This story is more subtle and complicated than the previous books in this series. I had a difficult time feeling any urgency in this story because I could not empathize with Rhys feelings regarding the destruction of the symbols of his defeated country.
I think most people have to deal with problems similar to those of Rhys & Catrin, i.e., reality some times goes in a direction totally contrary to what we had originally expected and had planned for, and we have to be big boys and girls and adjust our thinking, and align ourselves with the real world.