When I recently reviewed Thomas Wolfe's book “Look Homeward, Angel”, I told you that when I was twenty-five, he was one of the bright lights in my young adult life. He was a symbol of all my yearning for – I wasn’t sure what. But he expressed all the intensity that I felt. I romanticized and idealized the man. I saw his life as a tragic trajectory of strong emotion and angst while leaving behind a legacy of beauty through his words.
Recently I read “Look Homeward - A Life of Thomas Wolfe”. And I found that the reality couldn't have been more different.
Thomas Wolfe is not a man I would have liked to have known - at least, not up close and personal.
First, there was his appearance. He was a large man, tall, bulky and ungainly. In later years, pictures show that he tended toward fat. He was so tall that he often had to stand when he wrote, writing on top of the refrigerator. Normal chairs cramped him. Usually, personality will outshine physical appearance. You can’t judge a man by his cover.
But Wolfe was careless in the way he dressed. He left his clothes in piles around his apartment and would put on whatever articles of clothing were nearest him. And he often didn’t bathe. It was noticed by those around him, even when he was a popular “man about campus” in college.
In spite of that, he had many women in his life, both temporary and long-term. He had the sort of large personality that many women find attractive. But he was careless about his sex life and inconsiderate of his partners. Many of his relationships were stormy, marked by frequent and bitter fights. Yet this didn’t stop women from being attracted to him.
He never seemed to grow up. His family paid for this education through graduate school, and his mother gave him money through most of his early life. But he was careless with money. When he finally started earning royalties from his early books, his publisher didn’t give them to him all at once. His publishing house, Charles Scribner and Sons, kept his royalties in a bank account which he would draw down only as he needed living expenses. His editor, Maxwell Perkins, served as a father figure to Wolfe in his early writing years.
He knew most of the major authors of his day, including F. Scott Fitzgerald and Ernest Hemmingway. Some he liked and got along with, some he did not. Wolfe was sometimes jealous and couldn’t stand criticism.
His antisemitism was obvious, in spite of the fact that the most significant and longest romantic relationship in his young life was with a married Jewish set designer twenty years his senior.
He was a drinker. Perhaps it was the intense emotions that his writing stirred up that drove him to drink. But he could also be what they call a “mean drunk”. He would arrive late at parties, dominate the conversation, and pick fights with people who displeased him. One key incident he relates in his writing is about a visit to Munich, Germany, in 1928. At Octoberfest there, he got very drunk on strong German beer, became belligerent and got into a brawl. He had to be treated at a hospital, but this became grist for his novels.
Wolfe’s books were extremely autobiographical, and this was both his blessing and his bane. “Look Homeward, Angel” was blatantly autobiographical, with most of the characters easily identifiable as members of his family and people in his hometown. He struggled to escape being labelled as strictly an autobiographical novelist, but his writing kept veering back to himself as the protagonist.
He was from the South. Although he sometimes looked like a country bumpkin, he was actually superbly educated. He attended Harvard for post-graduate school and had “the best formal education of any American novelist of his day.” He excelled in school. He was influenced by such great and non-traditional authors as Proust and James Joyce. He sprinkled his writing with classical references. In one long section in “Look Homeward, Angel”, he had unattributed quotes from various works of classical literature after each paragraph. It all worked.
His writing- work-in-progress was a hodgepodge. He would write sketches or paragraphs or longer pieces and throw the handwritten pages into a big crate in the middle of his living room floor. Often, his editors or agents had to help him sort it out. One of his agents, Elizabeth Nowell, would go through these pages to assemble short stories that he could then sell. After Wolfe died, his editor went through the crate and was able to put together and publish two long and successful posthumous books.
Some claim that it was Wolfe’s editors – Maxwell Perkins and Edward Aswell - who made Thomas Wolfe a successful author. But you can’t deny the graphic beauty of the passages and scenes that Wolfe created.
In short, Thomas Wolfe was a mad genius. But mad geniuses are not created for this life.
I’ve written of Wolfe’s death at age 38 of a brain infection. It was tragic, yes. But I think it was the tragic way that his life ended that helped make him such a romantic figure in my mind. Dying can burnish a man’s reputation. When I was twenty-five, I needed him to be a tragic hero. But at seventy-plus, I’ve learned that this doesn’t really exist. Perhaps that is one of the worst parts of growing up.