Although this is intended for practicing counselors and clinicians, parents and teachers with suitable background reading can benefit from this book.
My teen has recently been diagnosed with ODD, and the ADHD guides and trauma integration exercises were not helping (because he refused to do them: see ODD). This book was very helpful, first, in that it has several actionable items and tools that can be used right away. We are using the points system; the second day, my teen said he likes it because it's "like a game." We are going to add the second component of the system next weekend, so my fingers are already crossed. There are a few other options if this system doesn't work for the family, although it's important that any/all tools be implemented with attention, care, and general good parenting techniques.
The second thing that was useful was seeing how close we were and how many things we were getting right. Any struggling parent deserves a list of all the things they are already doing right, and we were so close.
At the same time, it was very frustrating to read this: the introduction and general discussion of ODD includes all the things that are likely to happen if the condition isn't properly diagnosed, and all the harm this can bring to all members of the family. This exactly what happened to us, and I cannot think about the years (years) wasted in a downward spiral while we begged everyone-- from the state to the schools to doctors to counselors-- for help, knowing this wasn't right, something else was going on. It makes me feel sick to think of it, how often we were waved aside with "that's how ADHD is" and "welcome to puberty, first-time parents." No one should have to experience what we have as a family before getting this diagnosis.