Great stuff!
Brigham Young counseled the Saints: "If you are ever called upon to chasten a person, never chasten beyond the balm you have within you to bind up. . . . I say again, Do not chasten beyond the balm you have within you. . . . When you have the chastening rod in your hands, ask God to give you wisdom to use it, that you may not use it to the destruction of an individual, but to his salvation."8
Neal A Maxwell The Promise of Discipleship
Vicariously bearing our sins— whether bright or faded pink— Jesus, in fact, descended below all things in order that He might personally comprehend all things (D&C 88:6). Yes, we worship Jesus because He is, but we also worship Him because of what He is like, including His perfect attribute of long-suffering (Exodus 34:6-7).
Neal A Maxwell The Promise of Discipleship
Though of themselves life's defining moments may seem minor, our wise responses can gradually increase our traction on the demanding path of discipleship. For instance, we can decide daily, or in an instant, in seemingly little things, whether we respond with a smile instead of a scowl, or whether we give warm praise instead of exhibiting icy indifference. Each response matters in its small moment. After all, moments are the molecules that make up eternity, affecting not only ourselves but others, because our conduct even in seemingly small things can be contagious. "The current of life is made up of small springs, streams, and rivulets, or rather of little incidents which in the aggregate constitute the character of man here on earth. So small a thing as a kind word timely spoken to the sorrowful and afflicted often results in great good, and secures the esteem and gratitude of those to whom it may be addressed, while an ill word may do much harm."3 When we decide, for example, to be understanding instead of abrupt, the other party, in turn, may happily decide to hold on a little longer rather than give way to resentment. Whereas some contagious physical diseases are airborne, spiritual contagiousness can be attitude borne. Love, patience, and meekness can be just as infectious as rudeness.
Neal A Maxwell The Promise of Discipleship
Resilience is part of repentance, showing we have faith to try again—whether in a task or in a relationship. Resilience is really an affirmation of our true identities as spirit sons and daughters of God. We need not be permanently put down, because we can be "lifted up" by applying Christ's atonement (Alma 36:3). The "infinite atonement" thus can apply to our finite failures (Alma 34:12)
Neal A Maxwell The Promise of Discipleship