This book was a very thoughtful Christmas gift from one of my best friends and the timing of it couldn't have been better--I had just finished following Pearl Jam for 2 weeks on the West Coast leg of their 2013 tour. This was a dream I'd had since college; and speaking of college, I can't remember the last time I highlighted so much in a book! My obsession with this band has always been something I've experienced all on my own, so it was really exciting to have someone else put it into words: "I haven't grown tired of these shows yet. I love them as much as I always have. There's a reason why I chose to follow this band...They're that good and consistently one of the best live shows you'll ever see...(A)n average show for this band is far superior to most shows from other bands." The author quit his job to follow them on tour from 2005 to 2006 in the US, Europe, and Australia, detailing every show. Naturally, some of these shows overlapped with shows I attended during that time (six, to be exact) so it was fun to hear another perspective.
To prove I'm not the only crazy one (29 shows in 15 years; flying to Washington, Hawaii, and Wisconsin; driving 3,000 miles from Phoenix to Portland), the author mentions other fans, like Bowman & Dolan, who followed the band to Australia, Japan, and all over the States for the 2003 tour; Bobby, who was seeing his 50th show in Boston; Jason, who was seeing his 74th show on his birthday and in his hometown of Camden, NJ; Tim, who has followed the band since Lollapalooza '92; and my personal favourite, Joel and Megan from Perth, who spent their honeymoon following the band across Australia. The author sums up PJ fans the best when comparing them to fans of other artists: "Converging with fans of other bands has been interesting, as it's similar in some ways, but much different in other ways. With the Radiohead fans..., I could see a similar dedication to attending shows and getting bootlegs that Pearl Jam fans have, but that's about it. There seemed to be no real unity amongst them...The Tom Petty fans, on the other hand, are all about travelling to the shows and the community aspects, but they aren't as dedicated to collecting all the bootlegs and posters like most Pearl Jam fans are. Seeing these differences and similarities makes me feel honoured to be a part of this community that goes along with being a Pearl Jam fan--we are the complete package of hardcore dedication."
The author also perfectly summed up one of the ways this band has changed my life: "I'm hungry for adventure and Pearl Jam have just been providing me with opportunities to fill that hunger." And lastly, on the second-to-last page of the book, while discussing how the trip "was never about Pearl Jam--it was about so much more," I had to smile when he wrote, "It's about meeting your heroes, who are just as thrilled to meet you." Having met Eddie a few years ago, I felt this to be true as he looked me in the eye and shook my hand after autographing my CD, and stood around for about 10 minutes chatting with the 20 of us who had waited to meet him, even though it was 3:00 in the morning. <3