I was hot and cold on this book. Some of it felt spot on, but there were other times I wanted to throw the book in disgust because it was so out of touch. It was particularly preachy about family relationships and how people are still your family even if they aren't in your life. That is not a helpful statement for many people, myself very much included, and I don't think it has any place in a book that's supposed to be about boosting your self-confidence. It had its redeeming qualities as well, but I wouldn't be quick to recommend it to someone who was actually struggling with confidence issues.