Score: 25/30
Grade: A
If I could give this four and a half stars, I would!
Marlene: Marlene Dietrich, a Personal Biography by Charlotte Chandler paints an incredibly intimate portrait of the classic star, recounting her endless love affairs, her life throughout both World Wars, her storied and strained relationships with her mother and sister, and her reclusive later years in Paris, France. It is a very comprehensive and, as the title would suggest, personal biography of an enigmatic icon like Marlene. Chandler's biography really captures Marlene's incredible essence, which is something that I can only imagine would be a feat to accomplish.
I've always been a big fan of just who Marlene Dietrich is--so glamorous, so alluring, so hypnotic. I watched a few of her films in conjunction with reading Marlene and it was such an experience, I tell you!! If you ever get the chance, her films play occasionally on TCM. Record them and read this biography with it, which includes detailed plot descriptions of her films and Marlene's experience on set and sometimes the film director's, writer's, or crew's personal experience on set with the icon, too. She talks directly and candidly about what her experiences on set were like and what her opinions were on the films she made, sometimes positive, sometimes negative. Mostly, it was just entertaining!
In the biography, Marlene speaks openly about her harsh childhood, her father dying when she was only a girl, leaving her with a disciplined mother who would later remarry to Marlene's distant step-father, who he himself would later die tragically. Then, the first World War, pushing the family into financial instability and a different lifestyle than the young Marlene had known. Marlene continues to keep that honest conversation while recounting her affairs, of which she had many, and her open marriage to Rudi Sieber, who also had a mistress who would sometimes live with the family. Her free and open marriage is absolutely dazzling to hear her talk about in such a cool and loving manner! Marlene also, though only briefly, discusses her sexual experiences with women. Perhaps Marlene didn't want to open up further, perhaps Chandler didn't press on about Marlene's bisexuality, but I would have loved to hear more about it. She is (at least for me) such an icon to gay and queer women, especially in her early tuxedo wearing days. I could have read pages upon pages about her affairs with women, to be honest.
You also get the feeling reading this that Marlene is somehow incredibly insecure, as I think many pre-code and classic film actresses were. Often made to change their entire appearance before getting a role, rewrite their name and their history, it's no surprise that Marlene feels that same insecurity, as she was made to do the same thing. During her later years, she was a recluse, never leaving her tiny Paris apartment. She says on page 265, "But there is nothing I want to do outside that would be worth seeing ugly photographs of myself in the paper." I can't help but feel sad for her, as there is some bleakness that overrides this book. Despite the flirtatious, witty, and bold woman she proclaimed herself to be, she was also very shy and insecure in many ways. It's beautiful to get that portrayal of Marlene here, because it is real.
Nevertheless, Marlene is such an enjoyable read. I think Marlene Dietrich is one of the most interesting women in Hollywood history, one of the most vocal in her ideologies, one of the most non-judgmental, one of the most open and carefree in all that she does. Every word Marlene said just enraptured me to me core. She clearly had something to say, and I am so glad she said it.
The style in which this book is written will not be for everyone, I will admit. I loved it, however. There's very little fluff. I hate fluff in a biography like this! It reads very much like an interview, with long paragraphs of dialogue spoken by Marlene and other people that Chandler spoke to about Marlene. There's very little description, no lengthy reports of the dress Marlene was wearing that day or how her hair looked or how she sighed longingly gazing out a window as the interviewer records at length every last thought they happen to be thinking at that moment. No crap; Chandler cut it all out and that's just how I like it. There were some interviews with other people that seemed to drag on far too long and could have easily been condensed down by pages. But, ultimately, no interview was too boring, because at the end of it, there was always another anecdote about Marlene that I adored. If you are looking for a biography that reads like a fiction book, this ain't it. If you're looking for a book that shoots it straight from the star's mouth, then this is it!
Quotes:
"After Mr. [Josef] von Sternberg took charge of my looks, sometimes I thought they belonged more to him than to me. The emphasis on the way I looked became a burden to bear, almost too great to enjoy." (page 4)
"Life is a constant struggle, a fight to protect your illusions. People are very keen on making you aware of the truth, but it's their truth, not yours. Certainly not mine. Illusion is fragile and has to be protected." (page 10-11)
"I remember walking in the country one spring and passing a prisoner-of-war camp for French soldiers. One of them put his hand through the barbed wire and I impulsively picked up some wildflowers and put them into his hands. He clutched them like a gift from God. I said a few words to him in French.
Some girls from my class saw this and reported me, and I had to miss some school. It was considered a disgrace, but I didn't feel disgraced." (page 33)
"So, what my mother had said was the right thing for a girl to do, not to be noticed, wasn't right for me. I did was came naturally to me, the exact opposite of what she had said, and that was what turned out to be right." (page 42)
"I was totally in love," Marlene told me. "Every girl should have that experience--once. Then you know what it is, what it feels like, the real thing. You can never be fooled once you have known true romance, true passion, true love!" (page 45)
"Marlene Dietrich enjoyed the constant hint of scandal, more than a hint, and she did her best, in a subtle way, to enhance rumors that she was a bad girl, not a good girl. She believed bad girls were more compelling for the public's imagination than saintly women." Douglas Fairbanks, Jr. on Marlene, (page 114)
"[Marlene] leaned close and almost whispered in that glorious voice of hers: "I want to kill Hitler." [...] "I wouldn't have any trouble killing him. It would be a pleasure. It's like war. I think killing him would save thousands of lives, even millions. [...] I would not expect to escape. I would go there prepared to die. I don't want to die. I want to live. Life is wonderful. But to kill Hitler would be wonderful. We all have to die sometime, and that would be something to die for."" - Douglas Fairbanks, Jr on Marlene, (pages 129-130)"
"But we must not go on fighting the war after it has ended. The bitterness hurts the one who is bitter." (page 165)
"She liked to play bad girls because they were more interesting that good girls, and she preferred real-life love scenes to the ones on the screen." - Billy Wilder on Marlene (page 185)
"In July of 1964, during her South African tour, Marlene and the group from her show were having dinner [...] As they were being served, Marlene noticed that someone was missing. "Where is our driver?" she said. "Why isn't he having dinner?"
One of the local press people explained to her that he was waiting in the car, unable under apartheid law to enter a white restaurant.
"Hasn't anyone thought about him being hungry?" she asked. "I want two heaping full plates with everything, as much food as they can hold."
[...]
She took the two plates out to the car and to the surprise of everyone got into the car and ate her dinner there." (page 206)
"There are people you think you can't live without. Then you have to. And you don't die. You live on. But life isn't ever the same." (page 226)