Initially, I planned to give this book 2 stars, based on an excess of football and shallow high school jock banter and abuse. In the end there was merit, and yes, beauty, in the tribute to an iconoclastic young teacher. Mark Edmundson's scholarship comes through in the prose, and the book is well-written. (I didn't object to the vocabulary as some other reviewers did, feeeling instead an opportunity for personal growth in being exposed to unfamiliar words) It was an odd feeling for me to feel kinship with this alien author, at least in is pre-Lears high school persona, but the following passage on reading is true for me, too. "But I'm convinced-and experience has borne me out-that if the reading of secular books is going to matter, we need to look at them as Lears did: not just as occasions for interpretive ingenuity, for showing how smart we might be, but as guides to future life, as occasions, sometimes, for human transformation." I look to books for comfort, escape (especially in winter in a snowstorm) and truth. And I am transformed, not as much as I'd like, but enough to sustain me. The other passage, also about books, is also true for me. "Those aghast at having only one life on earth are drawn inexorably to books, and in them find the deep and true illusion of living not just their own too short life but of inhabiting many existences, many modes of being, and so of cheating fate a little." I can't help but think of actuarial tables and project at my current reading rate, how many more books I have to read in my lifetime. Pathetic, right? I pondered the title, "the one who made the difference." and thought about my own transformative teachers. There was my third grade teacher who taught me through her cruelty, how not to be. She set me on a lifelong path of trying to be kind. Then there was my geometry teacher, who counseled my mother to let me continue with drama, that I needed to continue to do what I loved and was good at, instead of going for after school geometry help. Love that man! And the biology teacher, who was character. Can't remember any profound lessons learned, but I loved going to class. But the teacher responsible for awakening in me the knowledge that I was a unique organism with thoughts of my own, was my humanities teacher, Mrs. Miller. I have thought of her repeatedly through the years. In 1964, she was a model of how to be a strong, intelligent, but still feminine woman. She led me to think about literature and art deeply, and to cultivate prose that communicated precisely what I wanted to say. Every word counts. I never thnked her. I never told her how important her class was to me. Finally, the inscription, hand-written on the flyleaf of the paperback I had, was to my husband from the family of one of his students: "For Jim Dooner, who makes a difference every day." I couldn't hate a book that started that way!