I thought this was going to be a romance, or chick lit...the cover is deceptive, I think the cover could be better to depict the book's contents, cause it is quite a serious book.
Definately not a romance or chick lit! I really enjoyed it, and was surprised, happily, by its seriousness and literary qualities (I love good literary books! But ones that aren't too serious).
I love that it was set one day over a wedding...I love wedding settings! Weddings are curious things, and I love characters being let loose at a wedding and seeing what they get up to. This was essentially this book.
But it has much deeper themes and issues running through it. Domestic violence, and violence against women, being the main one. I was really surprised to see it featured so heavily in the book, but happy it was. I feel really strongly about this issue and believe society turns too much of a blind eye to it. There was no turning a blind eye to it in this book!
Most importantly the book is about relationships, and marriage. It was an often sorrowful look at marriages, in all varieties and at differing stages of life. The happy newlyweds, the unhappy, cheating ones married 30 years, the wife-beating, murdering ones! I cried a lot, at the truth of it all, but also that there is still hope. There is still love, and there is still marriages that work out there.
There's also a mini ghost storyline happening, which I loved, and the setting, at this glorious, sprawling lodge and wedding centre was so comforting (even with a ghost or two), that I just longed to stay in a place like that (but maybe not get married! I may be turned off marriage for life after this book)!
I love the contents page for some reason....I've just stared and stared at it for many hours! Can't tell you why...I just love reading the contents page! I think that page alone brings so many images to mind, before you've even read the book. Maybe I'm just jealous, and I really want to write my own book with those chapter headings, like its vital to the story! Who knows, I'm just a girl addicted to words and books.
Basically, I loved it, and I think weirdly it was a case of reading a book on a certain subject that I really needed to read at this exact stage of my life.
Books have a way of finding you.