“A must read for anyone in business, government or academia. The lessons Hayashi teaches are all too often taken for granted. This work distills a lifetime of experience into easily understood actions that can benefit us all.”–Joseph Major, Chairman and CEO, The Victory Bank Whether you’re trying to motivate a team, negotiate a contract, make a sale, ask for a raise, land a new job, or terminate an employee, the conversations you have will either help you succeed or undermine your goals. Communication expert and leadership coach Shawn Kent Hayashi has spent more than two decades studying how the things people say impact their business and professional lives. In her new book CONVERSATIONS FOR 12 Ways to Say It Right When It Matters Most , she not only identifies the twelve most important types of conversations people have, but shows readers how to reach their maximum potential by using these conversations effectively. Hayashi identifies the 12 types of conversations that are vital for growth and success--not just in business but in every area of your life. In order to communicate well you must first master three fundamentals. These
My left arm for a 0.5 star rating. This is a 3.5 star book, and I'm not okay giving it a 4 star.
Much like other self-help books, this has a distinct tone that annoys me. Conversations are never as pat as the writer would like us to believe. I also don't like names like CONVERSATION FOR CREATING BLAH BLAH. But there is a lot of useful information and theories in here. I found a lot of the foundations are strong, and I think it will help me both in personal and work development.
The book does have some useful information, but was not for me. The author tries to teach you how to build a deep connection with someone through the use of understanding, interpreting, and adapting to their emotions. I was expecting to read more about what/how to say when facing difficult conversations, but didn't find that in this book.
Has a few good points, but could do with an editor as quite repetitive e.g. will bullet point several ways to say facets of same point rather than provide a succinct point the first time around