This book contained many great thought-provoking impulses for me. Erin Davis challenges us to think about our relation to the world's standards of beauty, our eating habits, our father and mother relationship, God's love for us and how he sees our beauty.
It helped me a lot to think about God's love for me and drew me into his arms. Erin did a wonderful job showing how the world's standards for beauty always change, but how beautiful we are and always will be in God's eyes because he created us with such care. Even the parts of our body that we don't like, he created this way deliberately.
I was a little dissapointed because of some undifferentiated or only half-explained statements. For example, Erin makes a an argument for how important it is to eat and I absolutely understand that that is the message young girls need to hear, but it is also important that we exercise self-control and in my opinion this wasn't made clear enough. There were some other points that weren't explained fully,- only briefly truncated. Like - how can we practically point to God with our outward beauty? This wasn't clarified satisfyingly. And I would have liked to read more about God's standard of beauty - how can we adorn ourselves with the imperishible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in God's sight? (1.Peter 3,4)
Erin often repeats that we are precious in the eyes of God and I totally agree with this. But here again, as far as I can recall, she only once mentions that we are precious BECAUSE we are God's children. This is important: We aren't valuable because we have worth in and of usself, I believe, but BECAUSE God gives us worth through being our father and lover.
However I really enjoyed this book and learned from it and my heart was warmed by the message. Though the target group are teenage girls who struggle to accept themselves it is a very important message for even older and maybe more stable women. We all need to hear that God loves us and doesn't want us to be destroyed by impossible beauty standards the world is imposing on us. True beauty is only found when we know and act after what God says is beautiful.