Elizabeth Murray
Mr. Schleifer
English 2H
9/28/18
Journal entry: I am meeting with Lucy Wu, who is featured in the novel, The Great Wall of Lucy Wu, by Wendy Wan-Long Shang. I will be meeting with her from time to time to discuss her life periodically during the book.
Interview #1:
Ms. Murray: Hi Ms. Lucy Wu, I am Ms. Murray, the school guidance counselor at the Washington DC School. I would like to talk to you about your life right now and about your current emotional state. I am very interested in your case in The Great Wall of Lucy Wu, by Wendy Wan-Long Shang. I have just started reading this book, and am just a chapter in. As the main character yourself, I just wanted to make sure everything in your life is okay. It seems to me, as said in the book and from what I have picked up on by ear that you are slightly unhappy with your upcoming living situation. I would like to initiate our conversation by asking you a few questions.
Ms. Murray: What activities do you enjoy (more specifically after school)?
Lucy: Well I absolutely love basketball. It is my favorite and most serious sport. It is the one thing that gets me away from school, parents, and other worries. Did you know that I have a special talent for free throws? I can sink 15 basketballs consecutively from the foul line.
Ms. Murray: Wow that is great! You must be outstanding compared to your other classmates at the sport! I can also infer from the novel that you do not enjoy a certain activity after school. May I ask which activity this is for clarification?
Lucy: In fact, I do find a certain “activity” if you would even consider it one, to be notably dreadful. That is a Chinese School. My parents are forcing me to go, starting next week. This is a program where students, mostly of Chinese background, attend hours of boring, atrocious study. My parents say that it is good for me and will enhance my interest in the language and culture. I just think it will be a waste of time and come in the way of my basketball.
Ms. Murray: I am very sorry to hear this, Lucy. But maybe, in the end, you will see that Chinese School benefitted you. Are there any other worries or concerns you have in life right now? Maybe something that you are stressed, or angry about?
Lucy: Oh, yes. I actually am extremely stressed and uneasy about an upcoming change in my living situation. If you have not heard around, my late grandmother’s separated sister, Yi Po, is coming to live with us. I know it is confusing, but the fact of the matter is that I have never met her, and from what I’ve heard, she is nothing like my lovely grandmother was. And guess who is expected to share a room with her? Me! Right before my room was to be completely redecorated to my liking for once. And above all else, she doesn't even speak English. More Chinese for me! Overall, I am not excited for her coming in the slightest, and will not enjoy a second of her presence.
Ms. Murray: I am sorry to hear this, Lucy. The advice I have for you is just to stay positive, and not to dwell on the poor aspects of your life right now. Unfortunately, we have run out of time for our meeting, but it was great speaking with you for a short while. The next time we meet will be in 2 and a half weeks. We will follow up on your feelings on your current situation, and hopefully, you will have a better attitude about it all.
Interview #2:
Ms. Murray: Lucy Wu, welcome back! I have been waiting for our meeting to confer your emotions recently. You know, about your relative? I just wanted to hear from you in person, how has life been since the arrival? Are you happy or unhappy?
Lucy: Hello, Ms. Murray. Right Now, Yi-Po is staying in my room and I am very unamused about that. I even constructed a wall out of stuffed animals down the middle of my room, separating our two beds. Now, I can live without her watching my every move. The only problem is that she still does live in my house. I may be able to avoid her in my room but not everywhere else. Any mealtime, after school, and free time during the day is spent with her presence. And the worst part; my parents love her. They think that it is such a treat having her here. Because she does not speak a word of English, my parents have become even more strict about Chinese School. And what a waste of time is it. Every day I spend 3 hours learning a language that I don’t find an interest in. In spite of my parents forcing me to go to Chinese School, and my having to live with someone I would not like to, I avoid speaking to her in Chinese at all costs. Actually, I avoid any communication with her at all, whether that be eye-contact or any other form of interaction.
Ms. Murray: Yes, I have understood your annoyance in the book. I can see how this situation must frustrate you beyond belief. I am sorry you feel this way about your living environment, and how your aunt’s presence is altering your parents’ decisions for you. But I do believe that something good will come out of all of this in the end. I do not know what that may be, but I just want you to try your very hardest to be optimistic about this temporary change in your life. I know how much you adored your grandmother before she died. Is there anything about Yi-Po that reminds you of your beloved grandmother?
Lucy: As of my experience with her right now, I have not spotted any similarities between them. They were sisters and still, they do not resemble each other in the slightest. I mean, they’re appearances alone are the polar opposite. My grandmother wore clean-cut, collared shirts, and always looked her best. Yet, Yi-Po wears loose, raggedy clothing. I do not take her for someone who cares for their exterior look. Granted, this is only comparisons of physicality, but I am sure that the two are just as different on the inside as they are on the outside. My grandmother was the most caring, loving person in the entire world. She always put others first, and always appreciated my love for basketball when no one else in the family thought it was important. She was also an amazing cook. Her noodles were to die for!
Ms. Murray: It seems to me that you loved your grandmother very much. She was a very important person in your life. But I cannot help but think this new person in your life is so different from your grandmother. I do not think that you have looked deep enough into this person’s real personality yet. As you said previously, you have not even exchanged many words since she has arrived. You must not judge a person before you truly know them. I highly recommend that you give Yi-Po a fresh start and get to know the real her. Would you be willing to try?
Lucy: I can see your point, Ms. Murray. I will take this into consideration. I just cannot believe how two women born of the same parents can be so diverse. But, after what you have just told me, I guess I am shutting Yi-Po out completely. I may try to get to know her better--out of respect. But this will not change how I feel about everything in my life changing because of her visit.
Interview #3 (final interview)
Ms. Murray: Lucy you are back! It has been so long since we last had a meeting. I am dying to know all about your life and how you took my advice! Would you care to share how anything in your life has changed since then?
Lucy: Hi Ms. Murray, I have a feeling you will love what I have to say. To my surprise, opening a door to someone in my life was an amazing idea! Although I was hesitant at first, I started to engage more with her. Turns out, she has plenty to say, that I was happy to hear. I am so happy, Ms. Murray, that I did open this door between us. What came out of the door was something I never would have expected to be so life changing!
Ms. Murray: You cannot imagine how happy you have just made me, Lucy. I knew that you would be pleasantly surprised with the outcome of my advice. Do you think now that your aunt has more in common with the people you love most after all?
Lucy: In fact, yes. It is crazy how getting to know someone well can change your perspective on them completely. My thoughts on my aunt have been transformed, and I am extremely pleased with it. Yi-Po really does remind me in many ways of others whom I adore. When I look at her on the outside, no, I do not see my grandmother at all in Yi-Po. Not even a little. Their choices of clothing and self-appearance could not be more different. Yet when I speak to and listen to Yi-Po, she has the spitting image of my late grandmother.
Ms. Murray: Just as I suspected, Lucy. That is wonderful to hear. I must ask, how do you think Yi-Po has changed this year for you, or even your life?
Lucy: I never thought that I would say this, but yes. Without a doubt, my new relationship with Yi-Po has changed my life. I have made a new relationship I never thought to be possible between us. It is funny how the world brings people together. I believe the world brought Yi-Po and me together for a reason. This year was supposed to be a great year for me until Yi-Po came--so I thought. Yet I ended up discovering that Yi-Po changed my year drastically in ways I never would have thought.
Ms. Murray: That is just so powerful. The outcome of an unexpected visitor has been such an important part of your life. Your story is truly amazing and inspiring. The lessons you have learned in this past year are lessons everyone should know. My last thought for our meeting is that I am wondering, is there anything you can learn from this experience? Is there a theme that represents your overall thoughts of Yi-Po’s visit?
Lucy: Yes, Ms. Murray. I have learned so much this past year from Yi-Po’s visit. I have learned to never judge someone solely by looking at their physicalities. That is not the part of someone that matters-- that makes a good relationship. The inner qualities of a person are what make them special. Without realizing this, I would have never had the experience I did with Yi-Po this year, and thus never would have created such an incredible bond.