I learned about this book from Simon and Rachel on the Tea or Books? podcast and immediately wanted to read it. I put the order in at Powell's and four weeks later, I finished it. I'm so thankful Daunt Books republished it since I hear it was really hard to find previously.
I entered so fully into the world Ann Bridge creates. Venice and the Dalmatian coast are foreign to me. I only have vague images in my mind as to what they look like, so I was able to go along with Grace, soaking in the sights and sounds, remembering what it's like to be in a foreign country...the serendipities, the inconveniences, the surprising places that one feels connected and at home, the unfamiliar and strange, the intensity. The travel/nature writing in this was lovely, and I already look forward to returning to it and soaking in the sense of place, especially the little town of Komolac where Grace has her enchanting room: "It was with something of the sense of slipping into clear water that she woke, in the mornings, in her bare room, seeing from one window the long shadows of the cypresses cutting across the shafts of early light...she lay in bed watching them, her lovely empty day spread out ahead of her wide and still as a lake..." (158).
Grace's literal room reminded me of Virginia Woolf's "A Room of One's Own", but the metaphor is so apt for the story...not only does Grace, wife of a famous economist and mother of three college-age children, finally have her own literal space after years of crowding, but she also fills up the space her own mind, body, and soul take up in the world instead of shrinking into the shadows of Walter's voluble intelligence, her teenage daughter's youthful scorn, and her twin sons' enthusiasms. This transformation takes the whole book and it's so subtly and masterfully handled. A crisis precipitates her trip, and Grace is honest and introspective enough to look squarely at her own faults, but she also begins to find again her own worth. It's lovely to see how Nicholas and the Professor help her in this process.
And Nicholas is great, too (though Grace is my real favorite). His transformation in the story is more about his outward life--his pursuit of painting instead of architecture and his familial struggles--but Grace's example sets him on the road to maturing emotionally in a wonderful way, too. Grace has such emotional intelligence and it's sad that she denigrates herself because her intelligence isn't like Walter's or the Professor's or even Nicholas's. But they all come to realize her own way of being intelligent by the end. (Also, she somehow speaks like five languages--German, Latin, Italian, French, and English...so how is that stupid?)
At first, I was uncomfortable with the romance theme in the latter half of the book, but I let the book be on its own terms, and I am so glad I did. The romance and its effects on Nicholas, Grace, Linnet, Walter and the Professor is explored so interestingly and provides a good foil for the married love that we see Grace and Walter renew at the end of the novel. And the sparks of interest and devotion from Nicholas are important for setting Grace on her path to renewed self-worth. It also proves Grace's moral center as she sets up boundaries with Nicholas while still caring for him. I can't remember reading a storyline like this where there was an adulterous line flirted with, but ultimately not transgressed emotionally or physically. It was really refreshing in this day and age of free love that lacks an understanding of the nuance between duty and desire. (Funny to read this on the heels of The End of the Affair.)
The last sixth of the book could be seen as too coincidental, but I thought it worked well and tied up all the loose ends of the book in a very satisfactory way. Not too squeaky clean, but clean enough that we know our beloved Grace and Nicholas are on a good path forward. Also, I thought the last line was perfect...such a good blend of irony and sincerity. I look forward to reading this again.