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Peace at the Edge of Uncertainty: Finding Beauty in Mystery, Reclaiming Truth From the Myth of Certainty
An inspirational story of a journey up to the edge of life, and just a little bit beyond. True accounts of multiple experiences with that space that exists between life and whatever happens after life.
Filled with beautiful introspections into the nature of family and relationships, Hanson pulls no punches when questioning the struggles we all face with difficult life and death decisions. In a highly personal style, he shares the revelations, discoveries, and growth he discovered by his father's deathbed.
In our world of highly effective medicine and life-support, most of us will face difficult and wrenching decisions at some When does life begin and end? What are the complexions of distinction between bare and primitive "life" on the one hand, and "human-ness" on the other hand? Where and when and how do we "play God" with our decisions to provide or withhold feeding tubes and respirators? How do we face these questions, and work our way to effective answers?
Woven through the story are descriptions of magical and mystical encounters that inform and guide the life of the narrator, helping to open honest questions about how religion aids and obstructs the journey through faith that most of us explore.
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Filled with beautiful introspections into the nature of family and relationships, Hanson pulls no punches when questioning the struggles we all face with difficult life and death decisions. In a highly personal style, he shares the revelations, discoveries, and growth he discovered by his father's deathbed.
In our world of highly effective medicine and life-support, most of us will face difficult and wrenching decisions at some When does life begin and end? What are the complexions of distinction between bare and primitive "life" on the one hand, and "human-ness" on the other hand? Where and when and how do we "play God" with our decisions to provide or withhold feeding tubes and respirators? How do we face these questions, and work our way to effective answers?
Woven through the story are descriptions of magical and mystical encounters that inform and guide the life of the narrator, helping to open honest questions about how religion aids and obstructs the journey through faith that most of us explore.
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119 pages, Paperback
First published May 3, 2010
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About the author
Neil M. Hanson
6 books23 followersA lifelong cyclist, Neil Hanson's two-wheeled adventures have taken him across America, along the Natchez Trace, and throughout northern Italy. Originally from Kansas, Neil currently lives in Colorado, where he navigates his bicycle up and down the inclines of the Rocky Mountains. His books include Pilgrim Wheels, part one of the deep and introspective journey story woven around his cross-country trip that concludes in Pilgrim Spokes, as well as a how-to minimalist-touring guide, The Pilgrim Way.
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July 1, 2011
This is the story of one man's spiritual journey in the search for truth and peace. "Peace At The Edge Of Uncertainty" by Neil Hanson, is a memoir of a special time, place and experience in the author's life.
The author writes an open letter to his father who died fifteen years ago. This is a story of self-discovery, acceptance and spiritual growth. It is a story of how a family comes together to make decisions about end-of-life care for their father. Finally, this is a story of the power of love and the awareness that love never ends.
The author uses the structure of a letter to tell his story of the final days of his father's life. Many thoughts enter his mind as he sits near his comatose father's hospital bed. The fact that his dad is dying forces him to accept the fact that we are all on a journey toward death. He feels the presence of God in the room as his father quietly leaves this world and enters the next. Mr. Hanson believes this experience helped him come into a deeper awareness of his father's influence in his life. He feels his father's presence more now than ever before.
Mr. Hanson and his siblings were forced to make some difficult end-of-life decisions. They decided to reject feeding tubes, respirators and anything that would prolong their father's life by artificial means. They often sat in silence at their father's side because they could not find words to express their emotions. Each person deals with grief and loss in their own personal way.
This book is about a spiritual journey but has nothing to do with organized religion. The author deals with questions about life, death and the after-life. I found that I could deeply relate to the thoughts and feelings that Mr. Hanson expresses in this book. My father died less than one year ago and I felt many of the same emotions that are expressed in this book. I feel a definite kinship with Mr. Hanson and his family. He opened his heart and expressed things that most people could never put into words.
There might be some who are not willing to delve into the highly personal thoughts of transition and transcendence. If so, this book is not for you. However, if your heart is open and willing to explore new spiritual places, this book will touch your heart in a very special way.
Disclosure: Neil Hanson sent me a complimentary digital copy of this book to read and review. Thank you!
The author writes an open letter to his father who died fifteen years ago. This is a story of self-discovery, acceptance and spiritual growth. It is a story of how a family comes together to make decisions about end-of-life care for their father. Finally, this is a story of the power of love and the awareness that love never ends.
The author uses the structure of a letter to tell his story of the final days of his father's life. Many thoughts enter his mind as he sits near his comatose father's hospital bed. The fact that his dad is dying forces him to accept the fact that we are all on a journey toward death. He feels the presence of God in the room as his father quietly leaves this world and enters the next. Mr. Hanson believes this experience helped him come into a deeper awareness of his father's influence in his life. He feels his father's presence more now than ever before.
Mr. Hanson and his siblings were forced to make some difficult end-of-life decisions. They decided to reject feeding tubes, respirators and anything that would prolong their father's life by artificial means. They often sat in silence at their father's side because they could not find words to express their emotions. Each person deals with grief and loss in their own personal way.
This book is about a spiritual journey but has nothing to do with organized religion. The author deals with questions about life, death and the after-life. I found that I could deeply relate to the thoughts and feelings that Mr. Hanson expresses in this book. My father died less than one year ago and I felt many of the same emotions that are expressed in this book. I feel a definite kinship with Mr. Hanson and his family. He opened his heart and expressed things that most people could never put into words.
There might be some who are not willing to delve into the highly personal thoughts of transition and transcendence. If so, this book is not for you. However, if your heart is open and willing to explore new spiritual places, this book will touch your heart in a very special way.
Disclosure: Neil Hanson sent me a complimentary digital copy of this book to read and review. Thank you!
September 17, 2011
Review of Peace at the Edge of Uncertainty
Wow, this book is different. It is a serious consideration of mysticism in modern religion or more correctly the modern world. The story is written in the form of a letter to the author’s father who had died fifteen years before. Partly it is in the form of a confession or rather an admission of human frailties that a young rebellious son can feel towards his parents. Plus he tells the truth when when he states the difficulty people have in uttering the words ‘I forgive you,’ and actually meaning them.
I’m getting ahead of myself. At the very start of the book Neil states clearly that this book is non-denominational. It is meant for everyone who believes in their G-d be it Christian, Muslim, Judaism or whatever. Even though I am not a religious person I can subscribe to the belief that no one religion is right. After all how can millions of Muslims be any more right in their beliefs than millions of Christians or vice versa? I would consider a person’s beliefs are more an accident of birth than anything else. Neil himself writes G-d and refers to Him, Her or It, as a way of demonstrating how little we actually know about the entity. Let’s face it belief in any G-d is a matter of faith after all. He subscribes to the view that all that has been written no matter by what religion is man made and that modern orthodox religion has lost its way in teaching the true meaning of G-d and his word.
The letter to his dead father relates three mystical experiences; I won’t go into the details as I wouldn’t want to spoil the reader’s enjoyment of Peace at the Edge of Uncertainty. All I’ll say is that Neil feels that these experiences brought him very close to his G-d and yet these same experiences are dismissed by the church leaders as nonsense. However at the end of the book in his section Suggested Other Reading Neil leads us to read books that show mysticism has its place in most religions and points out that some religions are based on nothing but mystic tradition.
Peace at the Edge of Uncertainty is a very good book, extremely thought provoking by asking you to question religious orthodoxy. Anybody who believes in G-d should read this book and consider what its subject matter could mean to them and for non believers I guarantee it will set you thinking.
Neil’s website:- www.NeilHanson.com
Neil’s blog:- http://neilhanson.blogspot.com
If you wish to contact Neil by email:- Neil@NeilHanson.com
Wow, this book is different. It is a serious consideration of mysticism in modern religion or more correctly the modern world. The story is written in the form of a letter to the author’s father who had died fifteen years before. Partly it is in the form of a confession or rather an admission of human frailties that a young rebellious son can feel towards his parents. Plus he tells the truth when when he states the difficulty people have in uttering the words ‘I forgive you,’ and actually meaning them.
I’m getting ahead of myself. At the very start of the book Neil states clearly that this book is non-denominational. It is meant for everyone who believes in their G-d be it Christian, Muslim, Judaism or whatever. Even though I am not a religious person I can subscribe to the belief that no one religion is right. After all how can millions of Muslims be any more right in their beliefs than millions of Christians or vice versa? I would consider a person’s beliefs are more an accident of birth than anything else. Neil himself writes G-d and refers to Him, Her or It, as a way of demonstrating how little we actually know about the entity. Let’s face it belief in any G-d is a matter of faith after all. He subscribes to the view that all that has been written no matter by what religion is man made and that modern orthodox religion has lost its way in teaching the true meaning of G-d and his word.
The letter to his dead father relates three mystical experiences; I won’t go into the details as I wouldn’t want to spoil the reader’s enjoyment of Peace at the Edge of Uncertainty. All I’ll say is that Neil feels that these experiences brought him very close to his G-d and yet these same experiences are dismissed by the church leaders as nonsense. However at the end of the book in his section Suggested Other Reading Neil leads us to read books that show mysticism has its place in most religions and points out that some religions are based on nothing but mystic tradition.
Peace at the Edge of Uncertainty is a very good book, extremely thought provoking by asking you to question religious orthodoxy. Anybody who believes in G-d should read this book and consider what its subject matter could mean to them and for non believers I guarantee it will set you thinking.
Neil’s website:- www.NeilHanson.com
Neil’s blog:- http://neilhanson.blogspot.com
If you wish to contact Neil by email:- Neil@NeilHanson.com
July 21, 2011
There is a sentence on the back of this little book that, I think, best sums up the content therein. It reads:
'Explore the strength of "uncertainty" as a gift through which the magic of Wisdom and Truth might enter our life.'
In the form of a letter addressed "Dear Dad", Neil Hanson allows us into some very personal and very spiritual moments as he 'journeys to the edge of death with his father', and remains behind as his father carries on over that edge.
What impressed me most about this book was Mr. Hanson's ability to lay bare some very personal emotions and experiences without apology. As I read, I wondered to myself why it was so easy for me to simply accept the experiences I was reading about. The conclusion I reached was that in not asking me to believe what he was saying, Neil Hanson allowed me to see the truth in what he experienced. He writes in a way that is open and non-judgemental which allows the reader to be the same.
The experiences Neil went through as his father lay in the ICU dying, and the realizations he came to over the following fifteen years, make for an intense spiritual story. More than that, however, they open the door to the exploration of long held beliefs as well as new spiritual ideas.
In exploring the events of, and surrounding, his father's death, the author manages to explore the spiritual without spilling over into the religious. He does this by not spelling out the name of Deity but instead using 'G-d' and terms such as 'Spirit'; 'Presence'; 'Something Divine', and by alternating between male and female pronouns when writing about this Power. Also, in the 'Notes to the Reader' at the beginning of the book the reader is invited to:
'Make no assumptions or pre-judgements about what I might mean by the word, and instead, paint the word with your own beliefs.'
This inspirational treatise has given me a lot to think about and has refocused my spiritual lens. It is a book I know I will return to and reread as I travel my own path of new experiences and uncertainties. Definitely one I would recommend to anyone with a spiritual - not just Christian - bent.
'Explore the strength of "uncertainty" as a gift through which the magic of Wisdom and Truth might enter our life.'
In the form of a letter addressed "Dear Dad", Neil Hanson allows us into some very personal and very spiritual moments as he 'journeys to the edge of death with his father', and remains behind as his father carries on over that edge.
What impressed me most about this book was Mr. Hanson's ability to lay bare some very personal emotions and experiences without apology. As I read, I wondered to myself why it was so easy for me to simply accept the experiences I was reading about. The conclusion I reached was that in not asking me to believe what he was saying, Neil Hanson allowed me to see the truth in what he experienced. He writes in a way that is open and non-judgemental which allows the reader to be the same.
The experiences Neil went through as his father lay in the ICU dying, and the realizations he came to over the following fifteen years, make for an intense spiritual story. More than that, however, they open the door to the exploration of long held beliefs as well as new spiritual ideas.
In exploring the events of, and surrounding, his father's death, the author manages to explore the spiritual without spilling over into the religious. He does this by not spelling out the name of Deity but instead using 'G-d' and terms such as 'Spirit'; 'Presence'; 'Something Divine', and by alternating between male and female pronouns when writing about this Power. Also, in the 'Notes to the Reader' at the beginning of the book the reader is invited to:
'Make no assumptions or pre-judgements about what I might mean by the word, and instead, paint the word with your own beliefs.'
This inspirational treatise has given me a lot to think about and has refocused my spiritual lens. It is a book I know I will return to and reread as I travel my own path of new experiences and uncertainties. Definitely one I would recommend to anyone with a spiritual - not just Christian - bent.
July 1, 2011
Short Version: The writing is sincere, and you can clearly feel the deep emotion the author drew upon to pen his words. I love to ask and listen to a person's expression of their beliefs whether it is religious, Christian, Buddhism or any other belief system. I feel this is part of what makes a person unique, part of their heart, mind and energy. For many people in the world, faith and belief is integral in their lives. I find that very interesting in getting know a person better.
The problem I have, as a whole, with some religions, their adherents, etc. is that they then try to press those beliefs on others, telling them what they should do or believe, or attempting to impress their definitions and beliefs on others. Rather like trying to superimpose their dogma over other people's beliefs and ideas. That is the problem I have with religion. Not the belief or believing or faith, but the attempts to convert others. The ending passages of this book went to that unacceptable level for me.
I believe for Christians who follow their god's teaching and religious books, this would be a book they would enjoy very much. For myself, I found I could not rate it higher despite it's flowing style and honest personal message because it attempts to speak of Truth and Wisdom in a general sense as if their interpretation is correct and applicable for all, and I do not believe that.
For the extended version of this review as well as personal commentary and notes as to why I had issues with certain areas of this book, please visit the site http://flyingwithredhaircrow.wordpres...
The problem I have, as a whole, with some religions, their adherents, etc. is that they then try to press those beliefs on others, telling them what they should do or believe, or attempting to impress their definitions and beliefs on others. Rather like trying to superimpose their dogma over other people's beliefs and ideas. That is the problem I have with religion. Not the belief or believing or faith, but the attempts to convert others. The ending passages of this book went to that unacceptable level for me.
I believe for Christians who follow their god's teaching and religious books, this would be a book they would enjoy very much. For myself, I found I could not rate it higher despite it's flowing style and honest personal message because it attempts to speak of Truth and Wisdom in a general sense as if their interpretation is correct and applicable for all, and I do not believe that.
For the extended version of this review as well as personal commentary and notes as to why I had issues with certain areas of this book, please visit the site http://flyingwithredhaircrow.wordpres...
June 4, 2012
Peace at the Edge of Uncertainty
Author: Neil Hanson
A circle has no beginning and no end. Imagine yourself sitting in the center of this circle and each part of the circumference has special grooves that only you can see as you start from the center groove at the top of the circle and work your way around until you come back to the exact place where your journey began. Each groove delineates a special event or time in your life that you want to remember. Each groove reminds you of the reasons are you here, your purpose and how you finally found your place in this world. When you enter the world of Neil Hanson and you open the pages of this inspirational book you too will be able to see the many grooves on the outer rim of the circle and you too will experience the same things he does and feel the warmth of the light, the spirit of G-d and take the path with him leading to him to understand the Breath of G-d on his cheek and comprehending the meaning of a final goodbye. This book was written to his father in the form of a letter but in the author’s voice. The letter is written hoping that wherever his father is his words and thoughts will reach him. Explaining not only to the reader but to his father too that he felt his transformation from this world and understood that he would now be within the Divine realm, which he could only vaguely touch or understand. As I started reading this book I realized that this young man who watched his father leaving this world had to come to grips with his own place in this world before he could go on. Explaining their relationship and their lack of closeness and strong emotional ties you begin to see the struggles he faced and the conflicts within him. But, Neil had many ways to release his tensions in order to understand himself. If anyone had really listened or opened their eyes or even followed him when he missed or cut classes they would have found him in the library reading poetry and other literature. Throughout the first part of the letter he apologizes to his father for his behavior.
This is not just the story of a young man watching his father leave this world as the story begins. It is about a brilliant mind and yet troubled mind that needed to find an outlet that would help him comprehend his father’s transformation form from his earthly body into the world of G-d. Your journey will begin as we go around the circle, stop at the many added grooves and experience the events at each one.
Let’s start with the first groove to the right of the center of the circle. Stop there. Close your eyes and listen to the author’s thoughts as you experience that morning of his wrestling match, the anticipation of meeting his opponent, the raw physical dominance exuded by the boy named King and the out of body experience that follows. As the match begins and then is restarted a second time Neil is lifted up and then darkness overtakes him. But, as the world below deals with this plight, someone calls for a doctor, he slowly rises above the action, his body lying on flat on the mat face-up but his spirit floating above. Drawn out of his human form he feels emotionless and devoid of any feelings. The scene below is frantic and the world as he knows it “becomes more opaque.” Then, the light appears. What happens next is almost breathtaking but then he questions himself and realizes what he needs to do as he reenters his human form. As he states, “The Breath of G-d had wrapped itself around the Soul within me, and had whispered a Truth beyond human words into the depths of my being.” Now his true journey began as he searched for answers and someone who could help him along the way.
Life is a journey as he sates a well-lived life will open the Soul within us to the Divine Presence. The wrestling match should have been his awakening. Although running from G-d at first he finally realized that he was always there waiting for him and guiding him to the light and to dance once again.
Groove 2: Move once again to the right as we learn more his battle between the soul and ego. His journey would begin with finding people who would help him seek and approach G-d. He knew no one. Hearing Neil explain to his father how he wanted to find G-d and was searching into the darkness. Sometimes as we view things we see them clearly but then mask the thoughts until the darkness is finally lifted and we can find the door, which will lead us into the light.
Angry that his father was not always there for him he envelops himself in anger, bitterness and resentment thinking what he sees is really dishonesty and manipulation.
Next groove: As the author begins this part of the journey he walks within the garden of tradition. Viewing the walls of the church as a barrier that would not allow him to begin his search and hampered him rather than realizing that the Church was his starting point and the garden to walk through allowing him to find Eden and the darkness or storm clouds would life while speaking to his father.
Groove 4: At the bottom in the center we enter the hospital room and meet his family. Move a little more to the right until you find the middle groove at the bottom of the circle. His mother picks him up at the airport but the air between them is not warm. The distance and lack of concern for her is apparent. Entering his father’s room he and his father are the only ones there. Recounting childhood memories that clouded his feelings about his father. But, his parent’s relationship was rocky and at times they broke up and his father was often consumed with alcohol making it hard for Neil to depend and lean on him. Let’s meet Julie and Erik who are his sister and brother. Julie is able to express her feelings and show them where Erik is his younger brother and he expresses regret at not being as close as he would have liked. But, that day forgiveness was in control and definitely had the upper hand. The bond was strong among the three yet not with their mother. Would things have been different had she been included? Sad and heartfelt. Looking at his father all he wanted was to forgive him for his mistakes and redemption.
Move to the left: We are almost there. As Neil, his mother and siblings watch his father pass. Each moment is filled with thoughts linked to a mystical world of Divine Light. As Neil finally tells his father he loves him and forgives him you feel a sense of relief within the author’s mind and heart and his understanding of what will come next. Seeing his father pass from this world to the next brought them closer than they have ever been before.
I watched my sister lie in the hospital bed for one month hooked up to machines to keep her alive. Breathing tubes, feeding tubes, heart monitors and much more as the doctors just stared at her and at me not knowing when the end was coming and not giving me or my family any hope. Not wanting the inevitable to and hoping as Neil did for a miracle or one doctor who would find a way to bring her back or his father back, the bright light shined and the hardest decisions had to be made. As the tension in her faced eased and her hand gripped mine whether she heard my voice or a reaction, she slipped further towards the light. Removing his father from life support was heartbreaking yet uneventful. Yet not inviting his mother into the circle or near the groove in the circumference. His feelings expressed on pages 64-66. While you wait for the end and it is so heart wrenching you speak to the person still hoping they will open their eyes and come back to life. But, he sat there with his brother and his father left this world as he felt the mystic breeze coming closer to them and the hand of G-d resting on their shoulders waiting to dance once again. What happens next as he and his father are alone you have to read and experience on your own with the author to understand the jubilation he felt as the chorus of angel expanded and the bubble of light consumed both him and his father.
Author Neil Hanson describes his grief, his feelings through the lens of eyes or a camera as they focus on the events and describe the final rung of this journey home. Neil describes the end of the journey so vividly, graphically and emotionally. He deals with many questions about life and death that most people chose to avoid. He focuses on life after death and his feelings for his father and coming full circle with them. We go back to the beginning and the last groove right at the top in the center of the circle as the author asks his father where his soul has gone and states his beliefs in reincarnation. There is much more that the author relates but you need to read the last chapters on your own and take the final steps and drive home along with Neil as he has a vision that just might change everything and what it means you will learn when you read pages 87- 89. Ending this outstanding inspiration book with a special poem to his father on page 93 which says it all. He concludes with an epilogue, suggested reading and book club questions. The epilogue includes his final thoughts and the many lessons he learned.
An inspirational book written from the heart and hopefully will help others understand the process of life after death, forgiveness and dealing with the loss of a parent or loved one. Peace at the Edge of Uncertainty: What a perfect title. Life presents itself and we really never know where the many grooves or edges will take us. Thank you Neil for sharing your letter and thoughts. Thank you for asking me to review you book.
Fran Lewis: reviewer
Author: Neil Hanson
A circle has no beginning and no end. Imagine yourself sitting in the center of this circle and each part of the circumference has special grooves that only you can see as you start from the center groove at the top of the circle and work your way around until you come back to the exact place where your journey began. Each groove delineates a special event or time in your life that you want to remember. Each groove reminds you of the reasons are you here, your purpose and how you finally found your place in this world. When you enter the world of Neil Hanson and you open the pages of this inspirational book you too will be able to see the many grooves on the outer rim of the circle and you too will experience the same things he does and feel the warmth of the light, the spirit of G-d and take the path with him leading to him to understand the Breath of G-d on his cheek and comprehending the meaning of a final goodbye. This book was written to his father in the form of a letter but in the author’s voice. The letter is written hoping that wherever his father is his words and thoughts will reach him. Explaining not only to the reader but to his father too that he felt his transformation from this world and understood that he would now be within the Divine realm, which he could only vaguely touch or understand. As I started reading this book I realized that this young man who watched his father leaving this world had to come to grips with his own place in this world before he could go on. Explaining their relationship and their lack of closeness and strong emotional ties you begin to see the struggles he faced and the conflicts within him. But, Neil had many ways to release his tensions in order to understand himself. If anyone had really listened or opened their eyes or even followed him when he missed or cut classes they would have found him in the library reading poetry and other literature. Throughout the first part of the letter he apologizes to his father for his behavior.
This is not just the story of a young man watching his father leave this world as the story begins. It is about a brilliant mind and yet troubled mind that needed to find an outlet that would help him comprehend his father’s transformation form from his earthly body into the world of G-d. Your journey will begin as we go around the circle, stop at the many added grooves and experience the events at each one.
Let’s start with the first groove to the right of the center of the circle. Stop there. Close your eyes and listen to the author’s thoughts as you experience that morning of his wrestling match, the anticipation of meeting his opponent, the raw physical dominance exuded by the boy named King and the out of body experience that follows. As the match begins and then is restarted a second time Neil is lifted up and then darkness overtakes him. But, as the world below deals with this plight, someone calls for a doctor, he slowly rises above the action, his body lying on flat on the mat face-up but his spirit floating above. Drawn out of his human form he feels emotionless and devoid of any feelings. The scene below is frantic and the world as he knows it “becomes more opaque.” Then, the light appears. What happens next is almost breathtaking but then he questions himself and realizes what he needs to do as he reenters his human form. As he states, “The Breath of G-d had wrapped itself around the Soul within me, and had whispered a Truth beyond human words into the depths of my being.” Now his true journey began as he searched for answers and someone who could help him along the way.
Life is a journey as he sates a well-lived life will open the Soul within us to the Divine Presence. The wrestling match should have been his awakening. Although running from G-d at first he finally realized that he was always there waiting for him and guiding him to the light and to dance once again.
Groove 2: Move once again to the right as we learn more his battle between the soul and ego. His journey would begin with finding people who would help him seek and approach G-d. He knew no one. Hearing Neil explain to his father how he wanted to find G-d and was searching into the darkness. Sometimes as we view things we see them clearly but then mask the thoughts until the darkness is finally lifted and we can find the door, which will lead us into the light.
Angry that his father was not always there for him he envelops himself in anger, bitterness and resentment thinking what he sees is really dishonesty and manipulation.
Next groove: As the author begins this part of the journey he walks within the garden of tradition. Viewing the walls of the church as a barrier that would not allow him to begin his search and hampered him rather than realizing that the Church was his starting point and the garden to walk through allowing him to find Eden and the darkness or storm clouds would life while speaking to his father.
Groove 4: At the bottom in the center we enter the hospital room and meet his family. Move a little more to the right until you find the middle groove at the bottom of the circle. His mother picks him up at the airport but the air between them is not warm. The distance and lack of concern for her is apparent. Entering his father’s room he and his father are the only ones there. Recounting childhood memories that clouded his feelings about his father. But, his parent’s relationship was rocky and at times they broke up and his father was often consumed with alcohol making it hard for Neil to depend and lean on him. Let’s meet Julie and Erik who are his sister and brother. Julie is able to express her feelings and show them where Erik is his younger brother and he expresses regret at not being as close as he would have liked. But, that day forgiveness was in control and definitely had the upper hand. The bond was strong among the three yet not with their mother. Would things have been different had she been included? Sad and heartfelt. Looking at his father all he wanted was to forgive him for his mistakes and redemption.
Move to the left: We are almost there. As Neil, his mother and siblings watch his father pass. Each moment is filled with thoughts linked to a mystical world of Divine Light. As Neil finally tells his father he loves him and forgives him you feel a sense of relief within the author’s mind and heart and his understanding of what will come next. Seeing his father pass from this world to the next brought them closer than they have ever been before.
I watched my sister lie in the hospital bed for one month hooked up to machines to keep her alive. Breathing tubes, feeding tubes, heart monitors and much more as the doctors just stared at her and at me not knowing when the end was coming and not giving me or my family any hope. Not wanting the inevitable to and hoping as Neil did for a miracle or one doctor who would find a way to bring her back or his father back, the bright light shined and the hardest decisions had to be made. As the tension in her faced eased and her hand gripped mine whether she heard my voice or a reaction, she slipped further towards the light. Removing his father from life support was heartbreaking yet uneventful. Yet not inviting his mother into the circle or near the groove in the circumference. His feelings expressed on pages 64-66. While you wait for the end and it is so heart wrenching you speak to the person still hoping they will open their eyes and come back to life. But, he sat there with his brother and his father left this world as he felt the mystic breeze coming closer to them and the hand of G-d resting on their shoulders waiting to dance once again. What happens next as he and his father are alone you have to read and experience on your own with the author to understand the jubilation he felt as the chorus of angel expanded and the bubble of light consumed both him and his father.
Author Neil Hanson describes his grief, his feelings through the lens of eyes or a camera as they focus on the events and describe the final rung of this journey home. Neil describes the end of the journey so vividly, graphically and emotionally. He deals with many questions about life and death that most people chose to avoid. He focuses on life after death and his feelings for his father and coming full circle with them. We go back to the beginning and the last groove right at the top in the center of the circle as the author asks his father where his soul has gone and states his beliefs in reincarnation. There is much more that the author relates but you need to read the last chapters on your own and take the final steps and drive home along with Neil as he has a vision that just might change everything and what it means you will learn when you read pages 87- 89. Ending this outstanding inspiration book with a special poem to his father on page 93 which says it all. He concludes with an epilogue, suggested reading and book club questions. The epilogue includes his final thoughts and the many lessons he learned.
An inspirational book written from the heart and hopefully will help others understand the process of life after death, forgiveness and dealing with the loss of a parent or loved one. Peace at the Edge of Uncertainty: What a perfect title. Life presents itself and we really never know where the many grooves or edges will take us. Thank you Neil for sharing your letter and thoughts. Thank you for asking me to review you book.
Fran Lewis: reviewer
February 22, 2022
A truly good read!!!
For all of us that think we have all the answers...an insightful book that may show that the majority of us don't , but have the capability to "realize" more!! A good read for those who have felt that touch and breath of g--d but weren't sure how to receive and accept it. And above all a good read and reminder to us all to continuously strive to keep our love light burning so it can be shared by all!!
For all of us that think we have all the answers...an insightful book that may show that the majority of us don't , but have the capability to "realize" more!! A good read for those who have felt that touch and breath of g--d but weren't sure how to receive and accept it. And above all a good read and reminder to us all to continuously strive to keep our love light burning so it can be shared by all!!
September 3, 2011
Neil Hanson shares the truths that came to him in 'Peace at the Edge of Uncertainty' (his first book) when his own father passed. I am glad that a few years have passed since my dad left but this book was one to touch that well of indecision that I had at first. It was so soul wrenching hard to "wake" my father from a drug induced coma (to keep him out of pain) only to tell him that he was going to pass instead of get better. He went into that coma willingly thinking that a surgery was going to help him. We only found out afterwards that no surgery would happen due to the acceleration of his disease. And that to be in any kind of waking form he would be in unbearable pain. Holding his hand as Dear Hubby explained the results to my father, we faced a swirl of emotions and quick acceptance from him. Not so much as he had already known this, but more so of if it was going to happen then let's go ahead and start that journey. My Dad looked at life that way, straight forward, shoulders back and ready to take what was coming with grace. So why would I not think he would take death the same way.
Neil tells in his book, "As the crush of grief washed out of me and the sense of detachment grew, I began to feel incredibly light and bright. The dance that I had just experienced had left behind a brightness to the world, and the Soul within me continued to sing with the angels that I could still hear in the distance." That section alone said what I had felt at the time of Dad's passing. The fight with life was over finally. The gasp for breath that wracked his body in pain, released. And in that moment of deep sadness of loss I also experienced a wonderful peace. Like I was cleansed from the inside from tears and all that was left was the shining love that I had for my Dad.
I do not think anyone wants to make those last decisions for their loved ones. But they have to be made. Weather if it be in early discussion of our desires. We have a few of these very discussion with our parents as well as with our children for ourselves. Or in a sudden fight of death, that we have to make quick ones for those we love. Still they have to be faced. What takes us through that process and still leaves us a peace. The general belief is just that a belief. In a better place like heaven. Many feel that the energy of the soul will be sent back into the spirit of the world. Some think that it is just over, finished. But I do not know anyone who does not have so sort of belief. We all fight over who is right and who is wrong. That does not help. Instead it is important to honor the soul within us. The energy that creates our own lives. That 'knowing' of what we feel at peace with is right.
In a world of highly effective medicine and life-support, Neils family faced the difficult and wrenching questions our culture must face:
When does life begin and end?
What are the complexions of distinction between bare and primitive "life" on the one hand, and "human-ness" on the other hand?
Where and when and how do we "play God" with our decisions to withhold feeding tubes and respirators?
How do we face these questions, and work our way to effective answers?
My own father professed not to have a belief in a greater 'God'. But at the very end of his life he did decide to find a peace for himself and made a commitment in his soul. It may seem light but Dear Hubby and I tease about the many lil ol ladies in church. "Studying for the finals" is a statement often said. College Girl combines her own beliefs of Christian thought and a base of Wicca. And my dear girlfriend at the end of her boyfriends life, stopped crying for him, stood up and said well he is no longer. I have grieved over his life. Now is time to live so let's go get ice cream. What your spirit guides you to feel is very personal. But it is in that feeling we all unite.
How our view changes when we do not see the familar.
The world is set off center or we awake to the beauty that has surrounded us all along.
Just changing our perspective.
What a way to learn what we know anew.
--Lenore Webb
Thanks to Neil Hanson and Tribute Books for sharing 'Peace at the Edge of Uncertainty' with me. I believe that had I read this before my father's passing I would have had a lil relief from the fear I experienced. This is certainly a book that will help start conversations with your family. And hopefully bring some answers at to what is believed and desired.
February 13, 2012
Peace At The Edge Of Uncertainty is a very in-depth, personal look into the last moments of the life of Neil Hanson's father. The novel is written by Neil as a letter to his father, who passes some 15 years prior. It explores feelings, thoughts, and forgiveness throughout. We see pieces of Neil's life that could be considered mystical by believers of such things. He also relays religious beliefs and practices but doesn't use any particular name for the Higher Being; he uses G-d and uses various pronouns-He, She, It-to emphasize his belief that, while we all may believe in someone Higher, there is much that isn't known about this entity.
There were parts of this novel that were very touching, emotional, and hard to comprehend. I cannot imagine having to make the decision to remove all life support mechanisms on a loved one. Many people do it every day, month, year, even minute but it's not something that is easily forgotten or a choice that's easily made. Forgiveness was an underlying theme throughout the book and it makes you stop and think about your own life, and relationship you have your family and friends.
Some quotes from the book I though you would enjoy:
"I had been trained well to believe in logic, not in magic." pg. 20
"I believe that many people-perhaps most people-are desperately seeking a path toward a spiritual context." pg. 23
"On the one hand we held onto hope that something miraculous might happen, and you would recover. That hand also held in it a great deal of self-righteousness. Wouldn't it be immoral of me to bring about your death by withholding food from you -- starving you to death?" pg. 47
"On the other hand, I understood clearly that you would not want an existence of captivity within some sort of highly incapacitated or vegatative state. This hand also held within it a portion of self-righteousness. I would be fulfilling what I felt quite sure to be your desire given such a situation, and wouldn't it be immoral of me to prolong your physical life and deprive you of your ability to have your wishes followed in the final important matters?" pg. 47-48
In the Spring of 2011 I took an 8-week college class entitled "Death and Dying: A Religious Experience." Many things coincided with thoughts and feelings the author had such as the quotes I listed above from pgs. 47-48. There are so many "death" customs all based on tradition, religion, science, and situation. Some cling to G-d, or the entity believed in, to help endure the pain and suffering and eventual healing the comes with the death of a loved one. Others walk away outwardly unscathed but an emotional wreck inside. Some cling to family members or rationalize death with science. Everyone deals with loss in a different way. It is a courageous thing to bare your soul, talk about death, mourn, speak about things that may seem taboo (mystical happenings, miracles, etc.), and show your humanity on the pages of a novel.
There were parts of this novel that were very touching, emotional, and hard to comprehend. I cannot imagine having to make the decision to remove all life support mechanisms on a loved one. Many people do it every day, month, year, even minute but it's not something that is easily forgotten or a choice that's easily made. Forgiveness was an underlying theme throughout the book and it makes you stop and think about your own life, and relationship you have your family and friends.
Some quotes from the book I though you would enjoy:
"I had been trained well to believe in logic, not in magic." pg. 20
"I believe that many people-perhaps most people-are desperately seeking a path toward a spiritual context." pg. 23
"On the one hand we held onto hope that something miraculous might happen, and you would recover. That hand also held in it a great deal of self-righteousness. Wouldn't it be immoral of me to bring about your death by withholding food from you -- starving you to death?" pg. 47
"On the other hand, I understood clearly that you would not want an existence of captivity within some sort of highly incapacitated or vegatative state. This hand also held within it a portion of self-righteousness. I would be fulfilling what I felt quite sure to be your desire given such a situation, and wouldn't it be immoral of me to prolong your physical life and deprive you of your ability to have your wishes followed in the final important matters?" pg. 47-48
In the Spring of 2011 I took an 8-week college class entitled "Death and Dying: A Religious Experience." Many things coincided with thoughts and feelings the author had such as the quotes I listed above from pgs. 47-48. There are so many "death" customs all based on tradition, religion, science, and situation. Some cling to G-d, or the entity believed in, to help endure the pain and suffering and eventual healing the comes with the death of a loved one. Others walk away outwardly unscathed but an emotional wreck inside. Some cling to family members or rationalize death with science. Everyone deals with loss in a different way. It is a courageous thing to bare your soul, talk about death, mourn, speak about things that may seem taboo (mystical happenings, miracles, etc.), and show your humanity on the pages of a novel.
August 21, 2011
Article first published as Book Review: Peace at the Edge of Uncertainty by Neil Hanson on Blogcritics.
In a time of unrest and world troubles, spirituality begins to eke back in the mainstream of society. Looking for the ever-elusive answers, many search for the process of belief.
Among this trouble and turmoil, Neil Hanson has brought forth an in-depth work of his own experiences, both as a young man and later as a grieving son. In Peace at the Edge of Uncertainty, we follow the ever-expanding view and belief of Hanson as he puts his thoughts and feelings on paper, in the form of a letter to his departed father.
His story is written with emotion and feeling. His emotions show through and whether they are his anger or his hope he shares them with the reader. He does not hide or try to belittle the mistakes he has made on his journey; he just states them as they are.
He does a brilliant job of allowing his emotion to show through and yet he does not push his belief as the only answer. He shares his experiences of a possible after death experience with a brilliance he tries to explain, one that happened in a wrestling tournament when he was young and knocked unconscious. Even knowing at that time that something extraordinary has happened, he is not ready to believe or to share his experience.
It was only as he sat with his father as his life slowly slid away and he watched the finality of the process that he is again offered a glimpse of that certain something the many often search for throughout their lives.
If you are a believer in a higher being, regardless of religious belief, or even a non-believer, you will find the poignancy of the story both sad and yet interesting. The beauty of the words adds a bit of poetry and harmony.
Through it all Hanson makes no excuses, he highlight his selfishness and thoughtlessness, as well as the beauty and wonder. I enjoyed the text in the form of a letter, although at times, I could not find the letter itself, and it read more like the passage of a self-expose.
If you are at all interested in spirituality or just wonder about the beauty of the universe, this would be a wonderful book for you. It is short and compact but carries hope and joy, along with a different way to look at life. In Hanson’s uncertainty, there is a form of verse and beauty: a certain creativity and sensitivity that guide you through the life of the author.
This would be a great book for a book club, a chance to talk about beliefs and thoughts. It would be a chance to air perceptions and interests, and lend credibility to both sides of the conversation.
This book was received as a free copy from the author. All opinions are my own based off my reading and understanding of the material.
In a time of unrest and world troubles, spirituality begins to eke back in the mainstream of society. Looking for the ever-elusive answers, many search for the process of belief.
Among this trouble and turmoil, Neil Hanson has brought forth an in-depth work of his own experiences, both as a young man and later as a grieving son. In Peace at the Edge of Uncertainty, we follow the ever-expanding view and belief of Hanson as he puts his thoughts and feelings on paper, in the form of a letter to his departed father.
His story is written with emotion and feeling. His emotions show through and whether they are his anger or his hope he shares them with the reader. He does not hide or try to belittle the mistakes he has made on his journey; he just states them as they are.
He does a brilliant job of allowing his emotion to show through and yet he does not push his belief as the only answer. He shares his experiences of a possible after death experience with a brilliance he tries to explain, one that happened in a wrestling tournament when he was young and knocked unconscious. Even knowing at that time that something extraordinary has happened, he is not ready to believe or to share his experience.
It was only as he sat with his father as his life slowly slid away and he watched the finality of the process that he is again offered a glimpse of that certain something the many often search for throughout their lives.
If you are a believer in a higher being, regardless of religious belief, or even a non-believer, you will find the poignancy of the story both sad and yet interesting. The beauty of the words adds a bit of poetry and harmony.
Through it all Hanson makes no excuses, he highlight his selfishness and thoughtlessness, as well as the beauty and wonder. I enjoyed the text in the form of a letter, although at times, I could not find the letter itself, and it read more like the passage of a self-expose.
If you are at all interested in spirituality or just wonder about the beauty of the universe, this would be a wonderful book for you. It is short and compact but carries hope and joy, along with a different way to look at life. In Hanson’s uncertainty, there is a form of verse and beauty: a certain creativity and sensitivity that guide you through the life of the author.
This would be a great book for a book club, a chance to talk about beliefs and thoughts. It would be a chance to air perceptions and interests, and lend credibility to both sides of the conversation.
This book was received as a free copy from the author. All opinions are my own based off my reading and understanding of the material.
August 17, 2011
PEACE AT THE EDGE OF UNCERTAINTY by Neil Hanson
Published by High Prairie Press
ISBN 13: 978-0-9826391-0-8
At the request of Tribute Books, a TPB was sent, at no cost to me, for my honest opinion
Synopsis (from tour press package): In this story told in the first-person form of a letter from a middle-aged man to his deceased father, Hanson invites us to journey with him through the final days of the father’s life, finding a magical transition waiting at the end of that journey. The story weaves end-of-life reality and spiritual questioning into a sensitive and revealing tapestry of Truth and Wisdom. The tapestry is colored with true stories of mystical experiences that inform the spiritual path of the son.
Most of us will face difficult and painful end-of-life decisions with the most important people in our lives. The threads of this aspect of the story are sensitive, and Hanson reveals the struggles and destinations of the son as he wrestles deeply with the journey that he must walk in making these decisions for his dying father.
My Thoughts and Opinions: When I was first approached to read and review this book, and after reading the synopsis above, I honestly had to step back and think about it. Due to the fact that I am personally going through this same process, could this topic help or would it add to the stress I am already feeling. I kept reading the 2nd paragraph and felt that, yes, being the sole person responsible, it would help, and so I accepted.
It is a very short read (approximately 100 pages), and as the synopsis states, is a letter from a son to his father through the process of death and dying. It is also about the journey the son takes with his own faith. And as stated in the synopsis "difficult and painful end-of-life decisions", yes, a decision had to be made by the writer and 2 siblings but I felt that it was glossed over. In all fairness to the author, my expectations were set high on surviving family members having to make the "painful and difficult decisions". Being a former nurse and now the sole family member who is making the tough decisions, I was hoping that this book would convey how important it is and to help open communication within families regarding this topic, that is so uncomfortable to talk about but a reality no less, and one conversation that should take place.
My Rating: 2
Published by High Prairie Press
ISBN 13: 978-0-9826391-0-8
At the request of Tribute Books, a TPB was sent, at no cost to me, for my honest opinion
Synopsis (from tour press package): In this story told in the first-person form of a letter from a middle-aged man to his deceased father, Hanson invites us to journey with him through the final days of the father’s life, finding a magical transition waiting at the end of that journey. The story weaves end-of-life reality and spiritual questioning into a sensitive and revealing tapestry of Truth and Wisdom. The tapestry is colored with true stories of mystical experiences that inform the spiritual path of the son.
Most of us will face difficult and painful end-of-life decisions with the most important people in our lives. The threads of this aspect of the story are sensitive, and Hanson reveals the struggles and destinations of the son as he wrestles deeply with the journey that he must walk in making these decisions for his dying father.
My Thoughts and Opinions: When I was first approached to read and review this book, and after reading the synopsis above, I honestly had to step back and think about it. Due to the fact that I am personally going through this same process, could this topic help or would it add to the stress I am already feeling. I kept reading the 2nd paragraph and felt that, yes, being the sole person responsible, it would help, and so I accepted.
It is a very short read (approximately 100 pages), and as the synopsis states, is a letter from a son to his father through the process of death and dying. It is also about the journey the son takes with his own faith. And as stated in the synopsis "difficult and painful end-of-life decisions", yes, a decision had to be made by the writer and 2 siblings but I felt that it was glossed over. In all fairness to the author, my expectations were set high on surviving family members having to make the "painful and difficult decisions". Being a former nurse and now the sole family member who is making the tough decisions, I was hoping that this book would convey how important it is and to help open communication within families regarding this topic, that is so uncomfortable to talk about but a reality no less, and one conversation that should take place.
My Rating: 2
December 27, 2011
Does your life seem uncertain at times? Do you often look for answers, but can’t seem to find them? Then one day an event happens that changes your life totally.
Author Neil Hanson’s book, PEACE AT THE EDGE OF UNCERTAINTY, is a tender story of a man who struggles with family problems, prayer, and death, among other things. When he was a teen looking for more in his life, he was knocked unconscious during a wrestling tournament. While unconscious he had an experience with G_d and his life would never be the same. In a beautiful letter written to his dying father, the author tells his father of his final gift to his son. He calls himself a seeker, seeking G_d, but blindly. In a Note to the Reader at the beginning of the book, Mr. Hanson explains the reason he uses G_d as a way to describe something that is “beyond his ability to understand.” As the book progresses, the author paints a lovely description of the moment life ends, and the moment life begins. The way he tells his feelings of loss are so vivid you can envision his pain, as well as his sense of detachment and of angels singing. This would be an unforgettable experience, I believe.
PEACE AT THE EDGE OF UNCERTAINTY will make the reader examine his/her own view of life and death, at least it did me. An Afterward explains the reasons the author decided to share his story. In the Epilogue, he adds more details explaining his use of the name G_d. A suggested reading list provides other resources, and he concludes with information about the author. The ending should inspire readers to look for “the unique life that we have each been given.” The author’s story may bring tears to your eyes, as well as smiles to your face. Enjoy.
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eBook won in a contest, courtesy of the author
Author Neil Hanson’s book, PEACE AT THE EDGE OF UNCERTAINTY, is a tender story of a man who struggles with family problems, prayer, and death, among other things. When he was a teen looking for more in his life, he was knocked unconscious during a wrestling tournament. While unconscious he had an experience with G_d and his life would never be the same. In a beautiful letter written to his dying father, the author tells his father of his final gift to his son. He calls himself a seeker, seeking G_d, but blindly. In a Note to the Reader at the beginning of the book, Mr. Hanson explains the reason he uses G_d as a way to describe something that is “beyond his ability to understand.” As the book progresses, the author paints a lovely description of the moment life ends, and the moment life begins. The way he tells his feelings of loss are so vivid you can envision his pain, as well as his sense of detachment and of angels singing. This would be an unforgettable experience, I believe.
PEACE AT THE EDGE OF UNCERTAINTY will make the reader examine his/her own view of life and death, at least it did me. An Afterward explains the reasons the author decided to share his story. In the Epilogue, he adds more details explaining his use of the name G_d. A suggested reading list provides other resources, and he concludes with information about the author. The ending should inspire readers to look for “the unique life that we have each been given.” The author’s story may bring tears to your eyes, as well as smiles to your face. Enjoy.
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eBook won in a contest, courtesy of the author
pre-2020-read
October 1, 2012A copy of this book was given to me, free, in exchange for my honest opinion.
This story is deeply personal, so much so that I don’t want to write this review. But, I’ve committed to sharing my honest opinion- positive or negative. I have some issues with this story – the first one being sis it fiction or nonfiction? This really isn’t someone should ever have to ask, at least in my opinion – especially when you’ve communicated with the author. It’s only referred to as a story in the back cover copy. Even going back to the original email with the author, I couldn’t find the answer. If it’s mentioned amongst the review clips than that would be the problem; I don’t read other people’s reviews of books I’ve accepted for review.
But, let’s not dwell on that because my opinion is the same whether it’s fiction or not. I don’t commit on other’s people faith or belief system. It’s a personal choice and everyone else has a right to whatever. I do remain open when I receive something that’s outside of my own system of beliefs. Or at least I try to; but my opinion is that you really can’t combine pieces of various faiths without altering the core of each one. I didn’t connect with the story, the death of the father and the son’s seeking didn’t reach me. I have a lot of issues with this story and in the end they only served as distractions that I was not able to overlook or forgive.
0 Stars
Always Shine,
Starr K
This story is deeply personal, so much so that I don’t want to write this review. But, I’ve committed to sharing my honest opinion- positive or negative. I have some issues with this story – the first one being sis it fiction or nonfiction? This really isn’t someone should ever have to ask, at least in my opinion – especially when you’ve communicated with the author. It’s only referred to as a story in the back cover copy. Even going back to the original email with the author, I couldn’t find the answer. If it’s mentioned amongst the review clips than that would be the problem; I don’t read other people’s reviews of books I’ve accepted for review.
But, let’s not dwell on that because my opinion is the same whether it’s fiction or not. I don’t commit on other’s people faith or belief system. It’s a personal choice and everyone else has a right to whatever. I do remain open when I receive something that’s outside of my own system of beliefs. Or at least I try to; but my opinion is that you really can’t combine pieces of various faiths without altering the core of each one. I didn’t connect with the story, the death of the father and the son’s seeking didn’t reach me. I have a lot of issues with this story and in the end they only served as distractions that I was not able to overlook or forgive.
0 Stars
Always Shine,
Starr K
September 1, 2011
Neil allows the reader to experience very personal moments with him. He utilizes the form of "Dear Dad" to express his feelings and emotions as he remains in the ICU with his dying father. He is going through a process of grieving and letting go. The reader will realize that Neil has a strong moral character and is a wonderful son. Neil contemplates the past years, thinking of his experiences, emotions, life lessons.... The reader is very fortunate that Neil is willing to share his innermost thoughts. The author lays out his thoughts so candidly, that it is hard to question the truth behind his words. A non-religious reader will not need to worry, the author manages to stay on the spiritual side without touching much of the religious side.
This book was heartfelt and emotional. It is a book worth reading at any time in one's life, there are plenty of lessons and thoughts to think over that the reader will take away. There are so many quotes in this book that the reader will remember and enjoy. The book is a short read, but that adds to the book's appeal-the author goes right to the point of the matter. This book is recommended to teen/young adult/adult readers.
This book was heartfelt and emotional. It is a book worth reading at any time in one's life, there are plenty of lessons and thoughts to think over that the reader will take away. There are so many quotes in this book that the reader will remember and enjoy. The book is a short read, but that adds to the book's appeal-the author goes right to the point of the matter. This book is recommended to teen/young adult/adult readers.
October 1, 2011
"Standing beside the bed with Julie, I felt Erik's spirit as clearly as I saw his face, and it was obvious that a circle had begun to close - a circle that had been incomplete before he entered the room." Page 40 & 41.
I believe in this circle too...I believe we begin to come full circle with our life and the lives of our brothers and sisters when the circle is complete with love for each other that is there, but many times not expressed. I think it is a beautiful closure for everyone.
This is an extremely introspective book that will make the reader think about his/her life and the relationship with family and especially one's parents.
Do you we really know another person the way we should know them....how they feel, how they perceive/perceived things? Or...is it better to not know the "all" about the life of our parents as we grew up and our relationship with them.
There is also a theme of forgiveness throughout the book. It was difficult to get started, but once you begin reading this short book, you will want to continue so you can compare your life to what is going on in the book and perhaps make changes in relationships before it will be a regret for you.
I believe in this circle too...I believe we begin to come full circle with our life and the lives of our brothers and sisters when the circle is complete with love for each other that is there, but many times not expressed. I think it is a beautiful closure for everyone.
This is an extremely introspective book that will make the reader think about his/her life and the relationship with family and especially one's parents.
Do you we really know another person the way we should know them....how they feel, how they perceive/perceived things? Or...is it better to not know the "all" about the life of our parents as we grew up and our relationship with them.
There is also a theme of forgiveness throughout the book. It was difficult to get started, but once you begin reading this short book, you will want to continue so you can compare your life to what is going on in the book and perhaps make changes in relationships before it will be a regret for you.
July 2, 2013
A dying father and his son, who at his father's bedside, watches his father's soul as it is 'born' into another world - one of spirituality. He journey's with his father and discovers a mystical surprise. But also, growing up, he had mystical visions that he failed to share with his father. He takes a journey of not only the heart, but to find his way spiritually and to embrace it.
Eloquently written, Peace at the Edge of Uncertainty is odd in the way that G-d is never a fully formed word, letting the reader fill in their own word. The reasoning comes later in this inspiration book, but it made it more personal to this reader, preferring to fill in my own beliefs. A wonderful touch. Passionate, eloquent, inspirational and devotional, Peace at the Edge of Uncertainty is a wonderful companion novel for anyone on a spiritual quest or needing guidance.
Eloquently written, Peace at the Edge of Uncertainty is odd in the way that G-d is never a fully formed word, letting the reader fill in their own word. The reasoning comes later in this inspiration book, but it made it more personal to this reader, preferring to fill in my own beliefs. A wonderful touch. Passionate, eloquent, inspirational and devotional, Peace at the Edge of Uncertainty is a wonderful companion novel for anyone on a spiritual quest or needing guidance.
June 22, 2010
I would like to recommend this book to anyone who has ever experienced the loss of a parent. To anyone who has ever faced the difficult end-of-life decisions that come with when a loved one is dying.
This books would be an excellent choice for book clubs. It is short - 132 pages - and provides ample fodder for discussion.
This books would be an excellent choice for book clubs. It is short - 132 pages - and provides ample fodder for discussion.
September 11, 2012
I at first had a hard time getting into this one but as the pages starting turning I found myself being swept away by the story. The journey taken pulls at me on a very personal level, as my son had three heart surgeries by time he was 3 years old, as it will for anybody with this sort of story. If you want to hear an inspirational tale you must pick this one up.
September 14, 2011
Very thought provoking little book. Full review can be found on my blog
October 17, 2011
Review will come as soon as I find out why it isn't posting onto Blogger. :P
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