Making the Ultimate Commitment to Yourself Dr. Shelley Kaehr decided to conduct an experiment, bought herself a diamond ring and found the key to self love. In With This Ring, she shows you simple steps to creating a lasting love affair with the most important person in your life - you! "In With This Ring, Dr. Shelley Kaehr shares a wise plan for loving yourself. Her path to self-love is a model for all who want to live a successful, happy and loving life," Paul Keenan, author of Beyond Blue Snow