My parents call me Francesca, and sometimes I answer. But the Francesca who was me is disappearing. The Dietrichs' good little girl is dropping away with every bit of fat. Kessa doesn't have to eat—eating is messy, not clean. I'll just move the food around on my plate, and they'll think I've eaten some. Then I'll go to my room and dance. I'll be thin and beautiful... and a ballerina!
At first, no one knows that something is fatally wrong with fifteen-year-old Kessa—not her parents, teachers, friends, or family doctor. No one knows Kessa avoids eating whenever she can and forces herself to vomit when she does eat... that she has gone from an "A" student to failing. No one knows until Kessa's weight drops, and drops... and it may be too late.
I read this book when i was about 11 and it honestly became part of my downfall. For me it was more of "how to" then a "dont be like her". Although I still to this day like this book i was WAY to young to read it. I think its an important book even if the writer is in my opion a self-righteous hack... but hes a psychologist who wrote a best seller what can you do. I would highly suggest this book to any parent or family member of someone suffering an eating disorder or a well adjusted adult or teenager. This book is not for children and should not be left in your grandfathers book shelf for any little girl to read.
Perhaps it should be called, "Another ridiculous and deluded little girl saved by a super smart man telling her what to do"? Besides reducing the inner life of the protagonist to that of a cartoon character and wrapping up a disorder that often skews towards a life sentence by a few weeks of giving the doctor total control, Levenkron seems barely able to mask his sense that all women are kind of fucked up and this particular caricature is an adequate depiction of American femininity, eating disordered or otherwise.
A great book, however, if you find it enlightening to read the nuances of particular food obsessions and rituals -- is the price of this meal divisible by 4? What about the calorie content? I found this enlightening when I was seriously anorexic; less so afterwards.
The little girl's "recovery" is kind of unsatisfying as it's unclear what she'll have in her life now. Any efforts to develop a character with interests, goals an personality outside of her disorder might have raised the stakes and made the ending a happier one.
Oh this book was so clearly written by a psychologist. He writes how *he thinks* an anorexic thinks. It's oversimplified. If you really want to get in the head of a disordered eater, read Wintergirls instead.
OK wait I changed my review from three to two stars because I gave this more thought and realized that the one psychologist in the book, the "hero" who is the only one who can get through to this obstinate anorexic girl, is quite clearly the author inserting himself into the story. It's a like a pat on the back. Levenkron sacrifices details and accuracy in his characterization of Kessa by spending an excessive amount of time describing the poor psychologist's struggles to be taken seriously by the doctors at the hospital -- that added nothing to the story, it was just the author's hope that you would sympathize with the psychologist and how rough his life is because of his nobility and heroism.
I looked up Steven Levenkron and he seems to think he's God's gift to this green earth. His website boasts a 90 percent success rate for his patients (failing to define "success"...is that just keeping them alive? or what?). Let's not forget that his most famous patient, Karen Carpenter, died due to anorexia nervosa just four years after this book was published.
I hate this book because it is written by a man who doesn't know anything about the experience of having an eating disorder. I say this because I've been treated for various eating disorders.
I hated this book, mostly because Levenkron uses the stereotype of a person with anorexia nervosa. The way he writes the book makes the reader, if not otherwise informed, think that an eating disordered person must not only be white, privileged, and female, but also must be emaciated. He ignores the most basic thing - that people of any weight can have an eating disorder - and chooses instead to make his protagonist tiny.
It feels like in this book, as in his book The Luckiest Girl in the World (about self injury), that Levenkron just took all of the possible stereotypes about anorexia nervosa, put a random name to them, and put them down on paper. I am at a loss as to why this was a bestseller. It's not even very well-written, and unlike more modern and aware authors of eating disorder books/memoirs, he does not avoid numbers. In fact, this book is full of triggers. He mentions the protagonist's weight throughout the book, as well as her height. It's been awhile since I read it, but it wouldn't surprise me if he included caloric amounts in the novel as well.
All in all, I don't understand at all why Levenkron is heralded as being a brilliant psychotherapist and author. His writing is poor, his storytelling is not even mediocre at best, and as a therapist he should know better than to do all of the things he's done with this book. It could've had so much more potential, but he totally ruined it by making it a photocopied stereotype.
One of the worst novels I've ever read about eating disorders and yet it somehow has this hypnotic hold over the reader...a much, much better novel is _Winter Girls_ by Laurie Halse Anderson. It does not glamorize anorexia nor make it seem like something good...or something off of a "pro-ana" website. Levenkron's novel, unfortunately, is like a play-by-play manual...overrated and well-known for all the wrong reasons.
I read this book in high school several times. It's about a young girl - Francessca dying (literally) to be model thin. You get wrapped up in her rituals that rule her life and you also feel what her parents go thru as they watch her waste away...
“Soon I'll be thinner than all of you, she swore to herself. And then I'll be the winner. The thinner is the winner.” ― Steven Levenkron, The Best Little Girl in the World
At the time, when I read it as a young girl, it was stunning. Not may books of this type had been released.
Of coarse now it is a bit dated but I still feel it is a good book. Remember, for the time it was written we did not know nearly what we know today.
It was not one of my favorites as a young girl but well worth reading.
This book was a nice After School Special (and yeah... it really was turned into one )
It was written by a psychologist dude who was like the god-father of anorexia treatments. The funny thing is... you could tell it was totally a guy when he wrote for the anorexic girl.
The interesting thing is he gave a clear idea of what doctors think about anorexics.
Granted this was written in 1978 when people were just realizing that women were starving themselves but 33 years later not much has changed but the hairstyle, clothes, and the lingo (YOU wild turkey!! lolz!!)
It was kind of comical to know that a man wrote this. It was a mix of Charles in Charge, The Wonder Years, and Good Times. The lingo made me laugh.
The other thing was the author was really gung ho about making the shrink the misunderstood underdog of the story that breaks through to the anorexic girls. He pretty much goes on and on about how none of the doctors respect him but HE knows he can get through to the impossible. I didn't mind those parts but I think it took away from the focus of the anorexic girls.
All in all it was a very informative book. (even if it was a little outdated)
While I understand that at the time this was a groundbreaking work of fiction, today it's not. The characters are all stereotypes. It makes the whole Eating Disorder seem really, really easy. She literally decides one day not to eat and has a pretty good grasp on calorie content of food. How did she learn calorie counts? The pacing of the book makes it seem like she loses all that weight in a few days. It takes a long time to lose weight. Then her recovery seems really easy. Her rituals and obsessions were all pretty standard (food doesn't touch lips, the cutting up of all that's on her plate). It was nothing really great in terms of ED fiction. That said, it was still pretty important for the time that it was written, I'm sure. But it's not now.
The writing left a lot to be desired. The writing shifted POVs without much warning and I didn't really like the style.
important book, though i really hate the author. kessa is, i think, fairly believable. i am enormously glad that he wrote a follow-up book, finally ( kessa), because let's face it, the relapse rate for anorexia is awful high. (this makes me want to read gaining by amiee lui even more RIGHT NOW.)
again, the only problem i really had was that he takes the "typical" trope of the anorexia child - perfect at everything, with troubles at home, especially in communication. the father wants to control, the mother is emotional, kessa finds both of them weak. the therapist in the story ends up being the savior - which i think is a bit mary-sueish of levenkron - but.
if this book gets anyone into treatment, amen. the thing that i did really like was that it wasn't particularly triggering, and it didn't go into detail about ways to cheat the system, etc. you can rec it to someone with an ED without worrying they'll just get new ideas about how to cheat at weigh-ins (yes, i am talking about wasted, which should be banned or something).
more interesting as historical artifact than as literary experience. the first novel about anorexia, to my knowledge. extremely heavy-handed with the psychologizing, and the heroism of the psychologist reads a bit suspect, given that the writer himself is, ahem, a psychologist. while there is deep sympathy for kessa (l'anorexic), there's also a lot of scorn, from numerous characters and at times from the omniscient narrator himself. this kind of ambivalence interests me, especially given the pedagogical imperative of the novel.
I have a lot of problems with this book. First of all, it was written by a psychiatrist (I think - someone in the medical field) rather than someone who had personally battled an eating disorder. It's obvious at times, and occasionally reads like a self-written testimonial to his genius in "curing" the protaganist's anorexia. Kessa's character is also incredibly stereotypical, frustratingly so, and it becomes dull quite quickly. It's not helpful having yet another potrayal of an anorexic as a young overachieving white girl from a well off family (and a dancer to boot - so many stereotypes) and it only serves reinforce the idea that only a "certain" type of person becomes anorexic. Still, I understand that this would have been less overdone when the book came out almost 40 years ago.
As a lot of other people have said, it also reads like an instruction manual for anorexics (and others with disordered eating habits) and can be incredibly triggering. There are too many mentions of numbers, behaviours, and descriptions of Kessa's body that go well beyond the usual stuff mentioned in books like this; there are descriptions of Kessa's bones, and that was incredibly triggering for me as a recovering bulimic. Sometimes this book is so stereotypical & bland that things that have would have otherwise been triggering just made me roll my eyes, but that just made it all the more shocking when things like mentions of Kessa's bones and details of her "self-checking" routines would pop up. Obviously I really don't recommend reading this book if you're dealing with an eating disorder, in recovery, or otherwise vulnerable to this sort of thing.
All of that said, I did enjoy this book. It didn't keep me up at night reading it, but it was interesting enough that I went back to it every day. I can understand why it was such an important book at the time it was released. It's a little outdated but still good, and Kessa's feelings are relatively relatable. I recommend this more to people trying to understand eating disorders than to people suffering from them, and I'd suggest avoiding it even if you're not disordered but struggling with body image issues.
Everything happens way too fast, one day she was fine, the next she had an eating disorder ? It's not how it happens, it's supposed to be progressive and creep up on you. Good story, but I'm not a huge fan of the writing style. It's all a quick succession of events that are recounted too fast to really get into it, it's not as elaborately written as other ED-related books, doesn't give you as much insight into the mind of an anorexic as other books do .. It was a quick, light read and that's good because otherwise I wouldn't have finished it, I was way too annoyed at how quickly everything happened. Not a book for young girls because it could trigger them, but then again not a book for the older generations because it's not elaborate enough and sounds almost childish at times, so I don't quite know who the intended audience was ?! I hated the way he talked about eating disorders, all simplified. they're not simple. they're complex. he should have put more emphasis on the complexity of it. also, he just tells the reader about the most basic ideas about the causes of anorexia. family dynamics, fear of adulthood, need for control, etc. it's stuff that's been researched ages ago, and most people who've looked a bit into eating disorders probably know it already, every single article/book/documentary mentions these potential causes. he should have elaborated on them a bit. honestly, this book doesn't teach anything at all, it's all way too basic. the main character doesn't act her own age, she's supposed to be 15 and acts as dependant as a 10 year old towards Sandy. And her whole inventing " Kessa " thing is just weird, given the fact that she's 15. But I don't know much about psychology (yet) so I can't really be sure that's not common behaviour. But that's just how I perceived it : childish. The other anorexic annoyed me, Lila annoyed me, Kessa's family annoyed me, especially the father. I only really liked one character, Sandy. Really not much, is it ? I did really like him, as well as his approach. It's the only thing I enjoyed about the book, it's better than nothing but still.
Revisiting this one from my youth. What I find interesting about reading books like this from the 70s/80s (or earlier) is that they are before the age of SSRIs. It's interesting to see psychiatric illnesses from different points of view depending on era and the treatments available.
I read this book a long time ago and still talk about it to this day even though I've never had the eating disorder as our heroine did. This is a great read and really gives you insight as to what this type of life is like.
I read this in like high school I think, but I remember it being a really good book that gives a very realistic look into the minds of people with eating disorders.
This book was suggested by my classmate in 6th grade, who happened to be our batch's valedictorian. I was so surprised when she gave me this book to read, she told me the snippets then I got interested, I could say this book is repleted with text that would describe every girls' situation in our society today; adding to the fact that Francesca is a ballerina, it adds to her pressure to get thinner and thinner every moment possible. And it's so absurd how she hates food that everything that has a connection with it is a horrid thing for her, like she doesn't even want sit down on her toilet bowl because she used to throw up food there, cutting the bacon into tiniest strips and suspended them on her throat, because she'll vomit it afterwards.I think this kind of book should be read with guidance. This not a type of book that must be left in your sister's shelves or elsewhere :) I gave this 5 shining stars because this book has a very vast text that both describes our current society's idea of beauty and at the same time how girls try to struggle through it.
I give this book a 4.5 star rating simply because it was excellent with the right ending and it was a good book. For the most part, you went right through it but it wasn't an un-put down-able book though this almost reads as a non-fiction book and you think you're reading about a real little girl in a real situation as the author did great with the realness of the way a little girl would feel and be in this particular situation with her particular issues. And the doctors and people who can and can't help her and what they want to do and aren't willing to do to help her...it all meshes well with today's doctors. They either know it or they don't or claim they do when they don't. It is a sad but inspiring story for all people of anorexia, it shows what it takes to solve the problem of anorexia itself...and what it is really caused by. But it also is an inspirational story for family members of anorexics, bulimics, or just a person wanting to read a good book (teen book, especially good for teens!)
This is about a chubby girl's struggles to join the in group and then her battle against anorexia for her life. Again, it's about choosing your friends well. Obviously this book was a bummer. What struck me hardest was the similarities between alcoholic thinking and anorexic thinking, centering on her need to have control of SOMETHING in her life. Boys can find something to control in a model railroad or an interest in computers, but that would get one branded as a nerd. Girls being required to be passive makes that a difficult and deadly trap, turning aggressions inward. She did not have an eating problem; she had a life problem that led to the eating disorder and had to be fixed first. I would like to rate this as over a 4 but it was not five stars either. Very compelling reading!!!
I haven't read this book in over a decade but got it for free on Kindle so I was like meh, why not? It's more psychology than story, which I guess was the point, and I can see the good that comes from a psychologist trying to normalize a mental illness through the use of a story because the characters are learning about it so the reader can learn about it...but lawd it's so dated and low key offensive, especially with how the author talks about non-white people. But two stars because I can see how in the time of its printing that it would have helped people understand something that almost no one knew about.
okay. okay. so i had heard of this book--rather the film first, and had an idea of what it was. i didn't like it, plain and simple. the beginning was horrible, and felt like a textbook version of trying to explain what anorexia was. overall, the book had some decent parts, but it just felt as if someone was observing anorectics from the outside, and was interviewing them, and then written this book. it felt dry and unrealistic. for example, there wasn't a SINGLE scene where she binged. she literally just starved herself. i don't know a single person who had anorexia who hadn't binged at least once during their time with anorexia. it's just not realistic.
I really really liked this book, it was so sad to watch a girl struggle with society and being perfect that she starts to kill herself by not eating! when you read this you want to help her but you can't and she just keeps loosing weight until she ends up in rehab. i recommend this book to everyone because it is a strong powerful book, and just to put yourself in a person with anorexia nervosa's place will let you see what people who have this go through and feel. I am glad my sister recommended it to me!
One day at dance class, Francesca's dance teacher tells her she needs to drop just a few pounds from her already tiny body. And that night, Kessa, Francesca's alterego, is born. Kessa stops eating and begins losing too much weight. Her parents take her to the doctor and try therapy. But Kessa still won't eat. Her obsession begins turning into to an actual fear. She drops to 78 pounds. Her chances of living are looking, well, slim.
253 pages. 1 book.
I recommend this to people interested in the minds of patients with anorexia nervosa.
As perhaps said best by the mental illness writer and autobiographer Marya Hornbacher, this book is less about the tragedy and realities of eating disorders than it is about the author's own supposed genius in curing them. The central character Casey is remarkably flat for a book that is supposed to deal with such a complex issue as anorexia. I think The Best Little Girl in the World qualifies as a gateway into ED literature for young and impressionable women rather than an expose on the horrors of such an addictive mental condition. Not an informative read.
The Negatives -Another trope of a dumb helpless female that just needed to listen to an older male who knows how to fix all her problems. -Everything in this is way too simple and clear cut. Inappropriate and disappointing. -Eating disorders labelled as not 'real diseases' throughout the novel by many parties.
The Positives -Fast read and quick pace. -You might learn something about eating disorders if you have literally NO previous knowledge of them at all.
Giving away. The early '90s view on mental disorders and male superiority makes me feel sick.
I believe that this book was cliche at best. It made eating disordered patients seem pathetic and childish. The whole misconception that only rich white teenagers struggle with eating disorders irks me to no end. This book does have a lot of very true symptoms and thought processes of an eating disordered person however, with the way it was written it made it all seem ... fictional and as if people don’t really struggle with these issues. Kind of surprising that it was written by someone that worked with people who struggle with eating disorders.
As I was reading this book for the first time, (I read it in my teens) I kept having to remember that this book was groundbreaking for its time, because so little was known about eating disorders around the time this book was written. It almost allowed me to excuse how stupid Kessa's parents were, and how inaccurate the portrayal of a teenager with an eating disorder was. The fact that Kessa was a stereotypical ballerina really irked me too, for some reason.