I would recommend John Frame's review of this book, with which I agreed 100%.
BLUF: There is a place for satire, but this book recommends satire beyond what scripture does. There are no examples from scripture of when strong words are inappropriate. For example: Paul realizing it was inappropriate to call the Ananias the high priest a whitewashed wall. I don't see Doug ever apologizing for all the people he has called names. In my estimation, Doug does this all the time. It seems to be the bulk of what he does.
As Christians, our default method should be kindness, not mockery and name-calling.
The recent interaction with Kevin Deyoung and Doug Wilson is what prompted me to read this book.
Here are my thoughts below:
Theology that Bites Back: Thoughts on the Moscow Mood
A Summary of Two Approaches
Kevin DeYoung: Winsome, respectful, kind
Pros: Appears to be more accepting, gentle, and Christlike.
Cons: Could lead to compromise and contamination.
Doug Wilson: Biting Words, satire, prophetic mocking.
Pros: Appears uncompromising, projects strength and confidence, clever
Cons: Could be perceived as unloving, unwelcoming, and arrogant.
How are Christians supposed to conduct themselves? What should they be known for? These are
helpful questions that have been raised by the recent controversy sparked by Kevin DeYoung’s
article about the Moscow Mood. There are basically two approaches. Kevin DeYoung’s approach
seems to be the respectful and kind one, and Doug Wilson’s seems to be one marked by biting
words, satire, and even anger and unkindness. It should seem obvious at the outset which
approach this article will suggest is the more Christlike one. I think DeYoung’s article was
generally a helpful critique of Doug’s approach to ministry. However, I agree that it would be
profoundly unfair and unkind for Kevin to be able to issue such a critique and not find the time
to enter into the debate with Doug. Kevin thinks there is something profoundly unbalanced about
Doug’s ministry, and I do as well. It’s worth discussing.
Like Kevin, I want to show a degree appreciation for Doug’s ministry. My family was a part of a
CREC Church for about four years and we found many wonderful blessings while we were there.
Our pastor cared deeply for our family. The congregation was loving, and there were many who
loved our family. We grew in our appreciation for liturgy, worship, and the family. We still
maintain friendships that we treasure to this day. We are deeply grateful for our experience with
this community of saints. However, I would be dishonest if I didn’t experience aspects that I
found troubling.
I think Kevin DeYoung’s article clearly called attention to a mood that is troubling. I largely
think most of his points are lost on Doug Wilson, because both men are operating on two
different definitions of love. Doug thinks that his ministry of satire, using salty language, and
constantly picking fights is loving, and that it’s fine just the way it is. It largely needs no
tweaking or refining. Doug truly believes this is what God has called him to do. On the other
hand, DeYoung thinks being respectful, kind and taking the high ground is the loving thing to do.
There may be a place for satire and biting words, but Doug’s ministry very often takes it too far.
Indeed, Doug’s ministry is defined by this unloving mood.
I think what clearly needs to be said is that the Moscow Mood is largely not characterized by
love, kindness, and respectfulness. Joe Rigney suggested in his article that such a mood operates
on a dimmer switch. Can he truly and carefully consider from an outsider’s perspective, that the
so-called Moscow Mood’s dimmer switch feels more like a blowtorch to the rest of the world?
Many of us would like to see the dimmer switch get used more often. It is more than that though.
The approach that is very often utilized is one of unkindness. It is not what Scripture defines as
love.
“Love is patient and kind” (1 Cor. 13) I think Doug Wilson and his gang actually criticized
DeYoung for being kind. Kevin chose to find aspects of Doug’s ministry that are strong, and then
praised those things. This is Kevin being loving and kind, not saying he thinks everything they
do is wrong. However, Doug and his gang chose an all or nothing approach which couldn’t just
say thanks for the compliment. They had to issue insults. Doug said that Kevin seeing some of
the fruit simply makes him not blind. Once again, Doug’s theology is always biting back and
can’t stop for one moment and just accept the kind words. He has to hurl insults. And everyone
else is supposed to conclude that this is the loving and kind thing to do. However, this is the
sticking point. Doug is blind to his unkindness. He is so often coming up with clever ways to
insult people that those who already agree with his approach just go along with it. The reality
that Doug is blind to and refuses to see is that his clever words are just clever disguises for
unkindness. This is the worldliness that Doug refuses to acknowledge, and that Kevin so
helpfully pointed out in his article.
“Love is not arrogant and rude.” One sign of arrogance is that you never apologize and never
admit your sins. Apart from Sunday’s confession of sin, I don’t think I have ever seen this
modeled by Doug Wilson, and sadly, by many of his followers. According to Doug and the gang,
all of Kevin’s critique missed the mark by a mile. Really? I don’t think so. I think Doug and the
gang should search their hearts and ask the Lord why so many people don’t accept their
invitations to dialogue about various issues. It’s probably because it wouldn’t be profitable. A
mature Christian is humble enough to realize that they don’t have everything figured out and is
willing to go the extra mile to understand a competing perspective. I don’t believe Doug and
gang did this. Less than a week later they already had a response because their minds were
already made up. They are always right, and the opposition is always wrong. It is quite natural
not to want to engage with people where no reciprocity is experienced. We should be humble and
want to learn from one another’s strengths and weaknesses, but that can’t be done in an
environment where everyone already has everything pretty much figured out. Love is not
arrogant and rude, because Christ is not arrogant and rude. This should characterize our
approach, not some alleged tactic that a prophet used in the Old Testament. The serrated edge
should be replaced with love and kindness. “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one
another, as God in Christ forgave you.” (Eph. 4:32) If a sharp critique is required, then it should
be used sparingly. Doug Wilson seems to rejoice in starting fires. The name of one of their conferences is “Enraging the Culture”. This should never be our goal. The gospel is offensive all
by itself. It doesn’t need Christian preachers constantly looking around and picking more fights.
Let us consider Doug Wilson’s approach for a moment. Should we emulate Old Testament
prophets and their use of harsh language? Should we emulate Jesus’ anger when he overturned
tables and called the Pharisees white-washed tombs? I am not aware of anything in Scripture that
would call us to such a ministry. Furthermore, Doug regularly goes well beyond these scriptural
bounds. A critique is a critique, and it has its place. Name-calling, mocking, and biting words are
unkind. Although they are meant to project strength, they are actually a sign of weakness. In fact
our strength is found in the Lord, not in our clever ability to hurl insults with flashy prose.
Instead, Scripture calls us to godly virtues and the fruit of the Spirit. The chief aim of every
Christian is clear: we are to love God and love our neighbor as ourselves. This summarizes all of
the law and prophets. Building an entire ministry enterprise around satire, mockery, and name-
calling doesn’t seem like a reasonable and faithful reading of Scripture. That doesn’t mean satire
is never a tool in the arsenal, but we should definitely seek to use it sparingly and with wisdom. I
think many of Doug Wilson’s critics would agree that if he used satire way more sparingly, then
it would probably be a lot more effective.
Additionally, Doug’s approach is unbalanced. One gets the impression that Doug sees the
Christian life as only a battlefield. Doug is always fighting with someone, making fun of
someone, and calling people out. If you don’t do it Doug’s way, then he’ll make fun of you! His
ministry is dedicated to “theology that bites back”. Doug’s default posture is one of fighting.
Although the Christian life is certainly a battlefield at times, it is also very often true that it takes
just as much courage to know when not to fight. Jesus told Peter to put away his sword, not
because there is never a time for fighting, but because this wasn’t the right time to fight. (Matt.
26:52) What needs to be realized is that the Christian life is also a mission field. Central to that
mission is that the world would know we are Jesus’ disciples by our love for one another, not by
cleverly spoken words and putting others down. (John 13:35)
I think Kevin’s approach of being patient, kind and respectful should be the Christian’s default
mode. I come to this conclusion not because I think it is Kevin’s approach. I reach this
conclusion because Scripture says it is the Christian approach. Love requires us to be patient and
kind. Love requires us to pursue peace with everyone. “If possible, so far as it depends on you,
live peaceably with all” (Rom. 12:18). We should go out of our way to pursue peace with
everyone. We should go out of our way to be kind and tenderhearted. We should go out of our
way to love our neighbors as ourselves. This should be a rebuke to all of us. None of us do it
perfectly, and I can guarantee that all of us miss the mark by way more than a mile!
If God has saved us, then we should be kind, tenderhearted and loving toward one another. If
every single one of us were honest (Kevin DeYoung and Doug Wilson included) with ourselves,
then we’d be willing to admit where God might make this fruit grow more abundantly. We
desperately need Christians who will actually love their neighbors as themselves. None of us
have it nailed. We have a lot of work to do!
I do think it needs to be said that perhaps Kevin’s approach has led to compromise. The Gospel
Coalition has serious issues that need to be addressed. Perhaps Kevin could be strengthened by
Doug’s approach and apply this to his own ministry. The truth is that there are serious
compromises within the church today. We need angularity and strength now more than ever. We
need to purge the church of false teaching. We need able defenders of the gospel. We need to
address the issues of our day. However, I don’t think we need to abandon love and kindness in
that pursuit. I don’t think we need to unnecessarily “enrage the culture” or have an entire
ministry devoted to “biting back” our enemies. Jesus calls us to exactly the opposite. “Love your
enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse
you” (Luke 6:27-28). Perhaps Doug’s encounters are what the Apostle Paul warns about. But if
you bite and devour one another, watch out that you are not consumed by one another (Gal.
5:15).
I would love to see Doug Wilson and Kevin DeYoung model this for us. The world is watching.
We don’t want to see just another online bite fest. Model for us Christian love so that the entire
world can see and glorify God in heaven. Both of you could take steps to go the extra mile. We
really need that kind of love in our culture. Doug, you could continue to pick on Baptists and
play with flamethrowers. Kevin, you could issue a respectful critique and not have enough
respect to give Doug the time of day. That’s what the rest of the world expects. That’s hardly
going the extra mile. I pray for much, much more.
“Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you”
(Eph. 4:32).