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The Wisdom of No Escape And the Path of Loving Kindness

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110 pages, Paperback

Published January 1, 2001

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Pema Chödrön

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Ani Pema Chödrön (Deirdre Blomfield-Brown) is an American Buddhist nun in the Tibetan tradition, closely associated with the Kagyu school and the Shambhala lineage.

She attended Miss Porter's School in Connecticut and graduated from the University of California at Berkeley. She taught as an elementary school teacher for many years in both New Mexico and California. Pema has two children and three grandchildren.

While in her mid-thirties, she traveled to the French Alps and encountered Lama Chime Rinpoche, with whom she studied for several years. She became a novice nun in 1974 while studying with Lama Chime in London. His Holiness the Sixteenth Karmapa came to England at that time, and Ani Pema received her ordination from him.

Ani Pema first met her root guru, Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche, in 1972. Lama Chime encouraged her to work with Trungpa, and it was with him that she ultimately made her most profound connection, studying with him from 1974 until his death in 1987. At the request of the Sixteenth Karmapa, she received the full bikshuni ordination in the Chinese lineage of Buddhism in 1981 in Hong Kong.

Ani Pema served as the director of the Karma Dzong, in Boulder, CO, until moving in 1984 to rural Cape Breton, Nova Scotia to be the director of Gampo Abbey. Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche gave her explicit instructions on establishing this monastery for western monks and nuns.

Ani Pema currently teaches in the United States and Canada and plans for an increased amount of time in solitary retreat under the guidance of Venerable Dzigar Kongtrul Rinpoche.

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March 4, 2025
This book is essential. It saved my life in my twenties… and might be doing so again. Good one to go back to and be reminded, every now and then, of mental strategies to navigate impermanence and letting go.
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363 reviews2 followers
March 21, 2024
My favorite book on buddhist meditation and philosophy after Joseph Goldstein's The Experience of Insight (1976). I haven't read through the Wisdom of No Escape in almost thirty years, but I found it to be a great aid in my current need to find a remedy for continued anxiety touched with depression. Pema Chodron's gift for distilling the core teachings of buddhist practice regardless of the trappings of tradition comes through on every page of this meditation retreat in book form.
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November 9, 2023
A Journey to Inner Freedom - Review of "The Wisdom of No Escape" by Pema Chödrön

"The Wisdom of No Escape" by Pema Chödrön is a timeless guide to finding inner peace and freedom through the practice of mindfulness and meditation. Chödrön, a renowned Buddhist teacher, offers profound insights and practical wisdom for those seeking to navigate the complexities of modern life with grace and resilience.

The book is divided into concise, yet powerful chapters, making it accessible for both beginners and seasoned practitioners of mindfulness. Chödrön's writing style is clear, compassionate, and filled with gentle humor, making the teachings easily digestible.

At its core, "The Wisdom of No Escape" emphasizes the importance of embracing life's uncertainties and difficulties rather than running from them. Chödrön encourages readers to sit with their discomfort, fear, and vulnerability, as these are the very experiences that can lead to profound personal growth and transformation.

One of the key takeaways from the book is the concept of "no escape" - the idea that true liberation comes not from avoiding challenges but from fully engaging with them. Chödrön provides practical meditation techniques and mindfulness practices to help readers cultivate self-awareness and develop the ability to be present in the face of life's ups and downs.

Throughout the book, Chödrön shares her own personal struggles and moments of self-doubt, making her teachings relatable and reassuring. She illustrates that no one is exempt from difficulties, and it's our response to these challenges that defines our spiritual journey.

"The Wisdom of No Escape" is a powerful reminder that true happiness and peace are not dependent on external circumstances but are qualities that can be cultivated from within. Chödrön's teachings inspire readers to embrace the present moment, embrace their imperfections, and find the courage to live with an open heart.

In conclusion, "The Wisdom of No Escape" is a gem of a book that offers invaluable guidance for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of themselves and a path to inner freedom. Pema Chödrön's wisdom and compassionate teachings have the potential to transform lives, making this book a must-read for those on a spiritual journey of self-discovery and mindfulness.
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56 reviews6 followers
December 20, 2024
”The everyday practice is simply to develop a complete acceptance and openness to all situations and emotions and all people… experiencing everything totally without reservations or blockages, so that one never withdraws or centralizes into onself.”

This is a mighty little book, great to savor a chapter at a time. I appreciate how lucidly Pema shares helpful teachings. I will be mulling over her words for some time and returning to them as needed.
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May 3, 2025
A waste of time.
I was initially excited to read it, it started a bit boring, I had a strong feeling it would pick up. However, disappointingly it got more boring with a lot of repetitions. I was avoiding picking it up. What I thought would be a quick read turned into a book I wasn’t able to force myself to finish. I had to out it down two thirds in, and move on.
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October 20, 2024
A great entry into the collective wisdom of modern Buddhist thought and practice, and a perfect book to read a few pages of every morning to start the day. But not a fifth star, because I didn't find anything overly unique or different from other books covering the same ground.
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November 23, 2024
OOF this was so so good and I know I’ll reread a lot shoutout to my group counseling prof for the rec
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December 18, 2024
Quick and deep read. From meditation to karma, samsara and more. These reminders came at a great time for me to reflect on my current outlook on life and life events.
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June 23, 2025
i wanted to understand the concept maitri / loving kindness. pema chodron’s words are filled with insight and wisdom
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October 12, 2023
Every sentence was insightful and provided an immense amount of clarity. This book has genuinely changed my life.
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