"The baby was born and did not begin to breath. ... Thirteen minutes later, when the placenta was born, ... we placed the placenta, still connected by it's cord to the baby, into the warm water, the baby's grandfather added Tirtha, holy water from the family temple, and instantly, the baby shuddered and took a breath. The baby is perfectly healthy and his name is Tirtha." p 7-8
This was a really interesting book. Many of the stories and details were fascinating, but what really caught my interest was how it combined factual information and an interest in research with storytelling and multi-cultural mythos. Lim seems really to draw from a multitude of worldviews about the placenta. Of course, she's pulling bits and pieces that agree with what she believes about the placenta, but that's okay - it's not like she's trying to conceal some other truth or fact and it's an interesting hypothesis. Not quite how I personally think about the spirituality of birth, but I can see why and how she thinks what she does.
It also made me reflect on my own birth giving experiences. I think that my first baby's cord was cut fairly quickly, probably before the placenta was born, but I don't actually remember and I didn't write it down at the time. My second baby we cut the cord "after 6 minutes" which was definitely before the placenta was born. My third baby we didn't cut the cord until several hours after birth, mostly because our older kids had gone to their grandmother's house for the birth and we wanted them to be there for the cord cutting. My fourth baby we more or less waited until the placenta was out on purpose, and again the older siblings were intentionally involved in the cutting. Honestly, I don't think that particular aspect of their birth experiences is reflected in their personalities or experience of the world. Their overall birth experiences, maybe, but I can't point to when the cord was cut as the one indicator. I am in agreement with Lim that probably, waiting to see the baby, cord, and placenta all together is a gentler way to do things, but there are so many variables in birth and life that ascribing as much power to any one of them as she does seems simplistic to me.