But He Never Hit Me: The Devastating Cost of Non-Physical Abuse to Girls and Women

by Jill A. Murray

When most people hear the word "abuse," they naturally conjure up images of broken bones, black eyes, and bruises. But in truth, physical violence comprises the vast minority of abusive behaviors in any relationship. The overwhelming types of abuses are those that are difficult to recognize: verbal, emotional, psychological, financial, and spiritual.

Because no outward signs of mistreatment exist, these types of abuses usually go unnoticed, especially by the woman experiencing them. In particular, abusive comments often lead a woman in any unhealthy relationship to distrust her own reality and good sense.

"But He Never Hit Me: The Devastating Cost of Non-Physical Abuse to Girls and Women" exposes the truth about these destructive behaviors and also reveals the red flags of a potentially abusive relationship. Women can explore their own background information to understand what led them to these men, the shocking costs that non-physically threatening relationships have on every part of their life, and ways in which they can make changes toward a more positive, healthy, and rewarding future.

Imperative for women of all ages, from teens through senior citizens, "But He Never Hit Me" joins and aligns a large and supportive community of women dedicated to healthy, rewarding relationships.

Genres: Self Help

346 pages, Paperback

First published February 25, 2007

Reviews

[Tori · Rating 5 out of 5]

I could only read about half of this book before I put it away for another day. I first saw it on Dr. Phil, about a year after my divorce was final. I was in an emotionally abusive marriage and I wish I had found this book sooner. It was hard for me to read and realize more and more that what he did was completely wrong. I had to stop reading it eventually because it brought back too many bad memories. I do recommend it to anyone who thinks they might be in an abusive relationship and needs some more information about emotional abuse.

[Heidi Aschenbrenner · Rating 5 out of 5]

Excellent book if you've ever been in an abusive relationship. It's been years since my last one, and this book was very validating - that there are certain behaviors from family members that are not healthy or acceptable. it was enlightening to see how many more abusive relationships I'd had than I had previously realized. I recommend even if you think you've healed and moved on; there are still lots of good things to think about and consider in this book.

[Aj Ruffin · Rating 5 out of 5]

Amazing book!