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"Uncover the truth with 7 Secrets about Red Flags in Relationships. This book delves into the warning signs that can indicate a potentially harmful or unhealthy relationship, and provides practical advice on how to navigate these situations. From identifying patterns of manipulation and control, to understanding the dynamics of gaslighting and emotional abuse, this book is a must-read for anyone looking to improve their relationships and take control of their well-being. Whether you're in a new relationship or have been in one for years, 7 Secrets about Red Flags in Relationships will give you the tools you need to recognize and address red flags before they become bigger problems."

52 pages, Kindle Edition

Published February 8, 2023

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687 reviews18 followers
February 14, 2023
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How many of us was or still in a toxic relationship but never has any idea about it. How many times knowing or not knowing fully we do things that really harmful for the relationship.

In this book the author talks all about those things, the warning things which indicates the relationship is unhealthy or heading towards one. The author talks about seven important habits or behaviours and how they makes either a relationship good or to bad. Like -

One sided, unrealistic expectations, lack of healthy open conversations, manipulating through Gaslighting a situation, frequently lying to your partner, Narcissism or excessive needs of admiration and lack of empathy to others, not to compromise at all, constantly putting the other person's down. All these are very bad quality for a healthy relationship. And how we should look out for these, the author talks about that too.

This is not only for the couples to try to understand and make their relationship healthy. This book can be helpful to single people who are looking forward to be in a relationship. As these attributes can be helpful to them to identify the wrongs from the beginning.

I like how the author in this short book manages to talks about all the red flags in a relationship in a well constructed manner. And a book definitely worth the read.
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509 reviews8 followers
February 7, 2023
By this amazing book, you can gain valuable insights into what to look for in a partner and what to avoid. This book will provide you the tools you need to identify and address any red flags that may arise in a new relationship and give you a better understanding of what a healthy relationship should look like.

This book is a concise and well-written exploration of seven common behaviors that can be damaging in relationships. Each chapter effectively delves into a specific issue, such as expectations, lack of communication, gaslighting, and more, offering insights and information that can be helpful to readers.

The book is easy to read and provides a good overview of each topic, making it a valuable resource for anyone looking to improve their relationships and understand the impact that certain behaviors can have.

Whether you are in a relationship that is going through tough times or are single and seeking a new relationship, it is important to be aware of red flags and take action to address them. By doing so, you can increase the chances of having a healthy and long-lasting relationship.

✨ Kudos to Author ✨
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1,294 reviews554 followers
February 14, 2023
Relationships do not come with an instruction manual’

Every relationship is unique and requires its own set of skills and strategies to navigate. Even a healthy relationship may deteriorate if certain problematic behavior or ‘Red flags’ are ignored. It did what?: 7 Secrets about Red Flags in Relationships examines these red flags that can indicate an unhealthy relationship and offers some practical advice on how to deal with it.

The book acts as a guide to identifying a pattern of problematic behavior in a relationship. From gaslighting to constant putting down behavior and from lack of communication to narcissistic behavior, this book has identified 7 red flags or toxic behaviors which one can identify and take suitable action. This book will not only help you improve your relationships but also provides you will practical solution to identify potential warning signs and take corrective action.

This book provides a real-life example of every toxic behavior and helps you identify red flags in potential partners. It also provides you with a practical solution to take corrective action like better communication, therapy and counseling. At the end of the book, it presents a quiz where using a checklist, you can identify if your relationship is already showing worrying signs.

The book is focused on taking corrective action before it’s too late and maintaining a healthy relationship. The book offers valuable advice on communication, trust, and compromise. This book is not only useful to those in a relationship but also for Individuals who can make better-informed decisions when entering a new relationship. Overall a great read for every individual.
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475 reviews9 followers
March 10, 2023
7 Secrets about Red Flags in Relationshipsby Tanmay Mehta is an exceptional book that presents readers with practical advice on building and maintaining healthy relationships. The author's unique approach to relationships, which encompasses all types of connections, sets this book apart from others in its genre.

One of the standout features of this book is the emphasis on mutual respect as a key component of healthy relationships. The author provides readers with relatable examples and anecdotes to illustrate how mutual respect can lead to stronger and more fulfilling connections with others.

Mehta's writing style is clear and concise, making the book an easy and engaging read. The organization of the book is also noteworthy, with each chapter building upon the previous one and concluding with reflective exercises designed to help readers apply the concepts covered in their own lives.

The inclusion of quizzes throughout the book adds an interactive element that encourages readers to engage with the material and gain a deeper understanding of their own relationship patterns and tendencies.

7 Secrets about Red Flags in Relationships is a valuable resource for anyone seeking to improve their relationships, whether they are romantic, familial, professional, or platonic. I highly recommend this book to anyone looking to enhance their connections with others and cultivate greater happiness and well-being in their lives.
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178 reviews2 followers
February 9, 2023
The author, Tanmay Mehta, has done an exceptional job in presenting a comprehensive guide to relationships.

From the first chapter to the last, the book is filled with practical advice and relatable examples that make it an engaging and thought-provoking read. The author's approach is unique in the sense that it focuses not just on romantic relationships, but all forms of relationships, including familial, professional, and platonic ones.

One of the key themes that the book emphasizes is the importance of mutual respect in all relationships.

The author highlights how having mutual respect can help us build stronger and healthier relationships, and how it can contribute to our overall happiness and well-being. Through real-life examples and anecdotes, the author makes it clear how we can apply these principles in our own lives and relationships.

I particularly appreciated the author's writing style, which is straightforward and to-the-point. The book is well-organized, and the chapters are easy to follow and understand. The author also includes quizzes and reflective exercises that are designed to help readers better understand themselves and their relationships.

I would highly recommend it to anyone looking to gain a deeper understanding of relationships and how to navigate them successfully.
285 reviews5 followers
February 12, 2023
As someone who has been interested in the topic of relationships and their dynamics, I found this book to be a valuable resource that truly delivers on its promise to be a game changer. The author has done a fantastic job of breaking down complex relationship dynamics into simple and understandable concepts, making it an accessible and user-friendly read for anyone looking to improve their relationships.

The first section of the book provides a comprehensive overview of what red flags in relationships are and why they are so important to pay attention to. The author expertly explains that red flags are warning signs that can indicate a potentially harmful or unhealthy relationship.

This section sets the stage for the rest of the book, providing a clear and concise understanding of the importance of recognizing red flags in our relationships.

The author also offers concrete steps that can be taken to address these red flags, from having an open and honest conversation with your partner to seeking outside help from a therapist or counselor.

I was able to read it in just a few hours and felt like I gained a wealth of knowledge and understanding about relationships and their dynamics.

This book is an excellent resource that is sure to help you grow and develop as a person and in your relationships. Go give this excellent book a try.
54 reviews1 follower
February 19, 2023
"IT DID WHAT? : 7 Secrets about red flags in relationship" by Tanmay Mehta is a great read.
For me, it's an "eye-opening" book in one word.
As you can see the theme & title of the book. It's easily predictable that this book is about relationships, red flag in a relationship & in simple words this book will make you see whether your relationship is toxic or not.
Nowadays a toxic relationship is very normalized which makes me feel kinda unwell.
People suffers toxicity & ignore red flags because they think its Normal, though it's not. These things do affect the mental health of peple, which is also discussed in this book.
So I think everyone should read this book.
Many terms has been discussed in this here which is commonly practiced in a relationship like ghosting, gaslighting, manipulating, & many other toxic behaviors.
It'll be great guide to identify what's wrong in your relationship. This book will show you a right path. And teach you what relationship should be like!
The author has written this book in a very realistic way.
The good part is, this book can also help singles to search their ideal type person, green flags & many good advices.

Must read the book to know about human nature & their red flags.
I legit enjoyed reading this as I learnt alot.

My overall rating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
103 reviews4 followers
March 1, 2023
The writer works really hard of examining the unpretentious warnings that frequently slip through the cracks and gives substantial guides to assist perusers with perceiving these examples in their own connections. The conversation of control and control was especially smart, and the functional counsel gave in the book was unbelievably useful. As well as giving functional counsel, the book likewise features the significance of self-reflection and mindfulness.

This book investigates the warnings that can highlight a possibly risky or unfortunate relationship and offers supportive direction on the most proficient method to deal with these conditions. This book is a must-peruse for anybody hoping to work on their connections and assume command over their prosperity. It covers all that from distinguishing examples of control and control to understanding the elements of gaslighting and psychological mistreatment. Whether you're in a pristine relationship or have been in one for some time, 7 Mysteries about Warnings in Connections will outfit you with the abilities you want to recognize warnings and manage them before they decline.

This book has a ton of significant data and is elegantly composed. Unequivocally suggested
322 reviews6 followers
February 8, 2023
This book is a game changer for anyone looking to improve their relationships. The author expertly delves into the warning signs that can indicate a potentially harmful or unhealthy relationship and provides practical advice on how to navigate these situations.

The book starts by explaining what red flags in relationships are, and why it's crucial to pay attention to them.

The author emphasizes that red flags are not always obvious, and often come in subtle forms, making it all the more important to be aware of them. The author then goes on to discuss common patterns of manipulation and control that are often present in unhealthy relationships, and provides concrete examples to help readers recognize these patterns in their own relationships.

Whether you're in a new relationship or have been in one for years, this book provides the tools you need to recognize and address red flags before they become bigger problems. I highly recommend this book to anyone looking to enhance their relationship skills and promote healthy, loving relationships.
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42 reviews2 followers
February 9, 2023
A relationship is consistently around two person and to keep it working both the accomplices should helpful and comprehend.

From the primary section to the last, the book is loaded up with pragmatic exhortation and appealing models that make it a drawing in and provocative read. The creator's methodology is special as in it centers around close connections, however all types of connections, including family, professional life, and non-romantic ones.

The creator features how having shared regard can assist us with building more grounded and better connections, and how it can add to our general bliss and prosperity. Through genuine models and stories, the creator clarifies how we can apply these standards in our own lives and connections.
The book is well-organized, and the chapters are easy to follow and understand. The author also includes quizzes and reflective exercises that are designed to help readers better understand themselves and their relationships.


I would strongly prescribe this book to individuals who are managing relationship issue.
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648 reviews10 followers
March 6, 2023
It did what ?: 7 Secrets about Red Flags in Relationships by Tanmay Mehta is a non fiction self help genre book. The text primarily focuses on what drives a relationship to the point where it becomes so toxic that it changes all the people involved.

Every relationship become hard at one point or the other.. But to not give into the tough times and instead working out the issues is what makes the love and partnership last forever. But a lot of times people give into the tough times or start taking things negatively because of past trauma or precepting things differently from what it actually is and this might cause a lot of issues in one's own personality and as a result individuals start bleeding on those who did not cut them instead of working through all of it.

Tanmay Mehta's book gives a perspective on how to make things better in a relationship after identifying the toxic traits and does a good job at it. I personally just wish it was a bit more elaborated.

Otherwise it is an easy to read book with only 50 some pages. Would recommend it to everyone.
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30 reviews2 followers
February 17, 2023
"Relationships don't come with a user's guide,"


Every relationship is different and demands a specific set of navigational skills and techniques. If certain troubling behaviour or "Red lights" are disregarded, even a healthy relationship may suffer. What did it do? The book 7 Secrets about Relationship Red Flags explores these warning signs of toxic relationships and provides some helpful guidance on how to handle them.


The book serves as a manual for spotting a relationship's unhealthy behaviour pattern. This book has identified 7 red flags or toxic behaviours that one may recognise and take appropriate action against, ranging from gaslighting to persistent putting down conduct and from lack of communication to narcissistic behaviour.
This book will not only assist you in strengthening your relationships, but it will also provide you useful advice on how to see possible red flags and take appropriate action.

This book helps you see warning signs in prospective mates by giving examples from real life for each poisonous habit. Also, it offers you a realistic way to make amends through improved communication, treatment, and counselling. The book concludes with a quiz where you may determine whether your relationship is already displaying troubling indicators by utilising a checklist.

The emphasis of the book is on maintaining a good relationship and taking action before it's too late. The book provides insightful guidance on compromise, trust, and communication.
This book is helpful for people looking to start a relationship as well as those who are already in one since it will help them make more educated choices. An excellent book overall for everyone.
229 reviews7 followers
February 13, 2023
This book provides an in-depth and insightful look at what red flags are and why they are important in our relationships. The author has done an exceptional job of providing a comprehensive overview of the topic in the first section of the book.

The author expertly explains that red flags are warning signs that can indicate a potentially harmful or unhealthy relationship. They are crucial to pay attention to because they can help us avoid toxic or abusive relationships, and make better decisions in choosing partners. The author stresses the importance of recognizing red flags in our relationships and how they can help us make better decisions in choosing partners.

Tanmay Mehta has done an excellent job of providing a comprehensive guide to maintaining a happy and healthy relationship. This book is a must-read for anyone who is looking to make better choices in their relationships and ensure they are in a healthy and supportive partnership.
24 reviews
March 6, 2023
This book is about the red flags in a relationship.It's really helpful for anyone who's trying to improve their relationship or wanting to know more about good relationship.This book has explained 7 truths of relation which can be the biggest red flags in any relation.Every fact of this book is so important for us.Red flags or negativity like manipulation, mental abuse,controlling, emotional abuse,excess possessiveness which is enough to make a relation toxic.This book is really informative and interesting and author has written it in simple language which is so easy to read.Came to know real facts about good and bad relationship.This book will surely help you to know how relationship actually works and how toxic relationship can ruin your life.A perfect guidebook for everyone who wants to be more educated about this love matter.
I would definitely recommend this to everyone.
A great book indeed.
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240 reviews3 followers
February 8, 2023
Wonderful book for anyone looking to improve their relationships or gain a deeper understanding of what a healthy relationship should look like.

The book is well-written, easy to read, and provides valuable insights into seven common behaviors that can be harmful in relationships. Each chapter is well-written and provides in-depth insights and information that will be useful to readers.

The book provides a great overview of each topic, making it an excellent resource for anyone looking to identify and address any red flags in their relationships. The cover art is eye-catching and the book is concise, making it easy to read and understand.

Overall, I highly recommend this book to anyone looking to improve their relationships or gain a deeper understanding of what a healthy partnership should look like.
898 reviews7 followers
February 8, 2023
The book is a valuable resource for anyone looking to gain a better understanding of the dynamics of healthy and unhealthy relationships, and it empowers readers to recognize red flags before they become bigger problems.

This book is a must read for anyone looking to improve their relationships and take control of their well-being. The book is packed with practical advice and real-life examples, making it an engaging and relatable read.

The author provides practical advice on how to identify and navigate warning signs in relationships, including patterns of manipulation, control, gaslighting, and emotional abuse.

I highly recommend, It did what?- 7 Secrets about Red Flags in Relationships for anyone looking to enhance their relationship skills and promote healthy, respectful relationships.
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695 reviews23 followers
February 11, 2023
I was looking for a book that would help me navigate the complexities of human relationships, and this book exceeded my expectations. The author does an excellent job of discussing the subtle red flags that often go unnoticed and provides concrete examples to help readers recognize these patterns in their own relationships. The discussion of manipulation and control was particularly insightful, and the practical advice provided in the book was incredibly helpful. In addition to providing practical advice, the book also highlights the importance of self-reflection and self-awareness. By encouraging readers to examine their own behavior and beliefs, the author helps them to gain a better understanding of the dynamics present in their relationships and to identify areas in which they may be vulnerable to manipulation and control. A must read.
177 reviews1 follower
February 12, 2023
As someone who has struggled in past relationships, I was eager to read this book and see if it could offer me any insight or guidance.

I was not disappointed!

The author does an outstanding job of emphasizing the significance of mutual respect in all relationships, not just romantic ones. This concept was something I had never truly considered before, and it has completely shifted my perspective on the dynamics of my relationships.
One of the most impactful parts of the book for me was the discussion on manipulation and control in unhealthy relationships.

The author gives concrete examples that helped me recognize these patterns in my own experiences and in my relationships with others.

I loved the quiz part also, it was very unique.

It's a well-written and enjoyable guide to a happy and healthy relationship. Go grab this excellent book.
168 reviews1 follower
February 12, 2023
"I recently picked up this book and was pleasantly surprised by how much I enjoyed it.

The author has a unique perspective on relationships that I had never encountered before, and it completely changed the way I think about my own relationships.

The emphasis on mutual respect as the cornerstone of all relationships was especially eye-opening for me, and has already had a positive impact on the way I interact with others.

One of the most enlightening parts of the book was the discussion on manipulation and control in unhealthy relationships.

The author put clear examples and descriptions that help readers identify these patterns in their own relationships.

I was pleasantly surprised by how actionable the advice was, and I felt empowered to make real changes in my relationships after reading the book.
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545 reviews16 followers
February 13, 2023
In books and movies, we always get to see romantic, sweet, cute relationships.
But in reality we face difficulties and various problems in our own relationship. Sometimes the problem increase so much that it ended with a divorce or break up. To understand what is going wrong in your relationship, pick this book up. 7 import aspects of a relationship has been described and it will make you understand your partner and most importantly yourself.
What I love most about this book is that in every chapter the author has described what might be the problem in your relationship (what we call 'red flag') and after that the solutions for conquering the red flag are also given.
Everything in this book is applicable in your life and if you apply these things in your relationship you'll surely get a very healthy and loving relationship with your partner.
250 reviews3 followers
February 13, 2023
When I got to know about this book, I immediately picked it up and started to read it.
I had some toxic relationships in my life. Because of those experiences, I have lost faith in having a healthy relationship. But after reading this book I actually realised what I was doing wrong and what problems I was ignoring. This is an eye opener for me.
This book is written in a very Unique style. First the book is describing some problems and after that the solutions to over come those problems are also given.
At the end of the book there are some quiz which will help you to evaluate your own relationship - whether it is a healthy one or not.
I find this book very helpful because the words are not just bookish but it can be applied in your own life to have a healthy and a happy relationship with your partner.
51 reviews
March 7, 2023
It is a must-read for anyone seeking to improve their relationships. The book offers practical and actionable advice that is easy to understand and apply. It's a perfect guide for anyone who's struggling to build and maintain meaningful relationships.

The author's focus on mutual respect as a key component of healthy relationships is a refreshing change from the usual clichés found in self-help books. By emphasizing the importance of respect, Mehta shows us how to build stronger connections with those around us, whether it's in our personal or professional lives.

Another unique aspect of the book is the author's use of real-life examples and anecdotes that are relatable and engaging. Through these stories, Mehta demonstrates how to apply the principles he's teaching in practical and tangible ways.
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243 reviews7 followers
March 9, 2023
It is an eye-opening book that sheds light on the subtle signs of unhealthy relationships that are often overlooked. The author has done an impressive job of analyzing the intricate details of human behavior and communication that can often lead to toxicity in relationships.

One of the standout features of this book is the practical advice that is offered to readers. The author doesn't just point out the red flags, but also provides actionable steps that can be taken to address them. This makes the book an invaluable resource for anyone looking to improve their relationships.

Another aspect that I found refreshing was the emphasis on self-reflection and mindfulness. The author makes it clear that a healthy relationship starts with a healthy individual, and provides exercises and prompts to encourage readers to examine their own behavior and thought patterns.
49 reviews1 follower
February 8, 2023
This book makes you see what's really wrong with your relationship. The best part about this book is not only that it tells us where actually the problem lies but also how to solve them with examples and empathy. I liked how it can also be used for singles to search for their green flag while avoiding all the Reds. This Book also talks about mental health which is often ignored in a relationship but very essential indeed. The part about Gaslighting and manipulation is the part that really got me.
And for the question of giving points to my relationship i will give it 18 as we still need few things to sort out.
Best book for you're friends who are too blind to see how unhealthy relationship they are in or your friend who always falls in love with the wrong guy 🤣.
101 reviews1 follower
February 16, 2023
The book is full with applicable suggestions and understandable examples that make it an enjoyable and thought-provoking read from the first to the last chapter. The author's method is distinctive in that it emphasises all types of connections, including platonic, familial, and professional ones, rather than only romantic ones.



The value of respecting one another in all interactions is one of the book's major topics.


The author emphasises the benefits of mutual respect, including how it may strengthen and improve the quality of our relationships as well as our general happiness and wellbeing. The author makes it obvious how we might implement these ideas in our own lives and relationships with examples from real-life situations and tales.
382 reviews6 followers
February 21, 2023
Book - It did what? : 7 Secrets about Red Flags in Relationships
Author - Tanmay Mehta
My rating - ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

The author expertly explains that red flags are warning signs that can indicate a potentially harmful or unhealthy relationship. Everything in this book is applicable in your life and if you apply these things in your relationship you'll surely get a very healthy and loving relationship with your partner.

First and foremost thing about this book, which touched my heart is the narration. The narration of the book is highly impressive. The author not only included several shades in the story but also narrated it so well that it didn't got lost anywhere in between. Whole story, situations, different settings, everything was managed very well.
Highly recommendation from my side.
407 reviews7 followers
February 23, 2023
7 Secrets about Red Flags in Relationships will help you learn the truth. This book explores the red flags that can point to a potentially dangerous or unhealthy relationship and offers helpful guidance on how to handle these circumstances. This book is a must-read for anyone looking to improve their relationships and take control of their well-being. It covers everything from identifying patterns of manipulation and control to understanding the dynamics of gaslighting and emotional abuse. Whether you're in a brand-new relationship or have been in one for a while, 7 Secrets about Red Flags in Relationships will equip you with the skills you need to spot red flags and deal with them before they worsen. I really had a great time reading this. You should definitely try this once.
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231 reviews5 followers
February 26, 2023
"It Did What? 7 Secrets About Red Flags in Relationships" by Tanmay Mehta is a concise and well-written exploration of common behaviors that can be damaging in relationships. Mehta effectively delves into specific issues, such as expectations, lack of communication, and gaslighting, offering insights and information that can be helpful to readers. The book serves as a manual for spotting unhealthy behavior patterns and provides readers with valuable tools to identify and address any red flags that may arise in a new relationship. Mehta's storytelling style is engaging and unique, making this book a valuable resource for anyone looking to improve their relationships and understand the impact that certain behaviors can have.
216 reviews4 followers
March 6, 2023
You can find out the truth by reading the 7 Secrets about Red Flags in Relationships. This book explores the warning signs of a possibly risky or unhealthy relationship and provides practical advice on how to handle these situations. Anyone seeking to strengthen their relationships and take charge of their wellbeing should read this book. Everything is covered, from recognizing manipulative and controlling patterns to comprehending the mechanics of gaslighting and emotional abuse. Withthe knowledge you'll gain from reading 7 Secrets about Red signals in Relationships, whether you're in a relationship for the first time or have been in one for some time, you'll be able to recognize red signals and address them before they get worse. Reading this was really enjoyable
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37 reviews
March 6, 2023
This book is truly useful for any individual who's attempting to work on their relationship or need to be in a decent relationship.Author has made sense of 7 insights of connection which can be the greatest warnings in any relation.Each and each reality of this book is so fundamental for everybody out there.Red flag or pessimistic signs like control, controlling brain, profound and mental maltreatment which can prompt a poisonous relation.This book is truly educational and fascinating and written in straightforward manner.I got to know such countless obscure realities about adoration and connection from this book.

I recommend this book to everybody out there.
Certainly a should purchase!!
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