Dr. Tim Kimmel is one of America's top advocates speaking for the family. He is the Executive Director of Family Matters, whose goal is to build great relationships by educating, equipping and encouraging families for every age and stage of life. Tim conducts conferences across the country on the unique pressures that confront today's families. His conferences include: Home Improvement: Building a Great Marriage, Basic Training For A Few Good Men, Raising Kids Who Turn Out Right, and Parenting 101. In addition to conducting Family Matters' conferences and keynote speaking, Tim and his wife, Darcy, are speakers for FamilyLife Ministry's Weekend To Remember conference.
Not only is Tim a well-known speaker, he has authored many books including: Little House on the Freeway (featured in the Billy Graham crusades), Gold Medallion Winner Grace Based Parenting, Raising Kids for True Greatness, 50 Ways to Really Love Your Kids, Raising Kids Who Turn Out Right, Why Christian Kids Rebel, The High Cost of High Control, and Basic Training For A Few Good Men. He has also developed several video studies including The Hurried Family, Basic Training For A Few Good Men, Raising Kids Who Turn Out Right, and Grandparenthood: More Than Rocking Chairs.
Tim has been a featured guest on radio and television programs such as Dayside on FOX News channel, Dr. James Dobson's 'Focus on the Family', 'The 700 Club', Moody Broadcasting's 'Midday Connection', and 'Family Life Today.' Tim also hosted his own nationally syndicated talk show for five years called 'Tim Kimmel Live'.
The first time I read this, in 2001, I considered it an excellent book about the various kinds of 'controlling' people, and how to work under grace instead.
Re-reading it twelve years later, I found it interesting, but it didn't feel particularly brilliant. Perhaps because I had read it before; perhaps because in the meantime I've read so many other books about personalities, emotional vampiers, and controllers in general.
Still, worth reading, for Christians and non-Christians alike. Some interesting anecdotes, and advice for people coming across controlling folk, whether in the family, at work, or in churches.
Although this is an older book, it is a good introduction to manipulative, passive aggressive, and emotional personalities. I enjoyed this book as a high-schooled student. My first view into the world of unstable emotional relationships.