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Love in the Driest Season: A Family Memoir

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Against a background of war, terrorism, disease and unbearable uncertainty about the future, this story of how a foreign correspondent and his wife fought to adopt a Zimbabwean baby emerges as an inspiring testament to the miracles that love and dogged determination can sometimes achieve. Don't miss this gripping memoir.

Foreign correspondent Neely Tucker and his wife, Vita, arrived in Zimbabwe in 1997. After witnessing firsthand the devastating consequences of AIDS on the population, especially the children, the couple started volunteering at an orphanage that was desperately underfunded and short-staffed. One afternoon, a critically ill infant was brought to the orphanage from a village outside the city. She’d been left to die in a field on the day she was born, abandoned in the tall brown grass that covers the highlands of Zimbabwe in the dry season. After a near-death hospital stay, and under strict doctor’s orders, the ailing child was entrusted to the care of Tucker and Vita. Within weeks Chipo, the girl-child whose name means gift, would come to mean everything to them.

Still an active correspondent, Tucker crisscrossed the continent, filing stories about the uprisings in the Congo, the civil war in Sierra Leone, and the postgenocidal conflict in Rwanda. He witnessed heartbreaking scenes of devastation and violence, steeling him further to take a personal role in helping anywhere he could. At home in Harare, Vita was nursing Chipo back to health. Soon she and Tucker decided to alter their lives forever—they would adopt Chipo. That decision challenged an unspoken social norm—that foreigners should never adopt Zimbabwean children.

Raised in rural Mississippi in the sixties and seventies, Tucker was familiar with the mores associated with and dictated by race. His wife, a savvy black woman whose father escaped the Jim Crow South for a new life in the industrial North, would not be deterred in her resolve to welcome Chipo into their loving family.

As if their situation wasn’t tenuous enough, Zimbabwe President Robert Mugabe was stirring up national fervor against foreigners, especially journalists, abroad and at home. At its peak, his antagonizing branded all foreign journalists personae non grata. For Tucker, the only full-time American correspondent in Zimbabwe, the declaration was a direct threat to his life and his wife’s safety, and an ultimatum to their decision to adopt the child who had already become their only daughter.

Against a background of war, terrorism, disease, and unbearable uncertainty about the future, Chipo’s story emerges as an inspiring testament to the miracles that love—and dogged determination—can sometimes achieve. Gripping, heartbreaking, and triumphant, this family memoir will resonate throughout the ages.

288 pages, Paperback

First published December 9, 2003

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Neely Tucker

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The third novel in the Sully Carter series, "Only the Hunted Run," publishes on Aug. 30, from Viking. Publishers Weekly, the first to file a review, dubs it "provocative...a terrifying thriller."

Sully, one of the few reporters stuck in Washington in the August doldrums in the summer of 2000, is filling in for a colleague when shooting breaks out in the Capitol building. The killer, Terry Waters, kills a congressman from Oklahoma by stabbing him through the eyes with a pair of ice picks. He also manages to escape.

Sully, the only surviving witness, soon finds himself being tracked down by Waters. This pursuit eventually leads both men to St. Elizabeths, the gothic mental hospital in Southeast D.C, which scars everyone it touches -- if it doesn't bury them.

Based on a real-life shooting at the Capitol in 1997, "Hunted" follows "The Ways of the Dead" and "Murder, D.C." As always, the streets of the city, from the power of K Street to the deadly avenues just a few blocks away, are as central to the story as the characters.

The previous Sully novels have drawn extensive praise. The Daily Mail (U.K.) dubbed "Murder" one of 2015's Best Three Crime Novels. Kirkus: "There’s no more satisfying sight than a writer who knows exactly what he’s doing—and only gets better at what he does.” The Miami Herald, said of "Ways, "This book is worthy of Elmore Leonard’s legacy…an exciting first novel that echoes the best writing of Pete Hamill and George Pelecanos, mixed with a bit of The Wire and True Detective.”

Tucker was born in Lexington, Miss., one of the poorest places in America, in 1963. He has filed stories from more than 60 countries or territories and is currently assigned to the 2016 Presidential campaign.

His memoir, "Love in the Driest Season," was named one of the Top 25 Books of 2004 by Publishers Weekly. It has been published in the U.K., Germany, Australia and Brazil. It has twice been optioned for film development in Los Angeles.

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319 reviews70 followers
September 25, 2017
Story of love and courage amongst the worst calamities of our time. I found myself wishing this book were longer. I'd love to read a second book beginning where this one left off.
Profile Image for Andrea Dowd.
584 reviews5 followers
June 19, 2009
Book Three of Summer Reading List.

I got this book two years ago (maybe three) and never picked it up because I wasn't really interested in reading about families, adoption, or babies in Africa. I only plucked it from my shelves this summer so that I could fit in my one "must read" non-fiction for summer. And I was EXTREMELY SURPRISED AT HOW MUCH I LIKED IT!

Neely Tucker is a white southern journalist who is married to Vita, a black, Detroit woman. After moving around the world, Tucker is posted in Zimbabwe. During the mid-late 90s, he and his wife are moved to help the smallest victims of the African AIDS crisis-the orphans and infants often clinging to the smallest thread of hope for life.

They discover Chipo, an abandoned little girl barely weighing four pounds and upon death's door. It is here where the story begins as they struggle just to keep the baby alive and then their story becomes one of keeping the baby. "Love in the Driest Season" is a story about Neely and Vita's fight to this child they fell in love with against all odds. Between the government, horrific scenes of neglect and hopelessness, and their own personal hurdles, Neely Tucker some how drew me in and made me fall in love not only with Chipo but with Vita and himself.

As hopeless as a memoir about adoption in Africa amidst the AIDS crisis and the ruling of Robert Mugabe in Zimbabwe may seem, it is a strong testament to perserverance, faith, dedication, and of course, love.

Read this book...anyone who likes any kind of writing...even if you don't care about babies, adoption, AIDS, or Africa-this might change your mind.
Profile Image for Sharon.
737 reviews25 followers
April 5, 2012
This is such a compelling story that paucity of dialogue wasn't such a detractant, although I noticed it throughout. The story is told by a journalist, thus it reads more like the account that it is instead of a fictional story. And it's a powerful story indeed. The reader feels frustration and numbing realities along with the author. I loved this story. It's well worth the read; I listened to it on CD. The reader learns along the way, always a good thing. And the realities in Africa are chilling. This is a historical snapshot in time as well as a family memoir. I have deep respect and admiration for the author and his wife after reading this account.

Books like this one bring us greater understanding of the world than we'll ever find in the nightly news in America or in newspapers. Stories like this one bring situations to a personal level, something we tend to forget that every situation really is. We need more stories like this, though the dangers to those who report them are overwhelming. Thanks to all brave enough to bring us stories of stark reality, and those brave enough to make a difference in even one life.
Profile Image for Jessica.
998 reviews
January 1, 2011
A moving tale of a bi-racial couple from America who meet a dying baby in an orphanage in Zimbabwe who takes there hearts. They begin a seemingly impossible struggle to save her while racing against the clock because of the husband's status as person non grata - he's a foreign correspondent during a time when the press are being blamed for all of the country's woes. This is so well written - and brought tears to my eyes twice within the first 25 pages. The author also gives a good background on the AIDS crisis that was crushing Zimbabwe. I'd recommend this to all to read but in particular if you're interested in adoption, foreign adoption, international affairs, race relations, the AIDS crisis, Africa, or public health. Or if you just want a good, well told memoir.
Profile Image for Sharon Barrow Wilfong.
1,135 reviews3,969 followers
April 25, 2018
If I could give this book twice as many stars, I would. It is one of the most harrowing, riveting, heartbreaking and beautifully breathtaking books I have ever read and I believe every single person out there needs to read it too.

I remember the eighties when we were at the height of anti-South African sentiment as everyone self-righteously condemned apartheid. It has now been thirty years since South Africa, Mozambique and Zimbabwe have been freed from their white tyrants and have been governed by native Africans. How many people who decried white racism has followed up on those countries and studied their conditions today? How many people care?

If you read this book you will care. If you're like me you'll want to race to Zimbabwe or the other countries and adopt a boat load of children.

Except you can't. Not in Zimbabwe anyway, which is where this story takes place.

Neely Tucker was a foreign correspondent who with his wife, Vita, lived in Zimbabwe for a number of years while he covered news about African countries. The AIDS epidemic had wiped out a whole generation of parents leaving a generation of orphans. These babies were often left out for exposure and, if found, put in one of the orphanages that were already overflowing with orphans with few workers, less qualified workers, and hardly formula or medicine for the infants, all who were sick, many infected with HIV. The death rate was horrific. Children died every week.

One would think that a desperate situation like this would make the government grateful for people who wanted to adopt. Guess again. Neeley and Vita started volunteering at a nearby orphanage, contributing what supplies they could and bringing orphans home on the weekends to give the exhausted workers a break. They fell in love with a baby, Chipa.

Chipa had been found in the desert, a newborn with the umbilical still attached, covered with ants. She was screaming as the ants bit her. She, fortunately was discovered, but how many weren't and suffered an agonizing death?

Neeley and Vita began the process to adopt but were told that foreigners were not allowed to adopt native children. So they decided to foster. This also proved almost impossible as the bureaucratic monster caused progress to inch along. I won't bore you with the tedious details, the hours they waited in line to get paper work done, only to have the paper work "lost" or "misplaced" the next time and they'd have to start all over again.

This went on for several months and in the meantime they came across a little boy they loved. They started the process with him as well. First they were able to take him home for the weekends. Like Chipa, he was grossly malnourished and ill but he rallied and become a bouncing baby.

Then he died. They called the orphanage to get him and were casually informed of his death.

Now this is all sad enough, but the worst is the nightmarish violence that was happening all over Africa as militants slaughtered their way through towns and villages. As a correspondent he was called upon to report all of this. He saw charred remains of women, still holding their babies; he was standing near rubble from a terrorist explosion when he felt a crunch beneath his foot. He looked down to see that he had stepped into the rib cage of a dead child.

When I read about what is going on over there I get mad when citizens of my country talk as if they're living in some kind of dystopian reality because they don't like who got elected president. Go live in any African country for a while. It might give you some refreshing perspective.

Ironically, the President of Zimbabwe treated his people the way he accused the white supremacist government of acting. When President Mugabe was a reporter in the sixties he was jailed and tortured. As President he was the one arresting African journalists and torturing them. I'm sure when he was a school teacher, he was a good teacher. When he was a reporter he was probably a good one. As a president, he was incompetent.

And he was corrupt. Securing kickbacks for his cronies and family, he lived palatially while his countrymen starved. When people began protesting he needed a scapegoat. Foreigners were handy and so were African journalists. Both were "defaming his character" and turning public opinion against him.

People were tired of his rants and when he decided to pass a law that would allow the government to confiscate land from the remaining white farmers, no one was impressed and he was voted out.

Except he did not go out. He sent henchmen on killing sprees and held another election. He was still voted out. Again he sent henchmen who murdered most of his opposition. He won and was the longest ruling African governor (first as Prime Minister, then as President) until he died last year (2017).

I do not know how the Tuckers endured so much for so many months for the sake of Chipa. I would have had a nervous break down. But they stuck it out and are the proud parents of a beautiful girl.

Tucker's writing is fluid and alive. You are no longer where ever you are sitting to read the book. You are in Africa and you can see the people and the Veldt and the heat and the desperation of so many lives.

This is probably going to the top of my favorite books for this year and if I could, I would buy every single one of you a copy.
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1,010 reviews
November 5, 2019
Emotionally hard to read, utterly heartrending but also heart warming and hard to put down. I'm setting myself the goal to not complain about aggravating bureaucratic hoops and incompetency fir at least a month. As a foster parent of a special needs kiddo this will be a challenge, just today I spent more than 90 minutes on hold seeking an answer to a fairly simple question, this after spending a fair amount of time trying to solve the problem online, mind you. For my next few tussles I'll remind myself how much worse it could be!
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22 reviews19 followers
June 29, 2009
I decided to read this memoir because it is about a time in Zimbabwe that I have some first hand knowledge of. I was visiting Zimbabwe between 1997 - 2000 prior to Mugabe's decision to take back the lands from White farmers. Neely Tucker and his wife were living there at that time and in this memoir you experience their frustration with bureaucracy and suspicion of American's through their efforts to adopt Chipo who was abandoned as an infant. Also of interest was the harrowing experiences Tucker has as a journalist. Really this is a testament to how loving a child will give one the strength to face all manner of adversity.
Profile Image for Danielle Palmer.
1,097 reviews15 followers
December 13, 2018
This was a gripping read, but was overshadowed by the authors need to describe every death he encountered as a war correspondent in grizzly detail. He also chronicles the death of each infant in the orphanage much the same. In this case, less would have been more. Describe a couple and then move forward with the story! This book does a very good job of showing the obstacles one faces when trying to help in a foreign country (in his case, attempting to adopt). Worth the read, but prepare for some gore filled descriptions along the way.
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964 reviews76 followers
March 10, 2009
One can't help but admire the author's heartfelt desire to help a Zimbabwean orphan baby. But Tucker doesn't bother to explore or understand the political and historical background of his daughter's birth country. He is naturally frustrated by the poverty and corruption he witnesses, but can't understand why the black Africans he meets aren't universally thrilled that a white American is adopting one of "their" children. I wish this family all the best, but I wouldn't recommend the book.
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October 19, 2024
I kept delaying finishing this audiobook, because I didn’t want it to end. I love to read investigative journalism, because of the detail and throughly researched information. But this book is one of the best I’ve read in a long time. It really touched my heart, truly showing the resilience of the human spirit, the power of human connection, the overwhelming hardship and suffering humanity faces, and how working to do good in the ways that you can in leads to real connection and happiness. I’ve always been interested in international adoption and learned so much from this story.
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Profile Image for Tere Ligorria.
45 reviews1 follower
April 27, 2019
Beautiful story, wonderful writing

What an amazing, inspiring story. Good things do happen in the world, people love with all their hearts and do whatever it takes. People in every country love their country and do their best. In spite of all the ugliness, we thrive. I truly, truly loved this book. Hooray for Chipo and God bless her parents.
Profile Image for Jessica.
146 reviews49 followers
May 18, 2016
I really enjoyed this book, even though I wasn't actually expecting to. It's written by a journalist, so it's a little factual at times, but it still captured my interest from the beginning, and held it until the end..

It gave me a greater appreciation for journalists and all that they do, and also put faces on the shocking statistics of the number of orphans in Zimbabwe alone. It was comforting to know that at least one found a safe place to grow up and a family to call her own, thanks to the determination and perseverance of one couple.
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5 reviews
July 9, 2013
Uma história verdadeira passada no Zimbabue, onde se mostra o amor e a coragem de um casal que decide ficar com uma criança contra todas as burocracias.
Profile Image for Jenna Schering.
50 reviews
January 30, 2020
Great story of perseverance to adopt in some very trying circumstances, but incredibly repetitive
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194 reviews2 followers
September 2, 2018
I read this over a long weekend; it was so engaging and fascinating that I couldn’t put it down. I read a lot of travel literature and picked this book up because of its theme of Zimbabwe. Don’t simply judge the book by the cover (some will do) because this is an incredible insight in to the life of a foreign correspondent as well as an education in to the country of Zimbabwe, adoption and the African AIDs crisis (of which I was very aware after volunteering for several months in a remote Ugandan hospital in the early 90s, specifically in the childrens’ ward). It is a book of perseverance, determination and patience; of first hand accounts from war and disease ravaged countries, of interracial narratives from the Deep South of the US to the African continent, of overwhelming bureaucracy and propaganda. It is also a book about love and how it can affect you, about need; not just Chipo’s need as an orphan but the author’s need to emotionally reconnect after becoming desensitised from years of reporting on the devastating ugliness of human nature. I wish Chipo, Neely and her incredible mum Vita a wonderful future together. Theirs is a story that needs to heard to enlighten the rest of us.
Profile Image for Toni Aucoin.
161 reviews3 followers
January 22, 2018
This is the story of white American journalist and his black wife who are living in Africa. They spend time helping with the many babies and children orphaned by the AIDS epidemic in the 90's. AIDS in the late 80's through the 90's had more than 11 million children orphaned, 95% of those were in sub-Saharan Africa. The book deals with the struggles they had trying to adopt a little girl, who, would have died without their help and desire for a child. It paints an ugly picture of Africa and their murderous leaders who would rather let these children die then let Americans adopt them. Frankly, it just paints an ugly picture.
Profile Image for Karin.
796 reviews43 followers
June 13, 2017
A couple is trying to adopt a dying child. But with Zimbabwee's slow child welfare department it seems like it takes forever for the system to get its act together. Along with this story is the one about the children dying in droves due to the Aids epidemic. Unfortunately the living family members can only do so much to assist their young relatives and many end up in Child Orphanages thru-out the country. When the Tuckers try to help their local orphanage by buying baby supplies, they are stolen within a short time.

Well written story.
65 reviews
August 24, 2022
I normally read library ebooks these days, but picked this book because it was a slim paperback (given as a gift long ago) that I could toss in my bag for a day with an especially long commute. What a good choice! It is deeply moving without being maudlin. Tucker's experience in war journalism comes through in that he's able to vividly describe his experiences and create tension and drama, even when you ultimately know that little Chipo ends up adopted. I loved it and would recommend to anyone looking for a compelling family story.
Profile Image for Karilnikov.
19 reviews
March 2, 2018
Fast-moving narrative combining an American journalists work-covering many of the bloody conflicts in Africa-and the author’s trying account of attempting to adopt a Zimbabwean infant, who is near death. Complicating the adoption, is the fact of his being white, and his wife African American. The memoir takes place in the midst of the African AIDS crisis, when thousands of children were abandoned, or became orphans. A story of determination, courage, and hope.
172 reviews
March 11, 2020
Amazing true story, amazingly written. Neely Tucker & his wife, Vita, move to Zimbabwe where he writes as a foreign correspondent for the Detroit Free Press. They become involved in volunteering for an orphanage in a country plagued by the Aids epidemic and political upheaval. They take in a child, abandoned at birth and possibly suffering from HIV. The love they have for little Chipo and what they are willing to do to try to save her are inspiring. A true love story.
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1,815 reviews
July 22, 2021
(Updating my records to review books I read before blogging and my activity here on Goodreads. Taken from reading notes. 7/22/21)

Neeley Tucker, a foreign correspondent, and his wife move to Zimbabwe, a country devastated by the consequences of AIDS. Thousands of children are left orphaned yet adoption is nearly impossible, They decide to adopt anyway. The book of this process is set against the backdrop of terrorism, disease and uncertainty for the future. Very well done.
1 review
July 10, 2023
You must read this nonfiction book ASAP
I don’t want to include any spoilers. However,Love in the driest season should be a well known book. This book contains a true story of love, history, culture, adoption and politics. Every detail makes you feel as if you were really living each moment in person. Couldn't put it down. I will not deny that I cried several times but I would definitely read it again and beg you to read it!!!
Profile Image for Debra Goldentyer.
91 reviews6 followers
December 25, 2024
I think I know why I don't gravitate toward memoirs. While this is an interesting story, and one that deserves to be told, it's not literature. It's an essay. It's an expose about life, one we should all read. But it's not what I want to read for leisure.

This book was especially disturbing because of its brutal stories of death and war. Not what I'm interested in reading--I get that in the news.
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Author 23 books32 followers
December 10, 2017
I love, Loved, LOVED this memoir. The genuine pacing, the fierce storytelling, the frank passion, the splashes of humor, and especially the deep (often innocuous) insights into West/South African culture, politics and people created a moving story. From page one to the end, this memoir is 'Capital W' a definite WINNER! Simply A Must. Highly Recommended.
65 reviews7 followers
December 26, 2017
I loved this book. Every paragraph was beautifully written. The characters were compelling and believable.

I recommend this book to anyone who wants to understand more about the turmoil in Sub-Saharan Africa, the AIDS crisis and the chaos that surrounds international adoptions in spite of the heart-breaking number of orphaned babies dying in overcrowded orphanages.
49 reviews
August 7, 2019
I have had this book on my shelf for years and wished I had read it sooner! I went to Zimbabwe 7 years ago to work in orphan homes. It was very interesting for me to read about the start of the political and AIDS crisis that I witnessed when I was there. This is a beautifully written and engaging memoir.
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September 18, 2019
Neely Tucker is a reporter in Zimbabwe with his wife, Vita. The AIDS epidemic has claimed the lives of many children. One child was thrown into a bush immediately after being born. This story is about how she was found, saved and eventually adopted by the author. Interesting to learn about the history alongside the personal story of their lives during this time.

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99 reviews23 followers
October 23, 2021
What an amazing book, deeply moving and very insightful in regards to African politics, the AIDS crisis, being a foreign correspondent, and obviously adoptions. Cried my heart out right after the beginning but it’s one big happy ending for Chipo; sadly remembering all the other kids that weren’t as fortunate as she was:(
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