Prior to seeing this book on Netgalley, I never heard of Jolene Stockman, but after reading about her rewriting the autism narrative and playbook for autistics to take their power back, I'm interested, especially after having such a comprehensive and thorough look at autism and what it means for individuals and society.
Stockman goes through nearly a dozen steps to rewrite the typical autism doomsday and tragedy narratives of "bad", "being less", or "broken" into strengths throughout the book, framing the rise of autistics as a revolution that's needed for everyone, not just autistics, not just other neurodivergents, but everyone. Stockman assures that every autistic has their own strengths and that they just need to look for it, along with the idea that labels aren't your destiny. She walks through the advantages autistics have over neurotypicals and how the world is starting to accommodate to those changes in recent years. The main theme is that you are valuable as-is, without pretending to be "normal" and you can do anything you want in life, no fixing required.
She adds her own experiences as a late diagnosed autistic and someone that only explored her part Maori heritage after becoming an adult, which is beneficial especially for the non typical "white boy" stereotype we usually see with autism.
She does note that yes, especially in a world built for neurotypicals, there are some not-so-fun sides about the autistic life, though about 95% of this book is focused on the upsides, which is well needed, as it's doesn't veer into toxic positivity.
There is a lean toward those that started to discover they might have been autistic in adulthood, as opposed as those that grew up with the label as children, but it will serve both groups well. This is mainly as Stockman was diagnosed as an adult. I also think other neurodivergents can benefit from much of the book, even if it's mainly about autism, as similar narratives were sadly built on how they were "less than normal", with neurotypical being ideal.
I must have highlighted at least 100 quotes, with powerful statements in each chapter, and engaged on a surface level with most of the well thought out exercises she provides and lays out at the end of each chapter. I enjoyed them, and some of the questions ask you to dig deep down, but for the sake of finishing the book in a timely manner, I'll leave them for another time. This is probably the most powerful part of the book, to turn a life that was dictated of what others thought of you into your own.
Highly recommended for all on the autism spectrum, especially adults that are just navigating the possibility of being autistic, or those that have known for a long time or grew up with the label, but trying to figure out their adult life.
*I received an ARC from Netgalley and Jessica Kingsley Publishers. All opinions are my own.*