***I loved this book***
Ellens father was a Reverend who dealt with depression all his life, rumor has it he may have ended his life, almost causing Ellen to end her engagement with Woodrow. Ellen thought of herself as the "woman who would never love" and was also rumored to be known as "Ellen the man hater." Ellen was a very independent woman on her own right. She attend art school and volunteered at an African American school to teach children how to read and write.
Ellen was a practical, modest woman who understood that it would have been difficult for a Woman to succeed in the world of Art, which probably made it easier for her to fully support Woodrows career, as she did see value and believe in her husband, "I will be a better wife to you than I could ever have been to a smaller man....because no other but you could have inspired me with such passionate longing toward my own ideal of womanhood." Ellen was a huge help to Woodrow by studying history, political encomium and philosophy. Both of them shared the belief that they could unite in one career. However, throughout Ellen life she continued to take art classes and would take time for herself.
There is no doubt that Woodrow loved Ellen however she was not the only woman that shared his affections. Woodrow met Mary Allen Hulbert Peck while visiting Bermuda. Woodrow did not hid Mary from Ellen, in fact he tried to create a rapport between the two women. Ellen claimed that Woodrow had "emotional love" for Mary and was very hurt by this. Ellen and Mary did meet, Ellen hoping that Mary seeing her in the flesh would end the infatuation but in the next few years it only intensified. Ellen decided to pass Mary off as a "family friend." Woodrow however never once said he loved Mary and it is unclear of their relationship ever became physical.
During her time in the White House Edith was well-respected sometimes discussing issues without her husband as Joseph Tumulty said that she "was a better politician than you are". Ellen was the first First Lady to tour with her husband during the primary campaign trail. Ellen was not the most flashy of First Ladies that the White House has seen. A reporter once asked if Mrs. Wilson had prejudice against jewelry, as she did not own any. Ellen has no jewelry because all their money went to books, family vacations, the girls interests and the ever large amount of Family that was always in the Wilson household. Ellen did not take a public stand on the Women's Right to Vote, although the whole county looked at her too. Woodrow was not in favor of Women's right to vote and she would not publicly contradict her husband.
Ellen was portrayed as the Ideal Woman of the day during her time in the White House, a woman who had her own interests but put her family first. Ellen also made history of being the first First Lady to watch her husband address the legislature. Woodrow's Mary made an appearance during the White House - at Ellen's invitation.
The White House kept her illness out of the press until it couldn't be avoided. Ellen let it be known that she could die more easily if the Alley Bill was passed, it was Tumulty who brought her the news that the Senate and the House passed the bill. Ellen died of "Brights Disease" or various kidney issues. Ellen was a groundbreaking first lady - she continued to develop her skills as an Artist while her Husband was in office, she donated all proceeds from her paintings to help disadvantaged Southern Children. She is one of the very few First Ladies who earned money that is not connected with her being in the White House.
Ellen was known to have said that she hoped Woodrow would re-marry. It was somewhat shocking just how fast Woodrow moved on past her death. **fun fact - both her grandmothers were slave owners and her feelings of Race seems to be quite different depending on whom you speak to.
17 months after Ellen's death Woodrow Wilson married Edith Bolling Galt, an owner of a thriving jewelry store - which was also known as the "Tiffanys of D.C." Woodrow's proposal to Edith came to a shock to her, and when he first asked her she said no. Edith had no interest in politics and turned down a number of times to have seen Woodrow or to even have tea at the White House.
While during the early meeting of Edith and Woodrow, Mary once again made an appearance. It was a no brainer that Woodrow didn't end up with Mary. Ending up with Mary would have caused suspicion that there was an affair between the two of them when Ellen was still alive. Woodrow did come clean to Edith regarding his affections for Mary. Edith and Mary did meet once. Edith dismissed Mary as a "faded sweet looking woman."
America entered into World War I during Woodrows time in office. Edith learned to decipher the telegram messages. However, WWI was not Edith's biggest problem. Once Woodrow suffered a stroke she made choices for him, such as not resigning and to hide his illness from the World. Edith became known as "President in Petticoats." While Woodrow was in the early stages of recovery from his stroke he was known to use a flashlight to look at Ellen's picture and said that he owed everything to her. Ellen was gone, but not forgotten. Edith's decision to keep Woodrow in office was the decision that she believed he would have wanted.
Edith was against Women getting the right to vote, however she was our first First Lady to vote.
Their marriage was a short one. 4 1/2 years later Woodrow died at their home in Washington D.C. Edith would live another 37 years. She devoted those 37 years to Woodrow's memory with books, movies and shrines. She did on December 28th, Woodrow's birthday in the same house, same room where Woodrow himself died. Historians have called Edith the First Woman President, others have said she carried Woodrow's opinions too far. As late Edith has been ranked in the top 10 first ladies.
Ellen and Edith were two different women, comparing them is hard not to because of the man they share in common. Both women were fascinating in their own rights and Woodrow benefitted from both being in his life.