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With Sprinkles on Top: Everything Vanilla People and Their Kinky Partners Need to Know to Communicate, Explore, and Connect
A sex therapist’s playful, affirming, and informative guide to exploring desire differences between kinky and nonkinky, or “vanilla,” partners
With Sprinkles on Top offers a positive and empowering resource for talking about and working through sexual differences―particularly between kinky and vanilla partners. With more than 80 percent of adult couples in the US reporting desire discrepancies between partners, and many people holding fantasies they don’t feel comfortable sharing, With Sprinkles on Top offers much-needed support. As Dr. Stefani Goerlich makes clear―vanilla can be delicious… and so can kink! Focusing on communication and connection, this guide helps you find the sprinkles that can enhance your relationship.
With empathy and understanding, Dr. Goerlich addresses hopes and fears on both sides of a desire divide and provides shame-free guidance for relationships of different shapes and orientations. Here you’ll
• Helpful information about BDSM and kink―what it is, its effects on relationships, what a partner’s interest might imply… or not!
• Worksheets and questionnaires to help each partner explore their desires, what turns them on, when they might feel open to experimentation, and how to talk about it
• Setting boundaries―tips for feeling safe and drawing the line with care
• Guidance for staying true to yourself, satisfying your partner, and finding new delights together
• Insights and guidance on what “normal” and “kinky” actually mean, bringing imagination into the bedroom, polyamorous possibilities, and much more
As Dr. Goerlich writes, “The vanilla people that I work with tell me that they want relationships built on mutual love, respect, understanding, gentleness, and trust. Funnily enough, the kinky people I work with tell me the same thing… just that they want the ‘gentleness’ aspect to be negotiable.” With Sprinkles on Top affirms that vanilla and kinky people can thrive together―and offers practical solutions for protecting, preserving, and strengthening your relationship.
With Sprinkles on Top offers a positive and empowering resource for talking about and working through sexual differences―particularly between kinky and vanilla partners. With more than 80 percent of adult couples in the US reporting desire discrepancies between partners, and many people holding fantasies they don’t feel comfortable sharing, With Sprinkles on Top offers much-needed support. As Dr. Stefani Goerlich makes clear―vanilla can be delicious… and so can kink! Focusing on communication and connection, this guide helps you find the sprinkles that can enhance your relationship.
With empathy and understanding, Dr. Goerlich addresses hopes and fears on both sides of a desire divide and provides shame-free guidance for relationships of different shapes and orientations. Here you’ll
• Helpful information about BDSM and kink―what it is, its effects on relationships, what a partner’s interest might imply… or not!
• Worksheets and questionnaires to help each partner explore their desires, what turns them on, when they might feel open to experimentation, and how to talk about it
• Setting boundaries―tips for feeling safe and drawing the line with care
• Guidance for staying true to yourself, satisfying your partner, and finding new delights together
• Insights and guidance on what “normal” and “kinky” actually mean, bringing imagination into the bedroom, polyamorous possibilities, and much more
As Dr. Goerlich writes, “The vanilla people that I work with tell me that they want relationships built on mutual love, respect, understanding, gentleness, and trust. Funnily enough, the kinky people I work with tell me the same thing… just that they want the ‘gentleness’ aspect to be negotiable.” With Sprinkles on Top affirms that vanilla and kinky people can thrive together―and offers practical solutions for protecting, preserving, and strengthening your relationship.
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Published October 10, 2023
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October 21, 2023
This book ended up being more valuable than I ever expected it would.
So my relationship is not particularly the pairing it is made for. Me and my partner are both kinky but I felt that we had a lot to learn in communication around it still and thought it interesting to see what I could learn from this book.
A week after it finished though we had almost the perfect example of this book happen to us when I opened up about a kink and my partner did not like that at all to say the least. Without opening up too much about my private life that I'm not comfortable with, I definitely do want to say that the tips the book gives absolutely help and are very much worth it if you ever struggle with your partner around understanding, accepting and making room for each others kinks.
I really think this book is set up really well. It takes the reader and guides it from the start to conflict through every stage needed towards suggesting solutions they can look into. It gives space for the hurt, confusion and anger for both partners and is good at explaining how each of them think for both parties. It guides the reader through gently and felt very cared for in this book.
What I also loved is that this book was very queer inclusive. The book had a lot of examples throughout and it was absolutely lovely that it had examples with they/them users and all kinds of people. This made me feel very included as a trans person and definitely added to the cared for space this book had as it didn't make me feel othered at all.
Concluding I think this book is very valuable for any kinky and vanilla couple or maybe kinky couples that have kinks that don't perfectly match.
I received an eARC and this was my honest review.
So my relationship is not particularly the pairing it is made for. Me and my partner are both kinky but I felt that we had a lot to learn in communication around it still and thought it interesting to see what I could learn from this book.
A week after it finished though we had almost the perfect example of this book happen to us when I opened up about a kink and my partner did not like that at all to say the least. Without opening up too much about my private life that I'm not comfortable with, I definitely do want to say that the tips the book gives absolutely help and are very much worth it if you ever struggle with your partner around understanding, accepting and making room for each others kinks.
I really think this book is set up really well. It takes the reader and guides it from the start to conflict through every stage needed towards suggesting solutions they can look into. It gives space for the hurt, confusion and anger for both partners and is good at explaining how each of them think for both parties. It guides the reader through gently and felt very cared for in this book.
What I also loved is that this book was very queer inclusive. The book had a lot of examples throughout and it was absolutely lovely that it had examples with they/them users and all kinds of people. This made me feel very included as a trans person and definitely added to the cared for space this book had as it didn't make me feel othered at all.
Concluding I think this book is very valuable for any kinky and vanilla couple or maybe kinky couples that have kinks that don't perfectly match.
I received an eARC and this was my honest review.
December 14, 2023
Actual rating: 3.25
I received an advanced reader copy (ARC) by Netgalley and Sounds True Publishing, my thanks, in exchange for an honest review.
I recently had the pleasure of reviewing a nonfiction psychology self-help book that delves into a topic outside my usual comfort zone and expertise. As many of my readers are aware, I am a psychotherapist, and dedicating time to professional development is paramount to me. Discussing sex with clients has been an area for personal growth. It's an uncomfortable topic in my personal life, making it challenging to broach with clients (ironically, I find it easier to discuss with clients). "With Sprinkles On Top" appealed to me for review because I recognized the value it could bring to my professional development and, consequently, to the clients I work with.
The book caters to both laypeople and professionals, although it leans more toward the everyday person, which is perfectly fine. For some, the subjects of sex, BDSM, and kink can be intimidating, and the author skillfully eases readers into the subject matter. The author alternately addresses the 'vanilla' person and the 'kinky' person, a particularly helpful approach as each side of the coin possesses unique needs, concerns, thoughts, and feelings related to this topic. While the overall tone of the book is geared towards relationships and couples, the information proves highly useful for discussing this sensitive topic with others. The 272-page book feels bite-sized and digestible.
The standout features of the book include the author's personal stories as a sex therapist, the activities they've utilized with clients, and the inclusion of downloadable PDFs containing these activities. These activities serve a dual purpose, suitable for use with a partner or as interventions in my therapeutic practice. I absolutely appreciate the versatility.
Now, dear reader, you may be curious as to why I rated this book 3.25 stars. Let me clarify; this is a GOOD book, rich with valuable knowledge. I will enthusiastically recommend it to others, including fellow therapists. However, it falls short of being the best psychology book I've ever read (and I've read plenty!). A 3-star rating, for me, means 'I liked it,' making it a commendable rating.
So, if you're seeking a book to enhance your understanding of communication about sex, delve into information about BDSM/Kink, or merely satisfy your curiosity on the subject, this is an approachable and informative read!
I received an advanced reader copy (ARC) by Netgalley and Sounds True Publishing, my thanks, in exchange for an honest review.
I recently had the pleasure of reviewing a nonfiction psychology self-help book that delves into a topic outside my usual comfort zone and expertise. As many of my readers are aware, I am a psychotherapist, and dedicating time to professional development is paramount to me. Discussing sex with clients has been an area for personal growth. It's an uncomfortable topic in my personal life, making it challenging to broach with clients (ironically, I find it easier to discuss with clients). "With Sprinkles On Top" appealed to me for review because I recognized the value it could bring to my professional development and, consequently, to the clients I work with.
The book caters to both laypeople and professionals, although it leans more toward the everyday person, which is perfectly fine. For some, the subjects of sex, BDSM, and kink can be intimidating, and the author skillfully eases readers into the subject matter. The author alternately addresses the 'vanilla' person and the 'kinky' person, a particularly helpful approach as each side of the coin possesses unique needs, concerns, thoughts, and feelings related to this topic. While the overall tone of the book is geared towards relationships and couples, the information proves highly useful for discussing this sensitive topic with others. The 272-page book feels bite-sized and digestible.
The standout features of the book include the author's personal stories as a sex therapist, the activities they've utilized with clients, and the inclusion of downloadable PDFs containing these activities. These activities serve a dual purpose, suitable for use with a partner or as interventions in my therapeutic practice. I absolutely appreciate the versatility.
Now, dear reader, you may be curious as to why I rated this book 3.25 stars. Let me clarify; this is a GOOD book, rich with valuable knowledge. I will enthusiastically recommend it to others, including fellow therapists. However, it falls short of being the best psychology book I've ever read (and I've read plenty!). A 3-star rating, for me, means 'I liked it,' making it a commendable rating.
So, if you're seeking a book to enhance your understanding of communication about sex, delve into information about BDSM/Kink, or merely satisfy your curiosity on the subject, this is an approachable and informative read!
October 19, 2023
With Sprinkles On Top was such an informative and affirming read. Although this book is framed as a supportive tool for those in relationships with mixed interests (one kinkier partner, one more “vanilla”), I feel that it was a fantastic overview and thoughtful, in-depth introduction into the world of BDSM & kink for anyone!
This book is best enjoyed at a slow pace, in my opinion, because it is so information-rich! Stefani Goerlich really thought of everything that was important for readers to know, and I think I was able to retain more by reading little by little over the course of a few weeks. I had a few unexpected triggers arise while reading this book, so giving myself time to process information was very helpful.
With Sprinkles On Top was incredibly well-thought out, with so many additional resources (book recommendations, activities, questions to get you thinking) through the entire book.
When I had seen this title available on NetGalley, my interest was immediately piqued and I knew it would be a worthwhile read. A big thank you to Stefani, the publishers, and NetGalley for an ARC of this book!
This book is best enjoyed at a slow pace, in my opinion, because it is so information-rich! Stefani Goerlich really thought of everything that was important for readers to know, and I think I was able to retain more by reading little by little over the course of a few weeks. I had a few unexpected triggers arise while reading this book, so giving myself time to process information was very helpful.
With Sprinkles On Top was incredibly well-thought out, with so many additional resources (book recommendations, activities, questions to get you thinking) through the entire book.
When I had seen this title available on NetGalley, my interest was immediately piqued and I knew it would be a worthwhile read. A big thank you to Stefani, the publishers, and NetGalley for an ARC of this book!
October 13, 2023
I'll be honest. The title grabbed me first, but as an avid romance reader I thought this would be an interesting read to get deeper insight to some of the relationships I read about. Not to mention maybe I'd learn something new too.
Communication being key is a great lesson for any relationship, not just those who are into kink vs vanilla. I thought the book discussed relevant issues and solutions to the topic at hand in a way that didn't make it clinical or dry of a read. It hits the mark for the market it's writing to and I would recommend it to those wishing to explore or learn effective ways of communicating with their partner about certain needs/wants.
Communication being key is a great lesson for any relationship, not just those who are into kink vs vanilla. I thought the book discussed relevant issues and solutions to the topic at hand in a way that didn't make it clinical or dry of a read. It hits the mark for the market it's writing to and I would recommend it to those wishing to explore or learn effective ways of communicating with their partner about certain needs/wants.
October 6, 2023
Part communication, part education and definition....no stigma.
For anyone who would like to know more about kink and vanilla. I like the matter of fact, straight forward style by someone who has had a solid background in the field. The focus stays primarily on the relationship between one who is into kink and their vanilla partner. I liked the education and information provided and that at the heart of the matter is the ability to communicate between partners.
4.5
Recommend.
For anyone who would like to know more about kink and vanilla. I like the matter of fact, straight forward style by someone who has had a solid background in the field. The focus stays primarily on the relationship between one who is into kink and their vanilla partner. I liked the education and information provided and that at the heart of the matter is the ability to communicate between partners.
4.5
Recommend.
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March 6, 2024"With Sprinkles on Top" by Stefani Goerlich is a delightful and insightful read that blends humor, wisdom, and candid reflections on human sexuality and relationships. Goerlich, leveraging her extensive experience as a sex therapist, serves up a rich concoction of advice that is as entertaining as it is enlightening, making this book a standout in its genre.
At the heart of "With Sprinkles on Top" is Goerlich's compassionate and open-minded approach to discussing topics that are often considered taboo or uncomfortable. Her writing exudes warmth and inclusivity, inviting readers of all backgrounds to explore the nuances of their desires and relationships without judgment. This book is a celebration of human sexuality in all its diversity, encouraging readers to embrace their true selves and enhance their intimate connections.
One of the book's most admirable qualities is its accessibility. Goerlich has a knack for breaking down complex psychological concepts into digestible, relatable insights. Her use of humor not only engages but also disarms, allowing readers to confront potentially sensitive subjects with an open heart and mind. The anecdotes and examples she shares are both enlightening and entertaining, illustrating her points in ways that resonate with everyday experiences.
"With Sprinkles on Top" covers a wide range of topics, from navigating communication challenges in relationships to exploring kinks and fetishes. Goerlich's advice is grounded in the latest research, yet presented in a way that feels like a conversation with a wise friend. Each chapter is sprinkled with actionable tips, making the book not only a pleasure to read but also a practical guide for enhancing one's love life.
Moreover, Goerlich's inclusive approach is particularly commendable. She acknowledges and addresses the diverse spectrum of human sexuality, making sure that readers across the LGBTQ+ community and beyond see themselves reflected in her work. This inclusivity is not just a side note but a fundamental aspect of the book, underscoring the message that everyone deserves to find fulfillment and happiness in their relationships.
In conclusion, "With Sprinkles on Top" by Stefani Goerlich is a must-read for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of sexuality and improve their intimate relationships. It is a rare gem that combines professional expertise with a relatable and engaging writing style. Readers will come away from this book not only with a deeper understanding of themselves and their partners but also with a renewed sense of joy and excitement about the possibilities of their intimate lives. Goerlich has truly delivered a book with not just sprinkles on top but a whole lot of substance and heart beneath.
4/5 stars. Thanks to NetGalley, the author, and publisher for an advanced copy to review.
At the heart of "With Sprinkles on Top" is Goerlich's compassionate and open-minded approach to discussing topics that are often considered taboo or uncomfortable. Her writing exudes warmth and inclusivity, inviting readers of all backgrounds to explore the nuances of their desires and relationships without judgment. This book is a celebration of human sexuality in all its diversity, encouraging readers to embrace their true selves and enhance their intimate connections.
One of the book's most admirable qualities is its accessibility. Goerlich has a knack for breaking down complex psychological concepts into digestible, relatable insights. Her use of humor not only engages but also disarms, allowing readers to confront potentially sensitive subjects with an open heart and mind. The anecdotes and examples she shares are both enlightening and entertaining, illustrating her points in ways that resonate with everyday experiences.
"With Sprinkles on Top" covers a wide range of topics, from navigating communication challenges in relationships to exploring kinks and fetishes. Goerlich's advice is grounded in the latest research, yet presented in a way that feels like a conversation with a wise friend. Each chapter is sprinkled with actionable tips, making the book not only a pleasure to read but also a practical guide for enhancing one's love life.
Moreover, Goerlich's inclusive approach is particularly commendable. She acknowledges and addresses the diverse spectrum of human sexuality, making sure that readers across the LGBTQ+ community and beyond see themselves reflected in her work. This inclusivity is not just a side note but a fundamental aspect of the book, underscoring the message that everyone deserves to find fulfillment and happiness in their relationships.
In conclusion, "With Sprinkles on Top" by Stefani Goerlich is a must-read for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of sexuality and improve their intimate relationships. It is a rare gem that combines professional expertise with a relatable and engaging writing style. Readers will come away from this book not only with a deeper understanding of themselves and their partners but also with a renewed sense of joy and excitement about the possibilities of their intimate lives. Goerlich has truly delivered a book with not just sprinkles on top but a whole lot of substance and heart beneath.
4/5 stars. Thanks to NetGalley, the author, and publisher for an advanced copy to review.
June 12, 2023
Open communication with a partner about sexual preferences and desires can be such a troubling and "taboo" topic for some. I enjoyed the way this book explored how to have open communication regarding introducing kink in the bedroom between partners with initially different desires. From the very beginning Dr. Goerlich defines important terms that are often misunderstood and likely heavily judged by those new to the world of "kink." I thought this was refreshing and easy to read book about meeting in the middle and exploring new things in adult, consensual relationships.
Thank you NetGalley and publisher for the opportunity to read and review this book.
Thank you NetGalley and publisher for the opportunity to read and review this book.
October 8, 2023
No, me requesting this book is not telling you too much about myself, except that I listen to a lot of Dan Savage. While this book has a specific audience (see the subheading) it is quite applicable to a broader audience. It is interesting, fact based and has given me some things to think about in my own relationship.The author doesn't make generalisations,and that somehow makes it more inclusive, not less. Even though I am not strictly the target audience I found this book interesting and educational.
Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for this e-Arc in exchange for an honest review.
Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for this e-Arc in exchange for an honest review.
December 17, 2023
I really appreciated this book. It made me consider how I viewed kink (judgement) so it was helpful to have this challenge my perception.
This quote really cemented to keep reading and push pass whatever preconceived notions about kink--People who are willing to do the work of having ongoing conversations about personal boundaries and to base relationship agreements on those and keep them relatively fluid are generally people who are willing to build meaningful connections.
Very much a starting point to keep learning more
This quote really cemented to keep reading and push pass whatever preconceived notions about kink--People who are willing to do the work of having ongoing conversations about personal boundaries and to base relationship agreements on those and keep them relatively fluid are generally people who are willing to build meaningful connections.
Very much a starting point to keep learning more
November 29, 2023
***These are my random thoughts after finishing the book. Some of the thoughts are an overall review of the book, or any questions/feelings that nagged at me throughout. There will almost definitely be spoilers. Read at your own risk.*** ‐----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Won ARC in giveaway, thank you to publishers
4 stars
Very straightforward book
Could be applied to a broader audience, nice introduction
Fact-based and very in-depth
Won ARC in giveaway, thank you to publishers
4 stars
Very straightforward book
Could be applied to a broader audience, nice introduction
Fact-based and very in-depth
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
May 6, 2023
As a former sex educator, I am always looking for books that encourage open communication between partners.
This book is a lovely first look into kink, mostly focused on BDSM. It perfectly balances information with enjoyment.
Really enjoyed this book!
This book is a lovely first look into kink, mostly focused on BDSM. It perfectly balances information with enjoyment.
Really enjoyed this book!
June 18, 2024
I thoroughly enjoyed reading this book. I want to take this into consideration within our marriage. We will definitely be working on the added worksheets together! So what are you waiting for? Go out there and read all about this book!
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November 4, 2023I think this book would be super helpful for couples to read together. It will be a great way to open a dialogue between the couple. Especially if one is more vanilla than the other.
May 24, 2024
This was a Goodreads giveaway book. If I didn't receive this book for free I wouldn't of read this.
January 1, 2024
I received an advanced reader copy (ARC) through a Goodreads giveaway
September 6, 2023
[Disclaimer: I received a free e-copy of this book from NetGalley in exchange for my honest & unbiased review.]
“With Sprinkles On Top” is a fascinating little introduction to kink. It’s created specifically for an audience of non-kinky (or “vanilla”) partners. Certainly not the first of its kind, but also not an overly saturated market. And what's even better, is that despite being explicitly and obviously focused on kink, many of the insights could be used to help someone accept a wide range of partner identities or disclosures. This is because much of the book focuses on broad sexual topics such as empathy, communication, negotiation, and answering the question "What is considered normal?"
Unfortunately, I couldn’t help but feel like the author made a fair amount of contradictory assumptions about her readers; namely, their openness to alternative or non-normative relationships.
On one hand, you may argue that only folks with some degree of openness to the idea of kink would pick this book up to begin with. The subtitle is literally “Everything Vanilla People and Their Kinky Partners Need to Know to Communicate, Explore, and Connect.” The reader surely wants to learn about their partner’s kinky desires, get ideas for how to experiment, and collaborate in their relationship, right? That’s the group of individuals who I feel would enjoy & benefit from this book the most. That’s the group who are probably going to be in the headspace for consuming erotic media that might scare or confuse them a little. And that’s the group I would expect to willingly complete a Yes-No-Maybe list (or, as it’s called here, a “Finding Your Sprinkles Discovery Worksheet”).
On the other hand, Goerlich frequently speaks to partners who might be quite adamantly opposed to kink for a variety of reasons (ranging from conservative religious beliefs to relationship betrayal). While I love to see this group of people included, I’m not sure that this would be the book I would recommend for them - at least not before some internal work and potential healing had been done. I can only imagine feeling shocked & disgusted by my partner’s newly disclosed desires only to pick up this book and be confronted with explicitly sexual descriptions of the same nature. Or to be experiencing the staggeringly fresh heartbreak of infidelity and read that perhaps the solution is for my partner to get their kinky needs met elsewhere.
I would like to be clear: this is not an attack on the author at all. She does a fantastic job of affirming folks wherever they are on the vanilla-to-kink spectrum and explicitly denounces any sort of coercion between partners of mixed orientation. Towards the end of the book, there’s even a lot of space dedicated to supporting individuals who simply don’t think that they can continue their relationship. And all the while, Goerlich maintains a wonderfully sex positive and playful approach to kink with countless ideas for a variety of solutions. I just worry that it may prove to be too much too fast for the more skittish folks out there - even with the author’s obvious intent to make kink less intimidating.
“With Sprinkles On Top” is a fascinating little introduction to kink. It’s created specifically for an audience of non-kinky (or “vanilla”) partners. Certainly not the first of its kind, but also not an overly saturated market. And what's even better, is that despite being explicitly and obviously focused on kink, many of the insights could be used to help someone accept a wide range of partner identities or disclosures. This is because much of the book focuses on broad sexual topics such as empathy, communication, negotiation, and answering the question "What is considered normal?"
Unfortunately, I couldn’t help but feel like the author made a fair amount of contradictory assumptions about her readers; namely, their openness to alternative or non-normative relationships.
On one hand, you may argue that only folks with some degree of openness to the idea of kink would pick this book up to begin with. The subtitle is literally “Everything Vanilla People and Their Kinky Partners Need to Know to Communicate, Explore, and Connect.” The reader surely wants to learn about their partner’s kinky desires, get ideas for how to experiment, and collaborate in their relationship, right? That’s the group of individuals who I feel would enjoy & benefit from this book the most. That’s the group who are probably going to be in the headspace for consuming erotic media that might scare or confuse them a little. And that’s the group I would expect to willingly complete a Yes-No-Maybe list (or, as it’s called here, a “Finding Your Sprinkles Discovery Worksheet”).
On the other hand, Goerlich frequently speaks to partners who might be quite adamantly opposed to kink for a variety of reasons (ranging from conservative religious beliefs to relationship betrayal). While I love to see this group of people included, I’m not sure that this would be the book I would recommend for them - at least not before some internal work and potential healing had been done. I can only imagine feeling shocked & disgusted by my partner’s newly disclosed desires only to pick up this book and be confronted with explicitly sexual descriptions of the same nature. Or to be experiencing the staggeringly fresh heartbreak of infidelity and read that perhaps the solution is for my partner to get their kinky needs met elsewhere.
I would like to be clear: this is not an attack on the author at all. She does a fantastic job of affirming folks wherever they are on the vanilla-to-kink spectrum and explicitly denounces any sort of coercion between partners of mixed orientation. Towards the end of the book, there’s even a lot of space dedicated to supporting individuals who simply don’t think that they can continue their relationship. And all the while, Goerlich maintains a wonderfully sex positive and playful approach to kink with countless ideas for a variety of solutions. I just worry that it may prove to be too much too fast for the more skittish folks out there - even with the author’s obvious intent to make kink less intimidating.
March 19, 2025
Definitely more for the vanilla partner, but an interesting read for any kinkster wanting to see things from another perspective and help kick start those important conversations.
I struggled a little with the structure of the book and a couple of analogies felt a bit random at times, making the book go off on irrelevant tangents whilst trying hard to connect the dots.
Some opinions also felt very one sided and concrete without the author addressing all viewpoints and possibilities which felt a bit hap hazard for a book containing information this important and influential. Read with a pinch of salt.
A good read nonetheless and there’s some great tips and activities throughout - it could just do without so much filler.
I struggled a little with the structure of the book and a couple of analogies felt a bit random at times, making the book go off on irrelevant tangents whilst trying hard to connect the dots.
Some opinions also felt very one sided and concrete without the author addressing all viewpoints and possibilities which felt a bit hap hazard for a book containing information this important and influential. Read with a pinch of salt.
A good read nonetheless and there’s some great tips and activities throughout - it could just do without so much filler.
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