The Voice of Shame: Silence and Connection in Psychotherapy

by Robert G. Lee (Editor), Gordon Wheeler (Editor)

Shame and shame reactions are two of the most delicate and difficult issues of psychotherapy and are among the most likely to defy our usual dynamic, systemic, and behavioral theories. In this groundbreaking new collection, The Voice of Shame, thirteen distinguished authors show how use of the Gestalt model of self and relationship can clarify the dynamics of shame and lead us to fresh approaches and methods in this challenging terrain. This model shows how shame issues become pivotal in therapeutic and other relationships and how healing shame is the key to transformational change.

The contributors show how new perspectives on shame gained in no particular area transfer and generalize to other areas and settings. In so doing, they transform our fundamental understanding of psychotherapy itself. Grounded in the most recent research on the dynamics and experience of shame, this book is a practical guide for all psychotherapists, psychologists, clinicians, and others interested in self, psychotherapy, and relationship.

This book contains powerful new insights for the therapist on a full-range of topics from intimacy in couples to fathering to politics to child development to gender issues to negative therapeutic reactions. Filled with anecdotes and case examples as well as practical strategies, The Voice of Shame will transform your ideas about the role of shame in relationships - and about the potential of the Gestalt model to clarify and contextualize other approaches.

Genres: Nonfiction, Psychology

426 pages, Paperback

First published June 1, 1996

Reviews

[Daniel · Rating 5 out of 5]

The issue of shame has been little addressed in psychological research. This book offers new perspectives on how shame may impact individuals of varying life experiences. It offers supportive reflection of the ways shame may present itself in our lives and interact with our relationships.

[George · Rating 4 out of 5]

Great read. Chapters 1 & 2 were the most noteworthy for me. These chapters completely changed the way I understand what shame is. Even if you are not a psychologist, I think these two chapters are worth reading.

[Lindy]

Not yet read. However, a note: the authors' names are not correct in the GoodReads listing (they are Robert G. Lee and Gordon Wheeler).