said she’s white and for the majority of the book she lets people assume that. And she is, and she’s also black and shouldn’t be forced to pick one. It could be because it’s the 90s, Jordan immediately applies the black identity on her when he finds out. Kimberly’s perspective and own experiences were very interesting and the author executed this plot twist very well though. It makes sense but I didn’t expect it. And I think that’s realistic that in the real world you don’t know a person’s heritage and it’s not anyone’s business unless you want them to know.
I went into reading this thinking it was an adult, semi-romance book of an interracial couple that resembled my own and even though it’s still about an interracial couple, I didn’t expect the themes that came out of it—good themes though. The themes are relevant and revolve around the identity of race and how that’s only one factor of a person. Kimberly even says she’s still who she is no matter what and Jordan knows he needs to come to terms with that it doesn’t matter while it seems like it also does. but I can’t help but wonder why couldn’t she just be white? Revealing that she’s mixed made it seem as a relief, like better than just white? So the tone shifted because of that. It’s not bad it just was unexpected.
Honestly I still want a book/more books of a couple that resembles my own. Kimberley was close with the German ancestry and red hair. Her experiences could be what my future children(?) would experience unless things change in society where mixed people don’t have to choose only one or face racism even from their own family. This book is 20 years old and still relevant.
It’s sad that Dickey passed away though I would of loved to read a sequel.
I also really liked Zoe, and her conversations with Jordan about skintone, and I liked that the author didn’t leave lose ends and even resolved somewhat Kimberly’s relationship with her dad.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
May 15, 2023
Recommended to me by a woman in the Romance Readers Club.
Boy meets girl in New York, a little while ago. But it is set deep in the Black community -- the woman who recommended described it as one completely focused on Black readers, to the point where she wasn't sure White people could appreciate it. So of course I had to read it.
Boy meets girl in New York, a little while ago. But it is set deep in the Black community -- the woman who recommended described it as one completely focused on Black readers, to the point where she wasn't sure White people could appreciate it. So of course I had to read it.
April 13, 2020
Well. Let me start by saying I would recommend this book. I have to say at first when reading it it was a bit slow and it was kind of out of date.
We're living in 2020 but then I had to remember the book was published in the '90s so I had to take off my 2020 glasses and put on my '90 glasses to be able to connect with the setting.
After that the story was really good. I enjoyed reading it. I like the characters they were all very defined characters. I also like the fact that the story was told from both points of views it was almost like getting a woman's version and a man's version of the same situation.
The idea of black and white interracial couples, I don't think it's prevalent today but we are still living in the age of black and white. I was able to personally connect with a lot of the conflicts that the characters went through.
But, those conflicts just weren't so jaw dropping. That's what lost it for me.
We're living in 2020 but then I had to remember the book was published in the '90s so I had to take off my 2020 glasses and put on my '90 glasses to be able to connect with the setting.
After that the story was really good. I enjoyed reading it. I like the characters they were all very defined characters. I also like the fact that the story was told from both points of views it was almost like getting a woman's version and a man's version of the same situation.
The idea of black and white interracial couples, I don't think it's prevalent today but we are still living in the age of black and white. I was able to personally connect with a lot of the conflicts that the characters went through.
But, those conflicts just weren't so jaw dropping. That's what lost it for me.
July 23, 2022
I can’t remember ever reading this book back in the day so I definitely was excited to grab myself a copy & finally reading it & guess what? I LOVED IT! From the first chapter I was glued to it until I finished the book. It was sooooo funny & just what I needed! 𝙈𝙞𝙡𝙠 𝙄𝙣 𝙈𝙮 𝘾𝙤𝙛𝙛𝙚𝙚 explores the complexities of a black man, Jordan, dating a black woman, J’nette & a white woman, Kimberly. Jordan’s family, particularly his brother, gives him such a hard time about dating Kimberly because she is white & he notices all the stares when they’re out together which makes him feel a type of way.
It’s told in alternating POV between Jordan & Kimberly allowing you to get to know them on a deeper level. I appreciated the thoughtfulness of their character development & the twists make take this book a notch higher. The only thing that doesn’t make this a 5⭐️ for me was that it starts to drag a little in the middle into the end a bit- I wish it was a bit shorter. Nonetheless, a great book that forces you to examine biases on interracial dating- whether your own or those you’ve experienced personally. I plan to read his other books now that I’m older to see how I still like them.
🕊 RIP to an amazing author!
It’s told in alternating POV between Jordan & Kimberly allowing you to get to know them on a deeper level. I appreciated the thoughtfulness of their character development & the twists make take this book a notch higher. The only thing that doesn’t make this a 5⭐️ for me was that it starts to drag a little in the middle into the end a bit- I wish it was a bit shorter. Nonetheless, a great book that forces you to examine biases on interracial dating- whether your own or those you’ve experienced personally. I plan to read his other books now that I’m older to see how I still like them.
🕊 RIP to an amazing author!
February 10, 2023
When small town, southern-born Jordan Greene shares a cab with Kimberly Chavers on a frigid NYC winter day, life changes. They just click, quite unexpectedly. Jordan is a black computer nerd with posters of Malcolm X and Martin Luther King, Jr. on his office wall, and Kimberly is a free-spirited artist with creamy white skin and flaming red curly hair. I think I went into this with a presumption that it was a romance, and the first romance I've read that was written by a man. But it was much more than just a romance... it was really a story about life and how difficult it can be, and how sweet. About race, friendship, family, and yes, Jordan and Kimberly's relationship as it grows. Definitely will be reading some more Eric Jerome Dickey!
February 6, 2018
Another one
Another great read as expected. By now I know there are unexpected twists and turns and I tried to anticipate them in this book and boy my mind was still blown.
Another great read as expected. By now I know there are unexpected twists and turns and I tried to anticipate them in this book and boy my mind was still blown.
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