The Coconut Monk is a story told by Thich Nhat Hanh based on the true story of Dao Dua. A summary of his heroic life included in the back of the book.
As one reviewer on Amazon points out this is a story that may not be appropriate for young children. I’d like to add, out of context.
Young children like myself at seven remember a poster at school with a pile of bodies in Vietnam. Looking back am not certain why this was on display.
This book could have helped me understand war in a way using the familiar books creatures of a cat and mouse. Such as growing up with Tom and Jerry or even Sylvester and Tweety Bird on television.
The book cat and mouse in story are relatable in a similar way though always get along despite the challenges like hunger in prison.
The illustrations feel appropriate to the pain the monk suffers during war. They’re not cheerful digital illustrations. They’re drawn to the mood and tone of the tale.
The story takes a dark turn. The monk is put in prison for his peaceful ways attempts to persuade the president of Vietnam. In jail there wasn’t much food and yet the cat did not eat the mouse is a meaningful space to discuss with children how challenges make us want to react in anger or fear. What other decisions could we make? Would this be difficult or easy?
Discussing ethics, empathy, and encouraging these ideas is a great way to plant seeds for children to mature into healthy adults with considerate views during challenging times.
“Preventing war is much better than protesting against the war. Protesting the war is too late.”
Thich Nhat Hanh, Being Peace
This quote is a deeply meaningful way of contemplating peace and communication prior to life becoming too much or out of hand.
Comparing and contrasting the ideas are a Q&A for children and adults alike. Depending on maturity create open ended questions appropriate for the person. Conflict happens at all ages. These moments and preparing for them are helpful to calm results often.
This book can be a tool toward peaceful results as a means for healthy discussions and deep listening opportunities.
To a mature person this is impactful. If children experience hunger or need can find ethical pieces even if not mature enough to relate. Especially with a supportive adult.
This book is very relevant since it’s publication. Even though this takes place during Vietnam, in 2005 the world has war at time of publication. Today, at this very moment in Asia Russia and Ukraine suffer as the world watches.
The unique point of view of this book is from people who lived through war and exile. Very relatable to others who suffer from direct contact to the current war and people watching in media or those making decisions how to engage or their view of help.
I’m thankful to have practiced at the Beacon Theater in NYC with Thay (meaning teacher to those who practice his teachings) the author during his last visit there. Shortly after he had a stroke and his life changed. I cherish having been a part of a call to world compassion.
Now, a call to world peace.
Before Thay’s death in January selected Peace as my word for 2022. Was expanding my library beyond books collected since buying Happiness: Essentials in Mindfulness at the Beacon Theater that afternoon in 2014.
Little did I know on January 22 Thay would die and shortly there after Russia would head to Ukraine.
Before thay’s death or the new war began had already started reading Creating True Peace: Ending Violence in Yourself, Your Family, Your Community, and the World. Highly recommend it for locating personal calm during this moment in history. Partners well with content to use during the reading of The Coconut Monk.
One inspiration from these readings in a neighborhood I help with voted to rename a small green space Peace Corner. A new local church began hosting peace marches last year despite the pandemic. I found out their office is Peace House a block away. These books and the teachings of Thich Nhat Hanh like The Five Mindfulness Trainings encourage me to take small actions creating huge impact.
Reading with children this book encourages relating to world peace through personal peace. Encourages deep listening. For children, ideas of how to accept what we have control of and deal with unfair treatment calmly.
For me this is a five star in terms of context.
The illustrations can inspire children to draw their own view of pain and suffering in regards to what they hear about the war in Ukraine or even for their own daily struggles. This can encourage family discussions toward new ways of deep listening and happiness.
This may not be a book for others. My hope is the review helps make the choice prior to purchase what is best for you and your family or teacher.
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