Based on more than 30 years of clinical experience as a psychiatrist and a therapist, Dr. Breggin's book, now available in an affordable paperback, illustrates the importance of developing a therapeutic bond--or healing presence--between helping professionals and their clients. The author provides useful vignettes, case studies, and personal insights to help both beginning and experienced therapists develop more empathy in therapeutic relationships. He asserts that the first step toward effective treatment is empathic self-transformation in the therapist. It is empathy and self-transformation that lie at the heart of being helpful. Topics include vulnerability, nurturing, helplessness, forgiveness, and spirituality, as well as tips for working with clients in extreme emotional crises, children and families, and patients of culturally diverse backgrounds.
Every person in a helping profession (including parents) should read this book. Dr. Breggin describes the journey of how to place love at the center of every relationship through the development of empathy and self transformation.
While this book was a requirement for one of my counseling courses, I highly recommend it for anyone who is interested in the field of counseling or in a helping profession. I appreciated the easy to follow way in which Breggin explains how to have an appropriate relation to a client. While going through my courses I always struggled with how to have a healthy boundary with a client but still allow an appropriate emotional response to what they say. I appreciated that this book gave tangible ways in which I can do this in a session appropriately.