Summary: He married and made so little that the family ate oatmeal everyday and got sick from a moldy house, losing two daughters and he also almost died. His wife was traumatized by the loss of her children and almost losing her husband. He was a poor disciplinarian of children and smiled at or ignored their bad behavior. He decided he should be re-baptized because he wanted it to mark "his decision" [and despite her Puritan upbringing, she also was rebaptized.]
He was a curious guy and taught himself languages, became ordained and suddenly volunteered to be the first illegal missionary to India without consulting his pregnant and soon-due wife. Being deathly afraid, his wife refused to take their three children and go with him to dangerous India. He did not force her. He abandoned his family, reasoning missionary work was more important than going to war and since men left their wives to fight wars, he was justified to abandon his family (he planned to send for them in the future). His trip was delayed and after she had their fourth child without him being present, he showed up. On his third attempt to convince her, his friend laid a guilt trip on her blaming her for "depriving the children of their father" [and cause the family to “be dispersed and divided for ever—she would repent it as long as she lived.”] When her sister agreed to go with them all, she finally agreed to go with them.
On the very dangerous journey to India (many boats sunk in those days), they all almost died on a ship, which ran out of food and was damaged in a storm. They illegally went to India and broke the clear laws forbidding them entry. His fellow missionary betrayed him, plundered all the money and his family was left in poverty without house or even a bowl of rice. They had to depend on handouts [and moved 5 times in 7 months]. He moved the family to the impoverished outskirts, a poor tiger-infested area, where 20 men had been killed. While the parents were also very sick, a son got the disease and died - their third child lost. His sick wife became even more depressed when no one would help bury the boy until some Muslims took pity on them.
Wife had a 7th child, [at which point Carey wrote that his wife had become "insane with jealously" and he had her locked in her room. It is said that she accused him of having affairs and attacked him.] He spent most of his time translating the Bible into the local languages. He successfully translated the Bible into Hindi and 6 other languages. [He translated into English the Hindu "scriptures," the Ramayana, which are about as long as the English Bible]. Although he had been a teacher, other missionaries were so appalled by the terrible behavior and lack of education of Carey's four sons that they attempted to raise his kids and teach them in his place. The only relationship this book mentions between father and sons is that he wanted them to become missionaries like him. After 7 years in India, he finally converted two Hindus to Christianity. Eventually his wife died, and causing a major scandal and protest, he quickly remarried their wealthy neighbor 5 mos later - a woman who shared his love of languages, for she knew 7. He worked as a teacher and was a respected man of who understood the Hindu ways. When his second wife died, he married a third. He asked to be buried next to his second wife.
Chapter 2 16:17 Boys school ended at age 12 in 1772. How work n support family on farm.
Chapter 3 11:28 Stealing a Shilling was jail. More than a shilling was death.
Chapter 4 03:44 Women couldn't read or write. Signed marriage with an X
Chapter 4 05:43 Ate oatmeal and water. Daughter died.
Chapter 4 06:09 Mother was appalled by their home. Moldy walls n no food. William sick too n got sick easy for reast of life. Lost his hair on top of his head at age 23
Chapter 4 09:04 Dolly haunted by daughter's death
Chapter 4 09:43 He wanted to be baptized by his own choice by John Ryland. N John Sutcliff
Chapter 4 12:32 Baptist church paid 15lbs a year
Chapter 4 13:29 Smiled at childrens sins so bad at discipline
Chapter 4 13:58 Pastor n school teacher
Chapter 4 17:08 Not ordained yet so became at age 26. Andrew Fuller n John Ryland
Chapter 5 01:18 Most didn't believe anyone had to share the gospel cuz disciples did it n that was the end of it.
Chapter 5 04:59 Hebrew, Dutch, Greek n Latin
Chapter 5 05:26 At least 3 kids
Chapter 5 08:22 New daughter Lucy died
Chapter 5 14:56 Particular Baptist Society for Propagating the Gospel got all book proceeds
Chapter 6 09:09 Dolly screamed!
Chapter 6 10:21 He would leave Dolly and the kids behind. This was more important than a man going to war, in which he left his family behind
Chapter 6 14:28 She had no home or means to live. Society needed 550lbs! He would tk his son w him.
Chapter 6 23:16 Asked John Newton how to get to India around laws
Chapter 7 02:25 His child wud b born wo him
Chapter 7 04:11 Dr Thomas missionary partner had owed 500lbs n ran from it
Chapter 7 09:13 Now found a legal way to enter India. Had been trying to get in illegally
Chapter 7 11:10 Dolly wife named his baby Jabel - sorrow
Chapter 7 15:43 Sister n wife n kids agreed to go! 3rd time asking
Chapter 7 19:51 250lbs short
Chapter 8 10:51 50ft waves
Chapter 8 14:31 Ran out of food
Chapter 9 01:17 They were illegally there!
Chapter 9 17:48 Ran out of money. Women complained continuously.
Chapter 10 00:54 Dr Thomas spent ALL the money n borrowed more! He lived in luxury w 12 servants. They didn't want to be missionaries anymore.
Chapter 10 14:49 20 people killed by tigers.
Chapter 10 16:12 Built a bamboo hut
Chapter 10 18:44 Man poked through w hooks swinging in the air for the gods
Chapter 10 19:26 Translating Genesis
Chapter 11 06:35 Sister fell in love n would stay behind to marry
Chapter 11 18:24 5 yr son died of illness
Chapter 11 21:07 Dolly depressed
Chapter 12 00:11 14mos in India n never got one letter from home in England
Chapter 12 04:46 Dolly had 7th child
Chapter 12 09:42 Saw woman burned cuz husband died. Common practice. Carried them 14 steps closer to heaven. Poured butter over her n tied her down n burned them.
Chapter 13 14:57 Finally two Hindus converted n broke Caste. People threw rocks at them n one mans the wives abandoned him. Jailed.
Chapter 14 12:21 Dolly was deranged
Chapter 14 15:59 Babies yhrown into crocs mouths at river
Chapter 14 17:53 Dollydied. Remarried 6 mos later
Chapter 16 03:32 New young missionaries were lazy n questioned everything
Chapter 16 08:07 William Pierce sent there
Chapter 16 13:59 Betrayed by Baptist Mission Society William founded cuz all his friends died.
Chapter 16 16:10 11 year old girls married by parents at age 3 were burned at 11 so they would have no claim on their husbands ' property.
Chapter 17 02:02 Married a 3rd wife
Chapter 17 06:36 Indian Banks failed so lost all money. His house destroyed twice.