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Saving My First Kiss: Why I'm Keeping Confetti in My Closet
By default, LISA VELTHOUSE used to be a "party of one". Then she made it her own choice to date sparingly, purposely holding back the gift of her first kiss. She's looking forward to the romantic day when she can present her lips to Mr. Right and later break out the party supplies she has been keeping in her closet.
192 pages, Paperback
First published August 1, 2003
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September 13, 2010
Too good to be true.
I could remember how amazed I was when I read Lisa Velthouse’ Saving My First Kiss: Why I’m Keeping Confetti in My Closet way, way back before I turned 18. It was a book that has been passed on from one girl friend to another, and was eventually not returned because one of them liked it so much.
Truly, it is/was a good read for young souls, yes, before hitting all the bumps out there and experiencing love and heartaches. Needless to say, however, I have outgrown the theory that this book had to offer.
None the less, this book has influenced me in a positive way while I waited for Mr. Right to come along. It is Scripture-based, wholesome yet innocent.
It could have been wonderful if our search for Mr. Right is just as what the book has it: innocent and ideal. But reality would show us that the search for love and Mr. Right isn’t as “good” as it seems.
Yet, this book might do well for others whose wait was worth it.
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I could remember how amazed I was when I read Lisa Velthouse’ Saving My First Kiss: Why I’m Keeping Confetti in My Closet way, way back before I turned 18. It was a book that has been passed on from one girl friend to another, and was eventually not returned because one of them liked it so much.
Truly, it is/was a good read for young souls, yes, before hitting all the bumps out there and experiencing love and heartaches. Needless to say, however, I have outgrown the theory that this book had to offer.
None the less, this book has influenced me in a positive way while I waited for Mr. Right to come along. It is Scripture-based, wholesome yet innocent.
It could have been wonderful if our search for Mr. Right is just as what the book has it: innocent and ideal. But reality would show us that the search for love and Mr. Right isn’t as “good” as it seems.
Yet, this book might do well for others whose wait was worth it.
http://flipthrough.wordpress.com/2010...
March 25, 2009
I laughed most of the time because she was very honest of her experiences. We were kind of similar because I haven't dated ever since that's why I could relate to her stories. But she sounded desperate(the teenage Lisa)^_^LOL. I was and am okay with being single. Though I never really see "dating" the way she did when she was in her teenage years, i have to admit that she was surprisingly right about things she wrote. The Disney fantasies, the insecurities, the questions, the curiosities, and the raging hormones were all familiar to me. This book is all the same with Joshua Harris' "i kissed dating goodbye". It's an amazing book for teenagers as well as those cherishing their purity for God and their future mates. I'd prefer these kind of books than to fill my head with "Twilight" kind of stuff.
December 24, 2009
This has been one of my all time favorite books. I could simply relate to it. Just like the author I've made a pact of saving my purity for my future husband. I do believe that the greatest gift you could give to your lifetime partner is your wholeness.
I am 20 years old at the moment and will be turning 21 on the 22nd of July 2010. No boyfriend since birth, never been on a date.. in other words, I've never had a so called "love story" but I believe that God is still writing the perfect love story for me. He is still busy painting in the white pages of my mural and he's working on a masterpiece :-)
A woman should hide her heart inside the heart of God so that a man would have to go there and find it :-)
I am 20 years old at the moment and will be turning 21 on the 22nd of July 2010. No boyfriend since birth, never been on a date.. in other words, I've never had a so called "love story" but I believe that God is still writing the perfect love story for me. He is still busy painting in the white pages of my mural and he's working on a masterpiece :-)
A woman should hide her heart inside the heart of God so that a man would have to go there and find it :-)
December 4, 2012
I am not a huge fan of self-help books but this book by Lisa Velthouse proved to be my turning point. To all young girls out there, who at one point or another felt insecure, ugly, too short, too tall, too fat, too thin, too ignorant, too innocent, a nobody next to Miss Popular who got what and who she wanted she she wanted it, you are never alone. This is not a cult, mind you. This book is a reminder that we, girls, ladies, lasses, women are all special and that to always smile your woes away because "you'll never know who could be falling for your smile".
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March 1, 2024I wish to read this book and to recommend it to younger generations because it also gives us genuine perspective on purity, that it is precious and valuable, not like the world represents it...Perfection doesnt exist and we can all fall, but God is our Father and He will get us through...
February 14, 2016
Nowadays, you are weird and crazy when you talked about how pure, conservative and virgin you are. This book reminds me of how important to stay holy and acceptable before God.
"Unto the pure all things are pure: but unto them that are defiled and unbelieving is nothing pure; but even their mind and conscience is defiled."
"Unto the pure all things are pure: but unto them that are defiled and unbelieving is nothing pure; but even their mind and conscience is defiled."
May 9, 2020
Quick read. Very honest and relatable. So cute how she's saving everything for her partner and thinking of it as "all the purple stuff that comes with presents". See the bigger picture always like painting a mural. Wait and Hope. :)
November 14, 2011
Gives a really refreshing perspective on singleness...
October 25, 2020
This is one of those I read when I was young. Thinking about it now, I'm glad I've read it in high school where many topics talked by girls are about boys, and teens that age are so excited about exploring relationships and love. It was a comfort book.
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February 4, 2020This book helped me overcome my puberty stage. It is full of courage, reflections, and words of wisdom.
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July 17, 2021Read online here.
June 28, 2013
By default, Lisa used to be a “party of one”…
Until she decided to hole up a bunch of party supplies in her closet, all set to pop off the moment Prince Charming brushes her chaste lips.
But sitting outside the fence watching as others muck around isn’t really as easy as it seems.
What if waiting takes forever?
Lisa Velthouse, in this slender assemblage of counsels and guidelines, introduces middle-of-the-road pickles for adolescents and young adults alike, determined to be of assistance to them, to be proof against already adapted worldly exploits. Lisa however did not tackle such issues with imprudence; she, on the other hand, broached specific topics in a fun, lightweight kind of way— further pillared by personal experiences. It’s neither just your usual self-help handbooks which only address shallow and apparent dilemmas, nor your typical Christian booklets entrenched with intensely religious themes. But it is also a journal of sorts—Lisa’s instructions and advices stemmed from her own blunders, misjudgments, and emotional and spiritual deliberations.
Though slim in pages and large in texts, it occurred to me that I mustn’t rush wolfing down Lisa’s wise words. Instead, it must be nibbled bit by bit so as to gratifyingly savor the whole lot. It actually took me a fortnight to eventually slam the book shut.
Featuring recognized Christian figures like C.S. Lewis and other Christian voices, this book doesn’t stop short with moral values to accentuate and give backing into. Add to that the carefully-selected Bible verses that intently expound such values.
Overall, this book gleams in comparison to other works that I have read, not because it is intellectually challenging, has the most beautiful prose, the synchronized flow of narration, nor the apt characterization—but because I just love the words, the messages the author’s trying to convey.
Until she decided to hole up a bunch of party supplies in her closet, all set to pop off the moment Prince Charming brushes her chaste lips.
But sitting outside the fence watching as others muck around isn’t really as easy as it seems.
What if waiting takes forever?
Lisa Velthouse, in this slender assemblage of counsels and guidelines, introduces middle-of-the-road pickles for adolescents and young adults alike, determined to be of assistance to them, to be proof against already adapted worldly exploits. Lisa however did not tackle such issues with imprudence; she, on the other hand, broached specific topics in a fun, lightweight kind of way— further pillared by personal experiences. It’s neither just your usual self-help handbooks which only address shallow and apparent dilemmas, nor your typical Christian booklets entrenched with intensely religious themes. But it is also a journal of sorts—Lisa’s instructions and advices stemmed from her own blunders, misjudgments, and emotional and spiritual deliberations.
Though slim in pages and large in texts, it occurred to me that I mustn’t rush wolfing down Lisa’s wise words. Instead, it must be nibbled bit by bit so as to gratifyingly savor the whole lot. It actually took me a fortnight to eventually slam the book shut.
Featuring recognized Christian figures like C.S. Lewis and other Christian voices, this book doesn’t stop short with moral values to accentuate and give backing into. Add to that the carefully-selected Bible verses that intently expound such values.
Overall, this book gleams in comparison to other works that I have read, not because it is intellectually challenging, has the most beautiful prose, the synchronized flow of narration, nor the apt characterization—but because I just love the words, the messages the author’s trying to convey.
August 12, 2011
After reading only the first chapter I got on the phone and started calling my friends! This is a book that everyone needs. It ranks right up there with Lady In Waiting. I will be giving it as gifts to friends who have daughters.
This is one of those life-changing books. In today's society girls are pushed into the dating scene. Pressured to be what everyone is and to do what everyone else is doing. Statistics show a rise in sexual promiscuity and at a younger age. In fact I am surprised at the pressure my grade school girl has felt for not having a "boyfriend". Too often girls that go dateless are made to feel worthless - the two words have almost become alike in today's culture.
Lisa Velthouse gives us a book that is so encouraging and uplifting. She shares her personal story a journey of feeling left out to being completely satisfied. Help your young daughter become centered in God's word and in her identity in Him. In the end at the alter she will present to her spouse the most perfect gift - and she will have the satisfaction of having followed God's design.
Thank you Gospel Light for this review copy.
This is one of those life-changing books. In today's society girls are pushed into the dating scene. Pressured to be what everyone is and to do what everyone else is doing. Statistics show a rise in sexual promiscuity and at a younger age. In fact I am surprised at the pressure my grade school girl has felt for not having a "boyfriend". Too often girls that go dateless are made to feel worthless - the two words have almost become alike in today's culture.
Lisa Velthouse gives us a book that is so encouraging and uplifting. She shares her personal story a journey of feeling left out to being completely satisfied. Help your young daughter become centered in God's word and in her identity in Him. In the end at the alter she will present to her spouse the most perfect gift - and she will have the satisfaction of having followed God's design.
Thank you Gospel Light for this review copy.
April 13, 2014
It's funny on how Lisa and I were very similar to each other that's why I could really relate on her stories and thoughts.
Sweet 20 and I have never been into any relationship.Branded as the "No Boyfriend Since Birth" that made me feel insecure about myself.But it made me realize that I am a special and a valuable one.
This book inspires and encourages me to pursue purity and wholeness as I wait for my Mr.Right because its the best gift I could ever give to him and of course that's the right thing to do in the eyes of God.Lisa's advises are challenging to do so but definitely worth it.
Sweet 20 and I have never been into any relationship.Branded as the "No Boyfriend Since Birth" that made me feel insecure about myself.But it made me realize that I am a special and a valuable one.
This book inspires and encourages me to pursue purity and wholeness as I wait for my Mr.Right because its the best gift I could ever give to him and of course that's the right thing to do in the eyes of God.Lisa's advises are challenging to do so but definitely worth it.
January 16, 2014
It's funny how I can relate with almost all of the author's experiences as I, myself, also had never went out with a guy since birth. I believe the most precious gift that I could ever give to my future husband would be my purity and wholeness. As of the moment, I'll just have to be patient and let God take over and direct the wheel of my life.
Because of the book, I valued purity and patience even more.
By the way, my sister gave this to me last December as her year-ender's gift and I'm very thankful for it. Thank you, Ate!
Because of the book, I valued purity and patience even more.
By the way, my sister gave this to me last December as her year-ender's gift and I'm very thankful for it. Thank you, Ate!
June 29, 2012
Put things in perspective for me. I've read this book more or less five years ago. I had a separate notebook where I wrote the quotes I liked from the book. That time, it was a new dimension-- a whole new level of love story and pursuit that the author has introduced to me. Very inspiring. Thought-provoking. You would wonder where this lady sources all her commitment to wait. And then you realize it's God -- the Author of life.
August 27, 2012
This book is beyond words to describe. It was obvious enough that the book was written because Velthouse was ordered by God to write it. There was a call.
I loved the wall painted white with a missed portion in it idea. And that portion in the book was pointed out as the love portion of Velthouse's life.
I also liked the virginity part
!!! this book has been food for my soul for a month !!!
what? I was busy with college entrance exams :)
I loved the wall painted white with a missed portion in it idea. And that portion in the book was pointed out as the love portion of Velthouse's life.
I also liked the virginity part
!!! this book has been food for my soul for a month !!!
what? I was busy with college entrance exams :)
January 25, 2013
I read this book for a book review I did as a young teen for a magazine that a family member worked for.
I enjoyed read this book, and at the time, it was a good read. I feel like I have very much outgrown this book and it's ideals, but it was slightly helpful at the time. As a young teen it reaffirmed me in my convictions about physicality in a dating relationship. The author is a good story teller and easily makes you laugh.
Overall, it was an okay read.
I enjoyed read this book, and at the time, it was a good read. I feel like I have very much outgrown this book and it's ideals, but it was slightly helpful at the time. As a young teen it reaffirmed me in my convictions about physicality in a dating relationship. The author is a good story teller and easily makes you laugh.
Overall, it was an okay read.
February 1, 2011
This is a perfect book for those who are still looking for love and desperate to be loved. For someone who looks forward for the day her true love will come and how to celebrate it. It will widen view about love and teach respect to oneself. Definitely, a book that I can relate to and helped me to view love as a gift.
March 12, 2008
If you have no experience dating or very little this is a great book. The way the author weaves the christian facts through out the book is great. It really made me feel that I am not the only one who guards my first kiss as something special.
April 13, 2012
I really enjoyed reading this book.I can't forget everything i have read in it, well, all the most important parts for me. This is one of the many books that made me see things that are important in life.:p. when I was a teen ;)
September 3, 2013
Saving my first real kiss .....
Preparing to meet the man God has prepared for me.....
Excited to Fall in love....
Read this book and be inspired byhow beautiful God crafted your love story..
Preparing to meet the man God has prepared for me.....
Excited to Fall in love....
Read this book and be inspired byhow beautiful God crafted your love story..
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March 26, 2009Be sure to see Lorraine's excellent review!
March 22, 2010
it really changed my LIFE.i mean my view of life.. and a lot more lessons..
July 28, 2012
Godly book :)
September 8, 2012
good read for teenagers out there.
October 4, 2012
Self-help book. HAHA
November 12, 2012
a must-read for every girls:)
April 24, 2014
How many times had I read this book? Around... three times? I love this book. Girls who had never been in a relationship can relate to this. ^_^
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