A FASCINATING look at the 20th century history of China from a unique perspective. If you have read books about the rise of the Communists or the Cultural Revolution, then this book is a great complement. Lu (in beautiful prose) relates the experiences of her grandmother, mother, nanny, and self growing up and finding a way in the radically changing country that was China in the last 100 years. Except Lu's experience was relatively blessed - her family was prosperous and Catholic and held the favor of foreign diplomats through the worst years of the Cultural Revolution. This gives her an absolutely fascinating perspective. I thought the chapters on her grandmother and nanny were the strongest, although she is remarkably thoughtful about all four women.