Honestly, I did not know what to expect going into this, but it really exceeded any expectations I might've had. Teddy Pendergrass is one of the most underappreciated R&B musicians, and now seeing how he viewed and advocated for the disabled, I'd say activist too. Considering this was written in the late 90s, I'm really appreciative of his immense vulnerability and mindset surrounding having been a paralyzed person. He offered quite a rare and interesting perspective as someone who went from living the high life and being a 'sex symbol' to having his world changed in a blink of an eye and dealing with all that comes with quadriplegia. Him showing his struggles with ableism, even as someone with status and money, really makes you see what a challenge it is societally to be disabled, and it sucks to see that not much has changed since this was written. Going back for a second, I also loved how much about the music industry in the 70s was talked about, of which takes up the biggest portion of the book. He shed a lot of insight into the Motown era of music and his hometown of Philadelphia, and of course his own music.
Not only was the writing preciously personal (I was even close to tears when the Live Aid performance moment came around) but also sprinkled with humor, which had me laughing out loud a few times.
RIP to the legend Teddy Pendergass, and I shall end this on a quote from the book that is truly wise:
"Nothing of the moment is lost, because it's all about what you get when you get there, not how you get there." <3