3 stars, rounding up to 3.5 because of the quotes below.
This was a lot of fun, with some fabulous photos of the author.
Like Cotton Candy, this blog-type book is bright and colorful and melts in your mouth-not much nutritional value.
Who should read this: Drag Queens and fans of RuPaul's Drag Race. Also, this is a great gift for the Homophile in your life. Belongs on the shelf next to Queer Eye for The Straight Guy Tip Book.
There is some interesting stuff on how to look your best--if you are 6 ft 4 inches tall and have perfect features and prominent zygomatic arches.
There are a lot of smoke and mirrors that go into looking good on camera--even IF you are already good-looking.
What blew my mind: the temporary face-lift. How the wigs stay on. Why women with wide-set large eyes, a high forehead, and heart-shaped face are considered more attractive.
How make-up and a wig transforms one person into a very different one.
My favorite quotes:
"I was a sweet, odd-looking kid with a face full of freckles."
"Being an outsider forced me to study human behavior."
"The truth is you are a spiritual being having a human experience. The human part of the experience is temporary, like a T-shirt and jeans.
Your spiritual being is NOT temporary. It is eternal, like the sun and the moon."
"Whatever you put on after you get out of the shower is your drag.
Be it a three-piece shuit or a Chanel dress, a McDonald's uniform or hospital scrubs.
The truth of who you really are is not defined by your clothes."
"Drag queens are essentially making fun of the roles people are playing."
"Very litte is off-limits, but draw the line at being unkind."
"Do whatever you want just so long as YOU DON'T HURT ANYONE
else in the process."
"Dealing with stress, disappointments, and the myriad other problems that plague modern life can be daunting, but not impossible if approached from a foundation of self-love. That foundation is firmly rooted in the knowledge of who you really are. And who you really are is a spiritual being having a human experience. This isn't something you have to learn--this is something you have to remember. Because deep down, you already know it."
"You cannot thrive in toxic relationships."
"When the envy and negativity of others start to undermine your confidence, you have to find comfort in other places."
"I realized how much I used smoking cigarettes to block my feelings and put up a wall around me. Today, I want to feel my feelings. I want to be here for the experience. I've learned how to process the feeling of being frustrated, which used to be a trigger for me to light up."
"Today I define success by the fluidity with which I transcend emotional land mines and choose joy and gratitude instead."