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Untold Stories
Here, at last, is the astonishing sequel to Alan Bennett's classic Writing Home , updated for paperback. Untold Stories contains significant previously unpublished work, including a poignant memoir of his family and of growing up in Leeds, together with his much celebrated diary for the years 1996-2004, and numerous other exceptional essays, reviews and comic pieces. Bennett, as always, is both amusing and poignant, whether he's discussing his modest childhood or his work with figures such as Maggie Smith, Thora Hird and John Gielgud. Since the success of Beyond the Fringe in the 1960s Alan Bennett has delighted audiences worldwide with his gentle humour and wry observations about life. His many works include Forty Years On , The Lady in the Van , Talking Heads , A Question of Attribution and The Madness of King George . The History Boys opened to great acclaim at the National in 2004, and is winner of the Evening Standard Award, the South Bank Award and the Critics' Circle Award for Best New Play. Untold Stories is published jointly with Profile Books.
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First published October 10, 2005
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Alan Bennett
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Alan Bennett is an English author and Tony Award-winning playwright. Bennett's first stage play, Forty Years On, was produced in 1968. Many television, stage and radio plays followed, along with screenplays, short stories, novellas, a large body of non-fictional prose and broadcasting, and many appearances as an actor. Bennett's lugubrious yet expressive voice (which still bears a slight Leeds accent) and the sharp humour and evident humanity of his writing have made his readings of his own work (especially his autobiographical writing) very popular. His readings of the Winnie the Pooh stories are also widely enjoyed.
Alan Bennett is an English author and Tony Award-winning playwright. Bennett's first stage play, Forty Years On, was produced in 1968. Many television, stage and radio plays followed, along with screenplays, short stories, novellas, a large body of non-fictional prose and broadcasting, and many appearances as an actor. Bennett's lugubrious yet expressive voice (which still bears a slight Leeds accent) and the sharp humour and evident humanity of his writing have made his readings of his own work (especially his autobiographical writing) very popular. His readings of the Winnie the Pooh stories are also widely enjoyed.
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June 16, 2009
I feel a great affection for Alan Bennett, at least the one he offers up in these periodic collections of ephemera. He seems the kind of mildly eccentric, vaguely comic figure you might find lurking around the periphery in a novel by Trollope. (Though I wouldn't find him there myself - I can't bear Trollope, his obsession with the minutiae of life in small cathedral towns drives me mad.) He spends much of his time puttering around London on his faithful bicycle; making daily observations in his diary, the tone of which suggest someone who is slightly disengaged, and not at all unhappily, from the mess and struggle ("living," he says elsewhere, not without some pride, "is something I have managed largely to avoid"); and indulging what are apparently his two favorite pastimes when not writing - visiting historic religious sites, the older and more decrepit the better, and consuming sandwiches al fresco in hedgerows, fields and deserted churchyards with his partner Rupert. He's like something out of Wind in the Willows. It's hard to imagine just how he got through the years with Beyond the Fringe and the three other outsized and exceedingly messy personalities involved in that, Peter Cook, Dudley Moore and house genius Jonathan Miller; they didn't remain especially close after, I don't think, although Miller apparently lives nearby and occasionally stops when he's passing to chat over the front gate, a wonderful image in itself. ("He asks me what I'm reading. It's actually re-rereading, and telling him he would hate every page I show him James Lees-Milne's Through Wood and Dale. I ask him what he is reading and he shows me The Origins of the Final Solution. I say to him we would each of us derive more benefit if I were reading his book and he mine...") But when you watch the film of FRINGE, you realize how much of the writing was Bennett's and how cleverly he found a performing niche for himself amid the baroque flourishes of the others, somewhere between a dotty old professor and a psychotic schoolboy. There are very few genuine English eccentrics remaining, not in this true, slightly 19th century sense, and I suspect England is the poorer for it.
July 14, 2008
Second volume of semi-autobiography, augmented with excerpts of diaries from the last 10 years and background to varoius plays and TV programmes. Lots about his mother's depression and his puberty - the intimacy of revelations perhaps reflecting that he had cancer when he wrote it and maybe thought he wouldn't live to see it published. Also, he's not afraid to show himself in a bad light - eg when he was sometimes unsympathetic to the plight of his parents and other family members. Some desperately poignant observations, which make you want to keep reading. However, in the historical (non-diary) sections, the frequency with which he repeats himself (often within a page or two) and swaps, seemingly arbitrarily, between present and past tense is infuriating and distracting.
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September 24, 2022
Alan Bennett is going to die one day and I don't want him to.
November 19, 2011
Untold Stories by Alan Bennett is something of a pot pourri. It starts with an autobiographical exploration of social and family origins, and then moves on to include occasional pieces on travel, architecture and art, copious diaries from 1996 to 2004, reflections on previous and current work and essays on contemporaries, educational experience and culture. The fact that it all hangs together beautifully is a result of its author’s consummate skills, both linguistic and perceptive.
Untold Stories takes its title from the autobiographical sketch that opens the book. Alan Bennett was the physically late-developing child of a family in the Armley district of Leeds, a northern English industrial city. His father was a butcher who owned two suits, both of which smelled of raw meat. His mother was the supporting pillar of the household, but was also prone to bouts of depression. As a child, Alan Bennett seemed to dream less than most. Perhaps he is still less than able to admit the breadth of his flights of fancy. “With a writer the life you don’t have is as ample a country as the life you do and is sometimes easier to access.” This sounds remarkably like e e cummings, a character that would not usually be linked with someone as apparently domesticated as Alan Bennett.
But reading all of Untold Stories, the reader is repeatedly struck by how much of the eventual content of Alan Bennett’s perceptive, witty and perspicacious writings has its origins within the four walls of the family home. Many of the values, assumptions, attitudes and standpoints, whose apparently unquestioning adoption by his fictional characters lead the listener to question them, arose from a wider family that feverishly tried to be mundane but, like all families, never achieved that goal. The family was, after all, made up of individuals, each of which had his or her own reality alongside unresolved and often shared misgivings. Thus, immediately, a writer has several lifetimes of real and imagined material.
Alan Bennett, perhaps by virtue of having at least potentially crossed some of the chasms of social class that so profoundly divide British society, seems able to comment, often with no more than an occasional word or phrase, on those tentative but agreed assumptions that make us what we are. “Minor writers often convey a more intense flavour of their times than those whose range is broader and concerns more profound.”
But this, despite the authenticity of his flavours, is no minor writer. Not for a moment would anyone wish this writer’s passing, but there is no doubt that Alan Bennett’s work will live on, probably grow in stature as its ability to comment on the changing Britain of the twentieth century develops a sharper focus.
Essentially Alan Bennett comes across as a conservative type. He dresses and even looks like a 1950s schoolboy, visits churches to describe architectural details of selected tombs in Betjemanesque prose, probably doesn’t indulge in fusion cooking, shuns recognition, inhabits the inner city but is perhaps never quite at home there. But then there’s the anti-establishment side, the satirist, the overt homosexuality and general anti-bigwig mentality. And all of this from a First at Oxford. “But taste is no help to a writer. Taste is timorous, conservative and fearful. It is a handicap. Olivier was unhampered by taste and was often vulgar. Dickens similarly. Both could fail, and failure is a sort of vulgarity, but it’s better than a timorous toeing of the line.”
Untold Stories is a long read, but one which offers a simple yet sophisticated joy from beginning to end. Alan Bennett revisits topics he has written about in the past. Miss Shepherd, The Lady In The Van is here, as are his early plays and Beyond The Fringe. So are Talking Heads and The History Boys. But throughout he selects and applies language with much wit and humour to offer apparently ephemeral perspectives on everyday life, perspectives that on reflection are anything but shallow. He is a man of taste, as revealed by his regular revulsion with Classic FM, but he is also an enigma because he keeps listening to it.
Untold Stories takes its title from the autobiographical sketch that opens the book. Alan Bennett was the physically late-developing child of a family in the Armley district of Leeds, a northern English industrial city. His father was a butcher who owned two suits, both of which smelled of raw meat. His mother was the supporting pillar of the household, but was also prone to bouts of depression. As a child, Alan Bennett seemed to dream less than most. Perhaps he is still less than able to admit the breadth of his flights of fancy. “With a writer the life you don’t have is as ample a country as the life you do and is sometimes easier to access.” This sounds remarkably like e e cummings, a character that would not usually be linked with someone as apparently domesticated as Alan Bennett.
But reading all of Untold Stories, the reader is repeatedly struck by how much of the eventual content of Alan Bennett’s perceptive, witty and perspicacious writings has its origins within the four walls of the family home. Many of the values, assumptions, attitudes and standpoints, whose apparently unquestioning adoption by his fictional characters lead the listener to question them, arose from a wider family that feverishly tried to be mundane but, like all families, never achieved that goal. The family was, after all, made up of individuals, each of which had his or her own reality alongside unresolved and often shared misgivings. Thus, immediately, a writer has several lifetimes of real and imagined material.
Alan Bennett, perhaps by virtue of having at least potentially crossed some of the chasms of social class that so profoundly divide British society, seems able to comment, often with no more than an occasional word or phrase, on those tentative but agreed assumptions that make us what we are. “Minor writers often convey a more intense flavour of their times than those whose range is broader and concerns more profound.”
But this, despite the authenticity of his flavours, is no minor writer. Not for a moment would anyone wish this writer’s passing, but there is no doubt that Alan Bennett’s work will live on, probably grow in stature as its ability to comment on the changing Britain of the twentieth century develops a sharper focus.
Essentially Alan Bennett comes across as a conservative type. He dresses and even looks like a 1950s schoolboy, visits churches to describe architectural details of selected tombs in Betjemanesque prose, probably doesn’t indulge in fusion cooking, shuns recognition, inhabits the inner city but is perhaps never quite at home there. But then there’s the anti-establishment side, the satirist, the overt homosexuality and general anti-bigwig mentality. And all of this from a First at Oxford. “But taste is no help to a writer. Taste is timorous, conservative and fearful. It is a handicap. Olivier was unhampered by taste and was often vulgar. Dickens similarly. Both could fail, and failure is a sort of vulgarity, but it’s better than a timorous toeing of the line.”
Untold Stories is a long read, but one which offers a simple yet sophisticated joy from beginning to end. Alan Bennett revisits topics he has written about in the past. Miss Shepherd, The Lady In The Van is here, as are his early plays and Beyond The Fringe. So are Talking Heads and The History Boys. But throughout he selects and applies language with much wit and humour to offer apparently ephemeral perspectives on everyday life, perspectives that on reflection are anything but shallow. He is a man of taste, as revealed by his regular revulsion with Classic FM, but he is also an enigma because he keeps listening to it.
September 18, 2011
This book won't do anything to tarnish Alan Bennett's reputation as one of Britain's best writers, but it is only this reputation that allows him and his publisher to get away with such a lazy offering.
Bennett thought he was dying of cancer, and this was his way of rounding up his best unpublished work. However, at the time of writing this review Alan Bennett is very much alive, so the reason for rushing this book to press in this format no longer applies. You've got time now Alan. Go back and do the job properly.
The writing, of course, is excellent. The autobiography (or, more accurately, the biography of the Bennett/Peel families) that takes up the first third of the book is fascinating, warm, touching, funny and poignant. But it stops rather abruptly, leaving Bennett set for a dull career in higher education. And yet, a few years later, he is on Broadway. How did that happen?
And in a story that is so closely focused on Bennett's family, his brother Gordon is mentioned so fleetingly that he seems like Trotsky to Alan's Stalin. Was there a family falling-out?
Then the book lurches into an interminable section of diaries. Friends who read it all tell me there is some good stuff in there, but there was just too much. Yes, I know Bennett is a master at making the banal fun, but there's a limit. Hire an editor, Alan.
And then there are the lit crits and presentations. They are mostly good, but they miss something when shorn of their contexts. So the pieces on 'The Lady In The Van' or 'The History Boys' don't mean much if you haven't seen the shows. Again, some explanation (or an editor) is required.
The same sloppy approach mars the photos. Several people appear with no explanation of who they are, and they don't appear in the text. Maybe George Fenton and Lyn Wagenknecht are so famous that they don't need any introduction. They certainly don't get any. Yet other characters are described in great detail in the stories, and their appearance is deemed important - so why not show their pictures? Bizarrely, there is a picture of an empty chair in a back garden, labelled simply 'Yorkshire'.
This is not so much one book of untold stories as three incomplete books. Bennett didn't think he would have the time to complete them. Now he has, so he should.
Bennett thought he was dying of cancer, and this was his way of rounding up his best unpublished work. However, at the time of writing this review Alan Bennett is very much alive, so the reason for rushing this book to press in this format no longer applies. You've got time now Alan. Go back and do the job properly.
The writing, of course, is excellent. The autobiography (or, more accurately, the biography of the Bennett/Peel families) that takes up the first third of the book is fascinating, warm, touching, funny and poignant. But it stops rather abruptly, leaving Bennett set for a dull career in higher education. And yet, a few years later, he is on Broadway. How did that happen?
And in a story that is so closely focused on Bennett's family, his brother Gordon is mentioned so fleetingly that he seems like Trotsky to Alan's Stalin. Was there a family falling-out?
Then the book lurches into an interminable section of diaries. Friends who read it all tell me there is some good stuff in there, but there was just too much. Yes, I know Bennett is a master at making the banal fun, but there's a limit. Hire an editor, Alan.
And then there are the lit crits and presentations. They are mostly good, but they miss something when shorn of their contexts. So the pieces on 'The Lady In The Van' or 'The History Boys' don't mean much if you haven't seen the shows. Again, some explanation (or an editor) is required.
The same sloppy approach mars the photos. Several people appear with no explanation of who they are, and they don't appear in the text. Maybe George Fenton and Lyn Wagenknecht are so famous that they don't need any introduction. They certainly don't get any. Yet other characters are described in great detail in the stories, and their appearance is deemed important - so why not show their pictures? Bizarrely, there is a picture of an empty chair in a back garden, labelled simply 'Yorkshire'.
This is not so much one book of untold stories as three incomplete books. Bennett didn't think he would have the time to complete them. Now he has, so he should.
August 4, 2018
Thank you, thank you, thank you Alan Bennet for including this anecdote in your memoir:
2 February: A letter from a reader comparing her WW2 experiences of evacuation with mine. She was sent to Grantham and says that Alderman Roberts, Margaret Thatcher's father, was thought to be in the black market and that Maggie used to hang out of her bedroom window and spit on the other children." page 305-306.
And that is exactly what she did to the country. I remember as a child chanting "Thatcher, Thatcher, milk snatcher" when, as Education Secretary, she ended the free milk program for elementary school children. As PM she continued her assaults on the underprivileged while boosting the coffers of the Hooray Henrys.
Untold Stories is a potpourri of Bennett's memoirs, anecdotes, musings on art and architecture, poets and poetry, commentaries on historic monuments, plays, movies, and actors, some more interesting than others. For me I particularly liked his wartime, family, and hospital experiences. This is a tome you can dip in and out of without losing the thread.
2 February: A letter from a reader comparing her WW2 experiences of evacuation with mine. She was sent to Grantham and says that Alderman Roberts, Margaret Thatcher's father, was thought to be in the black market and that Maggie used to hang out of her bedroom window and spit on the other children." page 305-306.
And that is exactly what she did to the country. I remember as a child chanting "Thatcher, Thatcher, milk snatcher" when, as Education Secretary, she ended the free milk program for elementary school children. As PM she continued her assaults on the underprivileged while boosting the coffers of the Hooray Henrys.
Untold Stories is a potpourri of Bennett's memoirs, anecdotes, musings on art and architecture, poets and poetry, commentaries on historic monuments, plays, movies, and actors, some more interesting than others. For me I particularly liked his wartime, family, and hospital experiences. This is a tome you can dip in and out of without losing the thread.
April 18, 2023
Not really knowing who Alan Bennett is (other than a vague notion of this plays), I picked this up with the few of flicking through the pages and then passing it on. But the writing is sublime and draws you in to a degree that you have to keep reading, as lost within the words, the subject matter becomes slightly irrelevant.
That said, I definitely enjoyed the biographical bits better, as Alan describes his childhood and his family, and in the final tale, his cancer diagnosis and treatment. The diary entries, while witty and interesting in places, I found less likeable, while I have to admit to skipping some of the art lectures. They weren't exactly tedious, just not something that overly appeals to me.
Worth the read though - I'm glad I picked it up.
That said, I definitely enjoyed the biographical bits better, as Alan describes his childhood and his family, and in the final tale, his cancer diagnosis and treatment. The diary entries, while witty and interesting in places, I found less likeable, while I have to admit to skipping some of the art lectures. They weren't exactly tedious, just not something that overly appeals to me.
Worth the read though - I'm glad I picked it up.
November 24, 2024
Surprisingly serious memoir type of pieces, for a comedy writer. Doesnt really excite me. For those who already have read everything else of Bennett.
February 1, 2022
This is another classic bedtime book for me, because despite being eminently readable, it’s still pretty heavy going. It’s just a beast of a book with pretty small print, and so if I’d tried to tackle it as my main read, I don’t think I would have stuck with it.
And you’d be doing yourself a disservice if you passed this one up, at least if you’re an Alan Bennett fan. That’s because there’s actually a lot of good stuff here, including some pretty interesting mini essays that take you behind the scenes of some of Bennett’s theatre productions or that go into the inspirations for various different stories that he’s worked on throughout the years.
Then there are the diary entries, which are surprisingly interesting considering I’ve never really been nosy enough to want to read someone else’s journals. I think it helps that they’re relatively recent diaries, and so when he’s reacting to world events, I can remember when a lot of them happened.
At the same time, though, this is pretty much the exact same book as Keeping On Keeping On, and that one was a bit of a challenge to read as well. It kind of feels as though Bennett is on a mission to publish literally everything that he’s ever written, and even though he’s a decent writer, that does get a bit dull after a while. I’d read Stephen King’s shopping lists, but I wouldn’t read Bennett’s. And yet in a way, that’s kind of what we get here.
I mean don’t get me wrong, it was still a decent enough read, it’s just a bit of a trek and it will take a ton of commitment. That’s particularly true when you get to the diaries, because even though they do tie in with major events and take you behind the scenes on some of his creative projects, you’re still just sitting there reading diary entries. It’s not quite as dull as reading a collection of letters, but it’s not far off either.
On the plus side, there was some interesting stuff on Bennett’s relationship with his mother, who suffered from some mental health conditions. He writes openly and honestly about what that was like for the family to deal with, and we also see him talking about things like electro-shock therapy and other mental health “best practices” that have since gone out of fashion. Interestingly, he wasn’t opposed to it, either.
Unfortunately for me, that’s about all I have to say about this one, and I need to pull another 200 words out of somewhere so that I can meet my goal of making sure that every review consists of the same number of words as the book has pages. But then, if Bennett can write 660 pages about nothing in particular then so can I, it just might not be as entertaining.
Because that’s the thing about this one. Even though it’s not like a gripping novel where the plot will make you want to keep reading page after page, there’s just something about Bennett’s writing that makes it enjoyable. It’s not going to be the kind of book that you can’t put down, but you will still want to stick at it and get to the end, even if it takes you a couple of months.
And there’s no shame in taking your time with it, because it’s that kind of read. You could even dip in and out of it if you wanted to, although I’d advise against it. The problem with doing that is that you’d never know when you finished, and there’d also be a risk that you’d find yourself re-reading something that you’d already read.
So there you have it, those are my thoughts on Alan Bennett’s Untold Stories. Make of that as you will.
And you’d be doing yourself a disservice if you passed this one up, at least if you’re an Alan Bennett fan. That’s because there’s actually a lot of good stuff here, including some pretty interesting mini essays that take you behind the scenes of some of Bennett’s theatre productions or that go into the inspirations for various different stories that he’s worked on throughout the years.
Then there are the diary entries, which are surprisingly interesting considering I’ve never really been nosy enough to want to read someone else’s journals. I think it helps that they’re relatively recent diaries, and so when he’s reacting to world events, I can remember when a lot of them happened.
At the same time, though, this is pretty much the exact same book as Keeping On Keeping On, and that one was a bit of a challenge to read as well. It kind of feels as though Bennett is on a mission to publish literally everything that he’s ever written, and even though he’s a decent writer, that does get a bit dull after a while. I’d read Stephen King’s shopping lists, but I wouldn’t read Bennett’s. And yet in a way, that’s kind of what we get here.
I mean don’t get me wrong, it was still a decent enough read, it’s just a bit of a trek and it will take a ton of commitment. That’s particularly true when you get to the diaries, because even though they do tie in with major events and take you behind the scenes on some of his creative projects, you’re still just sitting there reading diary entries. It’s not quite as dull as reading a collection of letters, but it’s not far off either.
On the plus side, there was some interesting stuff on Bennett’s relationship with his mother, who suffered from some mental health conditions. He writes openly and honestly about what that was like for the family to deal with, and we also see him talking about things like electro-shock therapy and other mental health “best practices” that have since gone out of fashion. Interestingly, he wasn’t opposed to it, either.
Unfortunately for me, that’s about all I have to say about this one, and I need to pull another 200 words out of somewhere so that I can meet my goal of making sure that every review consists of the same number of words as the book has pages. But then, if Bennett can write 660 pages about nothing in particular then so can I, it just might not be as entertaining.
Because that’s the thing about this one. Even though it’s not like a gripping novel where the plot will make you want to keep reading page after page, there’s just something about Bennett’s writing that makes it enjoyable. It’s not going to be the kind of book that you can’t put down, but you will still want to stick at it and get to the end, even if it takes you a couple of months.
And there’s no shame in taking your time with it, because it’s that kind of read. You could even dip in and out of it if you wanted to, although I’d advise against it. The problem with doing that is that you’d never know when you finished, and there’d also be a risk that you’d find yourself re-reading something that you’d already read.
So there you have it, those are my thoughts on Alan Bennett’s Untold Stories. Make of that as you will.
January 24, 2023
A sort of autobiography interspersed with clippings of diaries, life events and general thoughts and musings. If the last Alan Bennett book I read (House Arrest, 2022) was too short this was too long (just shy of 700 pages!).
I feel an affection to Alan Bennett because the world he talks about is so familiar. A huge portion of the book is like a blueprint of Leeds, where I lived for 10 years. I honestly think I’d have struggled to get through the 100+ pages on art and architecture, however most of it is on Leeds Art Gallery which made it more relatable. The diaries can be a bit of a slog to get through but are still enjoyable and funny.
A lovely, joyful read ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
I feel an affection to Alan Bennett because the world he talks about is so familiar. A huge portion of the book is like a blueprint of Leeds, where I lived for 10 years. I honestly think I’d have struggled to get through the 100+ pages on art and architecture, however most of it is on Leeds Art Gallery which made it more relatable. The diaries can be a bit of a slog to get through but are still enjoyable and funny.
A lovely, joyful read ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
September 15, 2020
Alan Bennett’s writing is a thing of beauty.
December 18, 2021
Stunning
February 12, 2018
Parts of this were fantastic. It got kind of repetitive. Bennett could have left some of the stories untold.
May 13, 2021
Bennett's insightful, sometimes amusing, and always self aware writing is engaging. But the book lacks any narrative or connected coherence. I enjoyed dipping in and out but never felt the need to read every page. Eventually I tired of the fragmented nature of the book. The first section about his family and childhood was the most interesting for me. I couldn't help wondering how someone so intelligent and insightful could have emerged from such a limited and isolating home background. Neither nature nor nurture seems to explain such an outcome.
Probably recommended but not my 'book of the decade' as per the opinion from The Observer trumpeted on the front cover.
Probably recommended but not my 'book of the decade' as per the opinion from The Observer trumpeted on the front cover.
December 21, 2012
Currently almost half-way through and, to be honest, it's a toss-up as to whether or not I'll get much further. Friends who I write letters to always say that my letters are like Alan Bennett and, having only seen the "Talking Heads" monologues and other Alan Bennett pieces on TV and having read the "Talking Heads" scripts, I've always taken this as a compliment. Having now read the appalling "Smut" and now some of this compilation, I'm not so sure! What a bl**dy joyless b*stard!
Apologies for the language, but it is necessary to convey the frustrating tedium of this book. It has been quite painful reading, as I recognise myself all too clearly in Bennett's young self, agonising over his sexuality and looking ahead to a life devoid of loving, intimate human contact, walking the streets in a sublimation of desire, (although my walks were taken in the very early morning and with the express purpose of calming myself, in preparation for the inevitable round of bullying at school and the added intention of focussing my mind on the motorway, which ran through the little village I came from and which represented escape and freedom. At the time it only ran as far as Blackburn - hardly the yellow brick road!)
But Bennett absolutely martyrs himself on the altar of his sexuality and sexual inadequacy. I would hope that I temper my more downbeat stories with rather more humour than Bennett shows here. I'm presently struggling through the diaries. With all the people that Bennett knew, you would have thought they would be full of amusing anecdotes but, really, if I have to read about ANOTHER visit to some flipping church and its marvellous burial crypt, I dare say I'll fling the darn book across the room! He also wears his learning like a trophy, taking pleasure in some little literary whimsy or simile that you need to be an Oxford don to comprehend. Now I know how my sister used to feel when I used "big words" that, to me, with my grammar school education, were commonplace but to her were just "showing off"!
And I'm also tired of Bennett's incessant homophobia! The other night, I watched the film of "The History Boys" and at the end, when they are telling what becomes of them in the future, the main Gay schoolboy character, who has become a teacher, says, (words to the effect that,) "Although I don't TOUCH the boys, it's a struggle, which perhaps makes me a better teacher!" Oh, please! this is Bennett's philosophy all over; if you're Gay, you are bound to be at best a potential "kiddie fiddler" and self-denial is the price you have to pay for accomplishment in another area of your life and if I wanted to read such nonsense, I'd be reading the Daily Mail, not a book!
Apologies for the language, but it is necessary to convey the frustrating tedium of this book. It has been quite painful reading, as I recognise myself all too clearly in Bennett's young self, agonising over his sexuality and looking ahead to a life devoid of loving, intimate human contact, walking the streets in a sublimation of desire, (although my walks were taken in the very early morning and with the express purpose of calming myself, in preparation for the inevitable round of bullying at school and the added intention of focussing my mind on the motorway, which ran through the little village I came from and which represented escape and freedom. At the time it only ran as far as Blackburn - hardly the yellow brick road!)
But Bennett absolutely martyrs himself on the altar of his sexuality and sexual inadequacy. I would hope that I temper my more downbeat stories with rather more humour than Bennett shows here. I'm presently struggling through the diaries. With all the people that Bennett knew, you would have thought they would be full of amusing anecdotes but, really, if I have to read about ANOTHER visit to some flipping church and its marvellous burial crypt, I dare say I'll fling the darn book across the room! He also wears his learning like a trophy, taking pleasure in some little literary whimsy or simile that you need to be an Oxford don to comprehend. Now I know how my sister used to feel when I used "big words" that, to me, with my grammar school education, were commonplace but to her were just "showing off"!
And I'm also tired of Bennett's incessant homophobia! The other night, I watched the film of "The History Boys" and at the end, when they are telling what becomes of them in the future, the main Gay schoolboy character, who has become a teacher, says, (words to the effect that,) "Although I don't TOUCH the boys, it's a struggle, which perhaps makes me a better teacher!" Oh, please! this is Bennett's philosophy all over; if you're Gay, you are bound to be at best a potential "kiddie fiddler" and self-denial is the price you have to pay for accomplishment in another area of your life and if I wanted to read such nonsense, I'd be reading the Daily Mail, not a book!
November 3, 2010
This anthology includes diaries, essays and musings on events and personalities. I am more interested in the initial sections, Untold Stories and Written On The Body, which contain surprisingly poignant descriptions of his family life. I tend to forget that non-fiction writing can be as moving and feel as authentic as a good novel.
He flung open the door on Bedlam, a scene of unimagined wretchedness. What hit you first was the noise. The hospitals I had been in previously were calm and unhurried; voices were hushed; sickness, during visiting hours at least, went hand in hand with decorum. Not here. Crammed with wild and distracted women, lying or lurching about in all the wanton disarray of a Hogarth print, it was a place of terrible tumult. Some of the grey-gowned wild-eyed creatures were weeping, others shouting, while one demented wretch shrieked at short and regular intervals like some tropical bird. Almost worst was a big dull-eyed woman who sat bolt upright on her bed, oblivious to the surrounding tumult, as silent and unmoving as a stone deity.
Obviously, I thought, we have strayed into the wrong ward, much as Elizabeth Taylor did in the film of Suddenly Last Summer. Mam was not ill like this. She had nothing to do with the distracted creature who sat by the nearest bed, her gown hitched high above her knees, banging her spoon on a tray. But as I turned to go I saw that Dad was walking on down the ward.
We had left Mam at a hospital that morning looking, even after weeks of illness, not much different from her usual self: weeping and distraught, it's true, but still plump and pretty, clutching her everlasting handbag and still somehow managing to face the world. As I followed my father down the ward I wondered why we were bothering: there was no such person here.
He stopped at the bed of a sad, shrunken woman with wild hair, who cringed back against the pillows.
'Here's your Mam,' he said.
December 19, 2008
The same stork that brought "The Banquet Years" delivered this as well - what a delight! I waxed enthusiastic about Bennett's "Writing Home" just a few months ago - look forward to more.
Part of Bennett's appeal is that of the secondary talents of any generation, augmented, I don't doubt, by the fact that this is best I can hope for as well.
Moving to the completed list - as for the secondary talent remark, the more I read by and about Alan Bennett, the more I regard it as my own failing that I wasn't familiar with him before a year or so ago.
Latest "firmly in the zeitgeist" sighting is his early 60s satirical revue "Beyond the Fringe" being mentioned in Stephen Davis's "Old Gods Almost Dead" history of The Rolling Stones as a cultural event of parallel significance to Muddy Waters' 1958 tour of the UK with the Chris Barber jazz band.
Part of Bennett's appeal is that of the secondary talents of any generation, augmented, I don't doubt, by the fact that this is best I can hope for as well.
Moving to the completed list - as for the secondary talent remark, the more I read by and about Alan Bennett, the more I regard it as my own failing that I wasn't familiar with him before a year or so ago.
Latest "firmly in the zeitgeist" sighting is his early 60s satirical revue "Beyond the Fringe" being mentioned in Stephen Davis's "Old Gods Almost Dead" history of The Rolling Stones as a cultural event of parallel significance to Muddy Waters' 1958 tour of the UK with the Chris Barber jazz band.
July 19, 2013
It’s a very easy read. Humane and sentimental at times, yet providing utter pleasure.
Alan Bennett has written this autobiographical book when he was diagnosed with cancer in 1997, so naturally its full of reflection on the past.
I loved the description of his shy working class parents and his father’s sartorial preferences: "He had two suits: “my suit” and “my other suit” being the one he wore every day, “my other suit” his was best." I also enjoyed rather sarcastic if not candid account of his aunties, who were striving to raise above their class.
To me this book was a chapter of quintessentially British way of being. Or more precisely - quintessentially middle England.
And easy and pleasant read and very visual, yet the staging at the National Theatre and later in West End, directed by Nadia Fall, to my mind, was less successful.
Alan Bennett has written this autobiographical book when he was diagnosed with cancer in 1997, so naturally its full of reflection on the past.
I loved the description of his shy working class parents and his father’s sartorial preferences: "He had two suits: “my suit” and “my other suit” being the one he wore every day, “my other suit” his was best." I also enjoyed rather sarcastic if not candid account of his aunties, who were striving to raise above their class.
To me this book was a chapter of quintessentially British way of being. Or more precisely - quintessentially middle England.
And easy and pleasant read and very visual, yet the staging at the National Theatre and later in West End, directed by Nadia Fall, to my mind, was less successful.
December 16, 2007
I was so surprised by how much I enjoyed this book. I didn't know much about Alan Bennet before but found his story very interesting and beautifully written. Some of the detail on art was a bit dry but I skipped those bits.
An uplifting experience, loads of bits to read out and remember.
An uplifting experience, loads of bits to read out and remember.
March 14, 2009
With his usual mixture of pathos and humour Alan Bennett returned with a follow-up to the hugely successful 'Writing Home'. This new book included more diary extracts, writings on the theatre, art, close friends and a touching memoir of his parents. Without doubt, the best book of 2005.
March 21, 2012
a lovely read, one that you can't help but do in Bennett's broad Yorkshire accent. The stories about his parents are very moving as is his bowel cancer.
Some of the articles in the middle need some knowledge about just who these painters and writers are, but nonetheless are still great to read.
Some of the articles in the middle need some knowledge about just who these painters and writers are, but nonetheless are still great to read.
May 24, 2016
Bennett's life is always fascinating for me. This is a book I can dip in and out of as an occasional treat. When he writes about his family, there is so much to identify with as so much of their behaviour (e.g., not pushing themselves forward) and their experiences are so typically British.
February 19, 2017
I love the last two words!
May 2, 2023
What if blackberrying in the lanes but too much? In the fantastic “Love, Nina”, Nina Stibbe writes about how she made a blackberry pie for Mary Kay Wilmers, her children and Alan Bennet:- "AB likes blackberries but they make him nostalgic about blackberrying in the lanes, so to avoid disappointment (and the blackberrying anecdotes), I said the pie was apple and raspberry." This book has a lot of blackberrying in the lanes in the memoir of Bennett’s family life, including the strange death of his auntie, and the suicide of his grandfather, and he goes onto describe his life with Rupert in the diaries, his thoughts on other writers, actors, painters etc and finally, his cancer. It is 600+ pages and could easily have been sold as three books but, as he says in the introduction, he wanted to make the book similar to one of the annuals he received as a boy (and I imagine, as a lefty-liberal, he wouldn’t want to make people pay thrice).
I could quote most of this book but here are a few choice cuts from the Headingley boucherie:
“One of Diana Ross’s daughters labours under the name of Chudney”.
“He manages to get naked again, streaking across Parliament Square, generally displaying such a facility for stripping off that it’s hard not to feel that’s where his future lies. He turns out to be from Coventry, which is of course a place with some tradition of public nudity”.
“Bishops are too much on television”.
“Bump into David Storey in M&S. Never in high spirits, he always cheers me up”.
“At the end [John Gielgud] was given a round of applause by cast and crew, which I felt had not much to do with the quality of the speech so much as his having stayed alive long enough to deliver it".
"Less well known is the fact that the peacock was supposed to scream at the sight of its own feet, not recognising them as its own - a predicament one sympathises with more and more as one gets older".
"In those days, I don't suppose there was all that much to do in Sardinia, visiting the hospital quite a high point. Nowadays they probably go water-skiing".
One last thing: I still can’t believe Alan’s brother is called Gordon.
I could quote most of this book but here are a few choice cuts from the Headingley boucherie:
“One of Diana Ross’s daughters labours under the name of Chudney”.
“He manages to get naked again, streaking across Parliament Square, generally displaying such a facility for stripping off that it’s hard not to feel that’s where his future lies. He turns out to be from Coventry, which is of course a place with some tradition of public nudity”.
“Bishops are too much on television”.
“Bump into David Storey in M&S. Never in high spirits, he always cheers me up”.
“At the end [John Gielgud] was given a round of applause by cast and crew, which I felt had not much to do with the quality of the speech so much as his having stayed alive long enough to deliver it".
"Less well known is the fact that the peacock was supposed to scream at the sight of its own feet, not recognising them as its own - a predicament one sympathises with more and more as one gets older".
"In those days, I don't suppose there was all that much to do in Sardinia, visiting the hospital quite a high point. Nowadays they probably go water-skiing".
One last thing: I still can’t believe Alan’s brother is called Gordon.
January 6, 2020
During a party for the most recent New Year, someone asked me which current novelists would people read one hundred years from now. My response, "None of them." This book suggests my theory could be right. Throughout this book Bennett writes affectionate and poignant obituaries for his contemporaries and I am struck by how many names I don't recognize, and how many authors I have read but simply forgotten. If there is an underlying unity to this book, it is about the significance of our life to others. Bennett starts with a brief autobiography of his early life, and this autobiography interweaves the subsequent diary entries and essays. It is as though he is contemplating the significance of his own contribution.
This is also a book for writers. About process and inspirations. I am struck at times by Bennett's Anglo-centricity, which exists even in his rejection of the British establishment. There is a quaintness to his reminiscences regarding old churches and art galleries, but their is also naïve prejudice in some of his commentary. In one diary entry he reflects on the current fashion in headgear. Slightly disparaging toward the youth who sport them, Bennett seems to be describing Peruvian Chullos which have been manufactured in muted, dull colors to suit the British climate and temperament. He refers to them as Roman helmets. It conjures imagination and I think of the Roman soldiers who stood outside Jesus' tomb wearing the stern faces of the Secret service complete with Ray-ban sunglasses and brightly colored knitted hats. Probably not an image to be found at the National gallery any time soon. 1/50
This is also a book for writers. About process and inspirations. I am struck at times by Bennett's Anglo-centricity, which exists even in his rejection of the British establishment. There is a quaintness to his reminiscences regarding old churches and art galleries, but their is also naïve prejudice in some of his commentary. In one diary entry he reflects on the current fashion in headgear. Slightly disparaging toward the youth who sport them, Bennett seems to be describing Peruvian Chullos which have been manufactured in muted, dull colors to suit the British climate and temperament. He refers to them as Roman helmets. It conjures imagination and I think of the Roman soldiers who stood outside Jesus' tomb wearing the stern faces of the Secret service complete with Ray-ban sunglasses and brightly colored knitted hats. Probably not an image to be found at the National gallery any time soon. 1/50
May 2, 2021
I like Alan Bennett’s dry humour and I like his politics. I don’t share his interest in ancient churches or classical music. The first chunk tells of his childhood, mostly his parents lives in Leeds in days of war, rationing and doing without. His aunties and Grand parents are brought back to life too. We get to know all these characters vividly so share in their declines towards death. It’s more cheery than it sounds.
Then there’s a chunk of his diaries from 1996 – 2003 in which we hear more about churches and classical music as well as New York, Venice, some place in France, London and Yorkshire. There’s lots of name dropping and lots of deaths, real ones of friends and acquaintances. Plenty of funerals, often involving churches. AB often seems amused by his lack of stardom or does he bemoan it? Along the way Alan B comments on era defining events; the death of Diana, 11th September 2001, War in Iraq, New fucking Labour. AB notices the early signs of a decline in society that I notice all around me today. But he writes them down and is funny. I liked the first two parts of the book very much but as it went on and off on tangents it did lose my interest in places and it became a bit of a chore at times.
Happily it picked up towards the end with more amusing anecdotal writing, even the final chapter which deals with AB confronting his own possible demise.
Then there’s a chunk of his diaries from 1996 – 2003 in which we hear more about churches and classical music as well as New York, Venice, some place in France, London and Yorkshire. There’s lots of name dropping and lots of deaths, real ones of friends and acquaintances. Plenty of funerals, often involving churches. AB often seems amused by his lack of stardom or does he bemoan it? Along the way Alan B comments on era defining events; the death of Diana, 11th September 2001, War in Iraq, New fucking Labour. AB notices the early signs of a decline in society that I notice all around me today. But he writes them down and is funny. I liked the first two parts of the book very much but as it went on and off on tangents it did lose my interest in places and it became a bit of a chore at times.
Happily it picked up towards the end with more amusing anecdotal writing, even the final chapter which deals with AB confronting his own possible demise.
February 19, 2025
I bought this back in 2016, but left after reading Writing Home until I read Killing Time in almost one sitting and decided that I wanted more of the author’s easy style and humour. I wasn’t disappointed, as this varied collection of essays, articles and diary entries were wonderful, usually with an underlying moral truth or seriousness.
The first (auto)biographical essays illuminate time past that is largely unrecorded (or if recorded, largely unpublished) and provided some echoes of what life might have been like for my parents and grandparents. It is hard for me to really remember what my parents and grandparents were like, rather than photograph like impressions of particular events, but these essays help recall my past memories, however different.
The diaries are from years that I lived through and it’s amusing to note references to exhibitions that I recall, as well as comments on the politics and culture.
Going to the Pictures, a lecture given by Bennett as a trustee of the National Gallery, is my favourite essay from this collection, with such humour regarding one’s reactions to paintings, as well as the connection between going to the pictures (films) in the 1940’s and 1950’s , and contemporaries viewing paintings in the fifteenth and sixteenth century, with references to saints and, later, classical mythology.
The first (auto)biographical essays illuminate time past that is largely unrecorded (or if recorded, largely unpublished) and provided some echoes of what life might have been like for my parents and grandparents. It is hard for me to really remember what my parents and grandparents were like, rather than photograph like impressions of particular events, but these essays help recall my past memories, however different.
The diaries are from years that I lived through and it’s amusing to note references to exhibitions that I recall, as well as comments on the politics and culture.
Going to the Pictures, a lecture given by Bennett as a trustee of the National Gallery, is my favourite essay from this collection, with such humour regarding one’s reactions to paintings, as well as the connection between going to the pictures (films) in the 1940’s and 1950’s , and contemporaries viewing paintings in the fifteenth and sixteenth century, with references to saints and, later, classical mythology.
January 24, 2018
This volume is a hodge-podge of diary entries, scripts, essays and reviews. While the writing is of consistently high quality, few will find all of it interesting. The art crit, for example, did little for me.
The highlight was the opening extended essay; a vivid, affecting description of his family and early life. I also grew up as a member of the “respectable” working class, and I can instantly recognize the attitudes of his parents, especially his mother’s aversion to anything “common”. His mother and mine certainly had that in common.
The diary entries are for the most part witty and observant, though some verge on the dull. Why whinge about Classic FM? Just turn to Radio 3! The following are my favourite entries. It’s September 97 and the British people demand the Queen joins in the hysterical public grief after Diana’s death.
“The poor Queen is to be forced to go mournabout. I suppose it is a revolution, but with Rosa Luxemburg played by Sharon and Tracy.”
“HMQ to address the nation tomorrow. I’m only surprised Her Majesty hasn’t had to submit to a phone-in.”
Bennett's wit, wisdom and unstuffy prose are admirable: anyone who likes Bennett’s work will find much to enjoy here.
The highlight was the opening extended essay; a vivid, affecting description of his family and early life. I also grew up as a member of the “respectable” working class, and I can instantly recognize the attitudes of his parents, especially his mother’s aversion to anything “common”. His mother and mine certainly had that in common.
The diary entries are for the most part witty and observant, though some verge on the dull. Why whinge about Classic FM? Just turn to Radio 3! The following are my favourite entries. It’s September 97 and the British people demand the Queen joins in the hysterical public grief after Diana’s death.
“The poor Queen is to be forced to go mournabout. I suppose it is a revolution, but with Rosa Luxemburg played by Sharon and Tracy.”
“HMQ to address the nation tomorrow. I’m only surprised Her Majesty hasn’t had to submit to a phone-in.”
Bennett's wit, wisdom and unstuffy prose are admirable: anyone who likes Bennett’s work will find much to enjoy here.
March 6, 2018
Is there anyone on Earth who could find it in their heart to dislike Alan Bennett? Certainly there must be few in England, since Bennett has become such an undisputed National Treasure that he (or someone pretending to be him) makes regular appearances on the Radio 4 impressions show Dead Ringers. This must be because he has projected such a consistent image of himself over so many years through his plays, public appearances and interviews. 'Whimsical' is the inevitable adjective, but we could add self-effacing, wry and witty. A couple of other qualities emerge through this patchwork quilt of an autobiography, made up of a few extended memoirs, some (heavily edited) diaries and some essays on art and other writers. One of them is honesty, not the honesty that delights in self-revelation (Bennett's shyness is clearly not just an act) but the honesty that forces out occasional confessions simply because they are necessary for us to understand who Bennett is and the stories he is telling about himself. Because Bennett makes us aware that these confessions do not come particularly easily to him, they seem more valuable. You feel privileged to be given insights into the world of someone who is a very private person with a very public persona.
October 17, 2025
A 4-star, due entirely to my liking of Mr Bennett; some of his writing and work I find so moving, and, vitally, funny.
Over 500 pages is hard-going. I read as a hard copy and the best method was to think it in the style of Mr Bennett’s voice or my impersonation of. Some sections are tedious. But also some gems: the section relating to British Royally given titles and Gongs. I agree with virtually all of his views; if Michelle Mone for example can sit in the House of Lords, and be allowed to continue doing so, what really are their worth? The section on Thora Hird is excellent, made easy as she herself was excellent. It begs the question is Mr Bennett Thora Hird or vice versa? Mr B would likely say he hoped not as Miss Hird has been deceased for some time now.
The book title is Untold Stories……a bit of a mid-description as I had heard or read of several anecdotes several times before.
Over 500 pages is hard-going. I read as a hard copy and the best method was to think it in the style of Mr Bennett’s voice or my impersonation of. Some sections are tedious. But also some gems: the section relating to British Royally given titles and Gongs. I agree with virtually all of his views; if Michelle Mone for example can sit in the House of Lords, and be allowed to continue doing so, what really are their worth? The section on Thora Hird is excellent, made easy as she herself was excellent. It begs the question is Mr Bennett Thora Hird or vice versa? Mr B would likely say he hoped not as Miss Hird has been deceased for some time now.
The book title is Untold Stories……a bit of a mid-description as I had heard or read of several anecdotes several times before.
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